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DEAR BELLA: I don’t want to stay in the same house with my brother’s mistress

DEAR BELLA: I don’t want to stay in the same house with my brother’s mistress

February 20, 2019 | Comments: 17

Bella, My Brother is coming home for carnival with a woman who isn’t his wife and my mom is allowing them to stay in our Christian home. He lives in Houston ...

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DEAR BELLA: Dominican men should be wary of certain women

DEAR BELLA: Dominican men should be wary of certain women

February 5, 2019 | Comments: 15

Bella, I honestly don’t know if this is the right forum to vent but men in Dominica have to be careful with Spanish women. Bella, they doesn’t love and I ...

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DEAR BELLA: My father’s wife is younger than me; that’s a problem

DEAR BELLA: My father’s wife is younger than me; that’s a problem

January 29, 2019 | Comments: 18

Bella, My father recently married a young woman who can be his daughter and I am upset. He is 57 and she is 20. Bella I am 24. What kind of respect is that for me? ...

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DEAR BELLA: My hairdresser is a thief

DEAR BELLA: My hairdresser is a thief

January 21, 2019 | Comments: 18

Bella, My hair dresser in the north of the island has been stealing peoples weave especially when they come to sew in the expensive Brazilian and Indian Remy weaves. ...

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DEAR BELLA: Do So Never Like So

DEAR BELLA: Do So Never Like So

January 14, 2019 | Comments: 21

Bella, I believe in honesty in relationships and I am having an old feeling about my current boyfriend. We have been living together for just two years and all of a ...

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DEAR BELLA: All of a sudden, my sister gets a lot of money – I’m worried

DEAR BELLA: All of a sudden, my sister gets a lot of money – I’m worried

January 7, 2019 | Comments: 16

Bella, I am worried about my sister. I know she works in a small supermarket between Goodwill and Roseau and her income is 400 every week. I know this because she ...

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DEAR BELLA: My neighbor’s acting creepy

DEAR BELLA: My neighbor’s acting creepy

December 31, 2018 | Comments: 15

Bella, I think my neighbor is competing with me. Everything that I have she wants. She pretends to be my friend and she comes over to my house regularly. But I ...

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DEAR BELLA: I’m in a relationship that drives me crazy

DEAR BELLA: I’m in a relationship that drives me crazy

December 17, 2018 | Comments: 19

Dear Bella, I am in a relationship that drives me crazy and even sometimes makes me think of taking my life. I am 24 and in a relationship with a 19-year-old. I have ...

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DEAR BELLA: I’m suspicious about my husband hanging out in a rum shop

DEAR BELLA: I’m suspicious about my husband hanging out in a rum shop

December 9, 2018 | Comments: 9

Bella, My husband has never been a womyel nor has he liked to be at people’s homes. But lately, I find him spending all his time in a shop that was recently ...

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DEAR BELLA: I introduced my best friend to Obeah; now I’m afraid

DEAR BELLA: I introduced my best friend to Obeah; now I’m afraid

December 3, 2018 | Comments: 18

Bella, I have a situation that is troubling me real bad. The reason it’s troubling me is because I think I had something to do with what is happening now. ...

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DEAR BELLA: My daughter may be gay; maybe I should disown her

DEAR BELLA: My daughter may be gay; maybe I should disown her

November 27, 2018 | Comments: 22

Dear Bella, My daughter is acting manly. Too manly for my liking. My family is a popular family in Dominica and my husband and I always pride ourselves in ensuring ...

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DEAR BELLA: I think my much younger girl friend is two-timing me

DEAR BELLA: I think my much younger girl friend is two-timing me

November 19, 2018 | Comments: 21

Hello Bella, I am a 58-year-old man. I consider myself young enough. I have been dating a young woman for around 3 years and something isn’t too right. She is 24 ...

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DEAR BELLA: Step Daughter Tempting Me

DEAR BELLA: Step Daughter Tempting Me

November 12, 2018 | Comments: 15

Dear Bella I am marrying a woman and her daughter is 17 and would have to eventually move in with us. I am worried because that girl just looks like trouble. I would ...

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DEAR BELLA: I want my son’s fiancé out of the way

DEAR BELLA: I want my son’s fiancé out of the way

November 6, 2018 | Comments: 10

Dear Bella, I write from the north. I’m struggling with a big deal right now and I really need your help since you seem to give such good advice. Today I found ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am 21 and pregnant for my 58-year-old boss

DEAR BELLA: I am 21 and pregnant for my 58-year-old boss

October 29, 2018 | Comments: 32

Dear Bella, I am three months pregnant with my Boss’s baby. I’m 21 years and he is 58 but age is just a number. He is a prominent businessman in the north. ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am tired of living in sin; I want to be married

DEAR BELLA: I am tired of living in sin; I want to be married

October 22, 2018 | Comments: 20

It’s been six years since dating my boyfriend and every time I think the man is going to propose to me, it turns out to be nonsense. Like on my birthday, ...

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DEAR BELLA: My coworkers are in love with the same guy

DEAR BELLA: My coworkers are in love with the same guy

October 8, 2018 | Comments: 18

Dear Bella, I am stuck in the middle of two friends who happen to both be my coworkers. They both happen to have an intimate relationship with the same guy who also ...

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DEAR BELLA: My ex’s new wife is causing drama with my son

DEAR BELLA: My ex’s new wife is causing drama with my son

October 1, 2018 | Comments: 17

Dear Bella, My ex’s new wife is not allowing him to take care of his child properly. She has influenced him bigtime. While me and him were together he was also ...

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DEAR BELLA: My wife eats like a pig

DEAR BELLA: My wife eats like a pig

September 25, 2018 | Comments: 20

Dear Bella, My wife eats like a pig. I am not being critical of her. I love her but I am using this forum because I have tried everything else. Bella, our grocery ...

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DEAR BELLA: Young man texting my wife’s phone

DEAR BELLA: Young man texting my wife’s phone

September 17, 2018 | Comments: 18

Dear Bella, A young man has been texting my wife’s phone. I know I have been neglecting her and now I am worried that the young man is keeping her company. I see ...

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DEAR BELLA: Ex-girlfriend is giving me a baby surprise

DEAR BELLA: Ex-girlfriend is giving me a baby surprise

September 10, 2018 | Comments: 10

Dear Bella, I am in a situation that is giving me a major headache. A young lady I had relations with two years ago met me recently with a baby girl, about two years ...

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DEAR BELLA: I can’t seem to live my life.. Help me!

DEAR BELLA: I can’t seem to live my life.. Help me!

September 3, 2018 | Comments: 16

Dear Bella, As I sat on my bed alone in the house on a Saturday afternoon, I couldn’t help but wonder why. I started thinking of everybody else in my life who had ...

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