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DEAR BELLA: I saw my mom’s cheating messages on her phone

DEAR BELLA: I saw my mom’s cheating messages on her phone

September 13, 2017 | Comments: 14

Dear Bella, I am a 17-year-old and I lent my mom’s phone to go online. Then I saw a message show up on her WhatsApp and I read it. It was a man who she has ...

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DEAR BELLA: My husband’s children hate me

DEAR BELLA: My husband’s children hate me

August 30, 2017 | Comments: 20

Dear Bella, My husband’s children hate me. Notice I didn’t say “step-kids” because Bella I don’t even want them on my “Step”. These children are ...

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DEAR BELLA: My friend’s married lover beats her

DEAR BELLA: My friend’s married lover beats her

July 19, 2017 | Comments: 34

Dear Bella, My friend is in love with a police officer, who happens to be married and has his wife, and he also beats her. And she is afraid of telling anyone. I ...

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DEAR BELLA: Is my womb cursed because of abortions?

DEAR BELLA: Is my womb cursed because of abortions?

July 12, 2017 | Comments: 28

Dear Bella, I cannot get pregnant anymore. All the tests that I have done indicate that I can have children because I have a daughter. However, I had her when I was ...

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DEAR BELLA: I think my boyfriend’s mother is a Soukouyan (witch)

DEAR BELLA: I think my boyfriend’s mother is a Soukouyan (witch)

July 5, 2017 | Comments: 56

Dear Bella, I think my boyfriend’s mother is a Soukouyan or a witch. Not the kind that goes flying on a broom at nights but those that cast spells and affect ...

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DEAR BELLA: Friend’s husband bring women home, should I tell?

DEAR BELLA: Friend’s husband bring women home, should I tell?

June 28, 2017 | Comments: 38

Dear Bella, I am from a small village and for the past few months, I have realized my neighbor’s husband brings women to her home every day during midday. I ...

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DEAR BELLA: My ex is blackmailing me over nude pics

DEAR BELLA: My ex is blackmailing me over nude pics

June 21, 2017 | Comments: 39

Dear Bella, My ex is threatening to post nude pics of me online if I don’t keep having sex with him. When we first met we were soooo in love. It’s like I was ...

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DEAR BELLA: My husband in Dominica is not paying attention to me

DEAR BELLA: My husband in Dominica is not paying attention to me

June 14, 2017 | Comments: 50

Dear Bella, I currently live in the US and I have been married to my first love (who lives in Dominica ) for almost three years. My first love and I have been in ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am taking ‘hush money’ to hide my sister’s cheating husband

DEAR BELLA: I am taking ‘hush money’ to hide my sister’s cheating husband

June 7, 2017 | Comments: 67

Dear Bella, I am a terrible person. I found myself in a situation where I am hurting my sister and I don’t know how to fix it. I found out her husband was ...

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DEAR BELLA: My mother-in-law is a monster-in-law

DEAR BELLA: My mother-in-law is a monster-in-law

May 31, 2017 | Comments: 23

Dear Bella, I have a monster-in-law for a mother-in-law and if I don’t do something soon I might end up rolling her down my steps. You see Bella, when I married ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am an older married woman in love with a younger man

DEAR BELLA: I am an older married woman in love with a younger man

May 24, 2017 | Comments: 28

Dear Bella, I am an older woman who got involved in an outside relationship with a younger man. The problem I am having is that we fell in love and I no longer wish ...

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DEAR BELLA: I’m pregnant and falling in love with another man

DEAR BELLA: I’m pregnant and falling in love with another man

May 17, 2017 | Comments: 30

Dear Bella, I have a problem and I would like your opinion. I am married and on my third pregnancy, however, I am falling in love with a man that is not my husband. ...

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DEAR BELLA: My father suddenly appears and wants a relationship

DEAR BELLA: My father suddenly appears and wants a relationship

May 10, 2017 | Comments: 45

Dear Bella, Now hear that. Every time I read your page, I seeing a set of women having man problem and sex problem and cheating problem and a set of things that ...

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DEAR BELLA: I kissed another girl and I liked it

DEAR BELLA: I kissed another girl and I liked it

May 3, 2017 | Comments: 46

Dear Bella, I have always made the right decisions in my life. I went to school, college, university and then got married. I have a daughter and a great husband. ...

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DEAR BELLA: I have a crush on my Bishop

DEAR BELLA: I have a crush on my Bishop

April 26, 2017 | Comments: 17

Dear Bella, I have a huge crush on my Bishop. I think it’s reaching a point where I think that I am in love with him. He has been through a lot in his life. I ...

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DEAR BELLA: I’m still sleeping with my uncaring ex

DEAR BELLA: I’m still sleeping with my uncaring ex

April 19, 2017 | Comments: 48

Dear Bella, I have this dilemma where I am still having casual sex with my ex. I do not wish to add any new skeletons to my closet but the familiarity is comforting, ...

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DEAR BELLA: My boss is married but I am in love with him

DEAR BELLA: My boss is married but I am in love with him

April 12, 2017 | Comments: 35

Dear Bella, I am in love with my boss. He is close to 60 and I am 40. I know what you’re thinking. That nothing is wrong, right? Well, everything is wrong because ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am taking his wife to court for child support

DEAR BELLA: I am taking his wife to court for child support

April 5, 2017 | Comments: 81

Dear Bella, This is the first time I am writing, please do not show my name. For some years I have been dating this guy who I am madly in love with. I knew he was ...

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DEAR BELLA: My husband might not be the father

DEAR BELLA: My husband might not be the father

March 29, 2017 | Comments: 46

Dear Bella, My husband and I have three beautiful children together. Two are in high school, while the youngest is in primary school. We have a happy home, not ...

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DEAR BELLA: I married someone I don’t love

DEAR BELLA: I married someone I don’t love

March 22, 2017 | Comments: 61

Dear Bella, I am in trouble. I married someone I don’t love. At least not in a romantic way. The thing is I was raised poor and I didn’t have much to go around. ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am secretly in love with someone else’s husband

DEAR BELLA: I am secretly in love with someone else’s husband

March 15, 2017 | Comments: 58

Dear Bella, I am in love with someone else’s husband. I know it’s not the right thing to do. He doesn’t know that I feel this way about him. He treats me with ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am 50 and want a child

DEAR BELLA: I am 50 and want a child

March 8, 2017 | Comments: 42

Dear Bella, I want to have a child. I am 50. I have always been scared of having children because of selfish reasons like they would invade my space and deprive me ...

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