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DEAR BELLA: I’m still sleeping with my uncaring ex

DEAR BELLA: I’m still sleeping with my uncaring ex

April 19, 2017 | Comments: 43

Dear Bella, I have this dilemma where I am still having casual sex with my ex. I do not wish to add any new skeletons to my closet but the familiarity is comforting, ...

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DEAR BELLA: My boss is married but I am in love with him

DEAR BELLA: My boss is married but I am in love with him

April 12, 2017 | Comments: 34

Dear Bella, I am in love with my boss. He is close to 60 and I am 40. I know what you’re thinking. That nothing is wrong, right? Well, everything is wrong because ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am taking his wife to court for child support

DEAR BELLA: I am taking his wife to court for child support

April 5, 2017 | Comments: 80

Dear Bella, This is the first time I am writing, please do not show my name. For some years I have been dating this guy who I am madly in love with. I knew he was ...

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DEAR BELLA: My husband might not be the father

DEAR BELLA: My husband might not be the father

March 29, 2017 | Comments: 45

Dear Bella, My husband and I have three beautiful children together. Two are in high school, while the youngest is in primary school. We have a happy home, not ...

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DEAR BELLA: I married someone I don’t love

DEAR BELLA: I married someone I don’t love

March 22, 2017 | Comments: 61

Dear Bella, I am in trouble. I married someone I don’t love. At least not in a romantic way. The thing is I was raised poor and I didn’t have much to go around. ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am secretly in love with someone else’s husband

DEAR BELLA: I am secretly in love with someone else’s husband

March 15, 2017 | Comments: 58

Dear Bella, I am in love with someone else’s husband. I know it’s not the right thing to do. He doesn’t know that I feel this way about him. He treats me with ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am 50 and want a child

DEAR BELLA: I am 50 and want a child

March 8, 2017 | Comments: 42

Dear Bella, I want to have a child. I am 50. I have always been scared of having children because of selfish reasons like they would invade my space and deprive me ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am falling in love but not single

DEAR BELLA: I am falling in love but not single

February 15, 2017 | Comments: 13

Dear Bella, I have always dated guys that are younger than me or the exact same age. Like many of the women out there I have gotten hurt by a man. I said to ...

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DEAR BELLA: My boyfriend is a dedicated Christian but I have a side chick

DEAR BELLA: My boyfriend is a dedicated Christian but I have a side chick

February 8, 2017 | Comments: 31

Dear Bella, I’m 21 and plain blank confused. My love life is different and I mean DIFFERENT…so I’m in (or may not be as he can’t be with ...

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DEAR BELLA: My ex-boyfriend will not leave me alone

DEAR BELLA: My ex-boyfriend will not leave me alone

February 1, 2017 | Comments: 27

I am currently tangled up in a love affair which I have no desire to be in because my ex-boyfriend refuses to get out of my life. This may sound typical but I am of ...

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DEAR BELLA: My husband called me another woman’s name while we were being intimate

DEAR BELLA: My husband called me another woman’s name while we were being intimate

January 25, 2017 | Comments: 52

My husband and I were being intimate and he called me someone else’s name. He called me Nadia. My name is very far from it. I don’t know what to make of this. I ...

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DEAR BELLA: I feel uncomfortable marrying my sister’s ex

DEAR BELLA: I feel uncomfortable marrying my sister’s ex

January 18, 2017 | Comments: 39

Dear Bella I am marrying my sister’s first boyfriend. I knew he was her first love. She was fifteen and they had one of these little boyfriend/girlfriend ...

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DEAR BELLA: Am I a fool in love?

DEAR BELLA: Am I a fool in love?

January 11, 2017 | Comments: 43

Dear Bella, I am 39 years old and I am presently in a relationship with this young woman who is 26. We have been together for about one and a half years, and for ...

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DEAR BELLA: Need advice to get over a break up

DEAR BELLA: Need advice to get over a break up

January 4, 2017 | Comments: 17

Dear Bella, I need serious help. I broke up with the father of my 2-year-old daughter because I found two ladies in his room and when I asked him about it, he told ...

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DEAR BELLA: My pastor is calling me late at night

DEAR BELLA: My pastor is calling me late at night

December 28, 2016 | Comments: 54

Dear Bella, I am having a slight difficulty here and I hope I am not overreacting over this whole thing. I recently broke up with my boyfriend after I got to know ...

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DEAR BELLA: My girlfriend gave me back my engagement ring

DEAR BELLA: My girlfriend gave me back my engagement ring

December 21, 2016 | Comments: 21

Dear Bella, I need some advice. I am 22 years old and my 25-year-old girlfriend, which I have been with for like seven months, wants to get married. She recently ...

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DEAR BELLA: I do not want to be hurt anymore

DEAR BELLA: I do not want to be hurt anymore

December 14, 2016 | Comments: 17

I am in a situation where I’m with a guy that says he loves me but he still talks to his ex. He told me that he does not want to get back with her but he still ...

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DEAR BELLA: Prominent married woman in love with my husband

DEAR BELLA: Prominent married woman in love with my husband

December 7, 2016 | Comments: 49

Dear Bella, I have a problem with a prominent married Dominican woman, who is involved with my husband. I want her to leave my husband and stop sending him love ...

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DEAR BELLA: Loving man living with ex

DEAR BELLA: Loving man living with ex

November 30, 2016 | Comments: 33

Dear Bella, I am in love with this guy for almost two years now. At first I didn’t want to be in a relationship because I am afraid of getting hurt. I love him and ...

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DEAR BELLA: I have a threesome fantasy

DEAR BELLA: I have a threesome fantasy

November 23, 2016 | Comments: 48

Dear Bella, My wife and I have been married for the past 7 years, we are happy and things are going great. I have a fantasy of trying a threesome with her. We spoke ...

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DEAR BELLA: I am confused and keep sleeping with my ex

DEAR BELLA: I am confused and keep sleeping with my ex

November 16, 2016 | Comments: 47

Dear Bella, I am 24 years of age who still sleeps with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up over three years ago but never really stop being intimate and sleeping together. ...

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DEAR BELLA: My mother doesn’t trust me

DEAR BELLA: My mother doesn’t trust me

November 9, 2016 | Comments: 14

Dear Bella, My mother doesn’t trust me anymore because she goes through my phone and finds things. Also because I talk to boys and flirt with them. I am 15 ...

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