Dear Bella

I desperately want to get married, but my partner does not

I desperately want to get married, but my partner does not

June 17, 2010 | Comments: 10

Dear Bella: I have been seeing this wonderful guy for quite some time now and I love him more than words can explain. He treats me right; he loves me ...

Bullies won’t stop harassing me

Bullies won’t stop harassing me

June 11, 2010 | Comments: 13

Dear Bella: I’m a male teen in high school and I’m constantly being picked on by some other guys my age. It’s about three of them, and they keep bullying, ...

I am scared of stalker

I am scared of stalker

June 10, 2010 | Comments: 1

Dear Bella: I am having a big problem with this man who is bothering me and won’t leave me alone. I can really say he is a stalker. I feel like when I leave my ...

How can I compete?

How can I compete?

June 9, 2010 | Comments: 15

Dear Bella: I am in a relationship with a wonderful man. He is ambitious, hard-working and takes good care of me. He also knows how to ‘put it down!’ You would ...

My boss is hitting on me

My boss is hitting on me

June 8, 2010 | Comments: 26

Dear Bella: I’m a young man who works at an office with a prominent insurance company. I just recently got married and I have a child on the way. Bella, the ...

My back-biting “friends”

My back-biting “friends”

June 7, 2010 | Comments: 15

Dear Bella: I feel like everyone has deserted me. I have no true friends, and those who I thought were my good friends only spread rumours about me and egg on ...

The baby surprise

The baby surprise

June 4, 2010 | Comments: 15

Dear Bella: I am in a very deep situation. A girl I had sexual relations with two years ago met me recently with a baby girl, about two years old, telling me the ...

Stressed over my army husband

Stressed over my army husband

June 3, 2010 | Comments: 19

Dear Bella: My husband is in the US Army and it is stifling out relationship. He is constantly on my mind and we hardly get to see each other. Last year he spent a ...

My life sucks

My life sucks

June 2, 2010 | Comments: 29

Dear Bella: I am a married man for eight years with a wonderful wife. She has been nice to me in many ways but the one thing I need she cannot give it to me and it ...

He won’t listen to me … no matter what I say

He won’t listen to me … no matter what I say

May 11, 2010 | Comments: 18

Dear Bella: I have been with my boyfriend for two years and I think he is totally incapable of listening to me. No matter how I try to get through to him, to ...

“If she think she crazy I more crazy than she”

“If she think she crazy I more crazy than she”

May 7, 2010 | Comments: 36

Dear Bella: I am a 17-year-old girl in 5th form about to sit my C.S.E.C exams this month. I am 22 weeks pregnant for this guy, but he has been recently locked up. ...

My married life needs excitement

My married life needs excitement

April 26, 2010 | Comments: 38

Dear Bella: I have been married for two years. We are both working people with no kids. I feel like things are getting monotonous and I would like advice on some ...

I need to “get a life”

I need to “get a life”

April 12, 2010 | Comments: 7

Dear Bella: I’m trying to figure out how soon after a break-up I should start dating. I’m a female in my 20′s and I’ve recently came out of ...

At the end of my rope with my abusive and cheating husband

At the end of my rope with my abusive and cheating husband

March 30, 2010 | Comments: 33

Dear Bella: My husband has become very abusive to me and my children after I got to know about his affair. He calls me and my kids names; he no longer respects me ...

Gossip girls getting too personal

Gossip girls getting too personal

March 23, 2010 | Comments: 12

Dear Bella: I have been the topic of scorn and gossip among my co-workers. For some reason, they just do not like me, and use their tongues to tear down my good ...