Dear Bella
Fearful to tell my partners I have AIDS
March 19, 2010 | Comments: 61Dear Bella: I found out I have HIV/AIDS and I have not been able to let my partners know. I am afraid to let them know; I have had affairs with married men. ...
It’s hard to forgive my jealous, lying friend
March 12, 2010 | Comments: 20Dear Bella: I have known this girl for a long time since high school, but she and I were never friends. However, after high school we joined a youth group together ...
“Mad sick head nuh good”
March 8, 2010 | Comments: 21Dear Bella: I know I am going to be scolded for this but I am 17 years old and for the past months I have been talking to and occasionally seeing this guy who is ...
I’m pregnant for my cheating boyfriend
March 2, 2010 | Comments: 21Dear Bella: I was recently in a relationship with a guy who lives in a different state. We usually see each other on some weekends and on holidays. Last Christmas I ...
Loving a man who is living with his ex
February 26, 2010 | Comments: 28Dear Bella: I am in love with this guy for almost two years now. At first I didn’t want to be in a relationship because I am afraid of getting hurt. I love ...
My husband is abusing me
February 22, 2010 | Comments: 23Dear Bella: I really need help. Not even professionals are helping me in this situation. For the past three to four months, I have been having problems with my ...
Dominican woman stole my husband
February 19, 2010 | Comments: 32Dear Bella: I have heard Dominican women can put a hold on a man – a hold so powerful that he would tell his children he was willing to take a chance on her ...
Should I get married now?
February 15, 2010 | Comments: 18Dear Bella: I am a 26-year-old male and I’ve been with my girl for eight years now, she is also 26. Everything is great with us, nothing could feel more right. ...
Should I choose between my best friend and my boyfriend?
February 12, 2010 | Comments: 13Dear Bella, There is this guy that I’ve known for about four years now and we’ve been together for about six months. He is my best friend’s cousin, ...
No affection in relationship
February 8, 2010 | Comments: 33Dear Bella: I am 39 years old and I am presently in a relationship with this young woman who is 26. We have been together for about one and a half years, and for ...
Bothered by late night phone calls
February 5, 2010 | Comments: 34Dear Bella: I live with my boyfriend and our two-year-old son. We have had our issues but managed, somehow, to get over them. But there is one thing. He has ...
In love with four women?
February 1, 2010 | Comments: 16Dear Bella: I have a problem, I’m a 23-year-old male and I’m in love with four women. One might agree that at my age I’m to young to be settling down with ...
Younger woman texting husband’s phone
January 29, 2010 | Comments: 18Dear Bella: A wife saw a text on her husband’s phone with a younger woman asking ‘do you still love me? do you really love me?” He was confronted ...
The guilty cheater
January 25, 2010 | Comments: 20Dear Bella: I cheated on my boyfriend during the Parade. I am very guilty and I do not know what to do. I know my boyfriend said he has never cheated. But I feel so ...
I am cheating with 25 different men
January 22, 2010 | Comments: 47Dear Bella: After being in love with a guy for six years I’m still not sure what’s going on. I love him I must confest but I think I’m addicted to ...