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My husband might not be the father
July 6, 2010 | Comments: 42Dear Bella: My husband and I have three beautiful children together. Two are in high school, while the the youngest is in primary school. We have a happy home, not ...
Ready for war
July 5, 2010 | Comments: 13Dear Bella: I am at my wit’s end so I’m writing to you to advise me how to end this situation I am in without any violence. I have been with my girlfriend for ...
ALIVE WORD: Show love and appreciation while you still can – Part 1
July 5, 2010 | Comments: 4“And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity.” — 2 Peter 1:7. Sometimes it’s easy to take the people we love for granted. We ...
Follow your heart
July 2, 2010 | Comments: 8Dear Bella: I am currently in a long distance relationship with my best friend whom I have known for seven years. He is a wonderful person however when we decided ...
I’m in an abusive relationship
July 1, 2010 | Comments: 18Dear Bella: I want to leave my boyfriend but I don’t know how. I depend on him for everything; he works hard and provides for me and our daughter. He is also a ...
My boyfriend is broke
June 30, 2010 | Comments: 64Dear Bella: I am 19 and my current boyfriend is 20. I really like him, he is good at making me laugh, and I know that he can’t live without me. He gives me all ...
Health Talk: When not to exercise
June 30, 2010 | Comments: 2Exercise carries great benefits for the body, but it’s not always a good idea. Some aches and pains can make working out a definite no-no. Knowing when to work ...
I have a crush on a teacher
June 29, 2010 | Comments: 16Dear Bella: I’m a young lady attending high school at one of the top schools in town. I have a boyfriend, but he’s a bit too immature for me sometimes. ...
Does size matter?
June 28, 2010 | Comments: 17Dear Bella: This is a very awkward thing to talk about! I would say that I am a reasonably sexually experienced man, having had several girlfriends in the past. I ...
ALIVE WORD: It’s clean up time
June 28, 2010 | Comments: 1“Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean: wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. Make me to hear joy and gladness; that the bones which thou hast broken may ...
Signs your woman is being influenced by external forces
June 26, 2010 | Comments: 19Ever wondered why your woman is behaving a certain way? Asking for more money? Want her hair done more often than before? Wants a new cell phone? Wants to know why ...
Looking for love in the wrong place?
June 25, 2010 | Comments: 12Dear Bella: I live in Antigua I got to know about this Dominican girl when she came to Antigua to visit. At that the time she was in Antigua she was shown around by ...
ALIVE WORD: Hope in the lord
June 25, 2010 | Comments: 4“Why art thou cast down O my soul and why art thou disquieted within me, hope thou in God: for I shall yet praise him for the help of his countenance.” Psalms ...
Caught up between a bad break up
June 24, 2010 | Comments: 3Dear Bella: I’m caught in between my male friends and one of those friends’ ex-girlfriend. Recently my friend broke up with his girl for some dumb reasons. He ...
He only wants sex
June 23, 2010 | Comments: 19Dear Bella: I need some advice about a situation I am in. Currently I am a working woman and because of my job I don’t have much time for relationships. ...