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I am in love with two men

I am in love with two men

November 15, 2011 | Comments: 128

I am a 19-year-old, very beautiful attractive, intelligent young woman. I have a career. I have my own house and car but no kids as yet. I’m confused still ...

My boyfriend flirts with other women constantly

My boyfriend flirts with other women constantly

November 8, 2011 | Comments: 54

I have been in a steady relationship with a young man for three years and counting. We usually get along well however, I am uncertain and uncomfortable about one ...

I am about to marry a woman who has cheated on me

I am about to marry a woman who has cheated on me

November 1, 2011 | Comments: 46

I am about to become engaged and married to a woman that has cheated on me once. I forgave her and we have moved on since. I also cheated on her during our ...

I have no feelings for my husband

I have no feelings for my husband

October 25, 2011 | Comments: 72

I’ve been married for the past 13 years to the only man I’ve ever been with. We have two wonderful children and he is an amazing father. We share a really nice ...

Tell him to leave my boyfriend alone

Tell him to leave my boyfriend alone

October 18, 2011 | Comments: 122

I have been gay since I knew myself. I met my boyfriend during my high school days at (name of high school withheld) and things have been very good in terms of ...

The pastor’s son won’t leave me alone

The pastor’s son won’t leave me alone

October 11, 2011 | Comments: 130

I happened to be in this situation. I am a young single mother who is very active in our church. Recently I was placed on a fund raising committee in which I worked ...

I am married but I cannot get this other guy off my mind

I am married but I cannot get this other guy off my mind

October 4, 2011 | Comments: 120

I have a situation and I need your advice urgently! I am a young married lady in my 30′s and has been married for six years. Three months ago I came into ...

I discovered photos of nude men on my boyfriend’s phone

I discovered photos of nude men on my boyfriend’s phone

September 27, 2011 | Comments: 116

I am in this really weird situation. One night my boyfriend was sleeping and his Blackberry kept on bleeping indicating incoming messages. He is a hard sleeper and ...

My husband is showing no interest in me

My husband is showing no interest in me

September 20, 2011 | Comments: 82

My husband and I have been married for six years. At first we had a very healthy sex life and we have two children. However, within the past year and a half he has ...

One night stands act as fuel booster

One night stands act as fuel booster

September 13, 2011 | Comments: 92

I just started college and the work load is kind of getting to me. I wanted something as a ‘free up’ on the weekends to get my mind off things. Well, I ...

My mother is getting close to my boyfriend

My mother is getting close to my boyfriend

September 6, 2011 | Comments: 40

I just wanted an opinion on this. I think you might laugh and saying I am bit stupid if not paranoid but my mother is getting to close to my boyfriend. My boyfriend ...

My boyfriend’s mother is controlling him

My boyfriend’s mother is controlling him

August 30, 2011 | Comments: 92

My boyfriend and I have been together for five years. He is from up north and I am from town. All this time we have been living in the house my father left me when ...

Husband’s ‘best friend’ frustrates wife

Husband’s ‘best friend’ frustrates wife

August 23, 2011 | Comments: 53

I have been married to my husband for 13 years and we are having a huge problem because of this girl that is suppose to be his best friend. She is from Dominica, ...

The guilty hotel manager

The guilty hotel manager

August 18, 2011 | Comments: 91

I’m a manager of a hotel and I’m in a committed relationship getting married in October of this year. Sometime in July we had some late hours at the office. I ...

I am sexually attracted to my father

I am sexually attracted to my father

August 16, 2011 | Comments: 147

I know this sounds weird and outrageous and I thought hard before writing to you. But I could not take it anymore and decided to write. I am an 17-year-old young ...