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My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and wants to keep our relationship secret

My boyfriend got another girl pregnant and wants to keep our relationship secret

August 11, 2011 | Comments: 56

I have been in and out of relationships for a while then at the age of 19 made my decision of settle down. I fell in love with a wealthy young but yet still hard ...

I cannot get over my ex

I cannot get over my ex

August 9, 2011 | Comments: 51

I am a 21-year-old young woman and I have a loving relationship with a respectable young man who is good to me. My parents love him and so does my friends but I ...

I am falling in love with a guy but we are both not single

I am falling in love with a guy but we are both not single

August 2, 2011 | Comments: 61

I have always dated guys that are younger than me or the exact same age. Like many of the women out there I have gotten hurt by a man.  I said to myself that I ...

I am tired of being called a ‘minuteman’

I am tired of being called a ‘minuteman’

July 28, 2011 | Comments: 102

I am a 22-year-old young man and I have a serious problem with my sex life. I have been suffering from premature ejaculation for a few years and its driving me ...

My boyfriend’s small penis is ‘killing’ me

My boyfriend’s small penis is ‘killing’ me

July 26, 2011 | Comments: 298

I came upon a reader’s email to you, so I decided to write. I have been dating this guy for six months. Things have been OK. We went on a trip and had a ...

I am in love with my cousin

I am in love with my cousin

July 21, 2011 | Comments: 145

I am a 23-year-old female and I don’t have a really good rap sheet. I fell in Love with my cousin and we use to have a sexual relationship till he got a ...

My ex is bad-talking me

My ex is bad-talking me

July 19, 2011 | Comments: 50

I was madly in love with a guy I thought was going to be my husband and father of my children. We were engaged but like all relationships we were having problems. I ...

Gay wants to go straight

Gay wants to go straight

July 12, 2011 | Comments: 202

I am a 20-year-old male from the south and I realize that I am sexually attracted to men. After reading the excerpt from Parry Bellot, I realized that I need to be ...

The shameful bed-wetting mom

The shameful bed-wetting mom

July 7, 2011 | Comments: 53

I am 23-years old and ashamed!  I have this problem and its I’m a mother and still wetting the bed. I have been to a doctor for medical advice. He gave me ...

Young lady writes off men; considers becoming a lesbian

Young lady writes off men; considers becoming a lesbian

July 5, 2011 | Comments: 73

I would not define myself as an individual who would seek help for personal issues, however recently I have been experiencing so many difficulties within a short ...

Young lady in love with other young lady falling for guy

Young lady in love with other young lady falling for guy

June 30, 2011 | Comments: 210

I’m a young lady who needs a bit of advice. I’m 27 and a bit confused about the way things are going on in my life. I’ve been in this relationship ...

Still in love with my ex

Still in love with my ex

June 28, 2011 | Comments: 38

I broke up with my high school sweetheart of 6-7 years after he got another girl pregnant and left the country right after the break up. I’m back now after ...

My boyfriend tells me he loves me only when he is drunk

My boyfriend tells me he loves me only when he is drunk

June 21, 2011 | Comments: 73

I am in love with this guy, who I think is in love with me too. The thing is he only says he loves me after having a few drinks, so I am not sure about his true ...

We broke up and he got married, now he says he is missing me

We broke up and he got married, now he says he is missing me

June 14, 2011 | Comments: 74

I need your advice on something. Three years ago I met this incredible man. He was funny, handsome, caring and understanding and great in bed. We started out as ...

18-year-old in affair with 49-year-old married woman

18-year-old in affair with 49-year-old married woman

June 9, 2011 | Comments: 144

I am 18 years old now and lately I got entangled into  some affair with a married woman. It happened rather simply  enough: we met at a party, she invited me to ...