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In love with another boyfriend

In love with another boyfriend

April 12, 2011 | Comments: 31

I have a situation that I need your advice on. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 years.  We have however been through many trials and happiness.  I’ve ...

I am now attracted to females

I am now attracted to females

April 7, 2011 | Comments: 98

Dear Bella: I am currently married to an amazing, hardworking an dependable man. He is everything I can ask for but I feel like I never had a chance to experience ...

Cheating girlfriend seeks forgiveness

Cheating girlfriend seeks forgiveness

April 5, 2011 | Comments: 73

I find myself really upset all of the time. I have cheated on my boyfriend and it was multiple times. Every time he has forgiven me and I am so grateful. I have ...

Am I a sex addict?

Am I a sex addict?

March 31, 2011 | Comments: 81

I think I have a problem. It started when I was roughly 12-years old. It was then I notice that I love sex. At first I thought it was just hormones or a teenage ...

My girlfriend has too many “boy” friends

My girlfriend has too many “boy” friends

March 29, 2011 | Comments: 45

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about eight years now and plans are well underway for marriage. However, I think there is one problem. Recently I noticed ...

My best friend is in love with me

My best friend is in love with me

March 24, 2011 | Comments: 26

I met this guy eight years ago when I was 19 and he was 27(I am now 27 he is 35). He told me that he had an 11 year old girl and that he had her when he was...

In love with three guys, what do I do?

In love with three guys, what do I do?

March 22, 2011 | Comments: 78

I am 19 and have a boyfriend whom I loved for as long as I can remember. A few months back we broke up and I started a relationship with a guy I met during the ...

Married man with crush

Married man with crush

March 18, 2011 | Comments: 83

I’m a married man in a really tough situation. A year before getting married to my fiancé there was this girl that I found very attractive.  I did not see her ...

My husband is addicted to porn, should I leave him?

My husband is addicted to porn, should I leave him?

March 15, 2011 | Comments: 144

I have a problem and I wish you and your readers can offer some advice. I am an Adventist and a fervent church goer. I met my husband at church. He was just like ...

My husband wants a threesome

My husband wants a threesome

March 10, 2011 | Comments: 130

I have a small problem. It started like this, the other day my husband came home and I was watching TV. He told me he is interested in doing a ménage à trois and ...

My boyfriend never compliments me

My boyfriend never compliments me

March 3, 2011 | Comments: 76

I have been in a relationship with a guy for three years and eight months. I can’t remember three compliments that he has given me in these years we have been ...

Family friend wants my husband to have meals at her home all the time

Family friend wants my husband to have meals at her home all the time

March 2, 2011 | Comments: 60

Our family friend is married, helpful and also a Christian, however she is  closer to my husband than me.   She sends lunch occationally to my him or would ...

My husband confessed he cheated, should I take him back?

My husband confessed he cheated, should I take him back?

February 24, 2011 | Comments: 66

I’ve been married for a number of  years and suspects my husband  was cheating. I love him very much and he knows that but I don’t trust him and he ...

DEAR BELLA: Young woman wants to know why men cheat

DEAR BELLA: Young woman wants to know why men cheat

February 22, 2011 | Comments: 103

Dear Bella, I’m writing on behalf of my curiosity, not so much to seek advice but to peek the interest and get feedback/ views from your many readers. I am ...

Boyfriend cheated on me and I am no longer happy

Boyfriend cheated on me and I am no longer happy

February 15, 2011 | Comments: 42

I am a 27 years old lady. My boyfriend is a year younger than me. We have been together for 4 years..we did everything together..we were very happy together untill ...