Dear Bella: Let’s get it out there! I am GAY! And no, I don’t mean bisexual but fully gay. However, no one can tell as I don’t act feminine and don’t be seen with gay people.
I hang with the thug crowd and do all the other manly thuggish things but I am just gay. It took me a while to accept that this is who I am and even though I am still not confortable with being this way, there is nothing that I can do.
The reason that I am writing to you is because I have been having a sexual relationship with another thuggish dude and both of us hang out in the same group. None of the other guys in the group knows about us and that is the way we want to keep it. My problem is this – whenever we are hanging out in the group and someone who is obviously gay passes by and the other members of the group starts to make fun of the gay person, he joins in right along with them and sometimes his voice is the loudest.
Not only that, some of these people he is helping to insult are some of the very same people who we have had threesomes with. When I confront him about it he says that he only does it to keep up appearances and that he sometimes calls the person he has insulted to apologise. I just find that to be quite hypocritical and it hurts me to know that someone who is gay but on the down low (DL) can find it so easy to insult some who is openly gay.
Sometimes I just want to expose the both of us so that he can see how it feels to be ridiculed and insulted the way he insults other gay people. I am just frustrated and don’t feel like having anything to do with him anymore but he is the only DL gay person that I know. What do you suggest that I do?
***Don’t Judge Me***
Dear Don’t Judge Me: Well, you need to talk to him again about it and tell him if he keeps it up then the friendship may be in jeopardy. That’s the most I can advise you on. However, I do not think it is smart to expose both of you. It could do more harm than good.
Hope this helps.
Bella
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@ anonnymous because in some other comments u talking like ur a woman just curious.
@anonnymous wat are u a man or a woman cause u have me confused. make up ur mind.him or shim?
@gaynproud you have smthing to say about everybody who uneducated who hating who need to do research…….you need to come out the closet for the real thug man dem to pump some chrome in your dusgusting *ss ……a man can be gay but keep your manish ways dont act femimin….gosh i hate b*tchniggaz…..by the way i am a girl…..battybwoy like you fi dead…..you wasnt born with a vagina muhf*cka!!!!!!!!!!!!!
whooooops! there it is
Dominicans all you too like sex
to be honest,i jus can not ipicture two man having sex,magwe sai kammem.i rather do zamee wi,boi popoo them man pricking wii.papa zur.i fraid for the young girls today.
some Dominican men to nasty…God created man and woman,male and female,adam and Eve ..not Adam and Steve…as for those gay men they should put them in a barrel and ship them somewhere like gwantanomo bay….
God preaches love, not hate. Stop hating on the gays. God doesn’t judge people for loving , only for hating.
NOT CALLING NAMES NA BUT,…… WASHINGTON!!!
U NO IS THERE THEY ARE…
they are everywhere….and the population of gays in dominica is growing day by day. i think 1 in 5 men in Dominica are gay
lol i think the same . boy that so wrong. i hate to see a good looking guy go to waste like that. GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!
hahahahahaha
everyone has a right to express themselves and it seems debate is alive and well in Dominica and thats good. only thing is most people comment hopefully on what they really believe. If that is so then why disparage someone for stating how they really feel about an issue. It dosen’t seem that we have learned yet how to hear someone state an opinion that we disagree with and excercise the maturity to under stand that this is their view and not necessasarily ours and just let them be. Why attack you just because your opinion and mine differ on a pareticular issue.
I believe the homosexual lifestyle is wrong. But I have not been able to free myself from the tendency. i have prayed,/ cried , even made an appointment with a well known pastor and his so called deliverance team to pray for me. I thought I had a demon or spirit of homosexuality. The pastor gave me an appointment which he never kept.i never got that prayer or deliverance so called. He saw me some time later and asked me how I was doing. I said fine and walked on. If I knew what the answer was to make myself macho i would do it right now as i write this. I dont enjoy the name calling, the hatred, the embarrassment. That’s why people sometimes comit suicide. The pain is too great. People hate u , you hate yourself for a tendency u never really chose and you dont know how to change yourself.
having said all that I still respect people’s vews if they really believe what they say. Even if i have gay tendencies I am not going to go out in public and parade myself like a fool and say I am coming out and try and impose this on other people . If I have sex with another guy I would not tell u. I dont think what people do in the privacy of their bedrooms is anybody’s damn business. I struggle with it but that is my business too and God. Others are bold and want to come out publicly. that’s not for me. why? because the shame indicates that deep down I know its wrong.
I do not totally agree with everything you have said but from one to another. STAY STRONG
next time try and make yuh point in one sentence
this is just ridiculous, too many gay bashing,where is that coming form.all those who anti gay have brothers, cousins,uncles,and fathers who are secretely bogaring..and those that coming out.but to be honest all those that undercover,in the big super markets and in the banks, and hotels and in big position to,lawyers,doctors,managers in dominica.and trust me i know.so all you hypocrites stop this just look right under your nose and you will see what i talking about.
my boi at least u straight up wit it eh . cuz i do both women an men buh i wit men nw
UR NASTY…YACKK
What EVA!! Get a grip. What is there to yackk about. Hypocrite
well I hope you are having protected sex with the threesomes you are having……I am definitely against homosexuals but everybody choose to live their life however they want to. Homosexuality is abomination in the sight of God . Fornication and adultery is also a sin which society seems to accept. “he who has no sin should cast the first stone” Stop bashing gay people live it to God to deal with them .!!!!!!
FACT…. thug fellas sleep with other fellas…….FACT………..thug fellas sleep with women for cover up and still sleep with other fellas…….FACT……..thug fellas……..accept the peg just like the fem boys………..FACT……man does sleep with man in Dominica…………..FACT……….a set of hypocrites/pretenders that commenting on here……….FACT…………thug fellas will sleep with a fella if the price is right……………..FACT……..GAYS ARE HERE TO STAY, BE THEY THUGS OR FEMS……….FACT…….GET WITH THE PROGRAM………..
After reading these comments I think it is fair to say that there are many Dominicans-AND I MEAN MANY- who have MASTERS DEGREES in hypocricy and ignorance. And that’s bad. Shame on them to be so proud that they show it so enthusiastically. This shows lack of tolerance,open-mindedness and most importantly reason.We need to get out of our little match box.Our minds are too restricted and that is bad for a nation. It should be a crime to be ignorant, no joke.LOL.
Zammy nice
Me aself like to zammy
I’m shocked to be reading all of the input that Dominicans have on to share on the matter of homosexuality. For all my life I thought that the nation was about 99% heterosexual with just a few feminine bogga men. If so many people have so much to say, it suggests that homosexuality is more widespread than I thought. It’s encouraging to see that people are now feeling free to even comment on such taboo subjects.
the comments alone on this artcile got me going….i been cracking up for the past minutes. who are we to judge anyone? yes it’s true that god made adam and eve and not adam and steve, but how many other things God told us not to do and we still do? hmmmmm let God be the judge of that. Homosexuals – gay and lesbian lovers i dont have a problem with you as long as you respect me i’m good!!
this post is fraud we dominican niggaz dont get down like that .. im 100 percent straight but i know a nigga who is in a crew/gang wtver is not gonna write this bella bull ishh
Hmmm looks like you are singing for your supper? Based on your comments I am pretty sure you are gay..
Male dogs know is female dogs to hop, cork knows its poulette, buck knows is doe, in other words, males animals know is femal animals…but men…God help the human race…by the way God’s arms are well opened to accept a heart of repentance.
like ur comment. that is so true, it is just a false feeling fr the devil cause he is anti christ, anti man anti everything man don’t realise its his way of getting them in his feb with sexual abomination.
Know your your facts stupid, there are male dogs that appear attempt to mate with other male ones. Actually the if you put a male dog infront of another male does and it will will likely try to mate with it. As far as they know it is a a hole.
Being gay is just wrong, there is no two ways about it,
that is why you are 2011 African Queen kah kah ! You have never even left the little village you are from but you talking about african queen. Africa has never and will never be in your reach so stay there Queen kah kah!
Gaynproud…it’s best you leave african queen alone cause she is perfectly correct..it’s you that haven’t been out, you are stuck in Sodom and Gomorah
who is the hottest lesbo in dca? i wanna kno?
I think u should expose him, he will know how his mate feel and if u gay, u should come out, let the world know, u should be proud G…
disagree with you about the coming out, if it was another country but not Dominica. I feel that there is a malicious underlying tone in what you say as he coming out would only give fuel to the so called “straight thugs” who want to detract the light from them and cast it on others. Unless Dominicans educate themselves, mind their own business, open their minds, and elevate from this cesspool of hypocrisy, less hate, denial and third world mentality, nothing will progress, investors will pass Dominica straight and the world will leave it behind with their stupid nonsensical statements that they post on here.
Honestly i don’t believe a Dominican “Thug” writes to bella ans states that he is in a gang and that he is gay…..
i believe that people post this to reveal that this is true, there are in fact people that are gay which are in gangs or ppl that “Borga”.
its a shame that people do this thing disgracing and disrespecting the presence of a woman… God made woman for man and if you don’t like it, live amongst us without one.
all am saying is i believe this artical is a fraud, but w.e…. please stop criticise gay people if ur gay and gay people or people who think they gay please try to seek God in all you do. not saying ur going hell or heaven but God doesnt like it.
In the Name of Allah, The Beneficient, The Merciful.
I would like to share an Islamic perspective on homosexuality as well as my opinion on the issue.
All praises be to Allah who has revealed an entire code of life (Islam) that covers every aspect of life. Since we have received a divine code of life it is not for review thus we reject all man-made laws. Therefore, under an islamic state any adult, sane male person found guilty of anal penetration is executed under Islamic law. Homosexuality is a capital offense in Islam as it threatens the well being of being of the survival of the human race as well as it has grave implications on a society.
Bowel syndrome is an condition contracted when anal sex is practiced be it man vs man or man vs woman; that is according to a book entitled, ‘Counselling Youths by Dr. Stanway. Additionally, homosexuality is known to be a high risk group for HIV. After all this is said, allow me to express my opinions on the issue.
Firstly, as a muslim, I deal with all kinds of people without prejudice. Everyone has a right to be dealt with justly no matter his sexual choice or preference, as long as there is respect. I known homosexual colleagues for over a decade and they are kinder and more understanding than many heterosexuals I’ve come across. Likewise, I have friends who are heterosexuals and they are a gem, they are well mannered as well. Well, if someone would ask me about the undercover heterosexual (playing straight when he’s a homosexual), I have to subscribe to the apparent evidence unless proven otherwise. In short, I believe that everyone should be dealt with justly no matter his creed, sexual orientation etc. I have a fundamental right to disagree with homosexuality which I do but that does not give me the divine right to judge people! I have a right to logically discuss with a homosexual my sentiments about homosexuality but in a mature and respectful way.
Secondly, I have never seen a nation that is so filled with hypocrisy and evil in my entire life like Dominica. They harass homosexuals, call them names etc, yet they may or do have someone in their family who is homosexual or more often they are bisexuals or even beastiality like we saw a few months ago with the cow incident. Additionally, I saw bible thumping comments on DNO; the hypocrisy is so glaring. I did not see one comment that condemns FORNICATION, and you know it is condemned both in the Old and New Testament! We live in a secular society and if we are to bash homosexuality, adultery and fornication should be equally condemned as well. It’s time for people to stop with ‘well it’s man and woman we understand!’ Or ‘well if we bogar our woman it’s ok, woman say de boom boom hole tighter etc.’ Or ‘I prefer woman on woman.’ NO! If you are quoting scriptures, all these sexual practices must be abhorred. My point is if you are speaking as a secularist then you have the license to express the above (doesn’t mean I agree, just simply reiterating your own tenets of democracy), however, people who are quick to quote scriptures must take all or none…stop twisting or quoting the scriptures for your selfish ends.
Thirdly, in dealing with homosexuals did you know there are classes of homosexual in my analysis? Yes classes! There are homosexuals who are in the closet. One or two of them may reveal their sexuality to whom he or she may trust. They do not bother anyone but they express their intimacy in the privacy of their bedroom. Another type are those who are proud, may walk with their lover and not afraid to defend their position no matter the abuse they go through. Lastly, you have the activist, they try to impose and corrupt the media, the school cirriculum. They are on a rampage to ‘convert’ everyone to homosexuality, it is sad! They have a real twisted ideology. They inject toxins such as every man is bisexual and that we were born with both chromosomes etc etc.
In this secularistic materialistic Dominica that pretends it is a christian nation, the hypocrisy must stop. Homosexuals are growing by the minute. It is becoming the norm whether we like it or not. There are soaps with homosexual assertions, movies, ‘gay ships,’ lesbian ships, you name it. I believe people need to be more informed and educated about homosexuality on a holistic level so that we can discuss the issue on a national level. Too much barbaric ‘burn dem, dey going hell etc etc!’ This shows lack of maturity in our approach to issues. Another reality is, many teenagers are experimenting with homosexuality. Those ‘innocent’ sleep overs with your sons and daughters at another’s friend home of the same sex is the breeding ground for that. Our parents fail to understand that their teenage son or daughter has sexual feelings, thus need to channel these feelings in a positive direction. If we really want to build a morally sound society we should allow young marriages. How can we speak on this level when our people have a flawed understanding of marriage, fornicating all their lives till when they’re 30 and 40 to settle down, when you weezea you want to settle down? Another reality is teenage boys or girls have dreams or having sex with a same sex member according to a book entitled, ‘So you’re a teenager.’ For the record if a person has fantasies about having same sex relations, that does not make one a homosexual, similiarly, if one dreams of robbing a man or killing a man, that does not make the person a robber or a killer.
In conclusion I believe that homosexuality is wrong on a universal level. We need to address the issue in an academic and scholarly manner. Secondly, homosexuals should not discriminated in the work places as well as the rastaman or the muslim should not be discriminated from working in the bank. Another point, if one is not a homosexual and he or she is being pursued, this person must send or state a clear indication that this is not his or her affliation. Thanks for reading.
Mr. Abu!
I DON’T SUPPOSE AS A MILD MUSLIM, YOU WOULD LIVE LONG IN A COUNRY LIKE PAKISTAN OR IRAN
TRUE…TRUE…TRUE…WELL SAID I ENJOYED READING YOUR COMMENT!
Irritable bowel syndrome is not an effect of anal sex. It is a a functional bowel disorder not a result of anal sex.. Regarding HIV, Anal sex is no more high risk than vaginal sex. The fact of the matter is to contract HIV you would need a significant amount of the viral load to contract it. This would be someone actually having unprotected sex and depositing semen in you. Often times more than once. It would be a case of oral sex and someone depositing and you swallowing the deposit, again often times more than once. The sad reality of Dominica and Dominican is that they choose to ignore the facts and associate homosexuality t o HIV. The facts however are alarmingly accurate and consistent with the “Dominican” Marcho and DL lifestyle. The fastest growing incidents of HIV and AIDS in Dominica are women and children. I guess they are homosexual also right. Oh Dominicans, how I wish I was born elsewhere. The stupidity in this country is beyond real.
Let me advise you that the homosexuality is more prevalent in Islamic countries than anywhere else in the word. The laws are a cover-up. Because of the religious police who control women activities and are quick to punish them if seen in the company of non male relatives, and the obligation for a woman to be a virgin upon marriage to an Islamic male the men turn to bulling each other. Even the women partake in this kind of bulling to keep their intended mates happy until marriage. Bestiality is also very common (sex with animals) especially among bedouins. So stop being a hypocrite and face the facts that BOGGAR as we know it is very alive and well in the islamic faith. Hail Mary Full Of Grace…
@ Gay n proud and Karkabeff, anyone can see clearly the facts I’ve written above. Gay n proud your statements are based on your desires and blind fanaticism towards your prefered lifestyle. As I’ve mentioned before I strongly disagree with homosexuality and Allah is the best of judges. Do we not ponder on the people of Lot? Our nation has gone astray, too many comments support homosexuality which is very sad. Satan has made their deeds fair seeming.
@ Karkabeff: Where is your evidence that homosexuality and beastiality are prevelant in Islamic countries? On the contrary Islam is based on spirituality and deep understanding about divine injunctions and these societies are not as polluted and corrupted as the west. I agree that every country has it’s problems because mankind inhabits those areas, however, Islam has the tools to deal with homosexuality. The difference is in Islam, we deal with homosexuals when they break the laws, in Dominica, they are supporting this sin. Karkabeff your blind hatred for Islam and it’s support against homosexuality tells me a lot. Even if you hate Islam, you fail to share your sentiments about homosexuality but to attack Islam as a way of life!
@ C Bruce: This is not mild Islam, this is authentic Islam. If a muslim openly declares his homosexuality in an Islamic state I strongly support the punishment, that is to execute him. However, this is a secular country. The people are steep in polytheism thus homosexuality is not even an issue we discuss a lot as muslims. Calling the people from worshipping a trinitarian god is more important.
I pray for those who support homosexuality you give up this sin before you die. Ameen. Homosexuality is wrong and no thelogical school supports you. Most importantly, give up the polytheism and the worship of your desires. Thank you.
The rest of the gang might just turn gay and borga two of them a line up lol!
i think 70% of the people who commented in this thread is gay…..
thats true i am one
What about a snake those uncommon to DA up his rass?
Please don’t ask don’t tell we going to do that to that nasty.
For that person that say ,ALL SIN IS SIN, Read 1s John chapter 5 =16-17, Where it says, All wrong doing is sin but not all sin leads to death. And secondly, Tell tell those guys that talk about realizing that they are gay there like God mad them like that, Stop those nastiness there and be real because God never ment for man to go with man, or els ,hi whould have made man with some kind of entry somewhere, so stop those nonesence and try to get a life ,all u tooooooooo,sorry for my french, DIAM DAM [ NASTY ,And stop blaiming all u nastiness on God.
I am not gay, I am a very straight woman, who hate to hear or see ignorant,arrogant people quote scriptures that make no sense or scriptures they don’t even understand, ” All wrong doing is sin but not all sin leads to death,” what nonsense is this and what does it mean? At some point we all die, gay straight ,sinners, so called believers who commit adultery, folks who harbor hate in their heart etc, some people hide their lack of education behind these ridiculous scriptures and a book that was written by some men just the same way fairy tales like Snow White and Cinderella were written!
“concern citizon yes” “ at least nasty gay men know how to spell. With atrocious English like that no wonder men go to other men. You have a serious communication defect. Try learning to express yourself using the English language before you post anything you illiterate worthless trash. It is not friend you just do not know English!
heheheheheeh…lol
of cousre gay is wrong what happening to d/ca na all of dem want to come out think all u going and corrupt our young youth in all u non sense.
You are a very silly person since on the gays sites that Dominicans are listed on,70% of them are under the age of 18. They well corrupt already, so when people like you so play up with them since they are 10 years old, by the time they get 16 they well seasoned. Do not fool yourself. Go by the post office on bay front on a Friday night, that is where de crew hang out. All under 18 darling , get your facts right.
wat is d name of dem sites der???
haha ! why do you want to know? There are no women on there that I know of.
WELL IS NOW THUG GROUP BREAK UP ROSEAU
EVERYBODY SUSPECT EVERYBODY
AT LEAST MY GROUP IS AN ALL-GAY THUG GROUP
ooops!
then you ainn;t no thug! You are bloody women who likes to sit on the block with there legs open
Boy tell them all you gay, take your Kool wosh and finish with that….Now let me get back to my coco coordinating…..
Keep coordinating coco. I hope you doh miss one day!
GayNProud is they so that prefer to go anal than through coco and they playing part!
Oh what a tangled web we weave. First of all I want to address the issue of undercover so called “straight” men. Dominica is full of it. It has many many married men with girls friends and 4 or 5 children who approach gay men for sex. Then they seat on the block with their friends or in their watering holes and make comments when gay man passes by. You see gay man in Dominica too timid. If one day one of them react and expose de business all you will behave. If you in your business just check your scene and behave nuh. I am personally victim to that where someone was by his friend while they were smoking weed next thing one night this guy coming to me to ask me if I have a project for him. I mean he is as rough as they come, lux and all. Thou I find it odd I gave him a project, then I notice every time he is coming to my place, then he started making very bold comments about my rear end I was like w hat is this for me nuh. Then he is telling me that one of the guy say they suspect me since I do not have a girlfriend and he want to check a scene with me. Thou he was not someone I would not look at twice, I check a scene with him so I can have dirt on him. Well my boy gets hooked and starts harassing me till I threaten to expose him and call the police. I say this because there are men who have the natural inclination towards a homosexual lifestyle but they suppress it and even make fun if the same people they have relations with. Dominica is a sad state of affairs. Look at the amount of derogatory statements that these people are posting on a topic of interested. The reality is no matter how much negative you say about it it is part of the society and the life and the Dominican ignorance has created a Down Low Society that is hurting all of us. I am sure you have a brother, sister, cousin uncle who is in it. It is time Dominicans open their eye and stop burying their heads in the sand. Accept it or not it is a reality. It is a sad state of affair and a failed state when people would accept and dismiss statutory rape yet rain down on someone for something that they were born with and have no control over. Dominica is destined to remain a backward state.
@ MOUTH OF THE SOUTH
you seriously just said that it was old testament law… so wasn’t the homosexuals thing too REGARDLESS if it wasn’t moved?…
see that’s the problem with you people… You try your best to take on things that are not worth YOUR effort… God did make man in his own likeness and image.. now why should one compromise the situation for human life and say what is wrong and not. If you can comprehend you’ll really see that HE DOES love every human. Who will burn in hell will depend on the judgment that GOD himself makes… NOT YOURS… so continue to say that fire bun them… but when we all die. WE DO NOT KNOW our place in eternity until we put our faith in that one GoD… If you are so christian and believe in god then you shouldn’t be criticizing and victimizing the others who are made in the SAME LIKENESS AND IMAGE AT YOU!!… then by no means at heart can you be christian or a believer, but instead you turn out to be a HARD HEARTED EVIL PERSON… god love those who love themselves and everybody regardless of who we are.. Life is what it is… and its up to us to understand our brothers and sisters and create a world of peace rather than a world of fear and anguish and hatred… by our efforts in life and the way we answer each other’s cry for help may we be judged by the father himself to know our position for eternity. I love god as he loves me. I am what i am and I can’t and won’t change that for anybody else… if you read again what i just typed then maybe there could be a change in heart… I’m not gonna fowl anyone… IT IS WHAT IT IS!… who gonna burn in hell and who gonna see the light of Christ will be told by Christ himself! we fleshly humans are too upfront to betray another human being and then bow and ask the father for forgiveness… i do hope that you can tell him that you DID NOT hate your fellow men!
what is sin… you need to read your bible and not only the old testament but the New Testament as well. read Galations 3, if you dont believe that the law that is mentioned is not the Commandments and other laws implemented then read Romans 7: 6-7 or 10: 4.
and about unclean foods read matthew 15; 11, mark 7: 15. word from the mouth of jesus himself. Read!!
WHAT?!!!!!!!!.. @Bella.. dat is d best advice u find to give d man?? hmphhhh… u don’t know homosexuality is a sin??!
Well well i wonder what happening to some Dominicans, too much t.v they watching. If you shame of being gay then you know its wrong. Maybe you should stop hanging out with the group. Trust Roseau man to trouble people. They playing Shatta but in the night is bodah paytay. Its your life to live but you will be judged by the Most High.
lmao! bondah paytay..good one
aw well we really shouldnt be quick to judge because GAY people STRAIGHT people are the same i have a friend who is gay and she is one of the nicest people you will ever meet because people say they have a choice honestly ask yourself why would someone choose to be bullied by others for choosing that path so it doesnt matter what you like once you’re happy thats all that should matter because when women are gay everyone accepts it but as soon as a man says he’s gay its a problem remember ignorance is bliss GOD loves everyone no matter how they decide to choose so watch yourself before you want to criticize others and we want to talk about suicides and how the devil turning us the world is going to end because of all this well guess what those of you that are discriminating are the ones producing all the hate so if you have nothing nice to say keep to yourself…. Thank you:)
my people big difference,,,,cheating on ur wife or commonlaw wife is a SIN,,,, being gay or living a gay lifestyle is (read after me) an A-B-O-M-I-N-A-T-I-O-N!!!!!!!! NUFF SAID…… who vex lost,,,,dat is what it is,,,, we are not judging,,,really wish allu would get on board so we try to help,,,,but no!!! u all want us to accept that sheeeesssshhhh hhhhheeeeellllll no,,,,, shate man
You sound mad gay dude!!
you’re like scared gaydi cat behind there.. u don’t have to come out.. .just respect others and they’ll learn to respect you!… you should know wat that means if you really are not gay.. lol
Being gay is earthly ,heavenly,morally wrong too much woman dey yah pon earth,they trying to mash up d earth with their nastiness ………….must keep d fire burning we nah want no friend from them …………..boooooooooooooooooooooooom.
Well, yes, God did make Adam and Eve in the story, and not Adam and Steve. But he may just as well have made Adam and Steve. Please do a search: The First Scandal Adam and Eve.
You know what else is a sin in the bible? eating pig (Leviticus 11), not keeping the sabbath day (saturday) (Exodus 20:8), giving false testimony about people (Exodus 20:16), committing adultery (Exodus 20:14).
Point is, if you wanna say fire burn homosexuals, say also fire burn pig-eaters, sabbath-breakers, liars and adulterers. They all will BURN according to your god and your bible.
I recall some important guy in that same bible saying something about whoever is without sin casting the first stone. But I guess no one here recalls that statement.
AMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMEN. Tell that to all them hypocrites.
dat pig-eaters story can’t work cuz this was old testament law,,,,,, but homosexuals were never removed from the law as an abomination,,,,, get a better ‘excuse’ my friend
…And you rank among them. It includes those who agree with you. All are sinners, one way or the other and all have fallen short of God’s glory. Look to yourself.
The Ten Commandments: The Law was given through Moses, Grace and Tuth came through Jesus Christ, John 1:17.
St. Paul said, New Testament: If you say you are without sin you make Our Lord Jesus Christ out to be a liar.
I do not think that you are well-conversed with what is contained in the Holy Bible including the New Testament.
I’m not the judgmental type but the Bible say that God Put man for woman and woman for man, so therefore being gay is kind of a wrong thing,, its against the word of God, Its a Huge sin.
There’s nothing wrong in being gay! I’m a Lesbian n proud of it!
What’s wrong is the fact that we live in a meSSed up Society where people are too quick to judge!!
no wonder u doh care if the kalinago race gets wiped out,,,,cuz u definitely not gonna help keep it dere my friend,,,, i mean since ur a lesbo its plain obvious u won’t contribute not even one sperm will be given a chance
HA HAH AHAHA
I’M CHOKING HERE
HAHAHA
i agree with u a 100 percent
lollollolllollollollol
you on point
AHAHAHAHAHAHA
SHAME!!!
aa kalinago…i find u come out
A kalinago proud clashing plates woman! Sick sick sick
What makes her sick? Are you not sicker than she is to take issue with her preference? Go and read more on Muslims. Muslim men have anal sex with men to preserve their vaginal virginity until marriage as they often want to see blood when the marriage is consummated. You know nothing about Muslim.
and u colling your self empress.you know what empress mean?… fire on u
@Kalingo Empress:
There are some people who blame society for all their ills, failings and wrong-doings. You are a typical example. We are not living in a messed-up society for not everyone is messed-up. You are the one living a messed-up life.
You are going down the slippery slopes to Hell. I do wish people as yourself who participate in such a relationship which is an abomination to the Lord would pray to God, listen to him in silence after you have prayed and He will reveal the truth to you and convert you.
Homosexual and lesbian relationships are totally wrong because they are between a man and a man and a woman and a woman. God did not create such acts. God did not create sin. Satan caused sin to come into the world.
You will think that you are doing something correct and good and that you have a right to do as you please because it is your body. However, you are offending most of all Our Almighty Father God, His Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit. The Body is a Temple of God – of The Holy Spirit. Be careful how we use our bodies lest we perish for all eternity.
I am not one to judge or condemn anyone. I state the truth. Primarily, according to Holy Scripture, it is a sure Hell for those who participate in such an intrinsic, sinful and abnormal relationship and unto death.
Sadly some members of society including certain politicians of the world are accepting and legislating this as so-called same sex marriage, giving credence to those who practice same and showing the world it is OK and there is nothing wrong with it and that these people have a right. They do not have a right in this respect and to get married for they do not have a relationship with a man and a woman and vice versa.
These people are not aware that they are deceived by the noon-day devil who makes sin appear to be an excellent practice and to be exulted.
Those politicians, too, are going down the slippery slopes of also projecting a bad example to others specifically the youth. In order to get votes, be elected and to remain in power, they will pacify those people and enact immoral laws.
Those who lead others into sin and away from God and His Commandments, that of the Church and Its religious teachings, are also sinning and two-fold.
I reside in Canada and I have written to my politcians, MP and MPP about that. I remind them that they who are specifically Christians of whatever denomination, are not to endorse this abomination and vote for it. I always write respectfully. My Federal MP who is a Christian and who represents me in his riding in Parliament replied and informed me that he is not voting for same sex relationship and marriage. Hats off to him.
We Christians need to take a strong stand about this type of relationship which most of all highly offends God and will incur His wrath and warrants Satan’s cauldron of everlasting fire.
Our Lord Jesus Christ said, “If we know it is a sin and do nothing about it, we will be severely punished” for doing nothing about it. Therefore, our obligation is first to God and then to humanity.
The world is not a better place; is not being made a better place and never will be a better place for the practice of this abnormal type of relationship.
We want what is good and eternally so for everyone in the entire world. It is our human and Christian obligation. Therefore, we are speaking out.
We do not hate anyone and we should not. We are not gay bashing but speaking the truth.
Those who indulge in such relationships, a man and a man and a woman and a woman cannot have children, procreate and continue the population of the world. Therefore note this.
There are some who will state that the world is over populated. Let me inform them that the world could never be over populated. God, The Creator of the world and human beings, will see to it that it will never be so. If all governments of the world took good care of their people, feed, house and educate them appropriately, these people would not starve and will have adequate housing, education and jobs. Some governments take everything for themselves and do not distribute the wealth and goods to their people. I am referring to those countries where there is supposedly as some state an over-population. There are also some governments who would rather build arms rather than feed their people. They also utilize the funds for their army and those who are employed in their army. I state this because of the criticism pertaining to over population in the world.
There are those who want to have their own cake and eat it. They want to be homosexuals and lesbians and they still want to have children and adopt them. You cannot have it both ways! If they want children, then have relationships with people of the opposite sex and have children.
Take good note of what a well-respected religious and godly inspired person stated: “Truth is not an opinion. Truth is truth and it stands alone.”
It is “The Truth” that homosexuality and lesbianism are totally wrong also for the community and the entire world. This type of relationship is not what God planned for the world and the human race. It is not what He had in mind when He created man and woman.
This is The Truth of Our Lord Jesus Christ, His teachings, His inspired Apostle, St. Paul and of His Church upon earth.
God bless all with His inspiration.
NTTN WRONG … WEN JUDGEMENT DAY REACH ULL SEE WAT WRONG
@ HMMMM
You will regret it by saying NTTN WrONG. There are people like you who are residing in mortal and spiritual ignorance.
What a sad day it will be for you on Judgment Day with such an attitude. May God have mercy on your soul.
well a man chooses wateva path they want but i respect dat. but roseau will always have dem nastiness wen dem young man doe want to go n work n all dey want to do is bling. trust me in roseau have quite alot of those characters n yeah they have de loudest mouth like dey so macho.dem man just want to take de shortest way to success by been another man bitch
DO NOT RUSH TO JUDGE!!!!!!!
The same people that claiming the bible only choosing the parts that relate to them!
God didn;t just make Adam and Eve you know! He also said – Love thy neighbour as thyself!
We forget that we are all humans and prone to err!
Let’s not judge because ALL SIN IS SIN! The gay man sin is sin just like the straight man’s.
So…. in the mood of tolerance – we do not have to accept it but we can tolerate it! God did say forgive and forget, so we should try to use our faith to guide the Gay man, not try to jump down his throat. At the end of the day – when he commits his sins, and you commit your sin – c’est la meme chose – SIN
We tolerate to many things that’s why they are call themselves OPENLY gay. It is wrong we should not judge them, or criticize them but help them…and let them know that we do not tolerate such things put our foot down. And let them know that we are hear to help them, because to be Gay is like just completely sinning against God it’s not just a thing where you kill someone and ask God for forgiveness, but an entire LIFESTYLE like this., it’s just wrong.
Hmm… I wonder if persons on this Globe know the word “SECRETS”…. many many many years ago, the bible was written to direct us on a righteous path, and things we do not know about have been lost. Do we know what the previous societies has written to manage the future?… Food for Thought!
Mama making some broth back n neck… it have fig, dasheen, shoo, yam and sweet sweet potato, some boiled sweet plantain and cabbage on the side and wash that down with a good ole SQUASH citon!!!… come a big pot for everybodee!… mama weh mwen ka feh mwen mal.. i need some WD-40!
“an entire LIFESTYLE like this., it’s just wrong”
You have deemed it wrong because it goes against your belief!! Who’s to say that your beliefs are right? The bible was written by man – and those who choose to believe it, then that should be their llifesyle, but we both know that it isn’t!!!!!!!
Committing daily sins is a lifestyle of humans, and it’s wrong, yet we are all accepting on this lifestyle.
I personally have no vested interest if someone is straight or gay! What i have learnt, is that they are human just like us. So when my gay friends are talking to me about being born this way, i give my opinion regarding that. I am not forcing them to accept it – but they do tolerate it, because it’s my belief, based on my having choosen to accept everything in the bible as given truths.
I choose to pray for them, because my belief is based on everything in the bible, not the ones which choose my fancy!!!! I’m just helping my neighbour by praying for his/her soul!!!! That’s all i can do, since nothing can force someone to be none GAY, or what the world calls straight!
In the bible, mutliple wives was accepted, but this is not accepted today! Why is that do you think? Is it wrong, or is it oout belief which make sit wrong?
Who’s to judge?
Like everyone else, many choose to use the part of their beliefs for their benefit.
Get some therapy…counselling whatever, Gay Anonymous or something.
your anus is not meant for sexual gratification. end of story.
Why is someone preference for gratification your business or problem? An ass expels faecal matter; a vagina is constantly oozing, and produces blood and dead cell in a flow lasting over five days. Why do you think that Muslims liken women to pigs during their monthly cycle?
Some the people commenting on here, are some hypocrites, they playing thug but in the night they like little girls doing their thing undercover.And i can name names, just kon-twa-yer my spirit, there today there…………..ask for when some of allu go overseas, allu are gay haters in dominica but gay actors overs…………sack way wat i doe know
i get the impression that u love gays.call there name .
if is d linky i know dat dere fromup north mind u doh hear or rather c ur name on it met borgar n u talking bout call names nasty 4 car u r
That’s why women like me prefer to stay by ourselves instead of rubbing on those poo-poo tol-tols out there. I’ll use a clean, sterilized vibrator IF I feel the need to, thanks.
That’s why Woman like me rather stay by myself than deal with all those poo-poo penises out there. I’ll use a vibrator if I need to, thanks.
that’s sad that you should say that…our men now are turning feminine
The vast majority of men are straight. Dat doh make no sense. But that’s your choice.
thanks piper make her know we straight 1 huned my nigga yeh i said 1huned wezzy
COMMON JUST COLL ME
You are by yourself beacause no one wants you. The men want the younger sexier women and men. Enjoy the vibrator.
That is just nasty plain out.
Is not so them preachers does want to crucify gays, only to find out later that they had been having gay sex for years?
Agreed!! Some of their children doing it right in their house!
Better stay your gay way and leave all them fine honeys alone eh poopoo pusher.
Grow up whoever you are.
Jah burn fire on homosexuality long time in somdom . ok so with that said ” Dont judge me ” be true to who u say you are cause i respect people who are true to them self and insulting people who are girly gay only means u insulting yourself. ……. but remember jah did not make adam and steve he made ADAM AND EVE so i guess you need to look for GOD, cause he alone that can make you find your true purpose
True that God is the only person that can help him now.
When last you read a bible you are quoting from it? That is all you say, fire burn. Do you even know where that statement came from?? Who are you to judge or say who will be burnt? Are you God, are you pure and free of sin? I did not think so, so shut your FING MOUTH.
B…O….R….G…..A……R….A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yOU VEX NO MAN WANT YOUR SOUR NECTAR
lol leave dem gays alone…….. most of allu dat sayin fire bun gay on d down low bullin in secret
yeah because you does do it too….right?
i’ve lived many many years….. so why you have to answer and ask the person if they doing it too? it means you doing TOO!! … don’t play tricks lol
Homosexuality is nothing more than downright nastiness!!
You should try it and you would think differently. To on have a say on something you much know it. Untill then shut up !
papa zoh gaynproud the same way u doh want herterosexuals pushign their life on u dont push it on others. everybody just need to leave ppl alone. there is only so much you cans ay to a person…but at a certain point we just need to focus on improving our own selves and being an example to other people
Bella didn’t seem to have much to say it seems.
But anyway, hypocrisy is everywhere… married men and women who are bisexual and do as if they are straight; single people who cheat and are the loudest in church on Sundays and have bad things to say on everybody else.
Hypocrites are all over…but we just like to point fingers on other and pretend that we are perfect. It’s normal.
I agree with you. Dominica and Dominicans are going nowhere fast. Ten years from now it will be the same.
This is precisely why the rest of the world–or the small parts that even realize places like Dominica exist–will continue to laugh at Dominica and Jamaica and Trinidad and virtually all of the islands, really. You people live like medieval peasants–you are uneducated, you literally cannot conceive of not believing in the deity of your slave masters, and some of you even express desires for barbaric violence towards other human beings. Really? But why am I even writing this? Without education, you can never move from the laughable state you’re in, and how can such a poor (literally and otherwise) place gain education? What progressive country in the 21st century is filled with people who want to burn others for being different? Do you want to burn “witches” and kill babies who are born deformed, too? What’s wrong with you people? You realize that such violence makes you no different from the radical Muslims who perpetrated 9/11? But again, I might as well be talking to myself here. You people are disgraceful in the 21st century, and unless you learn more, you will be the laughingstock of the civilized world–assuming that world takes enough notice of you to give you a laugh.
And your point is…?
stop being an ignorant retard.
Was going to write a long response to this and refute your ridiculous non-points but its quite likely u wouldn’t even comprehend and i’d have just wasted my energy.
Let me just say you don’t know what you are talking about. You just made an attempt at appearing educated and enlightened and ended up saying nothing sensible and making a fool of yourself. Your argument is riddled with obvious fallacies.
You try insulting others due to their cultural beliefs and societal norms, but all you are doing is showing your ignorance and low IQ.
And what would one of those fallacies be? I don’t think you’re capable of showing any “fallacies” in my post. If you are, please do. It is YOU who are saying nothing, since you have said nothing back to me. You cannot say something is “riddled with obvious fallacies” and not even bring up one of them.
-.- so why are you on here? Go back to America or England our Austraila where they kill people for No reason, rape old ladies, have animals that can kill in you in a flash and most of all rape and kidnap innocent children and live us we disgraceful to 21st century Islanders Alone….
We are too uneducated to match up to what you’re country can do… because we are dumb like that. Sorry we don’t like to stick our noses in people business like you’re country does sorry we don’t make nuclear weapons where we can hurt our own selves sorry we are not fighting war. Sorry we don’t bully people to death, sorry we don’t dress like sluts when we are 9 sorry we don’t brainwash people with stupidness.
Why because we are just dumb and uneducated and unsmart and unreal like that
and most of all sorry for not being WHITE!
How does being tolerant mean being white? See, you’re just a racist. I mentioned nothing about race in my post; race has nothing to do with anything I said. But you had to bring it up, right? Anyone who believes something different must be a different skin color–wow. Just like I said….
Moreover, are you sane? Go back to those countries where those things happen–what? So those continents are cesspools of violence, according to you, and yet do you see the majority of their populations asking for gays to either be laughed at or killed? Of course not. America is the worst offender in that respect, but America is still significantly more tolerant than the islands in general.
And where do you get this nonsense from–dressing like sluts? Nuclear weapons? Brainwashing? Really? You don’t see Dominicans dressing like American rappers, the men sagging their pants and the women in clothes that barely fit them? Moreover, the fact that you are arguing because someone is gay means YOU have been brainwashed by ancient barbaric ideas. Bully people to death? Really? Look at all the violence being suggested, and you’re telling ME about bullying?
And what makes you think I am in any way white, American, English, or Australian? You might be surprised to learn I am not completely any of those.
@ Retards… but a a why waste your time ranting if we’re so backward and uneducated? You want to shove YOUR lifestyle down others throat? I’m no advocate for violence against people because of their lifestyle choice, but because YOU RETARDS wallow in gay activities, which by your rantings there is no denial you are gay, or dabble in homesexuality/lesbianism/beastilty/sodomy etc etc etc you mad a people. Pay chou tan!
@ Retards. You are indeed retarded. You are oh so wrong! What is wrong with you? You have a severe problem which needs rectifying. You may very well need counseling. For your own good, make a change for the better. You may very well need counseling. This will aid you in writing civilly to your fellow people. It is something you need to learn.
uguys are just nasty
i hope ur gay and not having sex wit women to make it look like ur straight….maybe u shud distance urself from the ppl u hang around if they have so much anger towards the gay community.
Of course he is having sex with women, he said that they are on the down low, I feel sorry that poor woman or women you are dealing with.
well roseau guys well known for buggerin for bike and cloths and they wanna play badman and they pushin poopoo allu buggarers must not try to use dno to promote allu buttom no one wants to know who is gay or not allu gay people it good to tie u all up over a clif and set u all on fire and throw u all dowwwwwwwwn the clif u all are A disgrACE TO THE HUMAN RACE MOREFIRE PAN U ALL dont try corrupt jah creation jah said is man n woman not man and manman
How do you all assume they are Roseau Guys? where in the article is that stated? Roseau guys/girls are also “country” people migrating into town eh.. you know what they say about fingers pointing back. One thing I have long discoverd, many people who preach violence about gays are themselves on the DL or fighting the demon and to cover their bad habits they rant and rave and threat!
Many people who go out of their way to ridicule and insult others for not defending gay lifestyle are in the closet fretting themselves. Either way don’t go over the cliff, be who you are and ease up.
Well based on the large number of comments, it seems like a topic well liked by Dominicans.
Bella u even giving advice on tht too.. but what i hearing there nuh…. Young man what is wrong with you???? If u are ashamed of it and don’t want anyone to know means that its is wrong and you know it… So weather he putting up a front or not both of you are hypocrites.. so much nice belle woman Dominica have and is in boom boom u want to play???.. Jayzee!!! We need a spiritual cleansing in this place.. ti Dominique ka touner Sodom and Gamora… Bella u sure dem letters dere for real or somebody tht makin dem tings up…. papa met!!!!!!!!!1
allu sure is not gaynproud dat write that article hhmmmm lol,,,,, well well i don’t have no advice for gay folks cause i don’t condone or lead dat lifestyle,,,,all i can say is get closer to God sooner rather than later,,,,,not adam n steve but adam n eve,,,,,its already bad we all sin but its worse when u commit a life of abomination
all those dat disagree with they a soooooooo GAY
Wow…I like your meaning of GAY
Yes is me that write it. Mouth of the south I am fed up with you making fun of gay men yet when we together your legs spreading and going higher than any woman I know. To make it worse you have a big mouth and know how to use it better than anyone I know. So I think you need to stop this thuggish behaviour and be real. Be real with who and what you are. You do not have to put out business outside but stop making fun of the same gay men you want to have threesomes with.
Ehbeh M.O.T.S they put your business outside…..L.m.f.a.o
His making fun of them because he knows it’s wrong
WHOAYYYYYYYYYYYYY…. MI RORO…,.,…… M.O.T.S. …. hahahaha…. Mi DAYBAR!!!…zor wivay denye’ boute!!…. they put ur bizness outside wi doudou!! hahahaha… pa maylay nuh…. mama ke’ toujour la! hahahahaahahahaaaaaaaaa…..
but it is true you know… the same men that do that are the same ones that UNDERCOVER! …. and somepeople just need to see to believe….
Ban mwen allay manje’ broth back-n-neck mwen tone!!! mi blaggggggggggggg lolz
nah ! stop using my name in that story! I am not in Mouth of south and Gaynproud story!I am not judging I am just not part of it! Whoever is doing thats top it.
Mouth I am happy they put your business outside ! Is in my tail you behind. I tried tell you I doh want you! Nasty old man!
I hope that you know that gay or how ever you want to put in is an abomination in the sight of Yahweh and on less you have repented of your ways, you and all your friends are going to burn in Hell.
that is just plain nasty, get you life on track and stop interfering with the same sex.
I really don’t understand why guys do stuff like that.
judge not lest ye be judged!
it might seem hypocritical to you that i’m quoting something from the bible considering what i’m about to say…
but as someone who was a raised a christian in church every saturday and a female, i always wondered why i was attracted to other females.. it not like i could control the feelings as a child.. i’m not a full lesbian as i am in a committed heterosexual relationship and i am attracted and do get turned on by my partner..but i get turned on faster by the sight of females than males..
i always wondered and still do wonder that if it was so wrong why was i ‘born’ with these feelings.. why should ‘fire bun’ gays when they cant control the feelings they have..they were born this way…i say leave the judging up to god..if it is a sin as ppl say it is then god forgive me and other ppl who have no control over their feelings for ppl of the same sex. cause god knows i’ve tried to ‘turn off’ these feelings but i cant..
i think its all up to people what tehy want to do. if homosexuality is a sin and they believe so then they will feel the way they feel but try to stay away. The lowest among us and those that withstand temptation will receive a crown in heaven. its all up to people what choices they make. but i will NEVER judge them becasue it is not my place
Hehehehehee Dominicans allu too foolish..which Thug guy refers to himself as Thugish??? Boss where ever allu getting them ideas from try to modify it to at least sound posibly true nah!!! The same ppl that he ….is the same that we have threesome with…boss in Dominica the man would have bawl out and last night we was %^^ing..hehehehehehe. Ya right Bella.
Which thug refers to himself as thugish? A gay thug I guess…
i agree di bullers wuda done say oh u wasnt sayin that wen we was borgaing
fire burn all batty man , best advise to u is stop and give God ur life cause its just wrong wrong wrong
bella even tellin u confront ur padner bella is a sacre borgara to it seems , should be advisein u to stop before u get ill and die , also its against Gods will
who knows maybe it have more among u all that is gay to, cause alot of them that playing bad boy and riding bikes is that they doing, we all know that smelling poopoo!!!
hahahahahah ……((((ddddddiiiiiiingggggggg!!!!!!!!!!! ))))))
IS TRUE!
yep i agree .. dey playin macho and bad man .. cursein u and ting .. but in de night a man with the money butterin them .. we in dominica all know the beff on who butterin who .. and what dat makin it worst them man still actin like they most
lmao….wooooy
buttering di hole lol
true true
I am lez and I see that all the time…
i’m a Lezbo too
lesbians are more accepted than the gays though…smh
Who is the hotest Lezbo in DA today? take a guess. I heard who it is. Have you? She just broke away and became the biggest Lezbo in town. She’s in position and have been wronged by her former lover and boss in a previous ocupation. Take a guess.Popular around the fine arts etc. Do women become gay after a string of love lailures? Or are they genetically XXY?
I would say jean Monroe but she is no more died many yes ago.Anyone can guess who replaced jean?
zor pyes pa right ni gay ni “lezbo”
loooool
Wow if I were to express my true feelings on these dudes I’d have to stop use the name Anti-hate.
God made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve, nuff said…
I see for once Bella kept it short and sweet, and she is right, you need to sit him down and speak to him, let him know that it bothers you, he can keep up appreances without throwing insults too. I also think it’s a bad idea to let the guys know that you are gay…I’m not sure what kind of people they are, but seeing that they react so harshly to gay people passing by may cause them to threaten your life for hanging out with them and now causing people to think that they too might be gay.
So talk to your friend see how it goes..if he doesn’t stop then just back away from the group a bit..still show your face but do your own thing. Being straight and finding the right person to be with is hard enough…So I know it must be difficult for you trying to come to terms with it all…
Sometimes you may think a guy is gay and he isn’t and you could end up in all kind of problems but just take it one day at a time. Try lady friend too..LOL
ou seem a little on the other side of the world too .Even before I saw your name .I had to scroll and then saw you were a gay fan lol ! obvious i guess.You need ice cubes up ur rear hole too. at a rate of 5 cubes/minute.
VERY FUNNY Not hot papa, I’m not gay at all but why hate nah..they not people to then and trust that you would know what I need…guess you talking from experience …keep taking it up your ass in secret…DAMN IDIOT!
gay fan u and me can roll like best friends cuz i agree. they are people too. we dont have to agree out right with what they do. but god said to love thy brother and that i shall do. I shall love everyone…gay or not gay.
gay is gay pray they dont get to know u bogara
They will just borga him more ravanously lol!
Are you a dominican “Don’t Judge Me? The other fella self…He shouldn’t even be the loudest. Mr. Not easy..Oh oh.Stop it..Do not expose yourselves it will just wreak havoc especially with ur buddies. They will feel violated as u hang out with them although it would be a good lesson taught. But a lot of livesan reps could be ruined as a result of exposure. Think about it.
You sound kind of gay too.What your name? i hope you not a staffer/owner of a newspaper online?
Being gay does not hinder any individual from doing their job and doing it well. Gay or not the
advise was valid!
Thanks Valiente…
You sound like the guy that is the loudest. Seems u been in that.I’m a girl by the way.
I’m not surprised- it is always the gay ones whose voices are the loudest and who are always quick to judge others…. Here it is straight from the horses mouth….
my friend just admit to them that you are gay ok and you will feel free and lighter.
talking from experience Hot?
Hot may not be speaking from experience, but I am. There has been no greater feeling
in the world for me than knowing that my friends, family and co workers have embraced and
accepted me as a openly gay man. Their loved has not ceased and never will. The few persons
that may shun me are those individuals whose friendship and love were not of quality, and their
presence is not missed!