My boyfriend cheated and is having secret Facebook conversations

Dear BellaI am a 27-year-old lady who has been in a relationship for the past 5 years, with a guy who is one year and a few months younger than me. It was a wonderful two first years together. I loved this guy more than I ever thought I’d have ever been able to love someone who is not blood related to me. I believe the feeling was mutual. We did a lot together, basically everything.

But in the third year together things started changing.

I am a very attractive lady. Lots of guys are after me. And in our third year together I became very popular on the island because of my participation in an important event. My boyfriend cheated, and after confrontation he admitted to the act. We decided to remain together since he explained to me that I was so popular and he was insecure thinking that I would leave him for someone better.

We moved pass that though, because I assured him that I loved him and want to be with him, not anyone else. Things started getting back to normal when he was caught again. At that point, I decided to leave.

He assured me that if I broke up with him, he will kill his self, and I was scared that he would, so I thought if he is willing to work us out, let’s give it another chance. We stayed together. He has been caught several times after and I felt trapped since I care about him so much and would hate to see harm happen to him. With all the hurt and all the tears, I chose him and remained. He assured me that everything will be alright and I hoped it would.

Few days ago, I got his face book password and for some reason, I searched his inbox. I was shocked to see the kind of conversations he held secretly in his inbox. I know I’m wrong for going there, but I not yet regret I did. He holds constant dirty conversations with girls across the world including girls from my little hamlet that I come in contact with on a daily basis. I am so hurt and so disappointed.

I told him that it’s over. But I feel so weak. He told me that it’s a phase he is going through and it’s his new year’s resolution to sell his phone and do other stuff that will make his life a simple one again. And he is assuring me that we will be happy together again. But this time I am not convinced.

Bella, I need your advice. And if you are able to recommend anyone for professional help, I will greatly appreciate that, for I am on the verge of losing my head.

Thank you.

SAD

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Dear SAD,

If you are not convinced, then let that be your final decision.

There is an old saying which goes “one bitten, twice shy” and this is probably what you are feeling right now.

It appears that your boyfriend thinks that he can do his thing, give you some sweet talk and everything will be alright. I believe that he is taking advantage of the soft side of you, your weakness.

If you are convinced that things are not working out, then move on. It’s all in your hands since you know what you have been through.

Good luck.

Bella

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79 Comments

  1. Makayla
    October 8, 2014

    My boyfriend also cheating on me with his ex on fb n he said sorry he still like her but he gave me hugs n kisses i still think he will cheat i dont know waht to do but i love him :( :evil: :cry: COLIN&MAKAYLA

  2. ITDAD
    June 14, 2013

    I hate to say this, but quit enabling this guy. Send him on his way no understanding that him living or dying is not your responsibility. You deserve better than always having to look over your shoulder to see who is going to get this guy next. By your actions, he can continue to “sew his wild oats” and come back whining to you saying that it is just a phase, and you will forgive him. I am not criticizing you. You are going to be a treasure to the right guy. You always try to see the best in a relationship no matter what the actions were or are. You will never grow into the lady you were created to be if you have to keep looking over your shoulder. I am not perfect in my relationship with my wife, but I live by one precept. If at the end of the day I have not allowed my wife to grow, whether it is providing her safety, security, or complete confidence in our relationship, then I have failed. If she is not better with me than without me, then I have failed miserably as a man and husband. You need to find a guy that will be as good to you as you are to him. Do not just settle for a male, but find a real man that can be faithful to you.

  3. sweet
    June 4, 2013

    MOVE ON

  4. sad
    March 26, 2013

    i read all the comments. thanks for your advice everyone. but i also wish to add that bella, you suck!

  5. NeeCee
    February 1, 2013

    Hmmmmm….. These guys always come with this ‘i’m gonna kill myself crap for real’……. It happened to me a year ago. I walked in on boyfriend of 6 months having sex with a woman that called herself my bestfriend in our own home, i forgave them both…. The second time, i caught him having sex with my stepsister at a family gathering… I’m sure some of you can imagine how i must have felt… Humiliated and hurt! When i told my boyfriend that i was leaving, he was devastated and said that he would kill me and kill himself, i was so scared that i stayed…… But you know what, one day i just built up some courage and dumped him and never turned back, today i’m a successful lawyer with a loving husband and a beautiful 3 month old baby girl…. And my ex…. hmmmmm…. Long story…. But he’s still alive!… Smh!…. So, my girl, my advice to you is to leave his sorry-excuse-for-a man self and move on!!!!There are alot of good men out there, you might just have to search a lil’ hard!

  6. shygirl
    January 31, 2013

    Why do men always come with dat cheep shot…I going to kill myself…smh..my x told me the same thing when i decided to leave..guess what it six months later and he is still alive……smh and i have moved on..do not fall for those cheap shots….you deserve better…

  7. ja
    January 29, 2013

    dump him… if he dies he dies…either way you’ll be free and he wont cheat on you ever again

  8. sweetheart
    January 25, 2013

    well ever thing happens in life for a reason maybe this was the way god was telling u he is not the right guy for u u will find someone that really loves you and will never cheat on u remember rome wasnt built in one day :)

  9. Annonymoustoyou
    January 25, 2013

    As the old Kenny Rogers song says, you got to know when to walk away, know when to run.

  10. AmazingFace
    January 24, 2013

    Girlfriend, he will kill himself??? Well you should have told him well i will be attending your funeral with my new boo…bye boo!!

  11. January 23, 2013

    Anonymous January 23, 2013 So everyone should be married and settled by age 27 or younger? Stupessss–

    @Anonymouse: I do not think that is what Francis Chicago was implying; you have completely missed the message as you ignorantly go after the messeanger with your negative judgment.

    Muslim_Always January 23, 2013 She is not asking for a bible thumping preaching, she wants practical advice. It’s 2012 Francis Chicago, these methods do not work anymore except for people like you—

    @Muslim Always: In the first place you are one year behind, this is 2013. And it is only your opinion that the preaching of God’s in the Holy Bible do not work at this time.

    I am sure that opinion of yours does not stand–because you are dead to the wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and awareness the “Living God” of Love, in Spirit and Truth, who give Life to those who seek Him. He does not know you either–and that is a tragic fate for you.

    You are right to say “except for people like Francisco Chicago”, for Jesus told us that “the door of the Gate which leads to Eternal Life is a narrow door; and so, only a few will enter that door” Francis Chicago is one among the few whom Jesus spoke about, along with those who understood his message above.

    Compare the thumbs rating he received and you should also understand what Jesus said in that quote here. Nonetheless everyone is responsible to give an account to God, at the “White Throne Judgment Seat” That account could turn out to be fatal for most people–they will have earned the judgment they receive from God.

    wat January 23, 2013 wat u mean at 27 she still talking about boyfriend …wait so she supposed to be married with children already???pffff give me a break!. and yes is better she go through this now unmarried than if she was married and had children with him—

    @Wat; Your argument makes no sense whatsoever! It would have been better for you to keep quiet, if you had nothing else to say.

    Francis Chicago simply explained to that person identified as “SAD” that people who love are born of God. Yes indeed! They are children of God Almighty, who is the Father in Spirit and Truth–those who are born of God received that Life because they accepted God’s Son–His Person of Love, who is Jesus Christ.

    Those do their work of Love as perfect as their Father in Heaven, who is Love. That work of Love would include the relationship between a man and woman who is bonded in Love–which is Life in them.

    God gives them peace and joy in return, not keep them in a “prison cell” like the chamber of doom and darkness, which is exactly where SAD in the story above is lockked up through that relationship with her so-called boyfriend.

    The advise of Francis Chicago, is one of the best advice, here on this comment board. But what human being can understand “these truths” through their carnal mind?

    And so: “Let those who have ears hear whst the Spirit is saying”

    • $$$$
      January 24, 2013

      I’m sorry people but you all have COMPLETELY straied from the point! I agree with Muslim always the girl dosen’t need a preaching right bout now she needs to make a choise that would benifit her and not one that will keep her in that messed up situ, however, there is nothing wrong in turning to god for guidence.

      Stop attacking each other and just do like I did and tell the girl to dump the prick cause that’s really what she SHOULD do!

    • Tut-Tut
      January 24, 2013

      Is it remotely possible or too much to ask of you to stick to a topic and stop labouring people with your self righteous beliefs? Ok we get it you are Jesus wife but geez can you have a conversation without imposing yourself and your belief on others and straying from the topic in so doing? I have serious issues with your type who think they have a monopoly on religion, bible and morality!

  12. lol
    January 23, 2013

    the ultimate goal of being in a relationship is to eventually get married; so he cheated once, twice, thrice, mice (many times) and you think he will stop when you all get married? well that is when you will get hells because you will be well trapped in a marriage that you will think came from hell….girl bail out while it is still early: that’s my best advice

  13. Krazy ko ko
    January 23, 2013

    who is this attractive young lady that is so popular,…….. well girl u need to pull up your socks, bcause you better than that to have a lil boy doing you that. :-x
    A LOT OF YOUNG LADIES IN DOMINICA SUFFER LIKE THAT AND THEY DON’T WANT ANYONE FINDIN OUT ABOUT IT, SOMETIMES THEY AFRAID OF WHAT THE OUTCOME WILL BE BUT AT THE END THE SUN WILL SHINE AGAIN

  14. KIKI
    January 23, 2013

    well said.. couldn’t have said it any better.. am thinkin that she’s maybe pass or present carnival queen so she need to do whats best for her. DUMP HIS LYING CHEATING GIRL.

  15. $$$$
    January 23, 2013

    Miss Sad I would really want to feel sorry for you but I can’t cause you are just being silly! I mean seriously my girl! The man cheated on you and when you tell the little A/W that you’re leaving him he tells you his going to kill himself! REALLY…

    Sweetie if I were you and my bboyfriend told me that he was gonna kill himself after I told him I’m leaving his cheating A I would tell him plain and straight that Nassifie has rat poison for cheaper and they sell rope to… Or I can always direct you to the nearest cliffside so he can jummp off it!

    It makes no sense that you stay in a relationship that you’re the only one in it love! That dude does not love you and if you are really as attractive as you clame to be you should not have to put yourself through that none sense and be taking that guys B/S!

    Put yourslf first you desire to be loved by somebody who is worthy of you and inturn give you love to someone that will treat you like a queen!

    Dump that good for nothing A/W!

    • student
      January 23, 2013

      True dat. I am not in favor of suicide but I would have given him a similar response. This guy was just playing her all along. simple as that.

  16. Hmm
    January 23, 2013

    it will never work if he cheats on your more than once.or visi versa…trust me…kill what self.please at 27yrs you should know thats the lamest trick in the book men especially use…smh. well leave him and see if a week pass and he still alive.lol.no man that cheating not gonna kill theirself if their woman leave because they will just continue to mess around with who ever they were cheating with in the first place…so don’t be fooled by the talks that they got.use your head and walk out…

  17. Too Hard Too Long
    January 23, 2013

    This is a case in which you have to ease yourself out of the relationship. Allow your love to turn into indifference.

    Limit your time together and your communication bit by bit until it is almost nonexistent; until you reach the point where there are no texts, no calls, no visits. When you do communicate, talk about the weather, what’s on the news, or just say hello. At that point, he will move on by himself and so will you.

    Love is a wonderful thing but it can also be a trap when you are in a hurtful relationship. If you are as wonderful as you think you are, the right person will come along. Even then, it is still a chance. Regardless, don’t be afraid to love.

  18. Mrs
    January 23, 2013

    Stupes…just pure comess…I sorry!!

  19. joy
    January 23, 2013

    He assured me that if I broke up with him, he will kill his self, and I was scared that he would, so I thought if he is willing to
    us out, let’s give it another chance?????

    “He told me that it’s a phase he is going through and it’s his new year’s resolution to sell his phone and do other stuff that will make his life a simple one again????”

    So wait a minute, for this guy to be faithful , he has to sell his phone? Woman I say leave that man! he is way too insecure and taking about kill his self if you leave him? stupes!

    Anyway who talks about killing himself can kill you!!!! Be ware of that! he not valuing his life, so what that make you think he will value yours? smh, stupes!

  20. NatureBoy
    January 22, 2013

    If you truly want professional assistance, please call Jehovah’s Witnesses at 4484350 or 4490625 or 4455262 and request a free, no obligation Bible Study.

    You will receive the best professional help ever – an accurate knowledge of God and his purposes, and how he can help you live up to his righteous standards and cope with life’s difficulties successfully.

    Meantime, please look up John 17:3 and Rev.21:4,5. Very comforting texts.

    • DANZIGER
      January 23, 2013

      One day u will learn how to address someone. There is a time for everything under the sun and a way to slove each problem. So pa melangèe coco et zabricot.

      • NatureBoy
        January 24, 2013

        Your remarks make no sense at all, Danziger. You either completely missed the problems expressed and the solution offered, or simply want to criticize a practical solution that you yourself failed to offer.

        Do you have a better solution, or did you just come here to read gossip and offer shallow remarks on other’s comments?

      • Anonymous
        January 24, 2013

        Your bias against the Jehovah’s Witnesses is so glaring that it makes u talk pure nonsense.

        Did u read all d other comments? So many of them offered harshness, cynicism, sarcasm, blame-game, or non-solutions, yet u only chose one that offered a Biblical solution and scriptures, to criticise, obviously just because NatureBoy recommended calling the JW’s! While u urself offered NOTHING but senseless phrases!!

        Also, all direct comments are assumed to automticaly address the letter writer, so what’s ur point about ‘learn to address…’? Again, most of the comments use this assumption, yet u chose to single out NatureBoy’s comment. Do u understand what u read? And do u respect God’s word? Please erase ur bias, and if you can’t offer any helpful comment, just keep quiet.

  21. Francis Chicago
    January 22, 2013

    At 27 years of age you still talking about boyfriend.But as many as received him,to them he gave the right to become children of God,who were born,not of blood,nor of the will of flesh,nor the will of man but God.No miss representation no condemnation got to have satisfaction we can go on and on saying the same thing the great Lizavier4Jesus tell you how you can be a slave and how you can get out not to be a slave for Satan the devil.

    • January 23, 2013

      Anen!

    • Anonymous
      January 23, 2013

      So everyone should be married and settled by age 27 or younger? Stupessss

      • Francis Chicago
        January 23, 2013

        (Anonymous)If mankind do things in God way not man ways definitely it would be a better world.

      • shygirl
        January 31, 2013

        No. A person should get married when they are ready for the commitment. Marriage have nothing to do with age. It is about the love that the both individuals share for each other and they know not think they know that they will forsake all others and love that person until death do them part not divorce….Its about time we start going back to the basic of life..BIBLE

    • Muslim_Always
      January 23, 2013

      She is not asking for a bible thumping preaching, she wants practical advice.

      It’s 2012 Francis Chicago, these methods do not work anymore except for people like you.

      • Francis Chicago
        January 23, 2013

        Muslim-always)Just want to let her no about the armor of God principalities.For if you sin willfully after you have received the knowledge of the truth,there no longer remains a sacrifice for sin,but a certain fearful expectation of judgments.,

    • wat
      January 23, 2013

      wat u mean at 27 she still talking about boyfriend :twisted: …wait so she supposed to be married with children already???pffff give me a break!. and yes is better she go through this now unmarried than if she was married and had children with him…

      • Francis Chicago
        January 23, 2013

        (Wat)Absolutely yes it is a principle from God to stay away from fornication.

      • Anonymous
        January 24, 2013

        Following the Bible’s way in the first case IS the best way. Avoids many problems.

    • Tri-State Beauty
      January 23, 2013

      @ Francis Chicago what should a 27 year old be talking about? Being a slave to some bible toting poquit with 9 kids and waiting on his pay check and control? Are relationship problems unique to non-married and non-bible thumpers? In this day and age a 27 year old should be exploring the universe and building his/her career. People like you are the ones who turn people away because of your self righteous stance on everything that lacks practical appeal. She can read all bible verses and pray all day if she doesn’t face the reality she’s living it worthless!

    • Tut-Tut
      January 24, 2013

      Did you have sex or even kiss a woman before marriage? Have you done anything even today that would be considered sinful? You see where I’m going? Some of you are so darn perfect and full of it with your religious overbearing self it’s a turn off. Fornication is a sin, no less than murder, lying, imposing your will on others, being judgemental etc. What is wrong with her being 27 and unmarried? No wonder the number of divorces in the court are at a record high amongst protestants and so called christians. Stop judging people, live and let live. She didn’t ask you for spiritual advice,do you consult your bible before you buy rice and sugar? sakway toneh man.

  22. lee
    January 22, 2013

    sorry for your sadness :cry: :cry: :cry: :( :( :( :oops: :oops:

  23. (.) (.)
    January 22, 2013

    Singing….La la la la la….la la. He cheated on you once and he is going to cheat again. You pardoned him and took him back under your wings because he came up with some lame excuses each time he cheated. He is going to cheat again and again and you are going to cry and feel sad and miserable and he is going to say that he’s gonna kill himself if you leave him. YOU NEED TO STAND UP TO THIS JACK …TELL HIM WHAT YOU FEEL…KICK HIM TO THE CURB then you wait and see how long it will take before he kills himself if he does.

  24. cricket fan
    January 22, 2013

    all men cheat don,t matter how much they say they love you they can,t help themselves don,t ever put your trust in a man

    • shortboy
      January 22, 2013

      women worste, because them women the guys cheatting with have their man too

  25. Tri-State Beauty
    January 22, 2013

    Ah this thing called love that keeps the human spirit in tights and slits! Young lady love yourself enough to save yourself. You are not confused you know what’s in your head and spirit to do you are just scared of the unknown. A breakup can be paralyzing but also very liberating. You have allowed yourself to become a rescue center. It may be time for closing shop but only you know how many more hours you want to stare at the fading candelight

    • Admirer
      January 24, 2013

      I hope you keeping warm and nice my beautiful black Tri-State Beauty. It’s freezing and I know it’s at least 10 degrees colder for you.

      “Ah this thing called love that keeps the human spirit in tights and slits..” ou bon pou kow pavway!You have a way with words too wi.

      My eyes adore you, though I never laid a hand on you my eyes adore you.. a birdie tells me you love this song :-P so this will be our wedding theme song.

  26. January 22, 2013

    I love him! I love him! I love him! But he is cheating on me! He is doing this bad thing, that bad thing, and the other bad thing against me–O dear, O dear!

    I have said it many times before, and I am going to say it one more time that: “Love and human affection is not the same!” Love is the Life in us from our Creator, who wanted us to live in harmony with Him—in the first place.

    In other words, Love is of Eternal Spirit, who is Almighty God. That is the reason the Bible tells us: “God is Love”.

    Eternal Spirit, Love, came to the Earth in the flesh, the Man who is Jesus Christ, to put His Love on display to the world.

    It is only from Him that we human beings can have Love, but He gives this Love to us, so that we might put His Primary Nature, on display to the world, through our words and deed—according the attitude and conducts of Jesus Christ.

    And so boyfriend and girlfriend should turn into husband and wife, as Love bonds those two people together, in other to sanctify or cleanse the flesh, for the sake of intimate relationship that those two people will share with each other because of “Love” in them.

    Without the bonding, sanctification, or cleansing of the couple—man and woman—who goes into intimate relationship, that sharing is simply human affection and lust, which is here today and gone tomorrow, in search of a new prey for self gratification—one way or the other.

    The message in this article above, has nothing to do with “Love” or else after five years, SAD, would not have to identify herself as such; claiming disappointment and uncertainty. For Love in us is perfect “as our Father in Heaven is perfect”–and that in quote here, is the Word of Jesus Christ, not mine.

    This relationship is nothing but a “prison cell”–the chamber of doom of darkness– which Satan locks us up in, after we embrace the wicked games that he enters our lives to play with him. Unfortunately the majority of us, especially the younger persons, will fall in that wicked trap.

    So SAD, my advice to you is that, after 5 years in a relationship, you would not have to say “I am not convinced” if that relationship of yours was “ESSENCED” with the “Sweet Smelling Aroma”, Love, which is from God through Jesus Christ.
    My mom and dad had me, their first child, when they were 19 and 20, which means that they would have been together before that age–my dad is one year older than my mom. They are still together today, married for 50 years this month, January 2013, with 8 grown daughters and two grown sons. That is what I call the bonding of Love in two people.

    So SAD, show Satan, who is now using your boyfriend, against your peace and joy from God, that he cannot win.

    Let Jesus renew that weakness of yours with the force of His Love, for you; and use that force in you to unbolt the door of that dark chamber–which is the relationship you now maintain with your cheating boyfriend–and take off like a horse in gallop! Just go for the victory against Satan, which you will have in Jesus Christ.

    • Pied Piper
      January 24, 2013

      DNO should block ppl like you, give you a word limit…stupes!!!

      • January 25, 2013

        @Pied Piper January 24, 2013

        DNO will block me by God’s will not by your carnal wish.

        But what is most important is that DNO administration is not as carnal and dead as you are, so your wish is in vain. That is just too bad for you!

        And those goes for the rest of you, you know who are! I pity all of you, I really do!

  27. 1979
    January 22, 2013

    facebook NICE WI!!

    mark is LAUGHING ALLLLLLLL THE WAY TO THE BANK…..

    So to did the serpent profit for the naivety of
    Adam and Eve…..

    he came as a serpent in the garden

    now he comes as mark selling FACEBOOK for all those that like story, Met veyeh, and the opportunity to live a double life…

    GOOD LUCK with facebook!

    LOLOLOLOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

  28. hopefull
    January 22, 2013

    a rat is rat

  29. roof top
    January 22, 2013

    all of them in the same mess like you but are asking you to move on and they are in there mess look up and do what your mind tell you to do look out of the box have a good day.

  30. beholder
    January 22, 2013

    You must love yourself first. Then find someone new who agrees with your feelings of self-worth. A cheater who threatens to kill himself has little self worth of his own to share with you. He can not be proud of his actions.

  31. Reader
    January 22, 2013

    Sometimes you just have to chuck things up to experience, pack up and move on. The longer you stay the more vested you become. Sure – it will hurt like a %$@% but over time, it gets better. Imagine if after all that he dumps you for someone else. Just saying …

  32. ay ay
    January 22, 2013

    I swore I wasn’t going to comment but THAT FIRST PARAGRAPH GOT ME ALL EXCITED! LMAO…. Too many things wrong with that paragraph Madame sad!

    8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O “I am a 27-year-old lady who has been in a relationship for the past 5 years, with a guy who is one year and a few months younger than me. It was a wonderful two first years together. I loved this guy more than I ever thought I’d have ever been able to love someone who is not blood related to me. I believe the feeling was mutual. We did a lot together, basically everything.”

    I didn’t read the rest yet so i just wanted to pin point from the first paragraph alone….. First off, saying you’re a 27 yr old lady, although distinguishing yourself as a lady is a great and marvelous thing and not a girl, It is also just weird that you continued by measuring your age to someone one year younger and thus, that sentence made you seem to be representing yourself as a 50 plus year old.
    NEXT.. we expect that he is not blood related to you or else you will need some psychological help, were you expecting to love someone of blood relative that way? smh.. that sentence uh uh..pa la!
    NEXT..basically everything? wow.. come to think of it I can start to imagine the things you two did together. on another note, that’s where you all go wrong in relationships. DO NOT DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER! That is one of the reasons why things get so boring with relationships.. especially if one of the partners do not want to go ahead and try new things then its plain and simple BORING!!! and three years of that is repetition technique you have been using for your advertisement/relationship…

    that was just my two cents on the first paragraph, see you next time (in my queen contestant voice)..on “BELLLLLLAAAAAAAAAA” :lol: :lol:

  33. Irie
    January 22, 2013

    All nice woman pull up with vieux kaltay man. It seems vieux neg in style? Meanwhile is a press for nice guys like me to get a serious woman. I mean, when you young, you does do foolishness, but mister past 25, he doh have sense then? Chick leave mister alone in his comess eh before he bring disease for you. Look me there you know, I’m still single, check me :wink:

    • ca mem
      January 23, 2013

      And sometimes the nice decent ones just not ready yet. they dont even know what they want in life. they not ready to be d head of relationships when given the opportunity

      • ca mem
        January 23, 2013

        the nice decent men.

  34. la...terr
    January 22, 2013

    hmmmm…hmmmm…go and see the douche bag aint got nothing to his name…maybe he driving someone else ride, wearing clothes you bought for him and cellphone too! smh @ these boys!

  35. Vip
    January 22, 2013

    Popular Event…HMMMMMM…Queen show or some singing competition….:D :mrgreen:

  36. mahaut
    January 22, 2013

    Dear Sad
    A man will treat you according to how you allow him to treat you, and since you care about his well-being soo much and not your, you either shut up or do something sensible about the situation, it is that simple. He tested you the first time and now he knows how weak you are, it’s time to play cause she ain’t going anywhere.

  37. opinionated
    January 22, 2013

    whose sanity is more important??? at the end of the day, you need to learn to think with your head and not with your heart.

  38. Anonymous
    January 22, 2013

    Live thé Man. And go ok That to much 4 u to handle à chester remains 1 ok and all i CAN say to u when u Will live him u Will feel réal Happy and lové Will Côme ur Way, we are all imperfect but Thérès That 2much trust me 2 much

  39. Anonymous
    January 22, 2013

    whose sanity is more important?? at the end of the day, u need to learn to think with your head and not with your heart.

  40. grell
    January 22, 2013

    move on he will keep on doing it.

  41. January 22, 2013

    Mat 19:29 And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name’s sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life.

  42. Hmmm
    January 22, 2013

    I totally understand where she is coming from. I’ve been through this before and this happens when you love someone inside out no matter what…but he didn’t love her.
    Darling at some point, we have to move on and look for better for ourselves and stop thinking of pleasing the people who constantly hurt us. I know its difficult but leave him alone and when her comes crying to you, let him know that you deserve better. Hold your nose up, wear some stilletoes n step out on that ish! You deserve better!! Great luck dear!

  43. January 22, 2013

    WHO DOESN’T !!! SUP :-P :-P :lol: :lol: :lol:

  44. Lovely
    January 22, 2013

    EBEH NOR? YOU STILL HERE HOW SWEET IS THAT. YOU WERE TOLD THAT YOU ARE POPULAR SO HE IS STICKING AROUND, BUT HE DOES NOT REALLY WANT YOU. TIME TO MOVE ON GIRL AND CONTINUE DOING YOU.

  45. Deborah Peters
    January 22, 2013

    young lady get out! these men never change he will continue to make excuses each time he is caught then you will go and get married to him and your life will be miserable.

  46. Suki
    January 22, 2013

    hmm….

  47. REAL NIGGA
    January 22, 2013

    if its for queen you are going up, holla @ me, i’ll make you feel like a queen!

  48. gwada angel
    January 22, 2013

    a cheater remaind a cheater move on my girl but i think on 100° of men 95 cheates so it hard to trust men

  49. En Ba La
    January 22, 2013

    Young Lady dump this guy and work on your self esteem and self worth and goals in life if you had none make a list of what you would like to accomplish in life and find out how to get there and begin the journey.

    Any relationship which drains you emotionally is not worth it.

    You cannot trust this guy why have yourself in this bind and you are not married to the guy you are 27 you are an adult.

    Listen to the song Already Gone by the Eagles lol

  50. 2cute
    January 22, 2013

    LOL GIRL U BEGINNING TO LOVE MR MORE THAN YOURSELF MAN? D MAN ASELF TALKING ABOUT KILLING HIMSELF ? TELL HIM DIE NA !

    HIS NEW YEAR RESOLUTION IS TO SELL HIS PHONE AND YOU THINK IT WILL STOP THERE ? HUH?…

    THATS TOO MUCH STORY THIS AFTERNOON THERE FOR ME PAPA LOL

  51. The1
    January 22, 2013

    But who say i want to hear her sad story ner… the lots of guys that are after you are what i call those kind of guys.. and if he want to kill his self let him… would i kill myself for a girl? Hell no that’s stupidity when he kill his self the girls is alive and has a new man he is what i would call ………….. I can’t say. Another is that you had no right to enter the guys Facebook you don’t do such a thing.. Nuff has been said cause i would take a whole page if i had to really comment..

    I am The1 Remember the name bringing the facts to dominicans… Any questions just ask

    • mahaut
      January 22, 2013

      Stop being so insensitive and have some empathy. Clearly the young lady is asking for some help. The bible says seek and you shall receive

  52. terr
    January 22, 2013

    lmao look drama for man

  53. me
    January 22, 2013

    Bella, the young lady asked for ur recommendation for someone who can give her some professional help…

  54. cece
    January 22, 2013

    Leave the man. You not a rag. Trust me he will never change and everytime u catch him is a cock and bull story. …trust me u can do better.

  55. alas
    January 22, 2013

    look tory papa

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