My boyfriend and I have been together for about four years now. We do love each other very much and have even think of getting married.
However, there is one problem. He refuses flatly to give me his Facebook password. I have begged, asked, supplicated but to no avail.
What is burning me is the fact that I give him the passwords for everything I have: Facebook, email, MSN Messenger, SKype, you name it.
But whenever it comes to his Facebook password, it is another story. He turns and twists me around. He said he is not doing anything bad and I should trust him.
I have tried on many occassions to hack into his Facebook using common password which I think he might use, but none has been successful so far.
I am getting very frustrated at this.
My question is, is it wrong to ask for his Facebook password?
Angry and Mad
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Dear Angry and Mad,
I don’t see the reason why you should be giving yourself such a headache over a Facebook password. No matter how intimate people might get they still do need some privacy, some personal space. There is a certain limit to your together-ness. You two can be together in many aspects but you must also realize that the two of you are entitled to your own person life.
You should not feel compelled to give him any of your password either because you also need your personal space.
Now, I do sense an issue of trust and in insecurity here and for the sake of the relationship you need to take a look at that. What is the source of your insecurity? Has he done anything to you in the past? Has he cheated?
If not, there is no reason to be losing sleep over a Facebook password.
Bella
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What if you ask your partner for there password And they say no because you need to trust them and believe them when they say there not cheating on you and they prove that. But then one of your family memebers comes up to you and say your own partner is cheating on you because they seen your partner touching your cousins leg? Does that mean there cheating?
lol i can see that these women have too much time on their hands, if you all were adequately engaged then this trivial shit would be the least of your worries…..off the top of my head i can think of so many more important things in a relationship than knowing every dog or cat your man say hello to on facebook… As a married dude i don’t go in wifey phone nosing around or interfere with her social media apps and i expect the same of her… people need their space, nothing worse than an overbearing, controlling, nagging spouse, find things to occupy your time, and leave the people enjoy theirs. some of you all don’t realise that you are the cause of the shit that goes on in your life when you behave a certain way but expect your spouse to always act correct.
Majority of men cheat that’s just the way their stupid minds are wired. I will give them the stupid award of the year for that,but when they lie in your face or won’t give passwords or have some type of stupid lame ass excuse is a insult! It’s the hiding and lieing that hurts us women the most. I suggest you hack the S”””T out of his facebook!! This is a free country and us women have the right to know !and if u don’t find anything then no harm done right? And if u do find he’s cheating ? …..
It is all down to trust and respect. If you don’t trust or respect your partner you shouldn’t be with them, and vice versa.
I am a woman, mid forties, who is entitled to my privacy. I don’t have to give up my privacy just because I am in a relationship.
I love my partner with all my heart. But he is just that, my partner. He is not my keeper.
I know right from wrong. I do not need checking up on!
I have never, and would never ask him for his password. I trust him completely. The fact he asks for mine is wrong.
He has used my phone in the past, and even innocent joky messages from female friends have been dissected. I shouldn’t have to explain. I ended up changing my phone and hardly speak to anyone.
I shouldn’t live like that. I gave up control there. I’m not givng away anymore
Since they are not married yet it is a little different but lets be honest why wouldn’t you share your passwords with someone you have been with for that long. Yes you can become too obsessed with it but you also need to be open with each other. If you feel the need to be private then you don’t need to be in a relationship in my opinion. You still have your own life and are your own person but you are in a relationship now and that means to be open. If everyone is fine with not having each other passwords that is great. If you have reason to doubt or just would like that added security than share with each other. What is so hard about that. If it is a person you want to spend the rest of your life with why wouldn’t you want them to feel more secure. You gave up passwords isn’t that better than making your other start to doubt your trustworthiness. I am not saying that someone is up to something bad if they don’t give a password but it really doesn’t look good and I think you should be willing to give up privacy if you are in a relationship. If you can’t stay single.
I have been in relationships where I have wanted my ex’s passwords. Why? Because I didn’t trust him. Not in the slightest. And I was right not to.
I’m now in a relationship, and my partner wants the password to my phone.
I have absolutely nothing to hide, but I feel he should trust me.
He doesn’t, and that is a major issue for me! I have left my phone laying around unlocked at times, BUT, my phone is for MY personal use.
He has tried checking it, causing a massive row because he couldn’t get in it.
To me it feels like he is trying to take complete control of my life. I love him, reassure him, but it’s not enough. He wants to check up on me. Make sure I’m telling the truth. My word should be enough. If it’s not, then he needs to decide whether I am the person for him.
BTW I have been accused of cheating with or without a lock on my phone! I am not! I am either at work or at home with him!
I really found this article because I did this last night with my partner. I asked his FB Password but just replied pointing my “TRUST and RESPECT” with him. C’mon, I have a big reason behind me asking it. We’ve been for 5 years in relationship and a number of times I figured out that he was cheating (Having a relationship where is), by the way we are in a long distance relationship. There are times that someone who was calling me at to my surprise that person is in a relationship with my partner. So, giving him chances for the sake of our relationship. I am willing to give my FB pass coz I don’t have anything to hide. I found him very suspicious again because he is not willing to give me access to his account.
My bf is very possessive for me. He asked me to stop using whatsapp, wechat , line and other social networking sites as he dont like when I talk to any guy. He asked for my facebook password , I gave him . But when I asked him for his password. He refused and said me to trust him. I asked him several times but he denies everytime . And in due course of time I got to know that he is lying me about some stuffs related to facebook. But still sometimes he is very caring and loving . I’m confused. What to do ? Does he really love me ? If yes then why is he lying me..and behaving so strange sometimes.
And if no then why he cares for me and behaves so lovingly . and many times he cried for me too.
Please suggest me . He is very complicated .
He wants to be in control. By you giving in to him, and him not giving in to you, he has the upper hand in this relationship.
I gave up my fb account. Blocked everyone except him and my children on whatsapp and snapchat. Changed my phone number so only people that really needed my number had it.
You need to take control back.
Change your passwords. If your boyfriend loves you, he’ll trust you. If he doesn’t, do you really want to go through life with someone who wants to control your every move?
I wonder how many of your friends, and family, you are ‘allowed’ to see!
yeah I would suggest to stay with him!!
I’ve asked my partner of 9 1/2 years for his fb password as he has mine, and he’s lying to my face all the time lately about what he gets up to so I was hoping him knowing I could see his online conversations would make him stick to the truth instead of giving me edited bullshit, This is keeping in mind that we have 2 kids, share a bank account and he uses my email often. But he hates the idea of me having it and said he’d ‘think about it’. So that’s a no. I guess he’ll continue to log out if he even leaves the room for a second in case I catch a glimpse. I’m doubting this relationship will make it to 10years!
You already have a bad feeling. You have been with this man a long time. Long enough to know when something isn’t right. Good luck. It’s hard leaving a relationship after that long. My last one was 15 years. He was cheating. I knew I didn’t want to believe I was right.
I’m not saying your man is cheating. All I am saying is you don’t trust him, so you know how it’s going to go.
I agree. These people sound like dammed fools. Im not sitting in the dark for no man. She should catfish him and leave too. He seems like a cheater and full of sh…these type of men is a gaslighting and will waste your time and you can’t marry. Don’t marry a man with secrets of other women
hiiii….. my boyfrnd never gave me his facebook paswrd and i always gave him my fb paswrd … and when ever i ask for his pswrd he twist the conversation why and he cheat me in past and i think he cheat me in present plzzzz can u told me how i know his pswrd… i beg u plzzzz give me the solution
thankuuu
so true
What if you hubby hacks your account and than refuses
To give you his or use his?
Get yours back! If you can’t access it, contact fb. You have to prove your id and they will reset your password. Change everything then so he can’t hack it again
What if they’ve “cheated” on facebook before and when you ask for the password they get pissed. Like smash their computer pissed
Why are you still with him if he did that, and especially if he is acting this way. You don’t need his password. You already don’t trust him. Why would you stay with someone you don’t trust?
I understand where the girl is coming from coz it happened to me as well. The best way is to prove to your guy how much you love him to make him realize that you trust him much and not knowing his password wouldn’t be a big issue. And later on, he would realize his mistakes and if he’s really cheating on you so be it. Talk to him and settle your issues. Remember, do not decide for anything if your in the high level of your emotions. Think ..Think and Think ..and the most important thing is to PRAY
Somehow your message inspired me!
Wow is really good advice… my boyfriend he is freelly give his fb account so that i stopl issue about him that he cheated … and its up to me to judge him
i don’t wanna be a hacker, but i really do not trust my husband, i have to protect my family.
please, have someone can provide “how to hack facebook password” software to me. please~~
It’s better to know now what’s going on, then to let your guard down as many of us have done and get a huge shock later when all of it comes out. Better to know early than to suffer heartache and a case of herpes later, as I did….
If you don’t trust him then why be with him? Sorry to say, but that’s pretty stupid on your part.
i found out my ex boyfriend was cheating on me several times because i checked his facebook msgs…
m in relation with my boyfriend since 1yr n when ever is used to ask him to gave his psswrd he starts to change the topic so what i can do to get his fb passwrd..plz suggest me wid this
Why do you want your boyfriends facebook password? Like what are you going to do on HIS facebook account?
The only reason you want it is to spy on him… Stop this shit! :P
My husbands friends Mrs sent my husband the following message..I Miss you!! He changed and refused to give me his new password until push came to shove..I’m the master of my own destiny and i will not give the benefit of the doubt to any1. You earn respect..end of story
Well if you don’t have anything to hide why not just give it to her. It’s not going to cost you anything unless you are hiding something from her.
dear I can understand your feelings… I knw u trust him a lot….its not the password which is bothering u… its whether he gives it or not u wanna chk…guys r all d same…dey ll ask our passwords.. whn it cm to our turn…they give long lectures abt privacy..
Guys are “not all the same”, that is the most pathetic excuse I have seen in my life. my girlfriend has my passwords to my msn/skype/facebook it’s not a matter of “all guys being the same” it’s a matter of if a guy trusts you to look into all his stuff and not question or pry around too much. I gave her my passwords because I know what it’s liketo feel insecure.
What a lucky girl.
your a good man,your girlfriend is very lucky
She prolly has your nutz too.you women tripping because your guy wants just a little privacy should end your relationship because obviously theres no trust,also because most of you arent mentally secure enough to have a relationship
not all of dem
dear I can understand your feelings… I knw u trust him a lot….its not the password which is bothering u… its whether he gives it or not u wanna chk…guys r all d same…dey ll ask our passwords.. whn it cm to our turn…they give long lectures abt privacy..
Why do you want his password? DO you feel insecure and feel that he wants to cheat on you? If he is really a cheater then having his facebook PW would not solve anything. If you have good reason to beleive he is a cheater then break up with him, seriously…
After all the most he could do with facebook is to send/recieve a message to another woman, something that could also be done through numerous other channels such as email, cell phone, text messaging, online dating cites,escort services, etc.
But what if your suspision is false and he isn’t a cheater? wouldn’t asking for his PW give him the feeling that you don’t trust him anymore? It definitely will as it shows that you feel so insecure that you need to check on him in order regain trust…this might lead to him deciding to break up with you.
All in all, grow up and respect your mans privacy.Some things are meant to remain private no matter how close two people are with eachother, and you are not entitled to his PW.
My husbands friends Mrs sent my husband the following message..I Miss you!! He changed and refused to give me his new password until push came to shove..I’m the master of my own destiny and i will not give any1 the benefit of the doubt You earn respect..end of story..Nothing to do with insecurity.
Ha I was always slightly curious when I started going out with my boyfriend, as to what his password was but I never worried about it too much because I trusted him back then. He then finally asked me for my password and I asked him back…thats when all the trouble started he was stupid enough to talk dirty with a girl that at the time was obsessed with him and jealous of me. His password was also the same for his email so then i got even more curious and lets just say from then on I got even more obsessed with what he was hiding from me I lost all my trust in him and it ruined they way I looked and thought about him. In a way I wish I never new the things that I found out. I was naive and thought that he was different but he never was what an idiot. Be careful when snooping you’ll find things you don’t like.
Your boyfriend must have something to hide if he’s not going to let you see his Facebook you should change your passwords and keep ur privacy. Has he given u a reason to not trust him?
He is your boyfriend, not your child! why did you give him urs in the first place? I have my man password and i only go on his account when he sends me there or when he is too busy to chck his mssgs, you women need to cool out!
How can you get on any other girl for wanting their man’s password and you have yours? So flipping stupid. We all know you have been snooping on his shit even when he doesn’t “send you there or when he is too busy to check his messages”. You’re paaaatheeeetiic!
Give me passward
Child, don’t be silly. Have respect for the man’s privacy. Just because you all are in a relationship doesn’t give you the right to invade the man’s privacy. If you feel to yourself that he is cheating then leave, it’s that simple.
You are right. Why does she need his password? If she cannot trust him then she must exit. She willingly gave up her password but that doesn’t mean that he has to give his in return. We all need some level of privacy.
What privacy you silly banana…You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
They may have shared a mailbox, but they never opened each other’s mail.
No She does not need his password, they are not married and he have t right not to have yours as well..you can only do that when the two of you become one…
hey u guys i beleive that two poeple togerther should nt have no secret in a relationship married or not, if she had somethin to hide she would giv hers.so y cant he do the same?
stop stressing yourself all you have to do is change your password, he don’t have your password and you don’t have his password everyone happy
accept my sympathy
lmao .. mamzelle serious ?!?! smh
Girl stop your foolishness…..
Facebook is just as private as you make it. Believe me honey leave it alone let the man have some privacy. Some of us women does act too damn desparate. Why did you have to give your password ? Toe sort! I doubt the man wanted your password you way too pushy and desparate
What privacy you silly banana…You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
Girl, I don’t even know my husband’s passwords and here you are worrying about your boyfriend’s password.
but anyhow….no matter wha yal say bout he dont have to give up his own….funny enough my husband gave me his hotmail, phone password and nothing seem to be going on…aa joke…..facebook stayed open and guess what….er thing changed….smfh…..my girl…the guy isnt ready yet…privacy is privacy but i doh care wa is being said here dude up to no good
first of all he is your boyfriend not your husband. i don;t think that you should have his password if he doesn’t what to give it to you, and you should not give him your neither. i am married and my husband has never given me his passwords to any of his accounts , though i must say i am curious and have found ways to get them without him knowing , be smart if you want to get it OK. stop asking and start figuring out ways to get it. But imagine I have all the pin numbers for the bank accounts and to me that’s more important. i feel that everyone is entitled to some level of individuality and privacy, especially if he is just your bf and not your husband. get over it my friends . good luck.
Buh wah de I hearing dere nuh. Girl stop nagging your man over petty . If you making such a big deal over a Facebook password, only God knows what else you making an issue out of. Insecurity is unattractive to both Men and Women, stop that . Focus on loving yourself.
u dont have to give him any of password is that your way to tell him that he can trust you? ridiculous! love is not based on password and u dont need his Password, u all just need to trust each other and i see u are very insecure.
lol seriously? ‘Bish’ please! A joke na?
People have more pressing and serious issues that should have made ‘Dear B’
He should ask for the password to your atm bank stuff too
woman please…u want to control de man..this is ridiculous.. Too much dam time on ur hands..see how we women ruin relationships? we create our own problems…sot..
What privacy.. You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
Is that for real? Or is Bella making up those stories. Even trying to hack into the man’s e-mail? I am a woman, and I don’t trust men until he earn my trust, but I would not do something like that, far less to loose sleep over a password.
I hope you know that it’s goes both ways
woman can’t be trust either
you all just as bad
It has been proven now that woman cheap more than man
cut his hair and he will give it to you!!! lol…lol…lol… Mi daybah woi…woi…woi.
hahah how u know he has hair smh..
Miss ,get real .People have so many problems and you harrassing your self over facebook nonsence.If you give the man access in your business that’s you, that dosen’t mean he have to do the same.You might feel better if you block your account then ,so he can’t get in .I am giving you an advise ,act like an adult.
Miss know it all.. What privacy…You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
THIS IS JUST WRONG IF HE HAS HERS EHY NOT GIVE HIS ,,,,,,LOVE IS A TWO WAY STREET,,,IF HE DINT WANT TO GIVE HIS WHY ASK FOR HERS,,,THATS SELFISH AND SECONDLY FACE BOOK IS THE NEW DESTROYER OF LIVES LOVE LIVES FRIENDSIPS AND MORE,,,I LOVE FB BUT I HATE IT TOO
The question should be whether or not he ASKED for it or she just up and gave it to him
This is bull if he don’t wanna give it to yu why be “angry and mad” that’s just foolish i bet he never ask yu for your passwords n yu wanna show him how much yu love him so you did SMH i hate wen girls complain about things like dah n make themselves look so dumb n stupid seriously girl yu need to grow up n learn to let things go chups dats pure nonsense yu hear me!?! me i doesn’t stress out myself bout dem things eh hmm (yu want d password to go through d inbox)
Lol what did i just read??
Woman impossible eh; All men ask for is a likkle punani and sometimes we have to beg for that – Woman on the other hand want everything – what is your is theirs, what is theirs is theirs only; tell woman the truth they mad tell them a lie they still mad; You stay they home they vex, you go out and play dominoes they vex; tell them they skinny you are a liar tell them they fat you in the dog house or ice box;
Now a man’s password is joint property a woman password is hers only.
Zort femme difficult qui
lol
AMEN!
As a female I see it your way
bella you are 1000% right. Sounds very obsessive to me..fatal attraction. Every couple has a right to privacy for each of the parties involved. Dominican women are so jealous and insecure. then again I cant blame you all for the so called men you have down there, who dont even know the meaning of respecting a woman. cheat here..cheat there and the women cheat back. What an immoral society
There is nothing in the relationship handbook that says thou shall share passwords with each other.
stupesssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!
but just now you will ask him for his mother bank account number man
stupessssssssssssss!!!!!!!!
woman get a life d man entitle to privacy. is he your man or your child?
ou too sot tan. i agree with bella, everyone needs their personal space. I wont ask for my boyfriend’s password neither will i give him mine. you never hear of the old saying what u don’t know will not hurt you. there are just some things that are kept to one’s self. why u doh give him you passcode for your ATM card too. sot!!
4 years into the relationship n u still hv these insecurities? awa wi. i can understand if y’all got together a month ago n u still tryna find out who/how he is but 4 years.. smh
and what does 4 years prove..ha…You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
gyal just gt his msn password and connect 2 fb there wen he message someone nd d person reply u will c every thing.anything else u are his friend u will c.ask ur moda 4 advice nd dnt waste ur energy typing dat
But i find that you are rude. Is he your little 8year old? Or maybe you are the child. Woman/Child behave yourself!
It’s things like these that will leave you without a man.!
Deal with the man like a man..! Not a kindergarten child.
WHOSE that woman Stupid papa..carmem the man do dam right not give you his password foolish woman.. i dow understand nah bella with these cases that does email for advise papa mete..
U wrong to give him ur password if I was him I would change dat password on u…..and doh give u the new one….Some of Allu woman does do as if is 1st timw allu in love, U damn wrong to give the man ur password……FOOLISH WOMAN……he mus give the password to another woman.
Are you mad why dont you just give him the password to yopur bank account, he got something to hide why oh why did you give him your pass ward
Change your password and dump him
Bella to sort tan – sweetheart there is a thing they call trade embargo. Use your oyster bank assets to cripple his economy -no loans from the oyster bank. Remember fellas give up valuable secretes just to be able to do business with the oyster bank.
Lol. This is so funny
ok…i really couldnt help it, but right now am flat out laughing aloud. had to call my girls to check out this comment. you go economist!
Very , very, very funny Mamizoo – most people on the site did not get it . Back to the young lady – Just change all your passwords and you will have total control of your accounts – Simple .
bella this is not a good advice.
if she should trust him wat is it in a password to give her.wats dere friends or wat are u telling dem is like keeping these a secret. this might be her future husband and they should not hide anything from each other. if he cant give her his password den there are more things he is keeping secret from her
You have too much time on your damn hands! The man’s FB acount is none of ur bizwacks
You sound like a jealous controlling freak that may just turn a good man away. The password is his,not yours so go get a life.
You share everything together but facebook is exception to the rule!! Really did your parents have seperate letter boxes
My girl… leave him with his password.. u might see things that will hurt ur eyes and heart. My bf gave me his from the beginning of our relationship and from the beginning to the end my heart hurt. I stopped trusting him only to find out he was just a heavy flirter but was faithful. Be careful what u wish for
Girl Behave yourself, (If you suspect he is being unfaithful, you’re probably right) But what are you going to do when you find what you’re looking for?
I’m sure you will rant and rave when you find it, but you’ll stay with him because you love each other very much and you’re thinking of getting married. Stop giving yourself unnecessary stress.
. he is ur man not ur chile or boytoy
she is wrong to give him her pass word for everything,he is not entitle to give her anything that’s his privacy.and beside even if he has something to hide it’s just typical men..
tanty u don’t need the man password to his facebook profile cause what u don’t know can’t hurt u ………….but if u really want it that bad just set your pc to store his password and u will be able to get into his email facebook yahoo tagged hi5 every thing ………..but sister there is no need to lost sleep over that
Don’t give man anything they won’t give you. If he doesn’t cook, clean, exchange passwords etc then don’t reciprocate. Point blank!
first time I hear of a foolish girl wanting her man password……………girl go get work for you to do. you to stupid……………insecure
AFOS I JUST MUD CHUPESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.Is it your facebook account?
my dear, stop acting so foolish and childish. its true u 2 r in a relationship but u do not define each other. u r 2 separate individuals who r entitled to ur own privacy. if he demanded u give him your passwords and he refuses to give his to u, then there wld be an issue. but if u voluntarilly gave urs to him then thats ur issue. for that matter i really dont c y either of u shld have each others passwords. thats just a passport for problems. things r so easilly misinterpreted, and can just as easilly destroy ur 4 yr relationship. swty, dont’t push it. allow him his privacy, he’s a man. u have the right to urs also, u’re a woman. u 2 have a right to ur own individuality despite the fact that u’re together. focus on that n embrace it. u’ll be happier.
Girl you have alot of time on your hands to post that! When the man on facebook take the computer from him…..hahahaha
What you doing with this facebook password. You were stupid to give him yours. Why are people so insecure. Just because I’m married to you, or in a relationship you need my password. Both of you are insecure
mr sounding like slick on collywood tv. he have a woman in all village lol
you just to ridiculous !!! Why did you give him your password? To prove you love him? You too fast you should never do that. He does not owe you any pass word. get over it!! Toneh
What does facebook really have to hide? your go and set all kind of privacy settings, but once your a friend of a friend, you can pratically see everything going on,on somebody eles’s page, the most that can happen is some woman sending a message, the same messge she can send using any other medium, so hunny please do not beat up your over a facebook account password, beat up yourself, when you see him post, or someone tag him in a “not so friendly photo”, with a half naked girl”
Not being funny – but y should he give u his password?
More fool u for giving him your email,skyp,MSN, etc,etc…
Very True Wallhouse!
That girl doesn’t make any sense. Y would she want his fb password for??? My boy, delete all your messages in your inbox, delete all female friends, clear your wall and then give her the password..
I hope she gets wat she looking for!!!!!
hahaha mamzel need to get a hobby
Sounds like high school if u ask me..
He doe owing u a password. U not even married. Passwords are very carefully put togeda things. Tomoro u break up, d man hav to change his ting. Stop haras d man. Even wen u d wife he mt oblige to do so. Yr ignorance make u 4ve him yr. Grow up
Grl u not ez! Y u make urself so vulnerable- givin d man ur passwrds for everything. Wonder if u gave him ur pin for ur atm card )if u hve one! U not makin no sense, y get mad nd angry if he don’t want to give u HIS passwrds! Grow up
can someone tell me why should have to my girlfriend my password to my facebook please explain to me someone its a girlfriend not your wife or the mother of your kids
maybe she needs to ask you out or she wants you to go on the dating
i seen boys that just want to make bad feelings of the grils
BELLA wtm……i eh even reading that…seriously?? that is what relationships turn to now…total distraction..FACEBOOK IS ROOT OF MANY BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES…. “F the facebook drama”……”oh he commented here on her pic and not mine….oh she like his status
“…..doh talk for instigators….smh..cell phones like facebook has allowed people to lie even more….kudos to those who keep it genuine and stay off such or not dwell on technology in their relationships……the people and things both male and female sit on fb to do these days you have to wonder…
Not being funny – But y should he give u his facebook password?
More fool u for giving him your email,skype,MSN etc, etc
Very true Wallhouse!
Hello Ms. Frustrated, I suspect u better do some work on yourself before u frustrate your relationship and end it. Thats really petty of you and I suggest that you go read a book,do some Puzzels or learn a new language! If he’s cheating you will surley know!!!
If he got noting to hide,as he said, why didn’t he give her the password, unless he really has something to hide… hmmmmmmmmmmm
sounds like mind ova matta! She sounds like the type who will use his profile to manipulate some of his friends esp the females! then she will start to stress his life eg. “why she calling you hun!?”, “wha she mean by thanks for everything!?…Tell me everything!”, How come you talking to dat girl?…I doh like her!”….
Then is jus continuous argument till the relationship ends.
real thing
You must be talking from experience. Thats exactly how it goes. Imagine, i doesnt lock my phone. My boyfriend went thru my phone say he was looking for the time. Mind you, he has a bb too. We on the same lime network. Our phone have same time. smdh. Dem kinda insecurities there not ready for marriage hun.
Yes and all the other questions you will find both men and women asking…i tell you the facebook thing is drama….old flames catch…women as men use it to cause problems….some men use it to get women…in the country i live presently a married woman found her husband fb page open and his mistress askin him if he enjoyed her private…wife confronted him and he still denied …she ended up in confrontation with the woman..fight..and now the wife has to pay money in court for..smfh….a so it go..i stay off “fb”.. the way it started so it go finish..
hmmmmm u dont trust him. yea he must be a pimp,,,, lol. it could be me but i only cheat when i think my girl does.. i got many options too.
Giving more than five cents here….take a whole dollar……can anyone tell me why women always seem to be doing silliness such as these? your password, all of them are supposed to be private (to you only) no matter who you are close too. So now you figure because you gave him, he is duty bound to give you – more foolishness……give de man a break…..and it’s clear that you guys are not ready for marriage.
DARLING THERE IS CERTAINLY SOMETHING WRONG BECAUSE HE REFUSES TO GIVE YOU HIS PASSWORD ;;;YOU ALL ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP IF HE KNOWS YOUR PASSWORD WHY SHOULD HE MAKE IT A PROBLEM TO SHARE HIS PASSWORD?
SIMPLE SOLUTION CHANGE YOUR PASSWORD THEN WAIT TO SEE HOW THE RELATIONSHIP WORKS…EASY DOES IT.
best advice so far
Why pray tell do you need his password so desperately that you result to “attempted hacking?”
Come on- if you are that weak now, why go shackle yourself to him?
You may get stress later on from trying to burst your brain thinking about the man and his affairs.
EVeryone deserves privacy – yes it’s human nature to be curious and want to know, but you seem to be beyond the point of curious. You maybe bothering on obsession. You have some doubt that something is going on with him on facebook and to make yourself feel secure, you want to go “met veye” his account!
What possible do you want to see other than his chat/ msg history? I bet you may be able to see his photo comments etc…but no, that not enough – you want to be all up in his fbk!
Word to the wise – stop try to dig up because it might just explode and you’ll end up stinking of it!
My two cents………. not because you gave up your little bit of privacy (whether his asked or not) he should give up his……… and missy, what were you thinking anyway making yourself so vulnerable!
If he doesn’t want to give you the password then you can’t force him to.
It is simply showng that you don’t trust him
My gyal its simple….download keylogger on your pc and install it…its a free application that allow one to see all keys that are being typed from the keyboard!!! In that way you can get his password so you could see what you looking for…..
really angry and mad??????? wat u want this password for in the first place??? nobody doh ask u to give him urs??? and wat make u think he using them anyway???? get a hold of urself woman and stop ask the man for his password… stupess.
You are being insecure and I won’t advise you to get into marriage right now. Give him some space, if he’s cheating on you, you’re gonna find out somehow, cheaters always get caught.
Here it is, u don’t need his password, he don’t need urs. Change ur passwords and don’t give them to him again, let him wonder y u change them and won’t tell him! If u can’t trust the man ur with then leave him, because of ur insecurities, if u stay and even get married… U will never be happy!!
chooops..d man not obligated to give u his passwords..u chose to give him urs off ur own free will..u seem to be very insecure and has trust issues no wonder he doesnt want to give u his password..girlfriend chill..d man needs his own privacy..chooops..allu takin dat love thing to far man
My question to u is don’t u deserve your own privacy? You don’t have to give the guy your pass word to everything. You are wrong for that. He deserves privacy too that is why he refuses to give u his pass word. Common? That’s a little to much my dear.
For once Bella, this is very sensible advice you have given this woman. I personally would not give out my password for anything I use, if there is something she wants to know, simply ask him. I agree it sounds like she is insecure and trust is an issue. If she suspects him of being unfaithful, he should just ask and be done with it. If she has no reason to believe he is lying or being unfaithful, why she needs his password for when she can ask him straight up what is going on. Just something they need to work out.