My girlfriend is a freak

I think my  girlfriend is a freak. I mean she watches porn movies all the time both on DVD and on the internet, she has a collection of porn photos on her computer, she has copies of the Kama Sutra and other ancient literature on sex and so on. And the thing is she wants to try all of those different things she seeing in the movies and in the books.

We have been seeing each other for about two years now and lots of our friends are saying that it is time for us to tie the knot. I am not anti sex but as an Adventist Christian I know sex is supposed to be a clean act between husband and wife and I consider some of these positions she telling me about as dirty and a reflection of lust of the flesh.

Am I wrong? What is your opinion?

Wondering

Dear Wondering,

I do not consider your girlfriend a ‘freak’ but someone with a healthy sexual appetite. Yes, sex is supposed to be between husband and wife but there are many avenues to explore; if not it becomes boring after a while.

I encourage you to work with your girlfriend if you really love her. Tell her what you think but explore the different possibilities. Go ahead and get married to this young lady. I can assure you, you will not regret it.

Bella

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151 Comments

  1. Raymond
    September 17, 2012

    I am shocked at the advice give here. I don’t know about women watching porn but I do know it can be mental adultery for husbands and can ruin a marriage. Actually porn figures in 50% of divorces in the USA.

  2. SOUL CHILD
    February 28, 2012

    O M G!! are u for real man? do you know how many guys out there would kill to have a girl like yours.
    Im female and i would love to hook up with ur girl. pass it!!

  3. November 16, 2011

    You maybe not doing ur job!!

  4. Arinze
    August 27, 2011

    Sex is sex no matter the position boy. Do anything u like when u are married.

  5. Anonymous
    August 27, 2011

    Sex is sex no matter the position boy. Do anything u like when u are married.

  6. forreal
    July 25, 2011

    this is the time you should be trying those sexual acts, you won’t ever now if you are comfortable with it or how great a performer you are, give it a try most person want creativity and kinkiness in their relationship and here you are being a doubting tom, if you do not cooperate now when you become married would you want your wife to be sexually ungratified because of your convictions? the bible states that the bed, your bed is undefiled . If this is how you feel find a docile and unadventurous partner like yourself.

  7. D teacher
    July 23, 2011

    my boy you bite a bit more than u can chew..you need blows, you know how much guys like freaks?.. if is so you feel dont get married cause is laugh man will laugh you . ur a disgrace to real men…

  8. empress d-vine
    July 22, 2011

    he seems to be reading d bible upside down cuz the bible says that the marriage bed is undefiled..nigga u can do anything once its ur wife!!!

  9. TJ
    May 31, 2011

    Dude- you need to hold on to that woman. She’s a keeper.

  10. sincere
    May 31, 2011

    please allow me to give u some advice, you say you r christian right? then u know we are to flee sexual immorality and also we r not to be unequally yoke with the non beliver and from wat u have said about her i do not think she is a christian. now having clarified this if u are already having sex with her and u all are not married this is very wrong. and as a christian the first place u should take ur problems is to the Lord in prayer.

  11. dominican
    May 26, 2011

    zor paka weh misyay fou….

    • DatCanMove
      July 10, 2011

      ca mweh car weh la!!!
      Mister doh ready yet
      When she will go somewhere else and get it doh dig no sine eh

  12. sout city
    May 26, 2011

    Boy if dont want her send her form me.. i need me a woman so.. good ride to the world

  13. D Boss
    May 26, 2011

    Mr Soft boi…send dat woman my way

  14. big
    May 21, 2011

    paraner do it dress nice and give her a nice dinner and do it :mrgreen: :twisted: :?:

  15. HotBoy
    May 18, 2011

    Mr soft…

  16. YESSAH
    May 11, 2011

    MISTER MACOOOO IN HIS ASS… :-D :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

  17. cici
    May 8, 2011

    The man is right sex is for marriage!!!!!!!!!

    • Normy
      May 10, 2011

      Cici you self fornicating too…so doe talk dere

      • i kno da facts
        June 14, 2011

        looooooool

  18. Jenny from da Block
    May 8, 2011

    stupes….which normal man that gonna complain cuz his woman wanna try d freaky shit she see on tv? boi u too sort…try new things to give d relationship more SPICE!!! or else u gonna lose that freaky girl and wind up with a wife that wear tights to go to bed!! lol

  19. boi
    May 6, 2011

    He don’t know how to handle d freak I would

  20. Meeee2
    May 6, 2011

    The Bible says the bed of the married couple is undefiled. It does not speak of missionary or different positions. I am a christian, and try to make my hussy happy, as long as we agree. This young man just need someone to council him. When you get married, experiment boy, you won’t have the need to look elsewhere. Tell them Muslim, they just hipocrite

    • Truth, Justice, Love, Peace and Unity
      May 8, 2011

      The Bible says it. Think! How many beds of married couples are undefiled? I wonder.
      You would have to ask God. He knows!
      Because it is in the Bible this does not mean it is practiced as with all others matters. Human beings are not that perfect and far from perfect. God knows!
      Experiment about what? You both may agree to whatever but does God approve and bless your actions even though you are so-called married.
      Some of you people who call yourselves Christians can be Oh so wrong and teach falsities as commenting about this on the Website. You teach what is ungodly. Do not deceive yourself.

  21. fire
    May 6, 2011

    I WOULD MAKE THIS FREEK HATE SEX

  22. Crackerjack
    May 6, 2011

    This guy is scared of sex. He should go marry a girl who dislikes the flesh. With this girl he now has, either he will get to much or she to little, that can never work out.

  23. BABY LOVE
    May 6, 2011

    Do yourself a favor go ahead get married and enjoy your sex life because the bible never said how to or how not to have sex after you are married. I will take it in every position there is and even create some. Sex should not be boring. That is why i will stick with them nasty americans

    • godfather
      May 11, 2011

      u rite maybe so u get ur bb :lol:

  24. FRANCIS FRANCIS CHICAGO
    May 6, 2011

    M Y boy please don’t married her ,When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, your lives will produce these evil results; sexual immorality impure thoughts eagerness for lustful pleasure. DOMINICA FRIST PORN STAR MANAGER; MUSLIM ALWAYS NEED A LINCENSE; CALL SATAN .

  25. Truth, Justice, Love, Peace and Unity
    May 5, 2011

    Bella, I respect your views but this is not one of your views that I agree with. This man said that he is an Adventist. His religion and beliefs must be respected. Some of them do live up to their godly teachings and take it seriously. He is not wrong.
    I do think that freak is not an appropriate word. Your girlfriend is obsessed by porn and sex. This is an addiction. The devil is involved as always. Porn, indulging in same and practicing sexual fantasies is a grievous sin and offends God. Whatever our religious beliefs we should know this. It is called fornication and in excess and is contained in Holy Scriptures.
    Even though people practice it and their partners agree to it, it is still a sin. It does not change by their whims and wiles.
    It appears that she will not get over it and will not be happy if she does not indulge in it unless she practices whatever her faith is, fervently pray to God and perform penance and sacrifice. Only then will she be able to overcome her obsession.
    This is not a good scene. You deserve better than that. You will never be happy with her because you do not share her sexual fantasies which she has already laid on the line. You are aware of it.
    Once people commence going that route, it appears they will not change. She will only make you unhappy and bring you down with her and to the abyss. Send her packing.
    Marriage should be forever, ’til death do we part. I do believe in happiness and peace in a marriage. Yes! It is a challenge and will have its ups and down but sexual fantasies and a one-sided one at that will not add to your marital happiness.
    The time has come to sever ties with her. Take your time and find a decent woman to date and to get married to, one who shares your feelings. I am certain there are many of them. It is a matter of finding them. Pray to God for guidance.
    God bless you and for your stand on morality and practicing same.

    • BABY LOVE
      May 6, 2011

      In the first place he is not respecting his religion. How the hell did he find out about the porn videos and pics on her computer if he did not look at them . Then he is adventist why is he discussing sexual positions and he is not married to her. Because he is committing adultry as we speak.

      • lol
        May 6, 2011

        fornicatio not adultery mr is an ass u have a freak wat else u want

      • Truth, Justice, Love, Peace and Unity
        May 8, 2011

        @ Baby Love

        So much for you. Do you respect your religion?
        I surely wished that I knew people like you who make such statements. I would inform you personally what type of person you are. There are those who can see through people like you and read them like a book, if they are honest or not and according to their lifestyle.
        He is as imperfect as any other Christian – Hypocrite! :twisted: I like to say some, more or less perfect than others. Who are you to criticize him?
        As everyone else he heard about porn videos and pics through the computer system and TV. :twisted: She has the password of her computer and so she must have shown it to him and discussed it with him, encouraging him in this satanic actions and indulgence.
        We reside in an immoral world and ever-increasingly so. You see them on TV as well do you not, at least when they are spoken about, also through the Media in print and pictures.
        Are you not aware that your associates can be instrumental in showing and teaching you those things, whether you are religious or not? She has indicated that her preferences are different to his. As other people, they do not share the same sexual interest. He should dump her and move on. He will be happier for it.
        He is human. I would not condemn him. Do you know what it takes to live a perfect – ly Christian life? God knows the weaknesses and temptations which people are faced with and subject to. While we must not take Him for granted, this is why He is so forgiving and merciful if we turn to Him with a humble and contrite heart and ask His forgiveness.
        Some of you, from the moment you renounce your Catholic Christian faith, all of a sudden you become perfect, mr. and mrs. know all and possess a better-than-thou holier attitude than others and condemn them as if you were not and are not sinful people. God knows your type(s) and what you do behind closed doors.
        God is the Only One who has the authority to save and judge. Judge not that you may not be judged accordingly and two-fold. The manner in which you measure to others, it will be measured to you and two-fold. What do you know about God?

    • big dog
      June 15, 2011

      this is my secnd vissit to this bella thing,. now it maybe someone thats just writing and answering making it look what u r taking it to be., whatever it is. i think u need to write ur owne cause it seems like u know it all. yes u peace and justice and whatever else u call ur self

  26. moonlight
    May 5, 2011

    It seems like you have been receiving many messages. Some are wise discisions while others are more sex the happier you will be. Thats not always the solution. Your future wife to be might well have an addiction. Its also wonderful to know about a subject and to experience but it has a limit. If you feel those little hair at the back of your neck telling you something listen because most time your inner voice is speaking to you. Since you are a christian, prayer is the most powerful intercession you need. If you love her and you can deal with her habit unconditionally then stop questioning what you are see and embrace her whole heartedly. The only thing that can prepare you for your future is the word of the Lord and you should already know that. God Bless you and all the best. Take care.

  27. huh?
    May 5, 2011

    lol fellas wish their woman was like yours and you complaining? you maco or something man?

  28. sexy gwal
    May 5, 2011

    why them ppl like to write like is a composition or an essay?
    well i only read those which are short and to the point :twisted:

  29. sugar
    May 5, 2011

    @mind ur damn business everybody is giving their views and opinions on the topic at hand why
    are you attacking sweet pum pum and Muslim_Always ? what about all those people that talk about
    how much wood they wanted to give and give and give ? this is not a battle ground for insults and name calling this is a Dominican website DNO no need for calling people out of their names
    unless you know these people personally to call them pimp and prostitute and if they are its
    NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS as your name suggests.. You attack Muslim because he sound like he knows every position are you for real ? and you attack pum pum just because she was kixing with Muslim maybe you are one of Muslim’s wives ? did he pimp you ? you sound bitter that sounds like a personal attack…you taking things too personal learn to take a joke :mrgreen:

    • sugar
      May 5, 2011

      OR STAY OFF THE DAMN WEBSITE :mrgreen:

  30. youth
    May 5, 2011

    My boi u dread real DREAD wat i cin there nah…my boi ur a lucky man explore my boi…but tying d knot nt smart nah cuz i suspect u wudnt b able to keep up n someone else will test run for u trust me haha lol…

  31. jeff
    May 5, 2011

    send her st joe for me to show her what a real man can do…. boy they need to beat u with a twell moieah u to sot

    • anonymous
      May 6, 2011

      ” a twell moieah” lmaoooooo

      • Just giving my two cents
        May 6, 2011

        what does that mean? twell moieah?

        • he he he
          May 6, 2011

          wet cloth – patois

  32. sweet pum pum
    May 5, 2011

    I’m listening to all the big talkers about give wood hard wood do it this and do it that and when
    the time come cyan handle de pum pum remember guys dat ting got nine lives :lol: nine lives?
    what am I talking about dat ting cyan die ayayaya ! Go and mash up all you wood and talk about how all you want to give pum pum nuff wood some of all you will not even be able to
    walk next day some of all you maybe drinking all kind of bwa barday to stay hard :lol: o.k.
    guys nuff said all you know I speaking de truth :lol:

    • Homeboy
      May 6, 2011

      Sweet pum pum you right!! You can’t kill pum pum but you can hurt it!!! Lol

    • Annonymous Reader
      May 6, 2011

      same thing i was saying in my mind…that’s why some of them have to run away every night and go play dominoes until dere woman fall asleep. A set of big mouth and ayeah pah la.

      • sweet pum pum
        May 6, 2011

        :lol: a lot of dem who asking the husband to send the woman to them is just a bunch of mouth
        talk the first two nights they could probably try something but everynight ? Homeboy say dey
        can hurt it !! Homeboy ! nothing de pum pum love more than a good hurting :lol: but I cyan see
        none of allyou big mouth beating dat everynight NEVER :lol:

        • nom nweh
          May 17, 2011

          sweet pum pum u doh lie my pum pum sweeter and it like a hurting more than pleasure beat it rass badman lol

  33. boondock!!
    May 5, 2011

    u soo much of a christian that u worry about her appetite and the things she reads and and wants to try….yet u having premarital sex??….smells like a bloody hypocrite to me….if she too much for u then leave her for a real man to handle…is man like u woman does cheat on….

    • Facts
      May 5, 2011

      You took my comment from me, that’s the reason why women cheat on them. These guys makes us look bad real bad….

    • hmmmmmmmmmm
      May 5, 2011

      please quote where he says he has sex with her

      • Anonymous
        May 6, 2011

        QUOTE ” and the thing is she wants to try all those things she is seeing in the movies and the books” . SHE WANTS TO TRY ALL THOSE. It does not have to take a rocket scientist to realize they are having sex

    • HMMMMMM(the psychic)
      May 6, 2011

      You are so right. He is having premarital sex with her and maybe enjoying some of those positions but because he does not want to tie the knot is trying to play christian claiming he adventist . Maybe he needs to zip up his pants and move on. Zaman!!!

    • just a suggestion
      May 6, 2011

      Two years is a long time for you to be complaining – must be something you like! You hypocrite!!

    • 7.5"
      May 6, 2011

      I agree with you, he not no christian, he just handle,, my padna if u cannot handle, suck it till it dry… lol

      • Beff la large
        May 10, 2011

        Woye all you killing me today dere wif dem jokes we pal. y y yyyyy…”suck it till it dry”…that’s all he probably can do until she push de head away. Boi look jokes!

  34. Elliot
    May 5, 2011

    I think this woman is sick. She doesnt need to watch any of these to give her an idea or to be creative in bed. The man is no machine. Maybe he works on the construction site and, in the evening he is tired after a long hard day. Guys, could you imagine yourselves having a long hard day at work and every night popping your woman for at least two hours? How long could you cope with a life like that. Sex is not the only thing that counts in a relationship.

    • sweet pum pum
      May 5, 2011

      doh worry Elliot some of dem pretending dem is superman ah lie dem a tell :lol:

    • No Elliot nor idiot
      May 5, 2011

      not the only thing but it’s a main ingridient Elliot.Why am I responding to a man name elliot it similar to idiot.Construction work or not tired or not u can do something nightly.
      Elliot you sound weak man! Inaddition to being an idiot.

      • @ elliot
        May 6, 2011

        i think you are the one who wrote to bella.

  35. lmao
    May 5, 2011

    I thought all sex was sex, I never knew that depending on the position there is clean sex and dirty sex. If you are an “Adventist Christian” why are you having sex at all before marriage.! Make up your mind, you are sounding like a double standard guy!

    • hmmmmmmmmmm
      May 5, 2011

      the amn never say he having sex

  36. Annonymous
    May 5, 2011

    Put a ring my brother,and don’t try out those things with her? Just tell me where you intend to live so i can come live close to you. (For when she wants to try something you dont want to)

    • old and sexy
      May 5, 2011

      wooooooooo.dats a good one. :lol:

  37. No face nor name
    May 5, 2011

    Counseling what BS you talking about? concerned you CRAZY?? The only counseling mamzelle need is WOOD one that will make her want to s**t position to ease up you coming down or she coming down on it like a pichette and have tojump off. HARD WOOD the only counseling she will ever know and need.

  38. Hmmm
    May 5, 2011

    If you claim to be “Adventist Christian,” why are you having sex before marriage? Ask yourself that first…

  39. Muslim_Always
    May 5, 2011

    Mister is a mad fella, I can never be a christian! :lol: :lol: :lol:

    Let me show you the difference in Islam how that is clear and how Allah is full of wisdom.

    Allah says in the Holy Quran: “Your wives are a TILTH for you so approach your TILTH WHEN and HOW you will but DO SOME GOOD ACT for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah and know that you are to meet Him and give good tiding to those who believe.” Holy Quran: 2:223

    My boy, let me put it in street language for you, God says hit and eat that kitty cat how and when you will but do some foreplay first by boy.

    On another level let me do a little explanation here. TILTH is an area of cultivation meaning where you really have the sex whether it’s missionary position, 6 to 9, back shot, crab, knee tremer, in other words do it as you want avoid the anus as this is not an area of cultivation. In short, all positions or actions are welcomed in the bedroom except ANAL INTERCOURSE.

    DO SOME GOOD ACTS BEFOREHAND…: It may mean foreplay, buying gifts, all the things that puts the woman in the mood.

    My boy, you get a woman that is willing to give it to you morning, noon and night and you saying NO! YOU COMPLAINING? You are a mad fella, trust me! A woman who has a healthy appetite and you complaining?

    You need some Islamic portion for you to gain some “freakyness” and start wanting to do things so that you can start thinking about wanting plural wives… :twisted:

    A note: That guy from the Middle East whose wife suing him for millions of dollars is a fool. It seems he is rich, all he had to do was to make some kind of operation at a good hospital to fix his problem if it cannot be solved herbally. In Iran they are skilled for this.

    • sweet pum pum
      May 5, 2011

      Muslim_Always is that really you :lol: Damn :) and you sound like my kind of freak hmmm :lol:

      • Muslim_Always
        May 5, 2011

        That’s me :lol:

      • none of ur damn business
        May 5, 2011

        sweet pum pum really i think you sound like a prostitute stop making a fool of yourself!
        muslim_always no disrespect but u sound like a pimp that kno every sex position, if the man believe sex is for husband and wife that’s it .

        • sweet pum pum
          May 5, 2011

          @NONE OF UR DAMN BUSINESS BE TRUE TO YOUR NAME NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS
          SAKWAY HYPOCRITE THIS COLUMN IS FOR PEOPLE TO VOICE THEIR VIEWS ! NOT
          FOR HYPOCRITES LIKE YOU TAKE A HIKE TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE SAKWAY SORT
          SOUNDS LIKE SOMETHING HURTING YOU :mrgreen:

        • sweet pum pum
          May 5, 2011

          EVERYBODY GIVING THEIR VIEWS AND OPINIONS WHAT IS YOUR DAMN PROBLEM DAMN
          HOMO IS ME YOU WANT TO COME AND TAKLE A**HOLE :mrgreen:

        • sweet pum pum
          May 5, 2011

          Hey Muslim we got ourselves a name :lol: PIMP AND PROSTITUTE ! I think we definitely have
          to hook up and none of ur damn business can clean up after us :lol:

        • Muslim_Always
          May 7, 2011

          sure sweet pum pum, anytime 8) :-P :-D

    • Confused
      May 11, 2011

      wow I CANNOT BELIEVE THIS IS MUSLIM_ALWAYS!!!!! SHocking :-o i soo shock…. :-o :-o :-o

      • Confused
        May 11, 2011

        I must say i agree.. The sex was made for husband and wives to enjoy… NO ANAL SEX!!!!! NO SAH!!! this is an exit not an entrance… HAve wild sex with your husband or your wives cause you cant do it with anyone else…

  40. Outraged
    May 5, 2011

    Dear Wondering I absolutely agree with Dear Bella. You have a keeper here honey you need to put a ring on it and fast. There is nothing wrong with exploring your sexuality with your siginificant other. I can tell you one thing though, you’ll never be bored in the bedroom with her around. Take Bella’s adivse and make that woman your wife.

  41. natural dominican
    May 5, 2011

    is this fool for real….you got a freak and you complaining…my advice….send her to me i’ll calm that a$$ down for you

  42. Vaga
    May 5, 2011

    lol lol lmao d/a’s got talent.northing is unclean if its sex,dear bella this young man needs to hustle his peanuts and face the woman.

  43. VACANCY
    May 5, 2011

    Wanted: One horny good looking female, who is freaky, loves porn, and willing to explore Kama Sutra.
    Experience required: None
    Education: Basic knowledge of Kama Sutra.
    Apply by texting. I WANT IT NOW ! to the number below.
    All applicants must be over the age of 16 and preferably below 40 to reduce the possibility of injury.

    • boondock!!
      May 5, 2011

      hahahahahahahahahahahhaha….word up!!

    • youth
      May 5, 2011

      lol lol boi dominica hav some real kix off pppl yes jahhhh
      i lik tht one

    • afreaksmydream
      May 6, 2011

      “All applicants must be over the age of 16 and preferably below 40 to reduce the possibility of injury.” hahah dat 1 take me hahahhahah

    • heyyyyyyyy!! lol
      May 6, 2011

      HAHAHAHAHAHA WOYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY… my coco shoooooooooo LOL LOL

      where is the number??? lol

      is it the number that represents the letters in “age” and then 1640? LOL

      I WANT IT NOWWWWWWWWWW!!!! lol lol hahahahaha

  44. Doing things right
    May 5, 2011

    I understand completely where you are coming from. That is why we are told to not be unequally yoked (I am assuming she is not Adventist). If she is, then she needs special help and prayers. I believe that God did intend for sex to be between a husband and wife. God smiles on your matrimonial bed. Sex should be enjoyable and fulfilling. It was gloriously magical for my husband and I and I am so happy that we waited. The guilt and shame of pre-marital or extra-marital sex robes you of that true pleasure especially once you know what’s right and wrong. No amount of justification will ever be enough to make the wrong a right. Society has perverted and devalued sex so much that it is sickening, when you consider how much of a special thing it can be. The fact that this woman is so obsessed with porn is in itself a major problem. She is addicted and it is unhealthy. One should not have to look to porn to learn how to enjoy sex. In fact, it leads you to cheapens it and rid it of the passion and intimacy that it should evoke. If and when you get married, your communication and passion will fuel your creativity in the bedroom and beyond and THAT is what a healthy sexual appetite is all about. I do not agree with Bella’s advice that you should marry her and you won’t regret it. In fact, it is widely believed that porn addiction is a leading cause of disharmony in marriage and even divorce. I suggest you have some serious heart to hearts with your girlfriend and really let her know how you feel. Consider it an intervention because of her addiction. You have to set some ground rules and ultimatums and be strict with it. If you guys are sexually active, I suggest you stop now, and work on building the other aspects of your relationship. Repent of your sins and pray that God keeps your pure until your marriage bed. Pray with her and for her, and if it becomes necessary, seek wise, godly counsel before you ever decide to get married. Do not listen to the name-callers and those who ridicule and jeer at you. Your concern is a legitimate one and I sincerely hope that you find the answers you are looking for and make the right decisions. God bless you and yours!

    • No face nor name
      May 5, 2011

      Your notion she is addicted toporn is incorrect. She is a yong female who wants to get experience.To learn one has to part-take.How you expect a young OBGY/mid wife to grow into an able competent mid wife if she’s not delivering babies regularly until she gets the hang of it? extraplot this to a meechanic electrician barber, lawyer police to function well and efficiently you have to stroke the ting.You hypos in the churches can be hornier than regular people.i know what am talking a bout.had a few religious hypos in my life.By hypo you get my drift not the animal am referring to but indeed these church people can be sex animals.

    • Outraged
      May 5, 2011

      @ Doing things right…I think you need a sex life…there is nothing wrong if a woman wants to explore here sexuality with her man as long as she’s not asking for three some and and all that Jazz.

    • mr unlucky
      May 5, 2011

      finally..a sane and objective resposnse……i truly agree

      • carib child
        May 6, 2011

        He`s not up to it. He`s a bs.

  45. easy
    May 5, 2011

    my boy just be thankfull….that’s a gift from god…..freak in the sheets,and a wowan in the streets…. well i dont know how she is on the streets…but the freak part i can deal with that..wink*

  46. Realistic
    May 5, 2011

    nymphomania
    Pathology. an excessive sexual desire in a female. Also called andromania, hysteromania, oestromania, uteromania. Cf. satyriasis. —

    Bro be careful what you dealing with. Because you might burn out after a straight 2 hour five night in a row after 3 months of marriage and she’ll be going out to look to for more.

    Or while you sleeping she having fun with pink, yellow and chocolate brown sex toys. Boy decide what you can deal with and cannot. Challenges and faults come in all sorts of ways. See which one you are facing, and decide whether or not to marry the girl.

    And after too much digging de ting might get slack, and is now all kinds of trouble will start. So careful.

    • Rabbi
      May 26, 2011

      You talking like you had your moment… Smh…

  47. TOMIAN
    May 5, 2011

    some men just pure boaring. your woman want to explore but u don’t want too! Dont get married my boy because she will get tired with u and u dont want to spoil it for her too.

  48. Franky Vincent
    May 5, 2011

    Garco couker till you cyan couker and if she still want more do some buisness with the excess

    • Juror
      May 5, 2011

      Warvo Franky

      • Franky Vincent
        May 5, 2011

        bayo bayo bayo lolo

  49. megboy
    May 5, 2011

    accept your woman and her freakness

  50. sweet pum pum
    May 5, 2011

    @Wondering I think you and the lady on “My husband is addicted to porn should I leave him” should hook up you all have a lot in common just saying. You all are both Adventists, switch partners. Problem Solved !

    • Muslim_Always
      May 5, 2011

      lol :lol:

    • Away Dominican
      May 11, 2011

      SOOOOOO AGREE!!!!

  51. Nervous Rex
    May 5, 2011

    Padna doh worry with de naysayers..i personally had to run from a woman because of her sexual appetite.
    She told me thay it was difficult for her to stay in a relationship because her previous boyfriends would complain about having too much sex. I end up callibg dem fellas soft..well who tell me say that? i too had too end up running from de woman. De woman was a freak.
    De moral of de story…run away from your girlfriend and send she to me..i go fix she good

    • Mr. Oh My
      May 5, 2011

      Felah, u eh izzy…..lol, trying to steal the man sex toy

  52. tiny
    May 5, 2011

    do not marry her boy….do not ever put your head between a woman’s leg…..that’s just nasty

    • baby G
      May 5, 2011

      what is so nasty about that.

      • sweet pum pum
        May 5, 2011

        And by the way doh worry with dem Jamaicans dem a nyam de puss big time and with pleasure
        too ! a me rattid ! :lol:

    • EaSiLy
      May 5, 2011

      Which country u from?
      Cyaan be D/ca! And if u’re D/can then you are one of the wannabe J/cans
      Cuz de truth is, here in D/ca, men do enjoy eating de fatty and women enjoy being eaten

      • Mr. Oh My
        May 5, 2011

        Definitely Cah be Dominica

        • sweet pum pum
          May 5, 2011

          Nah I believe tiny from Jamaica they only eat fish and chicken :lol:

      • 7.5"
        May 6, 2011

        Agreed, all he have to do is eat.

    • queenie
      May 26, 2011

      Tiny, i suspect u j/can for true…

      just put a little jerk sauce on the puss and you good to go……..

      you wouldn’t want to stop eating…………. :-P

  53. O.G.
    May 5, 2011

    boy you a homo or something…. enjoy thata garcon what d hell i hearin there nuh…
    a joke this man… must b a joke…

  54. LMAO
    May 5, 2011

    Give her to me.

    Still LMAO

  55. Kryptonite
    May 5, 2011

    bra whats wrong with you? the woman have an apetite and is up to you to satisfy it that is if you can.
    No woman like a soft boy you can be kool but in the bed you have to be a bedroom bully, you better do something before someone else do it for you. capich!!!!

  56. reader
    May 5, 2011

    Worrying/worrier/wonderer;
    Did you read the article of the arab woman who sued her husband for lack of?
    Man the saying one man’s trash is another man’s tresure?I am advising her to sue you. Sort.
    You must have domant gay inclines or impotent too. Or like we say back in the day” you have amnier pere priest ways” even them priest hitting parishioners hard. I know two who now have prostate problems that’s what cooled them down.In their time it was the book of god under woman head and man of god ontop them and the rod of salvation penetrating so woman move ur waist we would say. Roll!!!!Woolment.

    • dragon Man
      May 5, 2011

      lol- the rod of david and the tongue of the serphant

  57. iMan
    May 5, 2011

    As a man I just had to comment on this. My boy, trust me, if you doh taste the milk b4 hand u might have serious problems later because if u cannot satisfy her if/when u marry then she will without a doubt horn u.

    I am a married man and felt like you although a Catholic Christ but if I wasn’t good for myself I would have bought the wrong cow(no disrespect intended to the ladies). The milk sweet, and I happy…just wish mines was a little more of a freak.

  58. concerned.
    May 5, 2011

    i am quite shocked and disappointed in these responses. young man, this is not a healthy sexual appetite this is a problem. she is hooked on sex, lust as you call it and she needs help. Try seeing if you can talk to her bout it because it is bothering you or if she is willing to talk to someone bout it. This is serious. And if you are a christian you should know that there are books on dealing with these things and that you should not be having sex yet in the first place……….. CAUSE YOU ARE NOT MARRIED! Seek some good council my friend you can clearly see this is not the place for this.

    • Goldie
      May 5, 2011

      she is what you all a nymphomaniac! Can be really disturbing!

    • House slave
      May 5, 2011

      Di girl doh want talk is fire she need! So if you can’t put wood in her fire someone who can. I will text her, sex her for you no charges (free) pro bono servicing 4 ur wifey nightly daily. I can even wake you up to go to work ontime, I will even make ur coffee and breakfast, iron your work clothes.I will get you out of the house ready for work and then I will be working on her for you till you return by 5.30 P.M after work if you want to watch from a side room keyhole be my guest pervert. you will either cry or join and learn how this thing is suppose to be done.

      • dominican
        May 26, 2011

        lmfao @ house slave! lmao! i will wake u up..iron ur clothes hahahahahaha wwwooyyyee i get mal tete

  59. for real
    May 5, 2011

    if she is constantly watching porn, on dvd and all those sites on internet, yes, she is a dam freak and she has a problem. doh marry her. if she is creative and willing to try different positions, you are blessed. but i think your real problem is the freak part. nobody should be watching so much porn all the time. it have plenty ppl out there with mess up habits that really make them freaks.

  60. Osama
    May 5, 2011

    Suicide bomers are blowing up themselves to be rewarded with 72 virgins inthe afterlife and you have a hottie prepared to drown you with coco and you chating phat!Maybe you’d prefer beinga suicide bomer thesex inthe afterlife is not garanteed as no one has returned to attest. If you know what’s good for you get ready to bang your life away ,because i out looking for her.Sorry for you. When i touch it you will never even see her again. We will be locked up behing doors lol! :-D :-D You thought i was going to say behind bars? I giving up everything for her. you will be crying.

  61. WAT?
    May 5, 2011

    Who complains about this?…..Bredren marry di gurl and den u two can do all the nastiness all u want….and the positions aint nasty….only ting ever wrong wit sex is when it’s premarital…….

    NOW SHUT UP AND TAKE DAT PUS*Y LIKE A MAN!!!

  62. tsk tsk
    May 5, 2011

    he will not regret it based on the fact that she is willing to indulge in freaky sex? Well Bella, your view on what makes a good marriage is quite myopic papa.

  63. EaSiLy
    May 5, 2011

    alas my boy doh make ppl laugh u! :lol:

    Allu have been trying out dem positions, but it seems my brother cyaan make de grade with all so he’s complaining. :lol:
    my boy u better strap down ur waist and drink seamoss and bwa bandé.

    besides can u show me in the bible where it says sex between a husband and a wife should be clean? Is there anything such as clean and dirty sex?
    my boy enjoy yourself eh. get freaky, dirty, nasty, clean
    full ur belly. and when u finish eat and ur belly full, just belch!

  64. I want her
    May 5, 2011

    If she is too much for you to handle I will take her from you. Sex the woman like how she wants to be sexed before she finds someone else like me to do the job for her.

  65. dragon Man
    May 5, 2011

    What double standard with these christian crap. While he is stating that by christian belief sex is suppose to be a clean act between a man and a woman who are married it is also obvious that they are not married but having sex. Way to go Adventist Christian boy.
    Your problem is hypocracy – you guys let some pastor or group of religous control freaks control your life and when you encounter real life experiences you have no idea how to play the cards.
    The only idea I have for you my boy is do your best – an old fox like me would have seen that this chick is a sex machine – i would put couple tokens in play a cople of time and then cassino.

    I’m a straight shooter so it does not matter what the heck people say. Stop living according to people’s expectation. The expecting people have their own lives

  66. mr unlucky
    May 5, 2011

    Partner you well lucky..I’ve been looking for a woman like her for so long,pass her to me nuh…

  67. loverboy
    May 5, 2011

    i wish my wife was like that u should be happy boy send her to me i will help her if u cant

  68. Missing & Exploited
    May 5, 2011

    Hey papa, she sounds like just the girlfriend for me; If you giving up on her, please pass on the digits so I can acquaint myself. Does she have a job? Is she caring? Can she cook? Will she be a good mother?

    It seems to me that your complaint is a blessing from God. God gave you all that pleasure in the form of this woman and you not happy?

    I need a wife like her!

  69. sweet pea
    May 5, 2011

    What! Boy u have every mans dream and u complaining? What good is being a christian if You have to wait until you get married to have sex and when you do get married you cannot have a blast? Boy thats the reward that god has given u for waiting.Take it and don’t complain. You dont have to hold back anymore, .ALL positions are welcome, ALL techniques are accepted. What goes on in your bed room is between u and your wife (to be)…if you didnt tell us we wouldnt kno…hehehe. AS BELLA SAID YOUR Girlfriend has a healthy sexual appetite…eat yur breakfast lunch and supper and behave yourself.

    • Rabbi
      May 26, 2011

      No one could’ve said it better!!!!

  70. Girl give me a call.. dump mista
    May 5, 2011

    Dial my number 767 617 1234

    • WAT?
      May 5, 2011

      WICKED!!!!!!

    • wawww WAWW
      May 5, 2011

      lmao!

      • Muslim_Always
        May 5, 2011

        kml = killing myself laughing :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

    • Mr Sout City
      May 5, 2011

      Good one

    • wow
      May 6, 2011

      calling u now. LOL. u cannot be serious. LOL

    • heyyyyyyyy!! lol
      May 6, 2011

      Woyyyyyyyyyyy… Look it lolz… hahhahahaah I goin to call that NUMBER!!!! lolz

    • godfather
      May 11, 2011

      i agree wit u give oda man the digits :lol:

    • MADNESS!
      November 16, 2011

      i takin da number!
      lololol

  71. wawww WAWW
    May 5, 2011

    are you having sex with her now??

    you must like it if you are there 2 plus yrs later…so plz stop being a hyocrit.

    if she’s too explicit for you just end the relationship…marriage???y???You see how she is BEFORE the marriage what’s this talk about marriage?that’s recipe for divorce

    and bella i disagree with your advice –>”Go ahead and get married to this young lady. I can assure you, you will not regret it”.
    I think if someone has to ask others if they should get married or not then the answer is already no

    • sweet pea
      May 5, 2011

      They are not having sex now…u didnt hear he say he believes sex is supposed to be a clean act between husband and wife? The man is a virgin.

      • wawww WAWW
        May 5, 2011

        so for two years you watching her obsess over sex and u not saying squat? u doh see he dishonest? OR hypocrit

    • charmed
      May 5, 2011

      it is better to be thought of as a foul than to open your mouth and remove all doubt!!!!!

      please read the mans article and then comment …

      i reralise it is peole like you whom destroy yours and others relationship quicky!!!!

      take your advice and shove it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      • wawww WAWW
        May 5, 2011

        mans?
        reralise??
        peole?

        why don’t YOU take your own advice and shove it…*Spell check on isle 2*

        • House slave
          May 5, 2011

          Wamuuuw wam u dotish or what man talking sex you coming up with spelling you must be another one with erectile dysfunction that viagra nor cialis can help see what you digging spelling.A young hot female want to camasutra and spelling is what you can come up with? :-D Man you want, need blows on ur tete cal sacawy maco .1/2 pass 6 :-D :-D :-D Go back ur fist lolLMAO. spelling my rear!

        • YESSAH
          May 11, 2011

          I WAS SAYING THE SAME DAMN THING LOL

        • YESSAH
          May 11, 2011

          WAWWWWWW WAWWWW I AGREE WITH YOU… CHARMED IS EITHER GAY OR A GEEK LOL

  72. anon
    May 5, 2011

    MY BOY BE SURE U CAN SATISFY THAT APPETITE BEFORE YOU DO NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!! REMEMBER WHAT I WAYNE SANG!!!!

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