However, something has been on my conscience for years and now I’m wondering if I should clear my conscience and cause pain to my family or keep things to myself. I had an affair with a co-worker around the time I got pregnant with my last child. To be honest I am not sure if my co-worker or my husband is the father. My youngest child looks different from the others, they’re thinner and more light-skinned.
I’m sure my husband is probably wondering why this is so. Should I confess?
I think your husband deserves the truth. It is very wicked and deceitful to live such a lie for so long. Be prepared for a major upheaval in your marriage. You cannot continue to live a lie. Do the right thing, clear your conscience.
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