Sometimes I wonder why women keep boyfriends who cannot take care of them.
My philosophy is, if your man cannot afford to give you a $5 top-up now and then, he deserves the boot. Some men are just plain worthless. All they want is sex, sex, sex, attention and commitment from their women but they do not want to treat her right. Instead, he spends his money on other women or spends money on men!
There are many independent women out there who still need help now and again. They won’t ask because they fear that their men will see them different, plus many of them weren’t brought up to depend on men.
But the sad thing is that some men take advantage of this. Because their women are deemed independent, they do not treat her right. They do not ask how she manages on a daily or monthly basis. At least his concern would make her feel better.
Guys, not because your woman is not complaining does not mean she is happy. You need to find out how she is getting by or if she is ok. Mind you, moderation is required because you do not want to spoil her either. But she deserves your support emotionally and monetarily.
It is very interesting that us men pamper the women who have money or who are materialistic, but we leave the humble ones to fetch for themselves. It is just not right.
You do not want her to look at another man but you do not want to give her what she wants. Does that make sense? We have some jealous men around, who requires that a woman explain her every move, but when time comes to let the greens loose he is unable to do it, or he is broke – always broke – yet he finds time to drink out with his friends. “Batty-manism” at its best!
Please guys, no one is telling you that you have to be rich or have plenty money to take care of a woman (though some women are indeed high maintenance). However, you must be willing to help your woman up, not down. Take care of her. Even if you cannot give her all she needs or money, she will be contented at the fact that her man wants better for her and he is in fact working hard to make things better “for us”.
Sometimes it is the small things that matter, and men are always focusing on the big things.
So lighten up and go top-up your woman’s phone. She needs to call her ex for a booty call.
See ya next week.
LMFAO…the women dont need the money to call their ex or another man bt to call their man.. the same man that didnt want to put the top up is the same one that expecting the call everynight when that woman do put it for their own important reason…nice one Nice Guy!
lmao,…..i agree with you mister nice guy…..but i doe have a problem with putting my own top up…….if the man doe want to put for me that is his business, im independent……..once he doe expect me to put for him…….i doing me, and he can do him……….if he giving me ill give him………….but some men cheap for true…..they not giving you shit but they want you to give them……sar par righteous…….
me and my gf have our style.. one week we both put free text next week i put free call for her… my girl n i wanna talk to her… b4 it was $5 but now is $8 i doe care.. look she texting me all now
oh plz if all yr bf can give u is 5 dollar top up then that aint a bf
If no man give me five dollars top up i leaving him.Before you say hello darling that finish.Forty dollars is the least i topping up my daughter and that is $u.s.MR. Nice Guy is better i top you up man.But some of those women self before the man ask for their number they answering. “Give me a top up nah”.Tonne mize is not you dat going to call them is he dat ask for the number so he will call you.But allyou making them feel allyou dependent.Good thing i dam independent.Once a Dominica boy come and cut style on me because he was checking a white woman,playing he have money, when i open my purse for him,and mark you i did it because he told me he doe want no broke ass Dominican woman..You know where he is now ?back in DA,he bugger a goat.he went jail and they deport his tail.So Mr. Nice guy a lot of them more broke than the woman and cannot even give a dollar top up.
NO,no,no.I like that article. I can’t wait for Friday to check back. You all dominicans have me cracking up.You make me feel like i’m in Dominica. Keep it up. Ilove it.
and sad enough is dem hungry boasters dat we women want to walk de road with wee, at the end of the day, we fool our selves,and say MAN FOOL US, alaas poor us women.
hmmm..sorry darling but ur last comment sounds like the sayings of a prostitute
well thats so true some men dont wan to spend on their woman. they dont even ask how r things with u. these men are to be left alone. i know things r not always bright but atleast askk and find out she will realise that you care about her, give what ever u can it will make a difference.
I never thought I would see the day when NICE GUY posted something that actually made sense!
I am afraid…is this a sign of the end??
That is soo true. What i just can't take on is a cheap man. That is the biggest turn off to me. Men always want their woman to look good but some of them are just cheap. From the time I start getting to know a guy and i realize he has tight hands…i out him down right away. I am not going to open my legs for any man and then get nothing out of it.
Mr. Nice Guy you heat the nail on the head. What you said is so true. Those men are so cheeeeeeaaaph, they depend on women to support them and you can see for yourself with the comments they are making for one little $5 top up. No respect for women guess they dont have mum or sis.
Mr nice guy you’re forgetting the most important thing in a relationship, “communication”. A close mouth don’t get feed. First of all no one should incur an expense that they can’t afford to pay themselves. The economy is bad everywhere and besides it’s a guarantee that where going to be in this longterm. If you
don’t have a ring on in from me you gets no luv.
mr not nice
dat article supports prostitution. men can give women de world and all they have to offer is sex…
I support this article 110%, Oh yes men nowadays are very selfish, and the sad part is there are sometimes children involved, they do not take care of the children much less. Thats why they feel threatened by women cause soon we will dominate.
ever consider that there are more broke men out there than broke women ?
mr.nice guy you are too cute !…love your article !
You see problems mister looking for ? Weh boy….is why I doh want woman with cell phone, call me primitive, but once upon a time I could use my five dollars to buy a small pelau for my lunch, right now nice guy telling me I must spend it on top-up. What happen de woman cannot pass and check me after work, or I can check her on her lunch break…what people used to do before cell phone? I personally doh believe on spending money on woman maintenance until de relationship solid, because some woman know how to koolay a man. Sure I doh have a problem paying for gifts, outings or dinners, but bills, rent and upkeep? Awah…..I doh signing up for that…not until me and de woman is MAN AND WIFE…..or at least engaged…..all man giving away kool-pipe for free, so why woman want compensation for kyat? Is not a bom, is a relationship, mutual enjoyment! Come again nice guy.
it must be a woman dat write dat shit.. NONSENSE!!!!
so every time u have to top up their phone how much top up their sending for man
Marco……………Polo! Marco………….Polo! Marco………………………..Marco. Get real Mr nice guy. What you taking man for. ZehZeh die long time. i bet when you top up her phone she does never call you. bet is me she calling! lol……………….
MR NICE GUY, SO THEY PUT MAN TO GIVE WOMAN, TOP UP, AND WHEN THEY GET IT THEY DON’T EVEN CALL YOU, THEY SAYING, YOU CHEAP, IF THE WOMAN WANT TOP UP, FELLER IT HAS SOMETHING THEY CALLING WORK, SO ME THAT IS THE BANK NAH, YES YOU TO TAKE CARE OF THE WOMAN, BUT THE STRECTHING THE JOKE YAH, WORKING FOR MY MONEY,THEIR DOH BREAK YET, AND FELLER YOU SPEAKING ABOUT IS SEX ALONE THEY WANT COME BETTER THAN NOT DA YOU LIVING MAN, WELL PLAY NICE GUY ALL THE TIME AND YOU WILL SEE WHERE YOU WILL END UP, IN A BUDDY BAG, BECAUSE WHEN YOU DON’T HAVE THEY LEAVING FOR SOMEONE ELSE SO WATCH IT MISTER NICE GUY!
Mr. Nice Guy dat article not sounding like you, u sure is not a woman dat give u dem words dere?
Doh come an kyonay people dere yuh kno
Mr. Nice Guy you are double standard. Are you really compassionate to the few good women out there who are independent and do not beg man for top up and other nonsense. However, I will agree with a few things you said, such as not because a woman does ask for certain things, she should be ignored in other areas. A man does not have to be inconsiderate of our feelings. That means, do not ask us how was our day, sometimes cook for us, give us a little massage once in a while and treat us well on our birthday, Valentines Day, Mother’s Day and other special occasions. We have a serious problem with our men nowadays. God is good all the time for sure, once you believe and have faith, you will be blessed with a man deserving of you. There are still some good men out there.
erbe marco pa feb,
WELL BEFORE MAN IS WHO USE GO AFTER THE LADIE’S BUT NOW ADAYS TINGS CHANGE LADIE’S ARE THE ONES GOING AFTER DEM MAN SO LET THEM DO THE TOPING UP LOL
LOL
MR DOH WELL
I like the article.It reminds me of a particular guy who is just like that.Lmao
Mr. nice guy, i think you on Q with this article. Really and truely, the humble women dont ask for much or hardly anything. doesnt mean they have money or they dont want materialistic things, it jus means that they are greatful with what they have, and if one day the boyfriend would take some time and try to give her the world without she asks.. trust me thats priceless.
On another note.. men like expensive women, they like the challenge and they like other men to fancy their woman… but the day u cant do the job, trust me, another man will and then where will u be?? Men just dont think sometimes.
distance u r so correct. n mr nice guy i agrre when u say, not because ur woman doesn’t complain she is happy
THERE ARE GENUINE WOMEN OUT THERE WHO “US” MEN WOULD LOVE TO HELP NOW AND THEN….BUT SAD TO SAY ALOT OF WOMEN FALL TO THE TREND OF MILKING THIER MAN…..BUT ITS ALL GOOD….WE GOT THE MONEY…WOMEN GOT THE HONEY…..WE DOE MIND PAYING FOR IT….BUT GUYS WE HAVE TO SHOP SMART…SOME PLACES WE CAN GET IT CHEAPER….LOL
THERE IS A NEW TREND OF WOMAN OUT THERE WHO HUSTLING CRAZY MONEY AND CLAIM THEY DONT NEED MEN NOR THIER MONEY….SO FELLAS HOLD YOUR WOMAN TIGHT…LOL
A LITTLE HUMOUR
ANYWAYS PROPS TO THE GENUINE HARD WORKING WOMEN OUT THERE….GOLD DIGGERS AND TOP UP AVENGERS…GO WORK TO TOP UP UR PHONE….SHATE!!!!
Mr.Nice guy you’re a….., $15 top now and den for what? ohhhh. i forgot you girl has to call her ex….because you can’t satisfy her…
I totally support this article. there really are some cheap ass men
lol batty manism at its best.. hahahaha