NICE GUY: Single woman + married man = salop

If you’re reading this and you are or were involved with a married person, you’re salop (nasty).

No one should get involved intimately in any form with a married person unless they are fully divorced. It’s just not right, and ya’ll know it too. But lust takes over and we call it love.

I am not sure what it is about married men that these young women love so much. These married men cannot keep their relationship firm, yet they are able to harness the attention and body of young, stupid women, coercing them into believing that a relationship with them is viable.

I could understand if you got involved because the man fools you by telling you he is not married when he really is. However, after finding the truth the next best thing is to dump him and tell his wife. But no, women are so gullible that they will continue to listen to the grime that spews from these idiots mouth and maintain some sort of friendship with benefits.

I agree that we are all human beings and we cannot help being attracted to some people because of how they look and how charming they are. But self control is essential. If you fell in love with a married man, do not place blame on nature. You’re the one to blame because you ALLOWED yourself to. The moment you realised he is married, a line should be drawn and you should not have bowed down to his standards.

I know a few good women who meet married men, who propose the world to them. They become the most charming angels and would offer their souls to be with these “on-the-side-women”. These married men out of nowhere become the best friend of friends. However, marriage is sacred and we all know this.

Commonsense would tell any woman that if a married man is cheating on his wife, he is capable of cheating on his “side thing” if they become serious. It shows he has no respect for himself and women.

A lot of single guys are out there. Good single guys. Some women are just confused and silly. They meet a good single guy, finds all the excuses in the world not to commit to them, but they meet a married man and f*** him and enter into a unhealthy relationship, then when the married man decides to stay with his wife she gets gwo pwel (heart break) and call men “dogs” and that single, good men are hard to find.

Sometimes women are the problem. Sometimes women create monsters.

I stress on married men because married women rarely fall victim. She has to be pushed to the edge. And sometimes when she gets to the edge and brings herself back to reality – unlike the doggish married men, who want to be telling these single, silly women how to run their lives, who to be with and who not to be with. They got the fish already so they could say anything they want.

Ladies, even if a man tells you he is in the middle of the divorce, do not listen to him. Let him get his s*** out the way first then he can check you (if you’re available). Whether he is in the middle of a divorce or planning to do it, is no excuse to get involved with a married man. Also remember that getting a divorce can be very tedious and may take years. He may just scrap it and fix his marriage and leave you screwed and dry.

It happens all the time. So nothing I am saying is new.

Men always come with some bullshite story about their wives to get in your panties. Weren’t they dating before or did he do a blind-date type of marriage? So if his wife is all that bad, why hasn’t he divorced her yet? Oh please, nigger, go sit down.

Women should also learn that married men rarely leave their wives for “side things” who are just “side whores” who satisfy the married men lust for “fresh” vagina. So do not believe that he really loves you. If he loved you he would have gotten divorce long time ago and take it to the next level. But he prefers to tell you rubbish, make you believe he’s in love with you, shower you with gifts, while in disguise he is just buying your pump pum, and enjoying it while it lasts. When it gets stale, he will move onto to the next young girl.

So ladies, harness your self-esteem and don’t get tied up with married men. Stop being a salop and a little whore. Get a grip.  OK bunny? One day the texting, phone calls will stop and you will realise you were only a piece of leftover.

As for married women, we know you’re way smarter. Why? Because if the man ain’t playing his cards right, you will dump him no questions asked.

See ya guys next Friday (if I am in the mood).

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97 Comments

  1. Cateyez
    October 17, 2011

    I live in the U.S & have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, he is LEGALLY separated from his “wife” and have been for the past 5 years. However he stopped his divorce in the final stages 4 years ago because his “wife” had a stroke & is in a vegetative state living in a nursing home nearby. I am not a dumb naive woman & has went over all the paper work so I know what he said are facts. He has asked me several times if I want him to go through with the divorce & I always reply no, My bf owns 2 major corporations & based on the amount her lawyer wants as an accountant, financially staying separated works best for all parties based on my situation do you still consider me a “salop” ???

    • Rev. Donald Hilla
      March 9, 2013

      Yes. You are a salop. If your boy friend got a divorce it still wouldn’t give him the right to marry you in God’s sight. His wife is in a vegetative state in a nursing home? Didn’t he take a vow that said “…in sickness and in health…”? Would you want him to dump you if you were incapacitated by illness? Past action is the best foreteller of future behaviour. The evidence shows this is exactly what he would do. I’m sure in your little world there are many people who lives this way. But few of them are happy. They are always looking over their shoulder wondering if somebody is about to snatch away their partners. Their lives are fraught with many other woes. So please don’t use your broken life as an example for another broken soul. Instead, turn your life around. Get out of that adulterous relationship. Accept God’s full and free forgiveness through faith in Jesus Christ. The Bible says “…the blood of Jesus Christ (God’s) Son cleanseth us from all sin.” (1 John 1:7) It happens the moment we believe that Christ died for our sins and rose again the third day, and we ask Him to come into our heart and be our personal Saviour according to St. John 1:12 and Revelation 3:20! Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist. http://www.livinghopeministries.ca

  2. Faith
    August 21, 2011

    I agree with you…Do not attach with married man. I am a single lady and fell in love with a married man. we never sleep together or rather having sex. It is just very natural that the chemistry flows between us. We spent time together and it is a thrill when we get closer. I do not know how to explain but it is called Love. We hold hands, kissed and hugged. He helps me in many ways but not money as I dont want it. I knew it was wrong but we just have the feeling for each other. i tried to leave him many times but to no avail…i am still trying hard to let go this relationships before it goes deeper. Love is a miracle, if you meet the right person, it doesnt matter if he is married. But falling in love can be controlled by the mind. I will leave him for sure, will need a couple of month to break up…

  3. LoL
    August 2, 2011

    For the first time i agree with you.once a man is MARRIED you should keep away from him especially sexually, because the same way he is cheating on his wife he could have 2 more side women and you making # 3.

  4. uh huh
    June 5, 2011

    nice guy is just full of SHIT!!!! i believe nice guy is a woman pretending to be a man…. if your husband is cheating then you’re doing something wrong or maybe he’s just tired of you ass…. no one is forcing married men to cheat…and there’s no right to call single woman salop cause we all live in a salop world… it’s time to wake up and get real… men and women will always cheat get used to it!!!!

  5. Jane Doe
    January 14, 2011

    salop? hmmm there are some women out there that are pure trouble makers but that’s not always the case. i have been in the situation where i got involved with a married man but not for once i will refer to myself as being a salop.
    i had been in a relationship for a while and my boyfriend broke up with me while i was pregnant – i was on my own had to pay all the doctor and hospital bills but i made it through. i kept asking him to give our relationship another try but he refused. in the process he made passes at my best friend, had sex with a woman he brought to my house and ate the meal i cooked, got involved with a young girl (she was 18) that came up to me and told me ‘i have the man you love’. i was just losing my mind. here i was, never cheated doing my best and this is all i am getting. i was fed up. i turned to this guy and yes i knew he was married ((his wife does not live on island and hardly visits) and quite frankly he gave me some comforting words and advise. light seemed to be peeping through the little cracks in my life and i started feeling better – my world after all was not over. it just so happened that we got so comfortable with each other that something happened.
    now when i look back at it i get rather disgusted with myself as i had lost everything i stood for but i will not kill myself over it. i made a mistake and even though it felt good while it happened couple months down the line the guilt was having the better part of me. anyway i am over it – we live and we learn and i have learnt to not speak to a man when i am in a vulnerable situation and ladies you should take my advise as well. we all make mistakes but if you are one who purposely seek to enter a marriage and cause disruption….keep away

    • nice
      August 2, 2011

      but you are not pleased with wat you did, and you got your comfort, and got out of that realationship, you did not stay with that man did you?

  6. sweet pum pum
    January 12, 2011

    lmao @mr nice guy…I hear your pain and anger in your article and boy I can tell some young girl give you a gwo pwell for a married man…call me salop if you like I don’t care the forbidden fruit
    is sweet and exciting and I want it ! :lol:

    • Jay
      January 14, 2011

      that was funny

  7. I know your kind
    August 31, 2010

    @Big Toe lee: Most men that have and want other women cannot even satisfy the one they have at home. Ask her to tell you the truty, SHE IS FAKING IT. Learn to satisfy one woman and leave the rest alone.

  8. i love DNO
    August 9, 2010

    lol!!! so tru….many salops out there hahahahaha lmao!

  9. August 9, 2010

    @FIRE: plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.everyman is responsible for himself.on judgement day god will judge

    • mr
      December 11, 2012

      get a job mate

  10. texas
    August 8, 2010

    Life is a complex monology, often times people find love in obscure places, and time have a way of proving that even love is not always procured where it should. It is as equally distasteful for a partner in a relationship to be defrauded by his spouse deliberately. Defraud I mean to ignore the intimate needs of the spouse. Relationships have away of dwindling to the point where fulfilment becomes a chore. If you were to talk with people who are married for a particularly length of time, you will learn that, the duration of their relationship is not necesarily because the bliss is all on fire, but because of other social commitments that obligate them, and many times they live their lives in total unfulfillment. The cure for this is not a quick fix, and yet there is the human side of needs, that necesitates that those needs find fulfilment at least in part by someone willing to listen. The best relationships are those that flourish on the true foundation of love where there there is mutual respect for each other,. where there is transparency and trust, where there is understanding and commitment, infact a relationship is like a garden it needs alot of attention, and when ignored, there will be difficulty and trouble, we all just need the kind love that keeps us being fulfilled, that is what we were designed for in the context of male and female.

  11. its not one sided
    August 8, 2010

    While I agree with many of the points raised, I feel Mr. “supposedly” nice guy is being very one sided. Firstly, I feel it is the primary responsibility of the married person or even the person in a committed relationship to remain faithful! They are the ones who made the commitment to be with this person for better or worse (although worse is sometimes too bad to handle). Many women who involve themselves with men in any type of committed relationship are not interested in commitment themselves, they are just in it for the ride, money, gifts whatever and then they will move along. Women are more resilient than you think! So before you go being one sided, take a look at who the real salop is… its the man.

    • rubbish
      December 4, 2010

      sorry ur the salop to be just riding lol

  12. August 8, 2010

    A dummy again u must be a salop …SALOP LOL

  13. scott's head pose
    August 8, 2010

    well i think single women should say no to married men but if they feel to be with them it is their choice and i think we dominicans should mind our damn businessand let them people be,sometime it’s not a bad thing i have seen men leaving their wife and married their so call mistress and madly inlove with them,anyways we all know wats makes us happy if married men do for u more power to u and go ahead………………………………..

  14. Get real!!
    August 8, 2010

    I feel a woman private part and heart is hers, and she can share it with whom the hell she pleases. Allu doing like those women forcing those married men to leave their homes. The main problem there is the wives, because they allowing their husbands to treat them like s*** and then coming and blaming the women (mistresses).

    The reason the young women with your husbands is because your husbands neglecting your needs and fulfilling theirs. Married women STOP making noise with women and divorce allu unfaithful husbands… once a cheater always a cheater! Men ego boost up when they know their wives killing themselves speaking s***, and they still there cooking, cleaning and raising kids. Stop saying is for kids allu staying and erase those cheaters from allu lives.

    Man will cheat, women will cheat, nothing gonna stop that.. cause the best fruit ever is forbidden fruit!!!!!!

    Nice guys i think you’re a woman posing like a man…So if your husband having an affair let him go!!!!!!… instead of calling the woman salop.. i sure she not asking your husband to call her and text her all the damn time.

  15. HMMMM(1)psychic
    August 8, 2010

    This story is true and the married men should also be held accountable especially if both parties know he is married. It’s an utter shame and disgrace when a woman goes online late at nights for cyber sex with a married man whilst his wife sleeps next to him ..just to make a long story short.

  16. Just giving my 2 cents
    August 8, 2010

    I agree with married guy but i have just one comment – PLEASE DO NOT USE THE “N” WORD. You don’t need it to get your point across.

    I really like that this article is written in real talk.. using the Dominican way of things… salop – had me laughing- but sometimes the harshness of the words do get the point across and i’m all for reality.

  17. KOSH
    August 8, 2010

    @madness: wat is the N WORD? BUT HOW ALLU HYPOCRITE SO NUH….D WORD nasty everywhere wi….n being with a married man is NASTY..

  18. dreams
    August 8, 2010

    some of all you too not good for true….OKAY unmarried man maybe not so bad,if is man with two woman u want.. FINE…BUT A MARRIED MAN!!! AWA…GOD NEVER SAY DAT…i agree with nice guy…the words killing some of allu…God is the judge but by their fruits you shall know them

  19. hard worker
    August 8, 2010

    @joe, why should i give up what i work so hard for to another woman?

  20. ON BEHALF OF ALL S.A.L.O.P Just So!!!!!!!
    August 8, 2010

    Single women do it BETA! When you all so -called married women get the ring you all become BORING! You all always tired! Always something always this always that! Hey Baby, wake it up shake it Up and Keep Hubby at home in his place! Or Else just deal with the fact that a single HOT Young woman will do justice to him. All of you hypocrites trying to act as if you were just given saint hood, you not fooling anybody baby, give your mouth chain on DNO because it is free! Pop something wifey you got the license, please, don’t come on here and blah blah Wear something nice, put on some perfume, chew some gum, ask him how he wants it tonight, cook something wifey, call him during the day , ask him how his day is going. don’t complain so much, yes you are wife but that does not make you QUEEN of the BITCHES! Chill out, don’t be so fussy, TAKE CARE OF YOUR MAN BABY! Keep a conversation with him stop telling your girls what you hate about him. Appreciate him you married him. If you are the unfortunate wife who has lost her husband to a Sweet Available Loving Open( open to trying new things) Partner (SALOP) I recommend you go back to the marriage night and BRING IT BACK WIFEY. If you know what I mean. STOP Blaming the S.A.L.O.P WE know how to DO IT RIGHT. Just Ask your husband! YES All of YOU from the Wives Club he will tell you truth is he just got home from a S.a.L.O.P’s House.hahaha LOL

    • dcans
      February 1, 2011

      girlfriend well said them salops got it good good them inside women need to stop wearing there man t shirts and put on sumthin sexy for when there men get home,and instead of stayin there and worry bout the other women they should think of new ways to keep the spice in there relationships….

    • hell hath no fury
      June 22, 2012

      its not the wifes fault if a dog of a man is out screwy some young girl. and not all married woman are borring, and chances are they are tired cause the man is lazy and makes her do all the work. the’re plenty of single men in the world no need to try and wreck a home just to get your thrills, knowing he has someone home, taking care of his family. a sluts a slut, grow up and learn some respect.

      • Note
        July 7, 2012

        What about the situation where it is the married woman who is screwing out.

  21. newtral
    August 8, 2010

    If : Married man + Single woman = Salop

    Then: Single man + Single woman = Salop

    Therefore: Man + Man = Salop

    Hence: Woman + Woman = Salop

    So: Woman + animal = Salop

    Nice Guy… we live in a Salop world… get used to it.

    • Note
      July 7, 2012

      You left out married woman + ….. = salop.
      Sum up all together, you get = orgi.

  22. newtral
    August 8, 2010

    I don’t understand the rational with most of the comments on this post:
    Are we so blind that we actually cannot see the truth?
    I remember reading in the bible that fornicators and adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of god.
    Yet all of you criticizing adultery but encouraging fornication….. well all you blind!
    Both are wrong in Gods eyes, adultery is no worst that fornication.

  23. mandodox
    August 7, 2010

    I first want to start off by saying that i think you are female…. the manner in which you express yourself suggests that you are …Anyway, to get to the point… WHO DO U THINK U ARE??? GOD???… HOW DARE U JUDGE PEOPLE AND THE WAY THEY LIVE THERE LIVES??? I mean i respect the bible and i understand that adultery is a sin but for you to decide that no matter what the situation, these women are SALOPS’ (which is a colloquial term for harlot,whores, sluts, nymphos, just to name a few ) makes you out of your damn place…did you not read the parts in the bible which ask us not judge??? John 8: 1 – 11, for example??? In case you havent’t this is what it says:

    John 8: 1 – 11

    [1] Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.
    [2] And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.
    [3] And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
    [4] They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
    [5] Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
    [6] This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
    [7] So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, HE THAT IS WITHOUT SIN AMONG YOU, LET HIM CAST THE FIRST STONE AT HER
    [8] And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.
    [9] And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.
    [10] When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
    [11] She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, NEITHER DO I CONDEMN THEE,: go, and sin no more.

    So you see,,,right now you should be asking god for forgiveness for trying to be him. Also, for some sad reason you seem to put all the blame on the ladies…how bias is that??? Listen, i understand that you are entitled to your opinion; but the next time you decide to share it with the world, try doing it with some respect so that people actually get the message you are trying to get across and not think of you as a complete idiot who is seeking attention.

  24. Helen
    August 7, 2010

    For once I agree with Nice Guy. You hit the nail on the head

  25. Pnuts
    August 7, 2010

    Wives and kids are suffering pple. Kids are left to hang in the balance of broken homes, infedelity, failed marriages and the list goes on. Think about that all the folks with their negative remarks and all their cover up excuses. KIDS…..

  26. Crazy Macho
    August 7, 2010

    @ please!!! U sound like a bitter home wrecker. Wow, I guess your married man disk U for his own wife. Haha. Too bad, find your own man.

  27. Crazy Macho
    August 7, 2010

    @ please!!!

  28. Mabouche
    August 7, 2010

    @exactly: ever thought that maybe the ”salop” is not the problem & that your husband might just be an a$$hole who can’t keep his d**k in his pants ? I seriously doubt your husband is being forced to be with this ”salop” when he comes on vacation. In fact, instead of wanting to meet with the ”salop” why not keep ur hubby in check ?

  29. Mabouche
    August 7, 2010

    @FIRE:@Big Toe lee:

    You are an idiot & a coward ! If you have that big an issue with being faithful to one partner…stop whining & move to some country where multiple partners is legal. The law is not forcing you to lie to your wife or girlfriend… your lack of morals & respect to your wife or gf caused you to.

    NOTE : Stop being selfish & come clean to one or both of the women of your deceiving traits instead of forcing them into an unwanted situation. Its men like you, & i use the term ‘men’ loosely, who give the good men out there a bad rep.

  30. WeiRDScienCe
    August 7, 2010

    I agree 100% with Mr.Nice Guy Women a Salop if they sleeping with a married man simple as that. Why is de Women that salop because they loving a married man that is why. Dey prefer be a married man whore than another man wife that is whey they salop. Dey will believe everything de man telling dem even dough dey know is a lie. DAt is why dey salop. De man living with his wife and dey will be f*cking de man in Guest house, HOtel, Motel, Hot-water, Holday Inn anywhere dey can pull down dere panty. DAt is why dey Salop. NOw I can go on and on and on with that. And dey like to come and tell a man that have his woman that want to Fu*k dem he have his woman but dey making all excuses when is a married man. DAt is why dey Salop. I will Blame a man too but sometimes is just dem woman so eager to “Pass It” de man have no choice. Dem woman to Salop out of all dem man that outside dere a Married man all u want to go an mashup den all u going church and play. Some of them is teachers teaching ur children and dey in that “mash me up Married man ” ting. Ladies respect all u self and get a man even dough all u have to take a woman man all that in it..But leave dem married man alone..dey dough want all u..dey just want Crushup on dere wife..so all u is just a crushup…and believe me if he mashing u up ..9 out of 10 he have another crush for when u busy..that is de game..if you like a man try to take him from his woman providing that he not married..if u think u can do better than de woman go for it..but if he married let get his divorce cuz if he love u really (Big Doubt) he will…

    • under the radar
      January 5, 2011

      BOMB JUST DROP!!!!! now all them girls who cannot respect themselves least of all another womans marriage. DIE!….. DIE DIE DIE. god i hate adultery!

  31. wwwwooooyyyyyeeeee
    August 7, 2010

    My sentiments exactly!! While reading this i could feel the hurt, rage and anger coming through the pc boy. What is up with the sallop business? Why blame the woman. What about the wives who ill-treat their husbands, take them for granted and push them out of the homes? why? because they have the ring and they can do whatever the hell they want and the man will stay. If you are talking, talk from all angles. Ican feel your anger…..Take it easy my dear.

  32. August 7, 2010

    trust you nice guy, you’ll always know that women are afraid of committment. cant you see the problem is you DUH. women create lil monsters hmph i wonder…..theoretically speaking you just tryna put up a good look for yourself and say that there are many singles out there. yeah some day you’ll settle down with your laptop and married to DNO, you have a new problem everyday why not talk to doctor phil lmfao.Nice guy get a grip, putting titles when it all suits you. p.s 40 year old virgin

  33. August 7, 2010

    Every man stands alone on judgement day

  34. Pnuts
    August 7, 2010

    It would be soooo nice if men will just leave pple children alone when they know they are not serious, or ready to settle down. They are rushing into marriage, tying up pple young girls, standing in the way of that young girl potential true love that may show up like 5 yrs down the road, then talking they and wife not together, and they are just there for the sake of the kids. Give me a break!!!!

  35. August 7, 2010

    I know you`re being honest writer. But alas have you ever heard “You can bring the horse to the water but you cannot make it drink? if you know what that means, i feel your pain” i would be wasting time trying to explain to you why these things happens. Just for the sake of your post. There`s also the saying that Two things are a must in life is DEATH AND TAXES” BROTHER ADD ONE MORE CHEATING BY BOTH MAN AND WOMAN” NOW let not your heart be troubled thats the way of life i am sorry. JUDGENOT least YE be JUDGED!

  36. Crazy Macho
    August 7, 2010

    SHUT UP FIRE!!!! U sound like a real idiot. Who gave U access to a computer anyway.

  37. FIRE
    August 7, 2010

    CAN A WOMAN BE CLEAN WHEN SHE HAVE HER MENSTURAL FLOW????? ANY CLEAN WOMAN WOULD SAY NO!!!!! THEN NATURALLY, THERE IS ONE REASON WHY A MARRIED MAN NEED A SIDE DISH. NEXT MARRIED WOMEN TREAT US DIFFERENT THEY DO NOT TOUCH AND CUDDLE LIKE THE SIDE DISH DO,THEY ARE ALWAYS BOSSY A TOTAL TURN OFF. WE FIND OURSELF DOING ALL MANNER OF THINGS TO MAKE IT WORK. I THINK WOMAN LOOK DOWN ON MEN AS FOOLS WHO MARRY THEM .THEY TREAT US LIKE PUPPYS ON LEASHES. IT TRULY HURT TO HEAR YOU CALL THESE PRINCESSES SALOPE,FOR COMING TO OUR RESQUE. WAS IT SALOMAN WHO TOOK A YOUNG VIRGIN IN HIS LAST DAYS? WAS JESUS MARRIED? WHO CAN FOLLOW HIM????????????????

    • rocksteady
      June 22, 2012

      not all men that cheat have terrible wives or girl friends. i bought my bf a house car and dog while he was off work with a disability, took care of everyting, and let him do pretty much whatever he wanted, partied with his friends, had them over, cooked cleaned, and treated him like gold. the thanks i got was being cheated on with a young girl he brought over sayin she was from a bad home and needed a friend, i cooked her meals and even drove her to work cause i thought she was jst a young girl in need, but really she was just trying to sleep with my man! hold your toung, just cause your wife treated you like crap, doesnt mean we all deserved it!

  38. More like Mr. Maco!
    August 7, 2010

    @exactly: Your husband leaving you and coming right Dominica to meet another woman, and you have the guts to say that? Woman go find something to do, like trying to figure out what is it about you that not appealing to your husband anymore! Allu does just let go allu self and have dem man untidy, and is other woman allu want to blame.

    • under the radar
      January 5, 2011

      yep, denial denial denial!

  39. shana
    August 7, 2010

    @ISAYSO: ISAYSO come on dont put the saying of the bible in dat cuz it also said wat god put together let no man put asunder. dem young grls too promiscuous. they need to get their own and leave pple own alone.dats not being self righteous its being a good person.

    • souf masive
      June 11, 2011

      Iknow.some people don’t think before they write.Don’t worry those of u infavour of that sinful act, it will happen to you some day, for me to see you running up and down with your panty on your head.
      we need to be fair some times. And the thing is those girl don’t love married man all they want is their money so married men put that in your pipe and smoke it. see the one from my village that have the nice spanish husband he have his wife home and he all around hands in gloves with a ugly thing from my village. She tell me she just waiting for her bank book to full so she can leave the man.lol.loubiere man watch out.

  40. madness
    August 7, 2010

    The use of the N word is very poor and distasteful……… Should be removed… Many need to remember where we came from, what we went through, and where we are trying to get to.

    Raw is one thing but come on man!!!!!!!!!

  41. no sir-ree
    August 7, 2010

    lol…the comments making me laugh for than the article itself! “exactly” goin airport to bust up de mistress and send her back on her plane…”i”giving nice guy squwaze…”babe in total control of herself” crying out homosexuality…”big toe lee” asking for rights for free dick roaming… just hillarious!!!

    • under the radar
      January 4, 2011

      hahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa boy look trash, now i know where i should throw the garbage,

  42. speechless
    August 7, 2010

    why r women labelled salop and men get respect over the same accussation? whilst i condemn that kind of relationship only the ppl involved know what cooking in their pot so mr. nice guy i think ur in no position to cast judgement on any woman and call her salop. i think ur suffering from a broken heart but life goes on, get over it…….. u should find a shoulder to cry on cuz i’m sure the women u calling salop r most likely just using the married man to full-fill her own needs whatever that may be and using sex to get it…

  43. Lil Wayne Sucks
    August 7, 2010

    @ISAYSO:

    you must be a salope too

  44. FAE
    August 7, 2010

    This seem to have been written by a Salop herself. If not it was written by a woman scorned…Listen most single women do not go after Married men…if your husband was worth anything he would respect his vows. And if you were takin care of your business at home, he wouldn’t leave your bone and go after another woman’s bone!

    It is so easy to blame the other woman and not the man…typical, just typical!

  45. ......
    August 7, 2010

    Mr Nice guy maybe had a thing for a lil chick and she dog him for a married man so now he writing article and calling ppl salop. Thats low!!!!! Better you do some research and talk about complacency, lack of communication and sex in marriage. Get a life

  46. please!!!
    August 7, 2010

    @Pnuts:
    some of them are suffering from HIV and STD because they to have other man…. And dat same man have how much woman. some of their friends will cover it up for them and do like they so innocent.

  47. .......lol.......
    August 7, 2010

    God made man for woman and woman for man. A man and a woman together nothing wrong. We dont have control over who we fall in love with, some will ignore others will chase it. Who are you to judge who is salop and who is not? A woman with a married is committed to that man and him alone, a single woman have 5 different man, every night a different one. Which one is salop? think about it!!!! It’s about time we learn to mind our own business. Peolple will find their happiness wherever it is

  48. ripley's believe it or not
    August 6, 2010

    @ISAYSO: ever wonder why we TALK so much??????????????????????????????

    look very closely at our beautiful FLAG. there’s a PARROT pearched right in the MIDDLE.

    LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  49. BJ
    August 6, 2010

    @ZERO: You will be shockedat DA’s statistitc as pertains to divorce-it is stagerring my friend !

  50. ISAYSO
    August 6, 2010

    What a load of crap at the end of the day MEN still want to be with salops even Nice Guy. We just like to talk talk talk and talk in Dominica. ‘Let ye without sin cast the first stone.’ We have to stop with all this nonsense like we so self righteous. Something I have learned, we all have skeletons in our closets. Think about it.

  51. wang fang choo
    August 6, 2010

    this mr nice guy has to be a victim of this stuff he/she keeps writing about..

    And come on, your mother and or sister are women,.. stop referring to women in this way, it is really insulting…. Unless you are trying to get back at someone……

    Both men and women cheat. there is no blaming one over the other. That is a fact of life.

    • SXM DIVA
      August 13, 2012

      as long as anyone sleeps with anothers husband they are salop , even the bible condem it so shut ur mouth fool

  52. August 6, 2010

    once a salop always a salop and most of these nasty salop leaves in the far country sides living like dogs hunting for sausages u know mr nice guys we really have to start identifying these salop cause i have a few and one of them have my husband as her own everytime he visits d/a always picking up at the airport but one of these days she will pick me up tooooooo and thats where im going to catch the rat searching for sausages

  53. August 6, 2010

    i so agree with u because these saloppppppppppppp will go to the extreme and them damn married man have no senses stupid man when a they going to learn that all de woman want is their money in exchange for some booty vie chen

  54. baby-z
    August 6, 2010

    I love this article it is so real…Amen to that sister!!!

  55. August 6, 2010

    WHO THE CAP FIT LET THEM WEAR IT.LOVE YOURSELF AND NO ONE ELSE.IF A WOMAN LOVE HERSELF SHE WON’T INVOLVE HERSELF WITH NO DAMN MARRIED MAN BUT GREED HAS ALOT TO DO WITH IT.TO THOSE WHO GOT HIGHLY OFFENDED WITH WHAT MR NICE SAID IF THE CAP FIT YOU WEAR IT AND LOVE YOURSELF AND GET OUT OF BABYLON SHAMELESS PEOPLE.

  56. Pnuts
    August 6, 2010

    Well said Mr. Nice guy. Young ladies leave MARRIED MEN ALONE, AND FIND YOUR OWN MAN. Karkabeff and Big Toe lee behave. Stop and think Y HIV is so prominent in blacks, too many black wives are suffering from STD’s innocently and some because they are ashame/fair to leave the low life or disease waiting to spread that they are married to.

    PS. Young ladies the children are the broken pieces when the home falls apart. Do not cotribute to Homewrecking, send the husbands home to wifey. If she do not want to give him puss puss tell him to smell it and go to bet. Hay Hay.
    Pnuts.

  57. ..........i............
    August 6, 2010

    A retard (Nice Guy) + access to a computer = dumb articles !

  58. why women?
    August 6, 2010

    exactly what justifies the label of salop? A woman can be involved with a married man and be fully committed to that man and him alone, yet she is called a salop because the man is married. On the other hand, if the same married man have 12 or so women other than his wife then he is big bocha and the man in charge rolling high. He receives much respect int hat aspect. So again, what justifies a woman being called a salop.

    Unfortunately our country is victim to double standards and “so called christian” idiologies. If a pastor interferring with the young girls in his church, they can cathc him with his pants down and still that pastor would be well respected because his congrgation and society would be ashamed to speak it. Their all high and mighty pastor can do no wrong. Now if that same young girl leave the affair with the pastor, in efforts to correct her ways, and finds someone ideal down the road, she may be labeled as promiscuous based on what society says. maybe only then would the news of her affair with the pastor be made public and still only she would be at fault.

  59. August 6, 2010

    How can it be forbidden if is love.

  60. lol funny shit
    August 6, 2010

    i suspect a married man taking mr woman on his head hahahaha lol gopwel have mr nice guy tight lol

  61. G_WIZ
    August 6, 2010

    A spade is a spade…

    a salop is a salop

  62. Sonia
    August 6, 2010

    It seems to me that this is comming from a jealous individual.

    The last time I checked Dominica is a free country and no one should impose ones morals on another.

    Men go with men, women go with women, maried men with single women and maried woman with single men. This is the individual”s choice.

    Who or what gives the writer the right to judge and condem any individual who makes a choice and an adult as to whom she wants to spend some time with. I can understand if you comdem the act of adultry, buggery, or lesbianism. But you have no right to comdem the individual for making a free choice. They are consenting adults.

    While the writer is condeming the single woman, he or she may be involved with more than one woman or man. If he or she is married he may be involving in acts of buggery with each other.

    Therefore writer, this is the free choice of two consenting adults although I agree that religiously that may not be correct. You have no right to call a single woman who gets involved with a married man salop.

    Probably all the single men are involved in crack cocaine, alcohol, and marihuana and or are down right lazy. Many of our single ladies are professionals and can provide for themselves. The young single men only sit by the road begging and on drugs.

    No right minded single lady should get involved with any single man who is high on drugs or is a drugs dealer. I rather have a Married man everyday.

  63. theTruthInEyeOfaYoungStar
    August 6, 2010

    alot of thing said in this article is true….but u dont necessarily have to focus on the woman cuz its vice versaok… and much of these things dont normal hAPPEN it is not really a major problem that woman and man is doing but in this moden day we are seeing man to man, gyal to gyal ….homos erroe come agan….th world is really coming to an end so mr.writer next time ur writtng think about thing to write about taht wil bring about a change or things that is reAlly happening……………….

    thank you

  64. woosie
    August 6, 2010

    to woosh

    u seem to be a dam fool. if the married men were deeply inlove with their wives they sure wudnt be cheating. these men dont even love themselves much less for their wives o anybody at all o they sure wud behave themselves. when someone loves another they want them to be happy and they wud do almost anything for that person to be happy even if it means being unhappy o restricting themselves.

    and by the way, alot of wives not doing alot that they sud be doing at home. for those wives who are doing their outmost best at home i commend u all and feel real sorry if thier husbands are cheating. take pride in yourselves and leave the rest to God

  65. Anonymous
    August 6, 2010

    Very well said Mr Nice Guy – just that you forgot to highlight the Male Prostitutes – they always paint their girlfriends or their wives as demons straight from hell – just because they want to sc*** these young girls.

    Hopefully, if you’re in the mood, your next writing will be directed at the Male Prostitutes – cause if some of them were women they would have no hair at the back of their heads.

  66. babe in total control of herself
    August 6, 2010

    i find lately thats all dominicans commenting about like they have nothing better to do, when so much immorality going on in the land. what happen to all the homosexuality going on and we tend to be so silent about it. does our silence mean consent?? so many men involved with men and women involved with women and the rest bi sexual.married women making zamee, married men cheating on their wives with other men. this is abomination but we seem to accept it. we not saying nothing much. men seeing multiple men. women seeing multiple women. half of our straight men seem to be ok with lesbianism( if thats a word) all in the fetish of having a threesome. but dominicans want to ponder on the young girls who fall to the prey of married men. we need to start checking our selves and stop the name calling. who are we to judge others. all sin is sin and the rest is abomination. so lets look at ourselves and make our lives right and let God be the judge. and mr. nice guy u maybe too idle. go to church and pray for your sins.

  67. Dominican abroad
    August 6, 2010

    Was it necessary to write this article so “raw”? You could have made your point without some of the chosen words. Also, I beg to differ that married women are not as innocent as the article suggests.

  68. Woosh
    August 6, 2010

    Mr Nice Guy u cld not hv said it any better.>> i wish sum dumb asses wld take wat u said into consideration…..how can a young woman commit herself to a married man wen he is deeply IN LOVE with his wife geeeeeezzzz….dey soo foolish dat dey believe all wat da married man tells dem and showers dem with..poof…if a married man can cheat on his wife with u guess wat fool he’ll do it to u tooo..hahahahah…there are sum who are soo bold dat dey even want to give the wives problems and wen dey hear bout other women givin dem competition dey wanna act up kekekeke>>>.i think sum of these women need to put themselves in the married women’s shoes and kno if dey’d like wat dey’re doin to another marriage……###########

  69. Big Toe lee
    August 6, 2010

    I couldn’t even read you entire article, cause it was pissing me off. There is nothing salop about what you guys call taboo loving (single woman + married man or single man + married woman). It’s just another form of loving. You – hippocrites accept Gay love as normal, permitting same sex unions, but a straight person cannot have more than one love interest. That’s discrimination!!!!
    I want the my God given right, to go forth and multiply. With all those stupid laws against multiple partners, base on old catholic idealogy – white man soft dick principles, we the strong negro, who want more than one lover, have to lie and cheat to fullfill our goals.
    All over the world, Nubian people are being shamed into believing that non-practical one woman, one man crap. In american, they call us nubian men (black) pimps with his whores, In the caribbean, they try to shame the woman, by calling them salop or home wreckers.
    This is nonsense. Change those old laws – so married men would not have to lie, because they need a second or third lover and vice verse.
    Let’s free-up our society. Some of us are cellibant (masturbate frequently), some gay, some straight one-on-one, some straight with mupltiples. That’s just life. I personally dislike homosexuals, but these anti-god practioners, have more rights than me, who is vermently trying to follow the old testament.
    Multiple lovers and proud of it —- speak up!!!!!!! we want rights too. God damn it.

  70. Helen
    August 6, 2010

    You sound like you were a victim of love, i can taste your bitterness. Get over it and everyone has choices in life because yours was not a good one, degrading woman and calling them all sorts of nasty names will not solve your problem. Get over your Gwo-pwel boy.

  71. is it true
    August 6, 2010

    I agree with this article 100%. A married man tried to make a move on me once telling me he not married, who u fooling everybody know u married nigger please.
    Women who get involved with married men are salops and whores I totally agree. Women let men fool them and then they say if I knew. Even if they divorce I still staying away because marriage is sacred and in the eyes of God they are still married and when they repeated their vows they said to each other “UNTIL DEATH DO US PART”. Married people are out of the dating game.

  72. dominican@heart
    August 6, 2010

    I like that. Sometime you have to say it as it is so it can hit where it hurts most

  73. Karkabeff
    August 6, 2010

    I will take a different view here.
    Stop beating up on the women for a change. Simply put, society is changing and grown folks make grown decisions. Not all believe in religion, and morality is in the eyes of the beholder. Our stance in Dominica is based solely on religion. In some countries some men have 7 wives and it is perfectly fine so let us stop demonizing women because they have been or are in a relationship with a married man.

    Secondly, the last time I checked Dca was still a free country despite the ongoing political rhetoric on communism. Hence, if the woman or man is comfortable with being the number two or side dish then that is their damn business. We in Dca are too quick to label people based on gossip.

    When your girlfriend left you for the married guy down the road she knew he was married, he never promised to leave his wife, she insisted on open relationship and yes, he treated her with love and respect. If there was an issue then it would have been between him and his wife and nobody else.

  74. joe
    August 6, 2010

    Aren’t u forgetting the wives that know the husband having an affair and sometimes even children with their mistresses and they still stay with his nasty ass.

  75. SWEET
    August 6, 2010

    Mr. Nice Guy stop refering to these women as salop and nasty its not nice its insulting and demeaning

    • what
      February 28, 2012

      Then they should stop the nastiness and saloptay they doing

  76. Kitty
    August 6, 2010

    Amen! But stop using the ‘N’ word please! I hope my sister reads this and leave her married man.

  77. CB CUZ
    August 6, 2010

    thanks Mr.nice guy …amen and hallelija

  78. ZERO
    August 6, 2010

    With all these writings of lust for married men by ladies(teenagers,young,middle age etc,) on Bella’sweekly publication, i wonder what is the divorce rate in Dominica! Secondly while we are blaming the man most times for his infidelity,i also think that it is time to be more open minded on the whole issue,since many women are equally responsible for the mess in which our modern society finds itself.
    What sort of message for example are you sending to your young teenager who knows that you are sexually involved with the marries man? What sort of message are you sending to your son?
    I am always saying if all the women who are on “Bellas Publication” are Dominicans we are way gone into infidelity..

  79. why women?
    August 6, 2010

    so mister NIce Guy, why is the women alone that salop when the man is the one in the marriage commitment? It seems as though when it comes to relationships, once the woman faulters then she nasty and skettel and all kind of shit…but witht he man he macho, he’s a boss. In reguards to you story lineYES the women who get involved armessed up for doing so, but the man is the salop one leavign the wife and maybe kids at home, to go out and fish for younger, vulnerable women with low self esteem. That would be the only type that would get involved with married man int he first place: women’s who lack self esteem. That just make those men preditors! preying on the weak!

    • under the radar
      January 4, 2011

      well said

  80. D
    August 6, 2010

    pardna you doh have no face…haha

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