Signs your woman is being influenced by external forces

Ever wondered why your woman is behaving a certain way? Asking for more money? Want her hair done more often than before? Wants a new cell phone? Wants to know why you’re not encouraging her?

Make a guess?

Obviously that’s because another man or woman singing gospel in her ears. If you know your woman very well, you will notice as soon as she changes – anything from her attitude to her way of dressing.

If your wife used to dress like an old woman, how come all of a sudden she dressing hot? She may not necessarily be trying to impress you. She is more than likely checking a man on the side who brings out the best in her. Or, she is simply trying to impress someone else to get their attention.

Problem is women become bored easily. And even if you’re a good man to her – giving her money, giving her good sex – but you’re not giving her the attention she needs, like going out often, romancing her, or staying home with the family, more than likely she will find a sugar man on Facebook or Hi5 to hook up with. Then Bingo, he hits her jackpot and she’s gone.

Every woman is easily influenced. Let none of them fool you. Some just like to put on a good show, but become a woman whisperer and she is all yours. Women like attention, so they are very good at listening. They love to hear what they want they love to hear nice words, especially if you keep at it.

So telling a girl she would like fine in this and that, she should join this and that group, she would do better in this and that career, in no time, she will change, esp. if she believes it’s better for her. But you, as her man, can be singing the same tune into her ears for years, she wouldn’t listen. But most times the messenger in her ears just want to taste some of her fish meal. but women always think the grass is greener on the other side because there man has a fault.

So stop being naive when your woman make a sudden change. If your gut feeling tells you she is up to something, she is.

Long ago I used to date this girl, we became separated as in intimately. Then suddenly, she began dressing extra nice – wearing lip stick, makeup, new clothes, new shoes. So am like, what’s the reason for the makeover. Well, I asked her. She denied having or getting close to anyone else. But I know that was a big butt lie because we all know women like to lie and they lie well.

So all I did was sit back and observe more. Now this makeover trend continued. She was very, very careful with her dressing. She started going to the gym, and she joined a local club. Sooner than later she broke the news: “Nice Guy, I am seeing Raymond.”

All I said was: “Of course I know you was seeing Raymond. Is Raymond a member of the club you just joined?”

“Errrr… yea… how did you know that?” she asked.

See, if men take the time to know and understand women you will not be easily fooled. Women are as transparent as plastic, and little white or black lies will not stand up in your home court.

So next time you see your woman training for the Olympics, trying to run the 100m dash in under 12 seconds, give one of the world’s fastest men a call.

By the way, before I go, I wanna apologise for being late. I promise to be early next Friday.

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22 Comments

  1. Jk
    March 8, 2023

    This line is absolutely correct at least for my highly influenced wife, she is influenced by her sister for no good reason. The lines are “But you, as her man, can be singing the same tune into her ears for years, she wouldn’t listen. But most times the messenger in her ears just want to taste some of her fish meal”.
    Her sister is divorced several times, now looking for a millionaire to get married good luck with that.

  2. Humans are by nature animals and there are no anamals on earth that mate for life
    November 24, 2010

    Gibbon apes, wolves, termites, coyotes, barn owls, beavers, bald eagles, golden eagles, condors, swans, brolga cranes, French angel fish, sandhill cranes, pigeons, prions (a seabird), red-tailed hawks, anglerfish, ospreys, prairie voles (a rodent), and black vultures — are a few that mate for life.

    Of course, it depends on what you mean by “mate for life.” These creatures do mate for life in the social sense of living together in pairs but they rarely stay strictly faithful. About 90 percent of the 9,700 bird species pair, mate, and raise chicks together — some returning together to the same nest site year after year. Males, however, often raise other males’ offspring unknowingly. DNA testing reveals that the social-pair male did not father 10, 20, and sometimes 40 percent of the chicks.

    Black vultures, though, discourage infidelity. All nearby vultures attack any vulture caught philandering.

    Only about 3 percent of the 4,000 mammal species are monogamous (and Homo sapiens isn’t one of them). Beavers, otters, bats, wolves, some foxes, a few hoofed animals, and some primates live together in social pairs but dally sexually much as birds do.

    Wolves, for example, are generally monogamous but also breed polygamously if the male is unrelated to the female and prey is plentiful. Moreover, they sometimes have more than one mate in a lifetime, says Dan Stahler, biologist at the Yellowstone Gray Wolf Restoration Program run by the National Park Service. This happens “if one mate dies, gets kicked out of the pack, or is physically unable to breed due to injury, illness, etc.”

    One species is absolutely monogamous. In the black darkness of the deep sea, the tiny male anglerfish (perhaps one tenth the female’s size) detects and follows the scent trail of a female of his own species. Once found, he bites his chosen one and hangs on. His skin fuses to hers, their bodies grow together (he gets his food through a common blood supply and becomes essentially a sperm producing organ). They mate for life — a short life for the male.

  3. TheIncredible
    July 17, 2010

    OmG Some girl must have done you the worst of the worst because you are one very bitter man. Lol it’s actually funny that you say these things about the same sex you claim to like. If there is one guy who takes this column 100% serious, I’ll consider him and undercover gay. Yes, what you’re saying can be true, but it’s completely wrong to put all people in the same catergory. Men cheat and lie just as much if not more than women. Just beacuse women may may be better at covering it up doesn’t mean they’re all out there doing it. I’ve been with the same man for the last 7yrs of my life, and your column does not speak for me. I do my hair and dress up differently sometimes only because I want to treat myself, or just trying someting a little different. Sometimes my man helps me pick out new clothes to wear, and I may not even be going out with him! Does it mean I’m going out to be with someone else? NOT at all. I’m very happy with him and that’s who I intend to be with for the rest of my life. A person doesn’t have to be unfashionable, plain, or overweight to be considered faithful. Lord knows they cheat too! So before you put all people in the same boat as the girl who ripped your heart out, please do a little more research.

    • James Wilson
      December 1, 2020

      You sound defensive. He hit a nerve. :) :-D

  4. stewpessss
    July 15, 2010

    This is the first time I’ve read this article, and I was shocked and appalled by what I read. Mr Nice Guy (is that what you consider yourself), well in my opinion you need to change it to something else. Your tirade against women clearly shows your lack of respect, and trust in our gender. Who else more than man can lie so.. A man will tell you he’s not married, never been married, don’t have no woman and if looking for a good woman, when in fact all, he just took off his wedding ring, and all he want is a piece on the side. Men whispering lies in your ears, about how much they care etc. So my dear, the same statement can be made for both sides. Another thing, if a woman was dressing like an old woman and changed by fixing up herself, going to the gym etc… it could be many reasons, one could be to get her man to gain back some interest in her, or she could realize that she allowed herself to take care of everyone else ( husband, kids, work, house etc) and not herself and now it time for her. Please reexamine your motives about why you wrote such shit, and tried to learn from what we have all told you. Maybe you will change and really become a Mr. Nice Guy

  5. eh beh weh
    July 12, 2010

    i have been with my boyfriend for a while now n i always try to switch it up cos i don’t want my man to get bored n leave my a#$. So as i dressing up, u want my man to think i cheating? Nice guy shut up n know wat you posting for other ppl to read. My man n i read your posts together n men being men he will start to observe too cos u that. Is problem u want to put in ppl relationship. I love my man n is for him i dressing up. Honestly wat to do with men like u- if we doe dress up n look nice is problem, dress up now is another problem. i always go jogging n my bf jogs with me too so Mr Nice Guy check yourself before u wreck yourself n your readers. Stay positive despite teh fact that a woman do u wrong.. Bitter mofo

  6. J Vidal
    July 1, 2010

    luv u nice guy!!!!!
    luvin the posts……
    i wish u could post twice a week…..
    that would be nice..
    see you next friday

  7. Tic-toc
    June 28, 2010

    Women are not hated, we love women, but slowly but surely they're becoming untrusted based on their actions. Just like how you guys refer to men as all dogs even if we are not all dogs. Peter paying for Paul and Mary will start to pay for Judy…

  8. Tic-toc
    June 28, 2010

    You're hitting it right on the head. I'm a married man for now. I'm in observation mode right now. I'm what you'd call a genuine romantic. Never once have I cheated or attempted too. All women who know me knows it doesn't make sense approach me in that regard. But now I'm on the verge of divorce and my wife has no clue. I'm just observing. Some women just don't know what to do with a good man. By God man, I know I'm a good man based on the nonsense I see my partners doing…

  9. realone
    June 28, 2010

    great story….i had a … exactly like that….right now im only observing ….lol

    • JK
      March 8, 2023

      Me too. Girls do not know how to take care of the good guyz, specially the ones who got them in the first instance. Ask those who are always getting the bad ones and still looking for the worst ones and trying to please them in all ways.

  10. Midevillover_20
    June 28, 2010

    Mr. nice guy u ever thinhk that a woman begins to dress nice and upgade herself not bcuz of another man but bcuz she gained some self esteem from being with a looser and to show him wat he missed out on she grew some sense and hooked herself up….y does it hve to be bcuz of another dude….and the only reason a woman leaves a so-called “good man” is bcuz his dumb … was not doing something rite..and dnt try to lay it out on sistahs like we be some trifffling..lieing…gold digging man catchers….its men like u that cause women to behave a certain way…and its cuz some of u dnt have the balls to step up and b the man that we need….y dnt u fall bck with u hating … self…peacccccccccccce

  11. Dooksvivin
    June 27, 2010

    well all i can say is: Any man who doesn't like to see his woman looking sweet, is insecure, or has been bitten through his insecurity

  12. kitty
    June 27, 2010

    Can't a woman genuinely want to make a change for herself???

  13. Concerned Citizen
    June 27, 2010

    Relationships are interesting, there are a million ways why people love and their are a million ways why people break up. Most people and society focuses a lot on superficial things as scripture puts it vanity. Romantic love thrives on three aspects, distance, uncertainty and mystery. But think of it, is a relationship really those 3? Therefore what this implies that already a relationship is already on shaky ground from the very beginning. When we meet our beautiful partners either sexy good looking with our six packs this will never last forever. We could have money today and lots of it, tomorrow we have nothing. All those are just a few issues. A relationship is like a business agreement sharing, compromising etc. We do have to enjoy the fruits of our labor our youthful exuberance but relationships are a challenge. We have to be up to it but it is better to be in a relationship than to be single.

  14. Drlove
    June 27, 2010

    man come on stop hitting on women men do the same look at that guy that say he leaving his woman cause she put on one pound and yes some women do but as a woman i have impress who i had to already but hell yes if we in rocky grounds i will have to do some thing to attract others cause a go pwell not easy you no when u have nothing or no one to lean on my friend and the cause of us doing them things is the men the think sex is it no we need caress and love to sex is not love if u do you do them i will do mine thanks nice guy

  15. hot stuff
    June 27, 2010

    you make alot of sense nice guy….good job

  16. Dr. Finger
    June 27, 2010

    Mr.Nice guy you are the bestest everrrrrrrrrrrrr. Doh care what they say about you its all good. One thing for sure, the women you dated in the past sure put some serious blows on you my friend. Hey at least those were life lessons well learnt because you can now share with others like me.

  17. art
    June 27, 2010

    niceter guy u could'nt have said it better,but it goes both ways men are just alike,i always say that there is not one woman who can tell me she dont have another man if she is already married or just have a boyfriend,show me one and ill show u every liar in the world.
    i have ask some of them to be truthful and i mean women whom i thought was of good character and they fess up but ask me to hold de secret.one told me how she would leave her hus at the table and say her tummy hurting and had to go to the outside toilet but guess what,man out there waiting and he was hus friend u know,hey,they can lie.Another told me she always tell hus she had to work late or she gone to the hair salon then come back and say salon full.but i disagree its not attention its just natrual of women to be like that,i warn men i was married and i know,dont be fooled by women,they only pretend thats all and when they have you then they make thier move and you cant see especially if they had someone before you,man they never gave him up all he have to do is drop a little sweet talk and its easy.
    On the other hand some of us men ask for it,we go out and do what we dont want our women to do and you know some of us fool and cant cove our a..,and some of us cant lie,i mean women are natrually born liars,eve said the snake gave her friut but the snake only touched the soft part and she lie to adam and he fall for it,just like some of us.my thing is love a woman but never trust her,read the book of proverbs if you think i lie.

  18. Babygirl
    June 27, 2010

    some men are too dam greedy they have a good woman and they want to chase all skirt that pass so it is obvious that while they there chasing skirt someone else will come sing sweet songs and all you woman will have a MAKEOVER…as you say. by the way NICE GUY women are good at LEAVING STUPID, GREEDY, FALSE, AND LYING MEN so next time you think that women foolish just remember that we pick up on all you TRICKS.

  19. Organic Chemist
    June 26, 2010

    Nice Guy..I really do feel sorry for you!!! that girl or girl must have done a wonder on you…Hopefully you will be able to let go of your anger and pain soon. You need to deal with your inner demons instead of writing this column

  20. vice versa
    June 26, 2010

    of course we like alot of attention just the same way when you guys don't get what you all want from us and go and get it else where what do you all want us to do?and by the way who does happiness belongs to vice versa.

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