DEAR BELLA: Small-penis boyfriend threatening to kill me

Dear Bella: My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We love each other a lot. I know he loves me. We get along very well and his family and my family are very much in agreement.

My only problem with him is the length of his penis, which by all estimates measure about 4 to 5 inches. I am not satisfied Bella. I won’t lie I have cheated on him several times. Not that he is not a good lover, but most women would agree size matters.  But that’s not the reason why I am writing to you Bella.

Since last year he has been very insecure to the point where he threatens to kill me. I am unable to go to town by myself. He does not permit me to go to town unless I am going with someone. He says if I leave him he will kill me. I still love him but I am scared he is serious.

My friends are annoyed that I am still with him and they want me to leave him because they believe he will kill me. Bella I think he is threatening me because he thinks he is not satisfying me. I cheat but I won’t leave him. But what if he actually kills me? Bella I am scared of leaving him and I am also scared of staying with him.

I await your advice.

Confused

Dear Confused: I will be very brief. From the outset, I can see you’re in a very unhealthy relationship. You’re cheating on him and he is threatening to kill you. Two wrongs do not make a right. I encourage to get out of this relationship as fast as you can. Seek the advice of the police and also inform your parents. The police will be able to get a restraining order on him.

If you do not take heed, this could turn out very serious.

Bella

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236 Comments

  1. missSimple
    January 23, 2013

    size doesn’t matter, its how the guy make use of his tool. It’s plain to me that you are not ready for a real relationship, and its all about sex and your man having a big dick so you can tell to your friends. You young people don’t know what love is anymore. Just leave the man alone and go find the big dick man you looking for, plain and simple, its clear to everyone is that you want.

    • Reidaut
      February 15, 2014

      MM I agree with your comment for the most part

  2. dim
    October 15, 2012

    i am a man..i had many issues with the length of my penis..i got depressed talking pills for a year..i am a very attractive man..before one year ago i had a relationship..i had never measured my dick because to me it seemed good and sometimes even a little big when i was seeing it at the mirror..at my 30 years old i asked my woman what she was thinking about my dick..just for fun..and she told me ..”mmmm its ok..”after that we had a fight and when she left i started measuring it..its about 15 cm (6 inches i think)..this thing killed me..i started go to doctors i even asked for surgery then i got depressed i wanted to die and i commited suicide once..then i went to a psychiatrist and started the pills..i felt better but even now i still im so worried about me..i cant have relationships anymore..my life is a measury..i will never be the same..my advice toall women..if you dont like the size of your men just leave..dont kill them..i feel dead every day and all i wanted in my life was a woman to love and protect..and ofcourse to be the best for her..but..i believe i cant with my cock..i cant pleasure her..

  3. Hear me Out (Xtra)M
    January 23, 2012

    LMFAO …… OH BBOYY……penis and sizes and kill and escourt and ….hahahah!..laugh of the day

  4. Dominican to de bone
    January 19, 2012

    Leave him and move to another country.

  5. pnle
    November 10, 2011

    started laughing from the headline. girl i feel your pain. what a predicament, two choice my girl. Leave the man, find a big penis and be happy, or stop cheating, tell the man whats bothering u, get him a pump and pray that it works.

  6. sweetiepoo
    July 14, 2011

    just reading this column and ima definitely lmao! allyou woman lie like f— size matters- big enough to satisfy me afterall this hotter than hot foreplay—lmao ha ha

  7. fatty batty
    July 6, 2011

    the best blog TOMAS you killing me not under rum alone.doe matter the size just work it for him nasty u nasty.

    • kathy
      July 28, 2011

      give her a break she’s not satisfied with the size,she’s just not satisfied how she’s being nasty please.

  8. queenie
    May 18, 2011

    well, all you people not easy…..the girl write to bella a long story and ‘penis’ is the only word all you see in it……chupes……and she aself say is not that she writing to bella about….weh weh weh

    girlfriend, the man want to KILL you?!?! and you still dere?????
    you don’t love him because you cheat on him………and he does not love you because he wants to kill you………….and you not even sure of the reason for his sudden change; no communication in the relationship………..

    if you have brothers get them to go and give mister a damn warning………….if he ever touch their sister, THEY will kill him……….(i.e if you still in the relationship)
    girl, just leave mister and tell him if he ever approach u again, u will tell everyone he has a little dick…..

  9. crazy bitch
    May 13, 2011

    yes i know u and all about ur randevous his a nice guy as i told before if u never get an orgasm on the man yet well leave if u so love u wouldn t worry with his size stupes!!!!11!1!!

  10. friend
    February 5, 2011

    leave but still be his friend

  11. DISGUSTED
    January 27, 2011

    ummh you should have never put your business out there so all those insults are your own fault. you should not want to live your man because his penis (as you say,small). after 3 years? i mean who does that.
    try to be more responsible with your life, dont you have family.

  12. chupes
    January 24, 2011

    HOW WE SO SURE IS THE MAN THAT IS A THE PROBLEM. I HAVE BEEN WITH MAN WITH SMALL PENIS AND I WAS SATISFIED. IS NOT WHAT YOU HAVE IS HOW YOU USE IT. MAYB YOUR P***Y TO WIDE..LOL LOL LOL MAMMA LOOK HOW WOMAN DOES BRING SHAME ON THEMSELVES.IF YOU LOVE HIM YOU WOULD NOT CHEAT ON HIM AND THATS THE FACT ….POOR MAN

    • Reidaut
      February 15, 2014

      look you forgot to mention deep. Can make a song Deeeppp and wideee deep and wide there is a pu— like a flowing fountain deep and wide. lol

  13. Anonymous
    January 21, 2011

    well well

  14. hot gal
    January 20, 2011

    :wink: grl i feel ur pain i dont care wat nobody say 5inches is shit i would leave the country if my man was that small

    • Realtalk
      April 12, 2012

      its not that the man penis too small your pussy just too big

    • Reidaut
      February 15, 2014

      Hot gal I see you are cock crazy . it flies in your head making you go mad, bout leave contry for a dick lol

  15. HMMMM
    January 19, 2011

    girl if u ask me u just nasty in dca terms u salop !!

  16. Advice
    January 10, 2011

    All the young man has to do is practice jelq = it is an arabic expression of penis exercises that would help increase the size of his penis but it takes some time.

    There may be other young men with this problem so heads up. Take some petroleum jelly or some other lubricant, hold your penis and milk it similiar to how one would milk a cow. Start from the start of the conjunction of your penis and pelvic to the shaft or base of the penis. Continue doing this repeatedly. What the exercise does is to move the muscles and blood throughout the penis, thus building the muscles there, it is similiar to exercising the body. After practicing for some months your penis will increase in size. It’s really very simple!

    Hope this advice helps. No need to cheat on the man.

    • onlooker
      January 15, 2011

      alas for dat swamp dasheen too bad…… it looks like your virgin was gone before you born.

  17. Ms. Beautiful
    January 9, 2011

    Look story.lamo :lol: :lol: :lol:

  18. pupuss
    January 7, 2011

    My girl 4-5 inch is not noting,go from 6 inches up,although according 2 how u move wit a 4-5 in it will hurt…………….. but then thinking of a length u start from 6.lol :lol: :lol: :lol:

  19. sweet pum pum
    January 7, 2011

    Girl I really can’t believe you…Are you serious ? It took you three years to realise that your man
    penis is too small ? I am a full grown woman with kids I’ve met big, fat, long, round, they come in
    all shapes and sizes some even have hump and curve but all jokes aside 5 inches should be able to satisfy you if you have even an average size vajjy so yes you probably one of the wide width ones you yourself need to learn some skills learn how to grip using your muscles down there and both of you will be satisfied…and of course if mister know you cheating on him of course he will stalk you….stop belittling the man and stay and learn how to take your 5 inches you to greedy

  20. MORE WOOD
    January 6, 2011

    MAMSELL NEED A MAN LIKE MARLON DEGALLERIE TO DACALAY HER….SHE MIGHT JUST SAY HIS PENIS TOOO SMALL TOOOO…HEHE…..

  21. Cici
    January 6, 2011

    My Girl if you looking for advice the worst thing to do is to put your business outside in that way.From some of the comments ppl know who you are.If you were that desperate to take it off your chest why didn’t you confide in someone like your “mum”,if not a trusted friend because as you can see is not no good advice you getting instead ppl just taking their kicks and hiding behinde the internet to say all these “digusting things”.Next time before you put out your PRIVATE business THINK BEFORE YOU WRITE. :wink:

  22. nervous rex
    January 6, 2011

    It seems as if one would need a floating device so as not to drown when making viss with mamzelle. Next ting she go ask de fella to put he both hands inside she puicy and try to clap and if he eh able to clap that mean it tight.
    On the other hand I think mister should just practice tongue-fu on mamzelle.

  23. THAT SERIOUS U KNOW
    January 5, 2011

    SO WAT I WANT TO KNOW IS HOW U STAYING AN TAKE IT ……..IF U JUST THERE PRETENDING TO MORN……… AND IF THAT WICKED MAN MORNING AND HE NOT FEELING NOTHING……… ALAS.

  24. U MAN
    January 5, 2011

    MAKE THE MAN PUT SCRATCHING BUSH ON THT. ISSUE SOLVED IN NO TIME.

  25. CASH GIRL
    January 5, 2011

    AFTER U SEX U NOT SATISFY U DOE NO HOW TO MASTERBATE AND BE ON YOUR MERRY WAY. THATS WAT U GET WAHEN U RUSH TO LOSE UR VIRGIN.

    I FEELING SO SORRY FOR U .

  26. CASH GIRL
    January 5, 2011

    WELL SO SORRY FOR U . BUT MY CASH , SATISFY MY EVERY NEED , THERES NO NEED TO CHEAT.

    SO IF U DOE LIKE THE DICK THEN WHATS THE POINT IN BEING THERE. GO T UR BIG DICK AND SOMEONE ELSE A CHANCE WITH THE SMALL TOLLIE . THE WOULD TAKE BETTER CARE OF IT THAN U.

  27. tell me!!!!
    January 5, 2011

    well i guess he to small for her.what i want to know is how i can deepen mine.big ones hurt like hell.KY jelly does not help.i get satisfaction orally,and then a little for him.girl there is different ways to please everybody.try it sometime!!!!

  28. gazza kid
    January 5, 2011

    girl jus bring it cum let me ruff it up fi u!!!

  29. mi dayba 111
    January 5, 2011

    well that woman not easy. she must me a well. some women too desolay leave the small cal alone. i sure somebody will appreciate it. lmao

  30. say sah mem!!
    January 5, 2011

    lol lol…weh boi!!..D/cans allu bad so :?: :?: ..yess fada…how shocking…allu nt easyy….. 8-O

  31. Cleanbowled
    January 5, 2011

    If we are to believe your story, then you won’t have to worry about the “small penis man” killing you. You will eventually do that all by yourself through your wreckless and irresponsible sexual behaviour. Obviously, you have yet to find the elusive needle in a haystack (sorry, I mean the big bamboo in the forest) since you keep going from man to man. Let’s face it, your real problem is your own lack of fidelity and whorish nature. When you learn to control those demons, then you will find and appreciate the meaning of true love. In the mean time, I hope that your boyfriend kicks you to the curb and finds someone who truly loves and appreciates hm for who he is. Maybe you should just start walking around with a tape measure or measuring stick since concepts like lover, friend, soul-mate, committment and self-respect mean nothing to you.

  32. spy
    January 5, 2011

    girl if you really love your man, send him man to the padnar in the mull. The one with the tattoo store he has the answer to the problem.. He sells something for that, dont live the man and go screw somebody else man. help the man, he didnt take it he was born with it.

    sometimes you would be safer with him than one with a big fire wood just burning bush.
    be happy and fix what u have.

  33. striaght to the point
    January 5, 2011

    :twisted: girl u don’t love the man if u did he would please u so u mean to tel me he don’t suck u, just live the man, making pass on all man that come in your work in the bank. just live him alone if not tell him u just want his money but u want to check ur cin be real stop waist the man time, what the hell!!!!!!! :twisted:

  34. anonymous
    January 5, 2011

    That man with de small cal have plenty money that’s why mamzell don’t leave mista yet.

  35. jah
    January 5, 2011

    its not the size of the BOAT, its the motion of the ocean. you need to teach your man what works for you, more about comuncation. and less cheating.

    • Who believe you?
      January 5, 2011

      Say what???? Who believe you??

    • CASH GIRL
      January 5, 2011

      I BELIEVE YOU, DOE MTTER WAT SIZE UR MAN IS , WOMEN ON A WHOLE HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO WORK IT.
      WELL MY MAN IS MOR THAN THAT OF UR MAN . THERE RE SO MANY OPTIONS TO CHOOSE FROM THN TO CHEAT SO I REALLY NOT GETTING UR POINT.
      U NID TO GET URSELF A GOOD WARM SALT WATER SOAK THEN REST IT FOR WEEK AND SEE THE DIFFERENCE.
      IF KNOW DAMGE IS NOT DONE , HONEY START TKING ANIMALS.

  36. DA Queen
    January 5, 2011

    That is just comess..stupess

  37. dasy
    January 5, 2011

    Many times we get into relationships for the wrong reasons. for my part my man doesnt even need a penis thats how much i love him. Sex is not all penis size matters yes we want to be satisfied. You should have ended it from the start you let it so too far take what you get.

  38. Kalinago Empress
    January 5, 2011

    Don’t Dominican women practice KIEGEL??? C’mon ladies, u gotta exercise the vagina muscles!
    Size don’t matter! Its the man behind the tool!!

    • learning experience
      January 5, 2011

      please explain, I’m part carib/black… and i never heard this before!

  39. Anonymous
    January 5, 2011

    thats just nonscence. it deosnt matter isf he threarens or not if it means as life or death situation move on child and leave mr in his buisness. like jah………..
    ( and u can come check wen u ready ) lol
    lol lol 4 inches…… lol lol lol lol

  40. Texas Island Boy
    January 5, 2011

    look like partner never jock his board when he was younger tell him go put his tollie in a aunts hole that must come big LMAO LOL

    • Truth
      January 5, 2011

      LMAO!!! Look jokes boy!!

    • bb
      January 6, 2011

      check how you spell “ants”…”aunts”…you yourself more need help!!

    • Jay
      January 7, 2011

      LMFAO this is just funny i couldnt stop laughing nice one my boy youy right let it swell but she still complaining about the length………woiiiiiiiiiiii mix up again

  41. onlybeingreal
    January 5, 2011

    girl if u thinks thats a reason for u to cheat on a man you should be ashamed of yourself , and should not be there in the 1st place, it may not even be his fault. your vagina maybe like turtle meat , i know some men know what am talking about sometimes we got to wonder if the got an extra pair of shoe laces down there. keep it tight ladies keep it tight.

  42. fair
    January 5, 2011

    WHEN YOU A WOMAN WITH DASHEEN HOLE VIRGINA , WHAT YOU EXPECT???????

    SOME GIRLS “PRIVATE PART BELOW” ARE SO WIDE AND WATERY,IT MAKES SEX NO FUN, NO MATTER HOW BIG THE MAN IS….

    • WOMAN POWER
      January 5, 2011

      :mrgreen: I THINK U ARE ONE OF THEM THAT FALLS IN THE 4 inches CATIGORY. SHAME ON U

      IF YOU CANT HANDLE YOUR BUSINESS BECAUSE OF YOUR SIZE. DONT BLAME THE WOMAN

      SOME OF US NEED WOOD TO BURN OUR FIRES. HAVENT YOU HEARD THE WETTER DE BETTER. LOL

      • lover girl
        January 10, 2012

        d wetter d better when you have wood for it not a whole with no grip lol

      • lover girl
        January 10, 2012

        i have a man there with a nine inch and that not simple i telling you that not simple and if that nine inch cannot satisfy you i telling you you have a pale the punani doe good i do need no other wood that that sweet piece i have there.

  43. natural dominican
    January 5, 2011

    ur man can’t work u good…come check me

  44. FRANCIS FRANCIS CHICAGO IL
    January 4, 2011

    SIZE DONT MATTER IS HOW LONG YOU CAN LUST .

  45. princess
    January 4, 2011

    umm 8-O …hw old is he?5?

  46. concern dominican
    January 4, 2011

    i think she start haveing sex too early in her life so her… wall lose all it tension so the musle cannot expand and contract properly however it is a shame.

  47. peoples princess
    January 4, 2011

    girl get yaself a black dominican man and leave those white visitor alone, you chose money or size of de member, i know who you are, i see him collect you from de bank,i hear you tell ya sister de man have no wood, and now you cryin, you get wat ya deserve

    • yona
      January 8, 2011

      hahhaa….boy allu not easy.how u soo sure is d girl………….

      • kixxer
        March 29, 2011

        loooool da i chkin dre loooooooool allu got kixx

  48. GanjaMan
    January 4, 2011

    Girl yousa hoe hoe hoe merry christmas, enjoy the new year if u live to c it long

  49. 2good 4 uu
    January 4, 2011

    :lol: shit off people u a woman nids feeling in her pussy,it doh hav t be big to kill bt a woman nids to fill it wrking even da average ones,lol,small dik iz jus disgusting,and a waste of time,average good,but small is jus disgusting.

    • for real
      January 5, 2011

      i agree with you .so for nyour whole life you fink a woman can stand a dam tickler all the time?

      • HIS GIRL
        January 5, 2011

        THATS SO TRUE. LOVE RIDING WHT IS JUST FOR ME BUT U SHOULD HAVE TELL THE GUYY THT FROM THE STARTING. BUT THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER WAYS TO ENJOY THE SEX OR LOVE MKING THAN CHETING ON HIM .

  50. gaza
    January 4, 2011

    that swamp dasheen well big ehh, wat restraining order you tell the woman about wen is she dat need a restraining order, dat girl too dawm nasty man,she’s sick and neeeds medical attention and surgery to close up dat culvert……. alas d.a women is so day be..

    • kixxer
      March 29, 2011

      AM HELLO LET ME TELL U SUMTING NT ALL D/A WOMAN DT LYK DT, CUZ I AM PURE DOMINICAN AN I AM 100% TIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • HotBoy
      March 29, 2011

      you right on que my friend…but i’m sorry sir…despite the fact all D/A woman not so!! so hush ur mouth!! its not all the time one fish spoils the river…

  51. Beautiful
    January 4, 2011

    well gurl if the penis is to small or too short what the hell it is ,i think his finger can do the job too or better yet his tongue ,don’t u think soo, cause if the dick can’t make u scream i think the tongue will do a perfect job . notting is sweeter than a man licking it gurl. whats wrong with u.

  52. MI DEBAS!
    January 4, 2011

    mama! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA! ayye first i hearin dis! WTMA! awwa mamzel need d man dat rape d cow……..mr dt hav WOOD 4 u……………..its nt da size of da dog in da fight……its da fight in da dog!

  53. poosky
    January 4, 2011

    lol, dem comments killing me… nothing wrong with a small dick.. maybe ur man just canna work it… cuz it have man with small dick nd dey working it soooo wellll!!! or maybe u just need to tek a sea bath or something!!! stop cheating on d man!!!

    • j
      January 5, 2011

      i suspect somebody trying to defend the size of his manhood too hahahahaha. sorry but u sound like u too hv a small dick.

      • poosky
        January 5, 2011

        sorry J but im a grl… im just tryna say that some men with a small dick can grind real well… so is not all times that size matters… is just how well u can use it..

  54. wayyyyyyy
    January 4, 2011

    my man have a fat 5 inch an he workin it well good so i doe see ur point …………. you just too large doe blame d man….size does not matter is how u work it honey

  55. real possie
    January 4, 2011

    mouth of the south boy u have jokes today not even sally that could hold a candle
    to that girl is u that u could handle that is baway u want that lajarbless to baway u lol hope u remember who sally is my sexy cow freind lol

  56. Woyyyy!!! sookoo!!!
    January 4, 2011

    hay hayyyyyyyyy! eh eh, look jokes, all dem comments makin my day, woosh!
    everybody cummin wit there own piece of advice….I so glad Dear bella back, but really, it should be Dear Readers eh, I tellin u

  57. mouth of the south
    January 4, 2011

    what i want to know is how often should a man masterbate???? is 3 times a day too much lol!!!!! n b4 allu jump is not me,,,i’m just asking

    • dnokries
      January 4, 2011

      stop lying :lol: :lol: tell us what tecnique you using to ‘spank your monkey ‘ :lol: . take it like a man wapp. :lol: :lol:

      • mouth of the south
        January 4, 2011

        oh my!!!! now why would u want to know what technique i use,,,,i surely hope u not a man,,,n if u r a woman u can come spank it 4 me :wink: :wink: :wink:

      • 9x @ 8.5''
        January 4, 2011

        u can go up to 7 if you put ur mind to it.. :wink: .. i did 9 times one day
        shut up MOTS lol… you want to know self…. :lol: :lol: :lol: :wink:

    • Lizavier4Jesus
      January 5, 2011

      If you are a man why do you not know that for yourself.

      But I would believe it is his body, and he should satisfy it as many times as his heart desires. He can also keep his mind focus on the ways of God, and he will not do it at all, for the whole day. Am I wrong or right?

      • bb
        January 6, 2011

        I AGREE WITH YOU SO SO MUCH!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!!

  58. Anti-hate
    January 4, 2011

    OK so women wat would y’all prefer be honest I wanna know!

    A small d*ck guy who can use it or a big d*ck guy who can use it? That’s the real qt if you ask me!

    Cuz everyone commenting like big d*ck guys are all cavemen who just shove it in and cause damage.

    • Lizavier4Jesus
      January 5, 2011

      Anti hate

      The size does not matter, as long the penis maintain perfect errection until the woman has a climax. I also know that some women has a lot of trouble reaching climax; as some men experience immature ejaculation–the thing that happens as soon as he penetrates her.

      One of those two could be the problem with that woman–either she takes too long or it happened to her boyfriend too quick. I am sure that if her boyfriend was always to bring her to climax everytime they had sex she would not complain about the size of his penis.

      When a woman is sexually aroused, a man’s fingers–and his sexual experience– is enough to make her climax, much more fot a 4.5 length erected penis. For your information, large “dicks” can be extremely painful, if the man is selfish, erasing all levels of sensuality.

      Okay! I am still Lizavier4Jesus living in a human tent. I know about these things.

      • hill
        January 5, 2011

        Get a life……….u know so much right. when when when when bla bla bla u ever see a 4 inch dick yet u talkin about what should be enough. what u think a 4 inch dick is the world nuh……….. that barely ticklin u. if the girl feel like she not satisfied thn so be it. stop being hypocritical about it………………. ” for ur information large dicks bla bla bla bla………. guess ur the new bella

        • Lizavier4Jesus
          January 5, 2011

          And what is your point? Idiot!!!

        • kixxer
          March 29, 2011

          the point is u play lyk u kno it all. DUH!!

  59. Tomas
    January 4, 2011

    I also have a small penis but I can reek havoc with it under my rum.

    • sister souljah
      January 5, 2011

      lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

      • Tousel
        January 5, 2011

        woossssshhhhhhhh you killing me Tomas

    • ElHeffe
      January 5, 2011

      lol,
      but get a friend who goes to st.maarten, at the adult store, and get the extenze,and you roote up her love cave,but bombbardmet of missles,lol from 4 -7 in 3 wks trust me,

      lol

      • wateva
        January 12, 2011

        thomas u killin me…under rum alone?

    • LOL!!
      January 5, 2011

      So under rum alone you can perform?! Well drunk sex!

      • kixxer
        March 29, 2011

        hahahahahaha tomas under rum alone?? smh :-?

    • megzo
      July 29, 2014

      lol

  60. ....
    January 4, 2011

    SMALL PIN DOES JOOK HARD

  61. look it !
    January 4, 2011

    that woman has more depth than the ocean . no man can satisfy her!

  62. Da-Don
    January 4, 2011

    What is wrong with Dominican ladies?….all they care about is men with donkey board….well ladies what would you rather? A man with a hose that just rough you up and call it sex or a man with an average size penis who can actually please you with slow and sensual love making….Allu missing the big picture…the art of love making has nothing to do with the size and everything to do with how well the two of you react to each other…the mind alone can arouse ones body so if you and the individual are truly a pair allu attraction for each other alone will stimulate allu love making

    • $Rastababe$
      January 5, 2011

      rather the one who can give me the ride of my life even if its small.

  63. jessy
    January 4, 2011

    ayepah chick u’ve got to be kiddin me that is such a pathetic reason for u 2 be cheatin on ur man …i wuld seriously leav ur ass if i was him….some ppl just don’t like 2 be treatingkike humans slavery mentality chick get a life please!!!!!!! winny dingdong huge dingdong it’s ur man accept it!!!!!!!! u r embarasssin!!!

  64. aight
    January 4, 2011

    i have the same problem and it’s nothing to be ashamed off. your vagina is just very large. i am large too. i don’t feel anything during sex (no friction) at all. it may be because i have a moist vagina. i am not a verysexcually active person this is just not the cause.my freind told me he had sex with a prostitut andhe was surprised at how tight she was. \

    the lengh of a penis has nothing to do with it, it just causes a whole lot of pain when it touches your head of your cervix. longer = more pain.

    now stop cheating on your boyfreind, the other guys just give you a whole lot of physical pain that’s all.

    • Anonymous
      January 4, 2011

      all those words not for me to read… i not hypocrite … it just turns me on.. .WEEEE MAMA!! haha

    • fire
      January 5, 2011

      hey aight i looking for a chick with a big hole check me nuh

    • Anonymous
      January 5, 2011

      there are exercises that can be done to tighten up the looesest of vaginas. Get some info and begin ur journey to a much more satisfying experience

  65. realchick
    January 4, 2011

    i dont believe the problem is with the guy i believe she’s the one with the problem. he should be the one cheating..if u aint satisfied, that means he aint satisfy but i guess dude jus love you. i think the lenght of a penis doesnt matter, you jus have to know how to make it work for u. my bf penis bout the same size…and the business is goooooooddd…..once we’re together we cant stop.i have had a bf with a big dick and he aint make me cum..the sex is wild a rough and painful but i aint come..when i have sex i wanna come. now my present bf,he got what this slut considers to be a small dick, but when dude start he got me going crazy. i dont think the guy would prevent u from going untop and do your thing. seems like u got no game, u dont know how to satisfy urself how can he do any better..lol..girl please,u should be ashamed of yourself. your like the big rats i see everyday in new york subways,all the male jus come and ride u and u keep running around. i believe sister got a sous……..i heard sea water work…sweedie take a dive.all round dominica is beach.

  66. hmmmm
    January 4, 2011

    sweetie if u ain”t satisfied LEAVE…it dont make no sense u stay wit him and u have to cheat. Leave the man he will get somebody his small penis can satisfy

  67. BoB
    January 4, 2011

    So now, i cya top some of those comments, but honestly size has nooooooo say wat so ever during the intercourse none! so instead of going around dominica … man in hot water river sea etc without protection because we all know dominicans (Doesn t wear that) go take tests For std’s and then go apologize to him! and for his sake you shouldn’t even try to beg for forgivness for him to stay with you cause you ain’t … deserve him u don’t PUT THAT THROUGH YOUR HEAD YOU DO NOT DESERVE HIM, let him go save his life before it’s too soon go kill your self but leave the poor dood alone!

  68. .........................
    January 4, 2011

    My friend if you do not want to leave,go to the market and buy some huge cucumbers,and a bunch of big and long plantain…. SHE MUST DAY PARLAY!!!!!

    • WAAAAATTT
      January 4, 2011

      HAHAHAHAHAAHAH… .BIG AND LONG PLANTAIN….. BANAN KORN LMAOOOOOOOOO ay ay… all u people DANGEROUS lmao

    • sister souljah
      January 5, 2011

      hahahahahahahahahahahaha omg its 4 am and i will wake up my neighbors lol @ cucumbers and long plantain cthu @ day parla :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

  69. HOTT N SEXY
    January 4, 2011

    so let me ask does dat mean d small penise dont give u any orgasm?????? and i think ur embarassin we women on a whole by cheating on ur man head jus becuz he dont have a big penise and who you say u love well u doe love dat man yet cuz if u did u would have respected his little penise and make use of it… its not d matter of d size it wat it can do an if d penis cant do d job den he’ll have to use his mouth<< but den again he will have to think twice of using his mouth on u becuz ur givin another man ur body…. appreciate ur man for who he is and not wat he have.. den again every woman needs pleasure but u could play wit ur clit to help spice up d sex or even use a DILDO dan goin and sex outside ur relationship

    • Wow
      January 4, 2011

      wooooooooooooooosh!!!!!

    • ccc
      January 4, 2011

      i agree with hot and sexy quantity dont matter is quality i do have orgarsm with my boyfriend small penis there are other form of love making not just sex help him grow it using penis excercise by pulling it using both hand and mouth if you dont like it buy a horse lol

  70. EBEH WEH
    January 4, 2011

    First of all, there is nothing wrong with a 5 Inch Cal. This girl maybe have a deep sewer line. Maybe when mr. dere working out bussing swet she asking me…”u inside totally nuh?”

    Some girls really have some big cyat. But the size of the hole dont just open just like that, if you take only your 5 inch, the hole will remain accordingly. But if tom dick and harry in that, then alas.

    But what if the man full potential is 8 or 9 inch for the nervousness making him shrink? It happens you know people…it does….different things can prevent a man from getting hard properly during a session….

    now….My advice to that boyfriend, he need to put it in the other hole. All she want is the zuum zuum..ram it up in her poom poom. And doh take your time, make sure u have rubbers so you wont bruise your boot cal and just ram her…u hear me?

    Good

    • Dangg!!
      January 4, 2011

      I totally agree. They say small things does chook hard well he need to put it in the other hole for her to learn to respect man. Zumm Zumm in ‘er pom pom

    • AY AY!!!
      January 4, 2011

      BOGAR herrrrr….. lmaoooooooooooooooo…. all u people really dangerous in the place… AHAHAHA… is that, that leading to bogar for real eh.. because when all you doh get woman to give it to..those padnas making scene LMFAOOOOO ahahahahaha mi daybar :lol:

    • sister souljah
      January 5, 2011

      omg i am in tears lol zum zumm lol lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

  71. D.O.L
    January 4, 2011

    umm i believe ive just found out the definition of W.H.O.R.E… your a….too damn nasty….. instead u communitcate wit ur man and tell him how u feel you gan whore urself for every tom dick and harry? and i doubt is d man dat not good you just feeling guilty about being a whore so u tryna get urself out of it by making d man look bad.. YOUR DAMN HOLE DAT TOO BIG… DEM PEOPLE DAT SAY TO WASH IT WIT DETOL IM SOO SORRY I DISAGREE I DOH EVEN THINK DETOL CAN HELP MAMSELLE NOW NUH DAT CUCOOLOKS WELL GONE. I BELIEVE SHES A SEX ADDICT AND NEEDS TO SCOW HER LEGS TOGETHER ASAP BCUZ IF SHE DOESNT SHE DONT NEED TO BE WORRYING BOUT HIM KILLLIN HER SHE NEED TO WORRY BOUT SOME SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASE KILLINING HER…. I HOPE D MAN FIND OUT U WRITE DAT CUZ IS WOMAN LIKE U DAT NEED A GOOD TOMP IN UR HEAD (ALHTOUGH I DONT AGREE WITH VIOLENCE LOL) BUT MAMSELLE PUSHING IT BOY…

    PS: COME TO TERMS THAT YOUR A DIRTY, NASTY, WHORE AND THEN REPENT…. I AINT JUDGIN BUT FACT IS FACT…..

    • anonymous
      January 4, 2011

      ouch!!! i sorry 4 d girl if she read dat 8-O

    • hmmm
      January 5, 2011

      @ DOL sounds like u have a small penis lol … cheating on your man does not make you a whore.. cuz if so i am sure most pple would be consider whores… the gurl just expressing herself

  72. desie
    January 4, 2011

    i believe sex makes up 90 % of a love life
    if you don’t believe me
    ask your self
    if my partner loose his/her sexual organ would i leave or would i stay

  73. desie
    January 4, 2011

    WHY is always a man that have a small DICK
    And not the woman that have a callvot or a swamp dasheen

    BABY try pushing in whole hand inside the hole
    cause one finger is not enough

  74. LOL
    January 4, 2011

    LOL …all you really have jokes boy on DNO…but the girl taking man and from what she said more than 1 man eh, so all that probably have her Vag-J-J well stretch there…cus the 5inch should still rock her boat if her thing was in good shape…so she herself need to try some pelvic floor exercises and grip de willy girl…

  75. forkit
    January 4, 2011

    I HAVE CHEATED ON HIM SEVERAL TIMES… YEA TRYING TO GIVE HIM DESEASE WHICH WILL KILL HIM… I GUESS IS LIVE AND LET DIE… REMEMBER THAT SONG in the late 1990(dancehall) kill the bitch

  76. jeff
    January 4, 2011

    if i was ur man i woulr pour peper in ur kakayot then kick you in it i am sure u will feel something from me then… as for killing u i would tell him doh waste his time u just a garden tool (hoe)

  77. forkit
    January 4, 2011

    NOT THE SIZE OF THE BOAT IS ITS MOTION IN DE OCEAN !LOL!

  78. mac
    January 4, 2011

    Hi lady you should not have cheated` if you say you love bim you should try to make him satisfy you get some sex aid `there is m an in marigot that can help you;What he will give you is better than viagra it will make you feel like you have a new man. you say he threaten to kill you when a man say that is because he find you sweet and dont want to loose you. find that man in marigot and all your trobles are overOp

  79. Typical Dominicans
    January 4, 2011

    well dey say its not da size of da ship but d motion off d ocean…..but it seems like he aint got a big ship nor a good engine….ohhh brother

  80. CONCERNED MAN
    January 4, 2011

    U NEED JESUS IN YOUR LIFE GIRL AND STOP ABUSING THE TEMPLE OF GOD. YOU NEED TO REPENT FROM YOUR SIN AND ASK GODS FORGIVENESS BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON BELIEVE IT OR MNOT AND THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS KNOWING THAT U ARE READY TO MEET YOUR MAKER WHEN HE COMES BACK. U CAN ONLY FIND SAFTERY IN GOD, EVEN IF YOU GO TO THE POLICE AND THE MAN DECIDE IS KILL HE GOING TO KILL YOU NOTHING WILL STOP HIM. CHANCES THAT IF HE KILLS YOU HE WILL KILL HIS SELF TO ESCAP[E PUNISHMENT FROM THE LAW BUT HE WILL NOT ESCAPE TO ETERNAL PUNISHMENT NEITHER YOU IF HE KILLS YOU. SO MY WORD TO YOU IS MAKE IT RIGHT WITH THE LORD, HE WILL GIVE HIS ANGELS FULL CHARGE OVER YOU TO PROTECT U AND ANY WEAPON THAT MAY BE FORMED AGAINST U WILL NOT PROSPER AND EVEY TONGUE THAT RISE AGAINST U WILL BE CONDEMNED. THATS THE POWER OF GOD.

  81. precious
    January 4, 2011

    lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo rolf lmfaoooooooooooooooooooooo hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha…………

  82. not a legal mind/common sense
    January 4, 2011

    Miss bella your client should apply to the magistrate court for a restraining order against him not the police.the police comes in when he violets the contents of the order.The police can charge him for the threatening language if she makes a report to them.

    my lady a research shows that most women are satisfied with 3-5 penis, if u r not satisfied try a donkey.

  83. Hmmmmm
    January 4, 2011

    IF the young lady is not satisfied she should leave. Not every one is satisfied by a small penis and sometimes the young men cannot even use it. Girl, if you are not satisfied, leave that man and his small penis. The nasty comments are from men with small penis.

    • 7.5"
      January 4, 2011

      No they are not,,,, the woman should be satisfied with the size of the man’s dick, cuz a vagina opens to and should be able to take it wateva goes in, so if a 4-5inch isn’t doin the job,then she really have swamp dasheen and a big one too.. one all farmers in d/ca ripping dasheen from…LMAO. I wonder how deep is the well, cuz a vagina should be biologically be about 3-4inches…..

      The human vagina is an elastic muscular canal that extends from the cervix to the vulva.[1]

      Although there is wide anatomical variation, the length of the unaroused vagina of a woman of child-bearing age is approximately 6 to 7.5 cm (2.5 to 3 in) across the anterior wall (front), and 9 cm (3.5 in) long across the posterior wall (rear).[2] During sexual arousal the vagina expands in both length and width.[3] Its elasticity allows it to stretch during sexual intercourse and during birth to offspring.[4] The vagina connects the superficial vulva to the cervix of the deep uterus.

      • Sum Fing Not Wong
        January 4, 2011

        True say. Doctors usually use their index finger to examine a woman and that finger reaches all the way to the cervix. Even a 4-5 inch cal is longer and thicker than the Doctor’s finger. I think this woman needs some education on sex and her anatomy otherwise she will injure herself with the bigger woods she seem to be craving. Cervical cancer can be initiated by long wood constantly jamming against the cervix, so it is advisable that the woman prioritise what is important to her.

  84. Dude
    January 4, 2011

    gal when d man lie domn with u trafalgar falls start. so how u can feel anyting in d bassen glo. sacway sallop. u even putting dat on bella and bella just eat so she cannot think straight niggeritis affecting her brain so she telling u run away. d man doh want to kill u he is embarassed about how u making him feel about his 4 to 5 inches penis. stop cokaying every body wash ur meow with dettol and make d man feel secure about his rooster, that is his co-key -o-co, and watch d change happen

  85. baby girl
    January 4, 2011

    sex counts for a small amt in a good relationship, a real woman shows her man how to satify her…… noy look for it elsewhere, the woman does not know what she wants………

    • BD
      January 4, 2011

      LOVE YOUR COMMENT . REMEMBER GUYS SOMETIME WE NEED TO MAKE A WOMAN TAKE CONTROL. TURNS OUT THEY ARE MORE FREAKY WHEN INCHARGE

  86. principles
    January 4, 2011

    the lengh of a woman’s vagina is 4-5 inches long some wOmEn like PAIN

    • em
      January 4, 2011

      seriously.some women like pain..dat just hurt so much.and some men so dam a*s more u scream more they push, thinkin is enjoy u enjoyin..myself, if my man would eat me all d time n never put his dick inside,i wont mind..

  87. Irie
    January 4, 2011

    With what he threatening to kill you? The small penis? The average vagie has most sensation in the first 3-4 inches, yours above average man? I suppose you are one of those women that cannot satisfy with wood, but need a whole forest…..You want a cheval-bwa? I saw a few at paro-city, down by the river bank…..Leave de man alone if you cannot respect him.

    • cornet vive
      January 4, 2011

      hahahahhahahahahh….u make my dere wii irie trust me

      • Dangg!!
        January 4, 2011

        It’s liek signing that song- One man can’t satisfy her, she need need some wood for the fire… Well then again the forest has enough wood to maintain her fire.

  88. JUSTICE
    January 4, 2011

    dem stories deh coming from DA for real nuh?? My girl get outta dis and do what it is u need to do to save ur own life….i would understand making noise and stuff but going to the point of threatening to kill is way too much….

  89. timbok 2
    January 4, 2011

    SMall things does chook hard lmao

    • JUSTICE
      January 4, 2011

      hahahahahahahaha…..thats wat they say..i guess dis man is an exception cuz d girl need her some more chook!! lol

    • wikiLee
      January 4, 2011

      yessssssssssssss iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii now i know chook u does chook

  90. timbok 2
    January 4, 2011

    SMall things does chook hards lmao

  91. amazing
    January 4, 2011

    It’s women like you who force men to distrust women and generalize all women. Take your nasty .., go to church, say a few prayers and ask God for forgiveness. When you’re done tell the man exactly how you feel and maybe the both of you can work it out. It appears though that you do not love this man as much as you say you do, because if you love someone, truly love someone, then the first thing you would do is discuss the issue and come up with ways and suggestions by which the both of you are able to satisfy each other.
    I guess the only reason he is threatening you is because he is seeing that his 4-5inches is lost in your v-hole and he knows he didn’t or cannot do that much damage.
    You need to stay away from men for a while and do some soul searching; you re nothing but a free whore!!!

    • Dirty dogg
      January 4, 2011

      “WAYS” or “SUGGESTIONSS” and “DISCUSS” issue? lololol what i hearing there? what u want the man to say ? “BABY ILL BUY U A 9 INCH DILDO?” Nothing can solve having a small dick! lol lol

      Mr cannot … dats why his small dick is a problem to her.
      ANd mamsell, in addition to having love, need to have a good sized dick to complete her definition of a perfect relationship.

      Solution! The two parties need to leave each other!

  92. Anonymous
    January 4, 2011

    i smell yeast infection

    • Baykay Lyvyere
      January 4, 2011

      What u smell is not yeast but ghonorhea.

  93. Anonymous
    January 4, 2011

    I thought in true love things like penis sizes doesn matter

    she clearly is not in love ….

  94. dnokries
    January 4, 2011

    Bella. coulden’t you have given that confused woman, some sound advice? than to run ? where is she running to ? to long carl? I wish you had given her true information about love and how to keep her man.She is with him, because he is taking care of her,in ways her friends can’t.
    She is the one that makes the relationship unhealthy, and i doe think he would kill her, he love her too bad.Her friends that are the killers.Love is more important than pipe lenght.Her friends sound like the “TOP ME UP CREW.” i was about to asked you for some advice, but iam scared.

  95. d=a
    January 4, 2011

    lololololol mines is 6 an a half inches 5 feet 6in tall 23 yr old an am glad of that all the gals i ever sex love it so i don’t know what noise she making bout 5in in the first place you should had never been sexing all about the place ur a gal hope u don’t have std on the other hand of he wanted to kill you take it to court

  96. Lmaoooo
    January 4, 2011

    Is all of this for real???? Like seriously!

  97. Sum Fing Not Wong
    January 4, 2011

    Oh ..! This is real nuh? But honestly, a 4-5 inch wood is not all that bad. As a matter of fact, it is good wood. I can give Confused a darn good workout with that 4-5 inch wood. There are two types of workout, one with a BIG wood and the other with a Small wood. Tell your man to focus on your clitoris. He needs to enter at a 45 degree angle. He needs to keep rubbing his wood on your clitoris and you MUST come. If he does that, the size of his wood is totally irrelevant.
    I am one of those men who will always argue that size of wood is irrelevant. It is how you use the wood you have. If the wood is BIG, then the man can pump away until the woman gets a penile orgasm. But if the wood is small, the man has to aim for a clitoral orgasm. And since orgasm is orgasm, it does not matter how she comes.
    Finally, let me give Confused boyfriend some free advice. You listening, pardner? Most women prefer a good session of love-making over sex! You hear me? If a woman has to chosse between sex and a good session of love-making, she will choose the latter. Also, if a woman feels positive about her man, she will always enjoy sex no matter how small the wood is. Sex is all about how the partners feel about each other.
    So, go my boy. Satisfy your woman. Let her send a totally different letter to DNO by next week.

    • amazing
      January 4, 2011

      You totally have me LMAO on this. But you self not seeing the woman like dick then- she done say she “cheated on the man several times- who knows how many times “several times” is.

      • under the radar
        January 4, 2011

        man thats the best damn response in the room. i am impressed…. wow…. damn if that couple dont take it. i smell a kiss and makeup around the corner.

    • PE
      January 4, 2011

      You sound like a love Doctor papa.

    • v v
      January 4, 2011

      mehn i lov this responce..not only to dat couple but others may need those lil tips too..i hope them fellers hear, most women chuz good love makin over sex..b4 they kiss u, dick already inside..

      • Sum Fing Not Wong
        January 5, 2011

        Doctors usually use their index finger to examine a woman and that finger reaches all the way to the cervix. Some women complain of pain when the Doctor inserts his finger. Even a 4-5 inch wood is longer and thicker than the Doctor’s finger. I think this woman needs some education on sex and her anatomy otherwise she will injure herself with the bigger woods she seem to be craving. Cervical cancer can be initiated by long wood constantly jamming against the cervix, so it is advisable that the woman prioritise what is important to her. Sex is about pleasure, not pain. But there is something the woman can do to help with the man’s length. The man can enter her from behind (I am not talking about bulling. Ok!). A woman has better clerance from the rear and she can feel the full length of her man when he enters from her back. The woman can also sit on him. Her cervix drops when she sits, so she will feel him better.

    • Truth
      January 5, 2011

      This I think is sound advice!! A good session of love making trumps sex all the time. I totally agree!

  98. queen
    January 4, 2011

    What happen to morals these days and communication with you partner?

    • Anonymous
      January 4, 2011

      u right my friend
      she say she love the man and still cheating on him
      a rat that.

  99. WIKILEAKS
    January 4, 2011

    ” But what if he actually kills me? Bella I am scared of leaving him and I am also scared of staying with him.”

    Bella, If he kills you, you will have no idea…you will be dead….so you will be scared of anything again

    And by the way, the size wont matter anymore

  100. Smaller hole
    January 4, 2011

    Firl u have a problem. The penis (toly for Dominicans) is not going to get bigger but your hole (soosoon/cookoolooks) will get wider as you weat it out with ever donkey-toly in Rosea and as age and menopause render your vaginal walls flaccid.

    I can only advise that if one hole is too wide try another smaller hole. I am assuming you have not used up all your orifice options already.

    • mwen meme
      January 4, 2011

      Bogar dat!

    • LOL
      January 4, 2011

      mwen meme…I agree with that….smaller hole is .. you talking…that hole wasn’t designed for entry at all relax yourself.

    • fire
      January 5, 2011

      fire bon all who go at the back

  101. Small is Bootiful
    January 4, 2011

    Girl thank God for small mercies. Some women have none at least you getting 4-5 inches. What planet you come from girl? Sa ou nee? Or Too-bouchet? 4-5 is just below average but it can still do wonders. You are just a nasty, salop, seapoom, legghobeast.

    I don’t condone the threats of violence but the man must have smelled some other man’s juice on you. I hope you are not making the man eat you after you cokay your other men.

    Solution
    Poor man, giving all he got and all her gets in return is seconds.
    1. Go to your man and confess what you have done
    2. Beg him for forgiveness
    3. Promise not to do this again
    4. take a course in fellatio (that is suck his toly) and give the man great head—his 4-5 inches will grow over time
    5. And you will live happily ever after.

    • D.O.L
      January 4, 2011

      hahahahahahhahahhaha great advice lmao

    • Baykay Lyvyere
      January 4, 2011

      I second dat. Good advice. Hope the legobeast run with this advice.

  102. small penis
    January 4, 2011

    WOMAN!
    HOW YOU CAN EMBARRASS ME SO???

    yeah but seriously,
    I think this woman is a disgrace and doesn’t know about love. IT IS THE GUY WHO SHOULD LEAVE HERE!!!.

  103. Ms. Pussina
    January 4, 2011

    That woman who wrote bella is a old salop..is probably her suson that expand from all that cheating so she can’t feel the man toley and saying his size is 5″.. that salop have a well between her legs and the man probably found out she has been cheating and tell her he will kill her..that i think is the real story i think the version of the story the salop give us there doesn’t add up..Nuff said WOSSSSSSSSSSSSHH.. Ms. Pussina..

  104. Concern Child
    January 4, 2011

    i got the impression reading this that she has cheated several times with several different guys. i need to know how she selects guys with big wood to cheat with and how she chose this guy in the first place. did she misjudge it with this guy.

    also, he is insecure because he probably realizes that she is cheating, that is why he can’t allow her out of his sight.

    Some women are just —–. Bella you should have sent advise to the guy instead, he deserves it more.

    My advice to him would be that although she seems to be your world now, the is life after death and the after life is always more enjoyable. let go and let God have his way.

  105. kill
    January 4, 2011

    what if he kill me ! well you dead and you no nothing the cheating part you a wrong there a other ways and means he can satisfy you if only you talk to him and tell him how you want him to do you maybe you and him need to communicate more .

  106. Reader
    January 4, 2011

    That is stupid letter! Good grief. If I were Bella, I’d say:

    Dear Confused;

    Your letter has left me utterly confused. First of all, did it take you three years to notice that he had a small penis? If you were not satisfied from the get go, why did you prolong the relationship and have the young man invest his heart and soul into a relationship, where you were unhappy? That was wrong and I would encourage you to refrain from doing so in the future.

    Secondly, is your man’s obsession with ensuring your have an escort whenever you go to town due to him knowing that you have used those opportunity to cheat on him? Not that it is right, but I sense that is his reason for wanting you followed 24-7.

    Overall, you are in an unhealthy relationship! Perhaps you could encourge your guy to find someone to speak with, helping him realize that you are not the woman for him. The woman for him is one that will not belittle him and will not sleep with other men – putting him at risk of STDs. He needs to understand that killing or hurting someone, regardless of how one feels, is never an option. He needs to lick his wounds and move on. As for you, I would suggest that you cut off all contact with this man (don’t call to see how he is doing, don’t call for top up)! Most of all, keep your panties on for a while and give yourself time to figure what it will take to make you happy.

    Bella

  107. lady A
    January 4, 2011

    you have been with this guy for about three months and u only finding out that he has a small penis to write about it now,and u are still with him?well i beleive u should just shut the… up.

  108. KOKAY THERE
    January 4, 2011

    You have cheated on him several times? SSo whats the point in staying with him…you really greedy for true.

  109. citoyen
    January 4, 2011

    If she did not cheat she would not know that his penis is to small. get a life girl and be HONEST and FAITHFUL in your relationship.Grow up.

  110. SADDENED
    January 4, 2011

    get a Dildo and encourage the use of toys in your bedroomcheating is not the answer you could get an STI Sexually transmitted disease, now these threats to kill you, is serious you all need to talk this through get outside help if you need it, your BF might have anger issues, do not let this go on and please stop cheating, its not a nice thing, if the man toely too small for you and thats all that matters to you then move on

  111. Jen Dominique
    January 4, 2011

    Well….it’s not how deep u fish—–it’s how u wiggle your worm

  112. CB CUZ
    January 4, 2011

    Why is it that after women cheat that they find every and all problems with their men? For three years you had no problem with the size of his penis..why is it that after you cheat u find a problem with the size? Cause you get something to compare it with..Well my girl i think that it is your hooha that is too wide it seems that your hooha have no more grip so go get some dettol and then soak in sea water for a couple of days but dont blame your cheating ways on the length of your mans penis. Size dosent always matter it is the way it is being used. I hope that it is not some other poor woman man you cheating with…Now you cheating on your man you trying to embarass him..shame shame shame on you

    • under the radar
      January 4, 2011

      its the thickness most times that matter, they dont say that though lol…

  113. Dominican princess
    January 4, 2011

    omg. girl stop using 4-5 inches of a penis as an excuse to whore yourself. ur VJJ must really be the one needing the help. if u love him you would have reasoned out with him before 3 yrs. why did you take all that time. he should really kill you. you women are the root of problems in relationships today. and i am sure its men who are in their own relationships and maybe even married you sleeping with. shame on you. you are not confused. dont lie to bella. ur name shud be WICKED!!

  114. Anti-hate
    January 4, 2011

    This woman is using the dude’s penis size to justify the fact that she is a sl*t. Plain and simple

  115. precious memories
    January 4, 2011

    i agree with ‘Dominican by Marriage’. its all about the mechanic, not the wrench.
    women tend to follow the male masses in the opinions that, its all about the length when most women physically cant take in more than 5 inches anyway. the pleasure censors are at the openin of the va-j-j, not on the inside.
    makes me wonder if this is legitimate situation and not an ‘attention’ ploy.

    as to your ‘he’ll kill me if i leave him’, if you fear for your life you already know what to do! stop acting like a child! maybe his pockets are deep afterall……

  116. Dominican By Marriage
    January 4, 2011

    The size of his penis dont make it right for you to cheat on him. You cheated because u wanted to and blame it on the size of his manhood.. That stupid talk about size means everything, its the driver of the tool. Unless the hole is over strectched to the limit it cant contract enough to accomodate a smaller penis…Why are you humiliating the man so.. emabarrssing him on his size and still cheating..I am suspicious that your been satisfied outside as you seemed to come back to small penis over and over…So what is it you really want?……If you were a decent woman you would have find ways to ensure he satisfy you but yur just greedy and don’t really love this man..Unless of course the depth of his pocket makes up for his penis size…. A garn

  117. Length
    January 4, 2011

    She says that 4-5 inches (while erect I assume) does not satisfy her and that is fair enough – to each her own. But to the women out there reading and/or thinking of posting a comment, what is a satisfying penis length?

    • hmm
      January 4, 2011

      Yeah I would like to know myself. Cause that ..t hurts…..sometimes…..lol

      • a joke that man...
        January 4, 2011

        it hurts eh?….. or u shouting ….. it nice, nice nice nice nice…yes yes further..harder lmao :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :-P :-P :lol: :lol:

    • YES MAN
      January 4, 2011

      9 inches nuh

      • Irie
        January 4, 2011

        9 inches? A hysterectomy you want…….all dat cock-a-doodle do for your poulette? Messier all you vowas we….you doh like your cervix man?

        • HAHA!
          January 4, 2011

          THIS IS DE TOPICCCCCCCCCC lmao lol…hahaha it does enter wi… trust me ;) lmao :wink:

    • HMMM
      January 4, 2011

      Definitely not 4-5 inches lol

    • mwen meme
      January 4, 2011

      4-5 inches does not satisfying her? hmm….well it hard to full a well so gyal i doh think the prob is the man penis, but maybe you should make an appointment with Dr. F and close on that …. 4-5 is average and for those with tight flesh it’s ideal…but with a hole like yours that all crab going in to…then

    • 5 when very soft
      January 4, 2011

      I suspect is your own you worried about wi dats why you want to find out hahahahaha :-D

      • My2Sense
        January 4, 2011

        Haha. Nice one “5 when soft” but on a real; my penis size has been more than adequate for the women I’ve met in life thus far, so that isn’t in question. I really just wanted to focus on the woman and her issues, because while 4-5 inches is slightly below average, it definitely isn’t a “micro-penis” incapable of pleasing a woman.

        So the conclusions left to be drawn are: the woman loves big penises or the man doesn’t know how to make love. Either way, its obvious that communication is a big problem because IF she does like big penises, then incorporating above average dildos in their love-making might help significantly. Conversely, IF he doesn’t know how to please her, then she needs to guide him during sex.

        BUT the situation seems to be too far gone. She has cheated on him several times over three years. While he might forgive her is she confessed (he’d be a better man than me… I wouldn’t be able to do that), he will never be able to trust her again. And what is a relationship without trust?!

        Just My2Sense

        • didi
          January 4, 2011

          well said my2sense..at d same time, dat woman can take presure eh..wat!! long ting jus chuk hard wi..wait till she pupu under 1 then she’l behave.

    • younglady
      January 4, 2011

      i don’t think length is as important as width or skill

  118. BOYCOTT BRISBANE
    January 4, 2011

    First of all Bella if this is a true and real letter, this is a bunch of rumbling( he will kill me, i will leave him i will not leave him stupes stupes). Now young lady get a life if dont want da boy leave him alone if did feel for you until you said that you cheated on your man. You women too SALOP you with d man three years and cheats on him now you come with the excuse dat his penis is too small for you..Yea right you cheat with another man who may have a bigger penis than your man now after three years you find his weewee too small for you. Why dont you say that is you VJJ that is too wide for him…SALOP

    • cbaby
      January 4, 2011

      while i respect your point of view i see no reason for you to have used degrading words like sallop. cheating does not verify whether a woman is a sallop or not. the excuses as to why cheating took place does not verify that either. in my opinion i do not believe she could possibly be in love with her bf when she lets little things like a small penis bother her enough to cheat. i would say she’s weak minded. good sex should not be the basis of any loving relationship!

    • small penis
      January 4, 2011

      I HOPE I’M ALLOWED TO SAY “SLUT” ON THIS PLATFORM.

  119. mouth of the south
    January 4, 2011

    http://www.penisamp.com/sizegenetics/ http://www.penisamp.com/ um d.n.o allow me to be of some help,,,u know mouth on top of every ting,,,,,the days of having small wee wee done ok,,,these sites i’ve posted will give u links to safe penis enlargement protocols,,,,no not gain 4 inches in 2 weeks,,, safe methods like any good thing takes time and patience but u’ll get there,,,that is like the 3rd time i seeing bella dealing with that scenario,,,there are many bogus sites but this one is from the professionals,,,so all insecure men feel insecure no more,,,n lemme tell u,,,allu think all porn stars were born with large penis’ cmon,,,it have more links for real herbal rooted treatment but this was the first one dat came to mind,,,,i hope i have been of good help,,,i don’t know if we in d.a allow that in the post office but maybe u can have it fedexed to u lol

    • SS
      January 4, 2011

      you seem to have researched that very well mouth of the south.. i can safely assume you were Born that Way also… lol

      • mouth of the south
        January 4, 2011

        hhhhmmm like i said i’ve seen such statements many times so i did my research but if u r a woman u can come and inspect anytime u want,,,i’ll have candles lit n red wine ready 4 u

      • ha ha ha
        January 4, 2011

        mouth of the south u cget a fix up man on them site

      • Just giving my Two Cents
        January 4, 2011

        Good 1 SS….gosh – this story made my day, but this was the best resp by far!!!!!!!!

        • dnokries
          January 4, 2011

          this M O S there, he gives you every thing, good and bad you just have to take the ones you want. :lol: :-D :lol: :-D and laugh.

      • kixxer
        March 29, 2011

        loooooooooool

    • Reader
      January 4, 2011

      The penis is a muscle and like all other muscle, it needs to be exercise. I don’t believe all these things they promote to make it larger. I say give it a good whack at least twice a day.

      • HAHA!
        January 4, 2011

        lmfaoooooooooo… twice a day eh????….

      • ... pensive
        January 4, 2011

        The penis IS NOT A MUSCLE!!!.. go do your research!

      • Curious
        January 5, 2011

        You mean beat it?? LOL

    • timbok 2
      January 4, 2011

      oh yea…dere bella is back BAL

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