*Editor’s note* This installment of Dear Bella is a follow-up response to this previous post: https://dominicanewsonline.com/news/homepage/news/dear-bella-im-stuck-in-the-middle-afraid-to-choose-between-two-lovers/
Dear Bella,
I am back.
Thanks for your advice and of course those comments I read and agreed to.
First, I must admit it wasn’t easy to face the sad truth about love but I have since spoken to both parties and made my decision.
I remained with Partner 1 because I realized deeply that guilt was boiling down because I truly love him and want to be with him.
And he has promised to work on communicating more with me, seeing it was pushing me from him.
Partner 2 still can’t believe it but we agreed to talk MAINLY ON PROFESSIONAL WORK LEVELS and no messages between 8pm-8am also.
Thanks for your help, Bella and the feedback from your audience.
Happy In Love
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Hello Happy in Love,
It’s always very pleasing to get positive feedback from people like you. I am happy that my advice on speaking to both partners brought you some relief and joy at the end.
As indicated before, these issues are tough on the heart and mind but are always the best thing to do.
You made the right decision and you discovered your true love in the whole triangle. Wow.
I hope this experience serves as a lesson to you…that stringing two men along can be painful at the end. Someone always winds up getting hurt. Always consider another person’s feelings.
But…In your case, you came out guilt free and deeper in love…Good for you!!
Bella
Ahe take enough bord so she choose one..I hope you doe get a 4 some next timd
Dno, could you please tell me if “elizzabethlinaxavier” is OK because I have not seen her on this forum for sometime!!
ADMIN: Thank you for your consideration. We have sent an email to her letting her know you expressed your concern. Perhaps she might also see this message and respond herself.
When Love #1 leaves you make sure to let us know.
Despite the fact that men have no trouble having a side chick, we cannot handle it when our women display any affection for another man.
Good luck.
Stupessss! I though you were going to say that the threesome was perfect and you all will continue like that since it benefits you the most. Anyway, you missed out on some good stuff by not keeping both. You messed up a perfect opportunity lady.