DEAR BELLA: I want my son’s fiancé out of the way

Dear Bella,

I write from the north. I’m struggling with a big deal right now and I really need your help since you seem to give such good advice.

Today I found out my dear son is going to marry a disgusting woman. She is a little ….., and I get sick every time I see her.

She is cute, laughs at everything and polite. [She] is distracting my son from his familiar responsibilities.

I just want her out of my way.

I hope you can give me some advice.

Thanks, and have a nice week.




It is quite normal to not want to let your son go but you have to, sooner or later.

Your reasons for not liking his fiancé doesn’t prove that she’s a bad person but exposes your weaknesses.

“She is cute, laughs at everything and polite”. That doesn’t seem like a horrible person to me.

I think you should lighten up Sheila and let your son live his life.

You son’s responsibility is to love and honour you and nothing else. What other “familiar responsibility” do you think she is distracting him from?

Sheila, lest you lose your son, embrace his bride to be and be a good mother in law. Not a monster in law.



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  1. Shabin
    November 7, 2018

    Mammy once your son fall in that hole, mammy he fall deep wi, he even going to marry…news flash.!!! De way mammy talking she might all go and do a magic wi. You better get ready for de grand child save all de social security money mammy.

  2. too too
    November 7, 2018

    you made him for you. woman you said she is polite, good looking and the list goes on and yet still she is a …..shame on you I hope your son marry her.

  3. watcher
    November 7, 2018

    I believe there was no need to publish the profanity or as some would say “colorful” word used. i would like to believe we all would have gotten the point either way. Its a public domain which means children can be reading. Be mindful.

    Besides that, good advise given!

    ADMIN: We appreciate your feedback. The article has been updated to be more appropriate for all ages.

  4. November 7, 2018

    Nice response Bells. I think this story has more to it. Mom you need to let your son live his life. He will always be your son. Remember the words of the Bible. A man has to leave mother and father and find his own family. Just be easy love him and love his intended wife. Wish them the best.

  5. lol
    November 6, 2018

    bella you still makin story lol.

    • smh
      November 7, 2018

      this is a stupid story

  6. lula
    November 6, 2018

    Sheila ….. Bondiere oiye, first of all you want your son’s fiancé to leave because she is preventing him from taking care of his responsibilities and she is a …… Then on the other hand she is polite, laughs at everything ,nice etc. I’m confused. 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O 8-O hmmmm, jealous mother. looks like that woman is not going to accept no one he brings home . You keep up with that attitude, either he runs away or he might end up womanless

  7. Agirl
    November 6, 2018

    So all the drama in DA up north these days on Dear Bella? All you haven’t got anything to do in Possie since Ross left or what? Boring!!!

    • Channel 1
      November 7, 2018

      @Agirl – If one wants to incite a reaction in Portsmouth, just dress up Iike two football goal posts and go stand in the Benjamin Park. In recent times, it would appear that the Labour sheeple in Portsmouth have more rage towards football goal posts in Benjamin’s Park instead of directing that rage towards the despicable treatment of Portsmouth by Skerrit & the DLP.

      It’s been almost 4 months since Ross announced its departure from Dominica, yet Skerrit seemingly does not have the courtesy or courage to go down there and have a direct one-on-one talk with the Portsmouth people about the Ross departure. Yet the Labour sheeple sit down waiting for him……. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


  8. Frank N Stein
    November 6, 2018

    :mrgreen: :mrgreen: Bella getting out we boy. Bella tell Sheila free up the daughter in law, don’t be a monster in law aye I flat.
    I keep calling gentle ress but the line busy. Bella ou bell la!

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