I honestly think that young women should stop making babies early. I am a 34-year-old man and found myself in a predicament where I think I like my girlfriend’s mom.
Well, she has never showed any interest in me but she treats me with respect whenever I come over to see her daughter. However, these days I find myself thinking about my mother in law a lot. She looks really good for her age.
She had her first child (my girlfriend) when she was maybe 18 or so. It is like the lady never aged. She sometimes even looks better than her daughter.
Anyway, long and short Bella, I find myself coming to their house just to see the mother and not really because of my girlfriend.
Am I a bad person? How do I get the lady out of my head? Do I even love her daughter if I feel this way? I am so confused. Help me figure this out.
Hello Sad Fella,
You can either get over it or say goodbye to your girlfriend. Fantasies are one thing but you shouldn’t let a little fantasy intrude in your reality.
Spend some time considering why you would have such grand feelings for your girlfriends’ mother.
From what you’ve said, I think you know that the mom is never going to be interested in her daughter’s boyfriend.
If you still do enjoy your girlfriend’s company and you still have feelings for her, you’re just going to have to learn to focus on her and not her mom.
Be a good guy. Move on.