DEAR BELLA: Woman who wants own child without a father, gets an offer

When Dominica News Online published the letter to Bella several weeks ago about a woman wanting her own biological child but without a father, it caught the attention of thousands of readers.
What we didn’t know is that someone would actually seriously volunteer to be that person.
Well since publication, there is someone who remains adamant that he wants to be the man to impregnate that woman.
At first, we, at DNO, thought he was just joking. However, the constant contact on social media and WhatsApp convinced us that he is in fact, serious.
In a recent message sent to DNO, he reiterates, “this is something i said that I can do to help someone conceive & have a Child if a woman would ask me to.”
The man, who did not give us his name, said that person must be able to take care of the child financially and he will not have anything to do with the matter once the mother is alive.
However, he said if the mother dies, he would want to take responsibility for his child.
He is also requesting to have blood tests done to ensure they are both in good health.
Admin: As a rule, we do not publish the identities of contributors to Dear Bella. However, if the young lady who wrote the letter still feels the same way and she contacts us again, we will facilitate contact between her and the man who has made the offer.

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  1. Flat Tire
    July 12, 2019

    In Dominica

  2. %
    July 11, 2019

    Seem like many people were interested, the lady needs to think of how she can let her identity be know to those interested.

  3. Me
    July 11, 2019

    Who is thinking about the child’s future? Don’t you think they will be sad and angry when they find out the mother chose that life for them intentionally, a life without a father figure? A little bit selfish, lady…..

  4. DAPossieMasse
    July 11, 2019

    Hmmmm. Did not see my take on this the last time, my dear publishers at DNO……

    ….I would not support the undermining of the structural integrity of the family by promoting this lady’s desire. Then she is going to be walking around claiming she is a single mom. The only outcome I can see is this child will suffer. Do you sir believe the child will not want to know the dad?
    Why don’t you just get artificial insemination? That way

    Go ahead, be foolish. Believe she will not come after you when her child wants to know daddy. Don’t you see how people flip in the US?

    You in the US? Do not believe you will not pay child support, especially if you are in the US.
    Go for it.

  5. Bellarosa
    July 11, 2019

    :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: Jesus is lord, the devil is a liar

  6. big B
    July 11, 2019

    am also interested am in the us am a da man let me know

  7. Casio
    July 11, 2019

    I was very serious as well. I put in my bid right here on DNO but i got no response.

    ADMIN: For you or any other interested parties, you may send an email to

  8. Zandoli
    July 11, 2019

    One would hope both parties would have suitable DNA to bring up a solid citizen.

  9. Iamanidiot
    July 11, 2019

    But wait…but where I be there nuh.

    • Amarossa
      July 11, 2019

      You are in the new modern Dominica, my dear. The Dominica the where the local LGBQT group ( Miridom) are pushing for their rights.
      So, no need to wonder where you are.
      On the other hand, this woman could have just gone to a fertility clinic in Trinidad or Florida or even Barbados without coming on DNO and trying to create excitement.

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