I am in love with two men

I am a 19-year-old, very beautiful attractive, intelligent young woman. I have a career. I have my own house and car but no kids as yet.

I’m confused still because I am in love with two men; one is married with a divorce pending from his wife because of me.

He is one of the very prominent men in our society in Dominica. He owns and manages a few establishments here and abroad. We travel together a lot and our sex life is perfect.

He loves me with all of his mind body and soul and I do to, but you see Bella, the other one, guy B is not only loving but he is kind, just adores me and he makes sacrifices for me. He is not as prominent as guy A. My family doesn’t like guy B but they love guy A.

What should I do Bella, I love them both…..

Polygamous Teen

Dear Polygamous Teen,

Nothing warms a woman’s heart more than a man who is kind, adores her and makes sacrifices for her. And this is exactly what guy B is doing.

Now guy A actually is divorcing his wife for you and who knows he might just do the same thing to you when the next young skirt comes his way. Because of that, I would proceed with extreme caution.

So take some time off from both of them while you work on your choice. Settle on the one that is most committed to you, who is a good communicator, the one who makes good use of the differences between you two, the one who is honest with you, the one who respect you and doesn’t take you for granted. Remember sex, although significant, is not the the answer to a good relationship.

Good luck.

Bella

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128 Comments

  1. January 18, 2013

    Dear Teen: You are confused and so is your family. They have to know you are in a sexual relationship with guy A but they don’t care because he has money could be a good provider. Your family are short on morals and values. Sex belongs in marraige between a husband and wife. Outside marriage between two people who are not legally married to each other it is a sin. The Bible calls it “fornication” And says “…they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.” You will find this written in the New Testament. Please read Galatians 5:19-21. Teen, I know many people live this way. But I have seen very few of these relationships that are working and most are no happy through they may pretend to be. I encourage you to read your Bible. Begin at St. John’s Gospel. Read a chapter a day. Begin attendig a Bible believing evangelical church. Personally, I recommend a Pentecostal Assemblies of Dominica Church. You will hear TRUTH preached that will – if you blieve it AND act upon it – change your life! I invite you to visit my website http://www.livinghopeministries.ca Click on to EAGLE COURSE. You can study this 12 Lesson Workbook from the screen or copy it absolutely free. The very first lesson will introduce you to the Lord Jesus Christ. With HIM you will find a life that is so full it overflows! And from HIM you will receive the light you need to guide every step you take in life! Sincerely, Rev. Donald Hill. Pentecostal Evangelist.

  2. black
    February 28, 2012

    di married man done live his life enjoy wat he enjoy n is now moving to greener pastures i think that guy b should get a chance i mean come on all the good signs are there but the money lacking that is the doubt u have but it is ok that is what will mak it special he will sacrifice for u n the other will replace u u stupid?

  3. hmmmmp!!!!
    December 26, 2011

    young lady, i doubt u are inlove with both men, theres a difference between liking and loving! that married dude…divorcing his wife for u?, dont let that fool u cuz he will do u the same, leave u hanging for a nxt woman, and by the water wld u want someone to ruin ur relationship? think about that, guy b songs more like a man to me…girl dont let these guys and their money fool u, be a woman or standard and value, if u got the house and car through something goo..clap clap dats gud, but if is workin ur p… hmmp smh, u must be a closed peg!! wake the hellup!!

    • diva girl
      April 5, 2012

      that’s not true that man could really love her… you dont know if the man had marry for love in the first place!! allu like to say give the little man a chance.. but come on if you were in the situation who would you choose… somebody with enough money to make ur life prefect or a guys with nothing but will shower yo with love.. as much as we would like it to be guy B cuz of all the underdogs in the world.. this is real life.. at the end of the day she will choose the 1 that can give her everything.. cuz love cant pay the bills.

    • diva girl
      April 5, 2012

      And stop being so FAKE!! if you cah get a man wit money to shower you that is your business but the girl be two.. and if i was her i stay with both of them cuz life is short.. man does want to have several woman… my girl stay where you strong eh.. make them make the choose for you… who that decide to live.. than u no who always be dre!!

  4. alu2 hipocrt
    November 27, 2011

    ppl lay off d gurl back….after my mother died i inhereted her house and car and doh finish college yet… n is jealous al u jealous…let who is free of sin cast the first stone… alu 2 hypocrite…i just dont agree with the divorce thing.

  5. Vincent Rolle, Houst
    November 23, 2011

    THERE IS NO WRONG WITH LOVE BUT WE ALL NO RIGHT AND WRONG. HAVE A CLEAN GOOD TIME AND NO SEX NO KISSES JUST DONT GIVE IT AWAY..

  6. stups
    November 23, 2011

    so much negative post,yeah the girl 19 but ya’l aint know how she obtained all of it,
    it sounds fishy but just jumping to prostution being the main thing,leave it to dominicans to judge that way

  7. Spicy
    November 21, 2011

    First of there is no way at 19 yrs old you can afford to have a house and car unless you came into an inheritance or your rich married man bought it for you or you whored around. Iam 25 and now planning of getting my house at 19yrs could never be so well off because at that time i was looking to finsh my degree but but dominican young girls are really well off, when i was 19 i wish i could be well off but me as a 25 yrs old i work hard for my money ,2 job day and night .

    • Dominican #2
      November 22, 2011

      Spicy you could not have said it better. AT 19 years house and car. My girl you was fortunate papa. Thank God for that PENDING DIVORCED MARRIED MAN that can leave you as soon as that next beautiful, attractive, and intelligent 19 year old who will also have her career comes around…….Sometimes you all does don’t use you all thinking cap. I am 19 years as well finishing up my college career and you think is that nonsense I can be thinking off and making things worse being in a relationship with the DIVORCED PENDING MARRIED MAN. Sweetie stop thinking of the material things you are receiving. Peace out.

  8. Justice and Truth
    November 19, 2011

    She is making a grave mistake by loving two men. She does not love them. She wants them. This man who said that he is divorcing his wife for her, it sounds like a lot of crap. Divorce? He may be leading her on, using and deceiving her. Has he commenced the divorce proceedings?
    As for “B”, he sounds like a better person. In the long run she may be better off with him.
    Money can be the root of all evil. People can only see on the surface. They are not able to foresee the future.
    The only reason why your family loves “A” it is because of what you and they can derive from him.
    People use material possessions to trap and deceive others. Money does not purchase happiness and permanently so.
    Their sex is good, eh? Well, let an illness or accident occur and see if he will stand by your side and even as you age.
    Young woman, you are only 19 as you stated. This is the time to study and obtain a degree and later a stable, permanent job. Do not waste your time for time flies. You are only young once. Make good fruitful use of those years while you are young and cease running around with especially a married man. If he is unable to remain married, do you think that he will make you a happy woman and husband to you after he supposedly get his divorce? There is more to life than sex.
    You appear to be an ungodly person living solely for yourself and what you can get out of life. This is a selfish and self-centered attitude. If you continue in this manner, in the end, you will fail and be disappointed. Who knows how you will react to it?
    I urge you to turn your life around and give God due worship and praise. Also perform acts of love/charity and compassion. You will be happier for this in the long run.

  9. DAT U HEAR WI
    November 19, 2011

    :-x DNO wud nut allow me to say wat i really want to say to you young lady.but if this iz REAL first of all stop bringing shame on us teen girls. second u have can have heaven and earth and u destroy a family becuase of sexand money sumting rong wif you. if you so say u have car n job go with man B BEACUSE HE DOE DAM MARRIED WHEN YOU FACING D MUSIC ON JUDGEMENT DAY YR SO CALLED FAMILY WILL NOT BE DR TO TAKE IT WIF U.and leave d lady husband alone d same thing he doin wif u he will do it with somebody else n den u will want to come and play part crazy on da road n ppl tax money have to pay for medicine up psyward . so stop playing dumb seein that u have all of that u mus have gone to skool and use yr brain , ok i kno common sense iz da least common sense but try gettin sum and go to god n pray and pray hard

  10. TRUTH
    November 17, 2011

    Just like the Dominican passports, Citizenship and government are for Sale in DA; also are MOST (not all) Dominican women to the highest bidder. This young woman is a prime example of that mindset. I was once proud to tell anyone asking about my country about the beauty, loyalty and integrity of our women. Over the last few years I don’t dare open my mouth because of stories I’ve heard and things I’ve seen. Men are also disrespecting women a 1000 times more because of that immoral behavior … the question is why should I be faithful and treat her with any respect if she’s been with so and so and is doing so and so for $$$? It’s a mess for this 19 year old chickenhead and everyone else.

    • Woodford Hill girl
      November 18, 2011

      Lol TRUTH it is,if I may say so myself!

  11. INPUT
    November 17, 2011

    pure fake! you have all that and you still need bella to tell u what to do? I thought u had all the sense in the world at 19. Come up with a better story next time lol. If and a big If for some reason that is a true one being with a married man is a curse already. You are destroying a family and trust me you will reap what u sow so drive very carefully.

    • Woodford Hill girl
      November 18, 2011

      She is already driving recklessly,an her family is encouraging this madness,all for selfish,financial gain,whateverhappened to our country? pray without ceasing!

  12. Country Girl.......
    November 16, 2011

    That sound like one of the African movies I saw the other day….uncle sent them for mamma in the barel from New york, We watching another one tonight…..

  13. ALAS
    November 16, 2011

    My girl slow down!
    finish ur education and make ur money in a clean legal form to help yourself. if the man leavin his wife for u then trus me he can do the same to you… learn to be INDEPENDENT! Men don’t deserve to be our sugar daddies, we have brains and courtesy ..keep telling yourslef that. Bless up!

  14. Ro Ro baby
    November 16, 2011

    19 year and you have all that already. Doh lie there is not man alone you have taking.

  15. Shameless
    November 16, 2011

    Sounds like you just love being wooded. If that is the life you want for now just do your thing and dont complain. You already destroyed one family anyway so keep on playing but remember all playas will eventually get played somehow. Just make sure them man wear condoms because I am sure they know you are a playa and therefore are themselves are playing around. Good luck Mrs.Playa

  16. JA
    November 16, 2011

    We that p**** you have there must be God Sent, to have all that at age 19.

  17. Anonymous
    November 16, 2011

    Follow your heart.If he is divorcing his wife now you a next in line.Finally your family have too much movay manay.Save your soul from 10 yrs of bad luck with that married wood you taking their.

  18. so what
    November 16, 2011

    every body is bitchin about d girl being 19 n havin a career a house n a car……who said u cant have all these at 19 wen u got a wealthy family n a few strings attached to b pulled…if this is true i say congrats to you hun n u sound like u got a strong head on ur shoulder so please dnt let either of the men bring it down….try dating both of the men but dnt hve sex with dem n c which one u are more comfortable with n the one u can relate to more n communicate with more…but to me it seems like guy b sounds alot better because who doesnt wnt a man who make sacrifices for dem dat means he will always put u first in whatever…plus he is sweet…but guy A seems to materialistic to me…it sounds like givin u a pear of diamonds will heal ur soul instead of simple things like appreciation love etc which means much more than all d expensive things his money can buy…i say try out guy A a lil more cause guy B jus wants to use u n brand u to get someone new (i mean let other women c how good he treats u n all what he can giv u so other girl will want what u getting n eventually fall for him….

    • $$$$$
      November 16, 2011

      Isn’t your advice a bit ‘last year’?

      She is already in the mele sleeping with both, so what u talking bout dating both and not sleeping with them? hello??????? 8-O

      • so what
        November 16, 2011

        well den she should stop screwing dem both

      • Ice
        November 17, 2011

        @so what if you read the letter properly or at least between the lines the family loves Guy A although he is married and why is that? its certainly not because they are rich…are you catching on ? Its because of all the material things they can get from him they are all free loaders… so scratch that family rich thing…Another thing you may want to read your comment very carefully before you post because it was not making any sense at all…like date both but not sleep with them.. what planet are you on?

      • Woodford Hill girl
        November 18, 2011

        @so what, SO WHAT are you saying??? smh

  19. $$$$$
    November 16, 2011

    Well, at least she get house, car and job.

    It have plenty that giving de pum pum in exchange for jeeyor and can’t account for nothing. :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

  20. sad
    November 16, 2011

    my girl in this day an age choosing guy B OVER guy A is the worse thing u can ever do…grab all what u can grab eh….

  21. Reality dat
    November 16, 2011

    Story not far fetched at all. :wink:

    The pretty girl was living in a cabooway with her parents. Nom mayeh help fix up the house ‘for the parents’ but in reality is for the young,pretty daughter. And parents put property on her name.

    Nom mayeh has ties so young girl has good job. Most likely gone to college and is bright.

    The tie up with nom mayeh wife is a bit stressful so Guy B fits in nicely. But mami and daddy want more $$$ and Guy B messing up de scene.

    The next move is for nom mayeh to sign the school loan for university.

    It happens everrrryyyydayyy!

    But, suspect that it’s someone writing on some else.

    • Ice
      November 17, 2011

      Suddenly someone who is actually making a lot of sense….thank you :lol:

  22. MIB
    November 16, 2011

    Aye Amin, come up with some real live stories and not that make up BS.

  23. God is king
    November 16, 2011

    Trust me young lady, if ur involve with a married man, ur only making urself very cheap and ur only getting the scraps and remains of the wife.ewwwwwwwwwwww.this is gross.i dont know who full u and make u think that the man will leave his wife ust to be wit u. wen he leave his wife, if he does,ur ass will be grass.cause wen he gets fedup wit u, is blose on ur tail.and sooner or later he will get fed up wit u and really start treating u bad.and start blaming u for breaking up his relationship.so go right ahead enoy life still, cause u done know is blose next in ur tail and hard times. lol…. we are all laughing at ur sorry ass. leave the married man alone. let him go to his wife and kids.ur a freaking greedy person want 2 and make it worst a married man.shame shame shame.ur family dont love u trust me.their pockets are fulling so thats wat they worry about only. not u only their pockets

  24. Janice
    November 16, 2011

    We are all jealous of you boo boo pure haterade :(

  25. Esther
    November 16, 2011

    True dat .Life’s a BITCH And me out here suffering. You go girl, What ever floats your boat.

  26. Devil's Advocate
    November 16, 2011

    Good Lord people! For those of us who are mature clearly understands the immaturity of the young lady hence the request for advice. How did we get to prostitution and selling of passports??? @19 she could well be part of a family business (hence career) after the family has worked hard (assuming so) to secure what they have achieved (assumption ) of course they going to approve partnership of similar status! Why would they want some broke ass person/s to benefit? More so what if Miss 19 and Mr Prominent have the same entrepreneural spirit. $$$$$$! I am neither approving or disapproving, I am merely playing devil’s advocate and taking a logical questioning approach rather than being judgemental and slanderous.

  27. Francis Chicago
    November 15, 2011

    Miss 19 year old]Becuase of you one of them will divorce his wife for you.sizzla why do it have to be this way dry cry.You and him commiting adultery.MY advice to you make the creator the focus of your life.Using the written law of god as your guide for truth is the first sign of spiritual maturity.As you learn to judge all your thoughts you will discover that fear, insecurity and confusion will leave your life.

  28. Abu Sulayman
    November 15, 2011

    In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

    Firstly, your first few lines seems exaggerated. You own a house and car at 19 in this rough economy called Dominica? Also, you have a career? What career could you possess at 19? Unless you left high school at 12 then went to Cuba or something to become a medical doctor and even so you would not have had firmly established yourself in a career. Or simply because the man has an affair with you, he placed you in a “position” within one of his companies.

    Secondly, of course you will be confused at 19 loving two men at once. Also, are you sure the sex life is ‘perfect?’ A man who manages companies here and abroad, this man may be under so much pressure, you sure this doesn’t affect his performance? Also, his divorce is ‘pending’ as you confess and worse if he has children. Are you sure you are receiving ‘great sex’ under all this pressure and stress? Additionally, do you think the probability of you being a home wrecker compliments your personality? No young lady it doesn’t, this reflects the action of a selfish and unwise young lady. Furthermore, what is so special about you? Are you sure he has no other women besides you? He manages companies abroad so are you saying that out of so many women you are this man’s “undying” love? Why you miss polygamous? Are you God’s gift to men?

    Thirdly, he loves you with his body and soul? Really? I’d like to know how you came to that conclusion. Also, does Guy B know about Guy A and vice versa? Another point, your family’s choice of partner for you reveals that they are very shallow, materialistic and hold no sacredness for virtues. If your judgement is sound regarding guy B release him for there are still good young women who are dying for a good man with the qualities you described.

    In conclusion, your confessions reveal that you are an exaggerator, materialistic, immoral (as you never confessed feeling any remorse for sleeping with a married man) and selfish. Moreover, your sentiments shows that you are an empty woman, lacking any moral substance and ethics. In due time this “beauty” and temporary material things will go away. You will grow old and weak, your life will be wretched and miserable if you don’t do some soul searching.

    • chocolate
      November 16, 2011

      now thats someonne who is very wise.i really likked d way u put things in points.very well said

    • Sout Man
      November 16, 2011

      Very positive!!

  29. me
    November 15, 2011

    well im 19 and i got a good paying jobs 2 cars and a bike,and i got 3 men to choose from……hahaha i beat u so behhh :lol: :lol: :lol:

    we need some real stories here, like real life stuff not these dumb ass teens looking for attention

  30. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    All of you are being tricked. That person just making news. That could be a man

  31. miss
    November 15, 2011

    yeah im starting to think this dear bella thing is not real, and the person making up their own stories…..is always a man and woman story now this….hmmmm

    also so long i send my story to you since 2 mnonths ago, you yet to replay

  32. November 15, 2011

    @Polygamus Teen

    You are not seeking for advice from Bella. If you are real, you have just taken the privilege to demonstrate the glitters of your existence–none of which is gold–but the nature of self-pride and arrogance that will eventually destroy you.

    You sound like the Me, Myself and I person, who has no consideration for anyone else, but Me, Myself, and I–the person of you.

    Are you bragging that a man is divorcing his wife because of you? Well you better pay attention to Bella, because she is right! That man will simply do the same to you, and you would deserve it.

    I am advising you to get rid of this destructive mentality of yours before it is too late.

    You have enough time to do so since you only 19 years old. Allow your mind to grow up and function with your age. I am sure you will learn to apply some form of humility. That will certainly be better for you.

  33. hmm
    November 15, 2011

    the digicel chic that write tht man..lol

  34. ....................
    November 15, 2011

    SHE SELLING DOMINICA PASSPORT. DAT’S WHY SHE IS SO WELL OF AT 19years..

  35. November 15, 2011

    All u so stupid..a PAC Co-Sion and a wheel barrow she talking bout..this is the house n car.she xing with two crackhead..That’s the career..D.A people easy to fool bouy.She will retire at 22 and still get true love..ha ha.

  36. vip
    November 15, 2011

    lets be real both of them are using one another.and women are not as stupid as before to let a man use then leave them empty handed.And also these women now adays are very dangerous they have lost their moral compass and are too materialistic but God is still on the throne and he will deal with these wicked unrighteous people.

  37. Country Girl.......
    November 15, 2011

    Girl stop your foolish talk, house, car, men education and the looks….stop fooling your self. I can bet you still in the village some where and never even hop an air plaine….

    What else do you have a french, a Canadian and American passport ? yayaya..

    It seem like your mamma and pappy died and you got their life insurance….then go to study and stop making a fool of yourself…people is laughting at you right now…….if you dreaming wake up…

    20 years….? girl go eat your poison balaw back neck, and fig brooth, and if you don’t have oil, glow spread margarine will do..squeze a half ripe pepper on that and wash that down with a kubulli beer..or make some squash….hungry you maybe hungry….that don’t make any sense at all..

    can’t you get a single guy? your age?

    • Country Girl.......
      November 15, 2011

      Sorry girlfriend…BACK AND NECT…

  38. hmmmmmm
    November 15, 2011

    19 have a car, house, career…. and you still have two men…well i guess you have it all well you must be doing something good….lol lol lol lol…ohhhhhhhhhh please

  39. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    i know that individual most of the story is true but its so sad

  40. Truth be Told
    November 15, 2011

    What career can a person have at only 19? Have a house and a car at that age? Something is wrong with these young lady. Ask for forgiveness and do not break up more marriages. Are you selling your body for worldly pleasure?

    • Babs
      November 17, 2011

      A career at nineteen? At what age you started. But wait the career must be serving two masters. Having to cater to 2 men is indeed a career. Doh try to fool us girl, we over that already, you fooling yourself.

  41. (.) (.)
    November 15, 2011

    What you expect your hungry azzz , free loading family to do after GUY A is making life sweet for them? I bet he gave you the house, car , job etc and everybody feasting on that.GUY B is a poor man he does not have material things to pour on them. All volleh have soutiweh but what you fail to understand is ‘what goes around comes around’. You feel proud mentioning that Guy A is getting a divorce for your sake. What makes you think he is going to stay in a marriage with you or even marry your retarded azzz? I just hope the wife gets the last strand of his sorry freezy hair on his head and when they get divorced, I hope she gets the house her husband built/bought you. Damnnned home wrecker. People like you make me want to puke.

  42. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    Are you one of the agents selling Dominica’s passport for big money darling/baby/honey? At age 19 you were so well of? Well selling passport have money.!

  43. Pinky Husband
    November 15, 2011

    you just being yourself lady….. a harlot.

  44. PowerOSJSJSJ
    November 15, 2011

    Take the one with the money .. you already know thats the one you gonna go with so stop b***hing about it.

  45. shy
    November 15, 2011

    One thing i have to tell you young lady ,you could change your ways now and ask god for forgiveness, he will forgive you.But these days, you see how people dying fast,if you die now in this sin, their is no more forgiveness for you.You will not stay beautiful all the time, don’t forget old age.

  46. Lily
    November 15, 2011

    hmmmm, im 25 and only now completing my Bachelors. i went to state college for 2 yrs right after high school and and started working right after that and the jobs that were offered could never ever allow me to have my own house and car at 19 yrs, so kindly inform the rest of us as to what your career is because im sure everyone who has read this ‘story’ would love to know. so therefore im assuming that maybe some relative of urs left you a house oand or car in their will, if not my ‘friend’ i would have to say that your in a very sad state to be selling ur soul and body for material things. What in de world makes you think that that ‘well established’ man u claim you have going to divorce his wife and put his name in disrepute for you? people in high society dont divorce so easily they have too much to lose.

    • mouth of the south
      November 15, 2011

      selling passports nuh…..

  47. deesse
    November 15, 2011

    hmmmmmmm i think she stupid if she thinks mister is leaving his wife for her. mister wive is leaving him because she is tired of him liking young thing. for this young lady to be 19 and obtained all this something tells me mister has been sexing her since she was a small girl and the house car and maybe even job is just a way to keep the family quiet about this.

  48. Diva Status
    November 15, 2011

    We are all sinners. there is no sin bigger than the other. is adultery greater than fornication??? chile one life to live, so live your life. when judgement day comes just know you have an account to give to the almighty!!! allu dominicans doing like allu doesnt sin. “ye who’s without sin let him cast the first stone.”

  49. mouth of the south
    November 15, 2011

    did ya’ll forget how much our passports sell for??? who do u think they send to entice prospective clients…. sexy young ladies wiii… so these days it is very possible to have a car and house at 19… she never said the house cost over one hundred thousand… a lil spot for rough 60 grand can do…

  50. 79
    November 15, 2011

    if you were my daughter my foot would be so far up your behind your would floss with my shoelaces! and you would have to change my last name behind yours…

  51. Pedro
    November 15, 2011

    at 19 yu doing well girl. keep working dat pus** of yours girl. go girl. aids in yr ass soon,

  52. AMMM
    November 15, 2011

    When life hands you lemon, you make lemonade. I am 33 and not sure I will ever own a house or a car. Thank God for bus and parents who will not put me out!

  53. WRENK
    November 15, 2011

    19 AND OWN HOUSE???? hmmmmm that well work already girl….which minister or ministers that eating dat????? or maybe is one of those lawyers that selling passports….well good for you cho cho that well before you go and sleep because i suspect that already start to have a little funk!!

  54. ..........
    November 15, 2011

    And yea dat story is fabricated. Guy b sounds like d type of guy I’d luv so sweety send him my way. Women like u who mess it up for us women who r lookin for decent hard workin guys

  55. ..........
    November 15, 2011

    All u not serious! Chile d money dat have u sayin all dat. I’m 23 been searchin for a job so long, nd I’m rentin nd I take a bus everyday. First time in d/ca I heard a 19yr old got her own home nd car nd a career. First off all I doh believe d married man bought u dat house maybe d car but not d house. Second I don’t believe he divorcin his wife cuz of u. He mite divorce her nd wen its finalised dump u. Open ur eyes nd read between d lines

  56. Dominican overseas
    November 15, 2011

    Her Daddy or Mum left her a House and a Car when they died.

  57. SaylC
    November 15, 2011

    19,house,car,usual traveling…..f***…GOOD GOING!

  58. AmazingFace
    November 15, 2011

    That story sounds made up….own house and car at 19?! Sounds fabricated to me, DNO.

    • WRENK
      November 15, 2011

      in these times of passport sales i rule nothing as impossible

  59. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    You’re a damn home-wrecker and should go seek help for your shameful, sick little self. What message are you sending out to young people and never mind what are you going to tell your children?

  60. ME
    November 15, 2011

    Poligamous Pum pum is all that and a bag of corncurls,,,, sooukou,, mi daybar…

  61. forreal
    November 15, 2011

    young lady thanks for making bella what it is or should i say beth la,a story corner,you shore can write a good script.

  62. patat
    November 15, 2011

    yeah, this story is not real. Don’t believe it

  63. little observer
    November 15, 2011

    this whole story sounds like a make up and the writer is doing a good job at fantasizing. 19 and house and car with regular trips all over well your dreams came true well early

  64. IS THAT U HERE WII
    November 15, 2011

    OH YOU HAVE SUGAR DADDIES TO PAY YOUR STUFF AND MAKE YOU JOUI LIFE

  65. Way Papa
    November 15, 2011

    First thing Bella should tell that “teen” is “Wake up now…u are still asleep.” In what part of DOMINICA you ever hear 19 year old have OWN house and OWN car? I guess poom-poom paying hard and maybe longtime too for you to be so accomplished at such a tender age.

    Anyways if the man leave his wife for you, rest assured he will leave you for another sweet little young thing.

    Hope you protecting yourself and by extension, those men you sleeping with.

    • Anonymous
      November 17, 2011

      Everyone busy focusing on her material state of life. If there’s any truth in what she’s saying then she got the car from one man, the house from the other and she has a career as “Lady of Night”.
      Now she needs to repent because if she doesn’t she’ll be all washed out by the time she’s 25.

  66. Garçon a la Maison
    November 15, 2011

    Wow I am inclined not to be judgmental but with a name such as “polygamous Teen” I can’t.
    First of there is no way at 19 yrs old you can afford to have a house and car unless you came into an inheritance or your rich married man bought it for you or you whored around!
    You stated that this man is divorcing his wife because of you??? Let’s see how long the relationship lasts.. When you lose your appeal you will see how many trips you accompany him on…
    This man himself is an idiot, he honks money will buy him happiness, never! His life will never be fulfilled..

    • Anonymous
      November 15, 2011

      I was thinking the same thing. Majority of young people are unemployed or struggling with a job that barely pays. And this 19 year old has not just a job but a career, has her own place and a car. That’s very interesting!

    • DANZIGER
      November 15, 2011

      Guy A story is make believe story so he will use her for a long time. That man wont divorce his wife for u becareful his A SMART MAN. Take my advice he is only using you. Open your eyes.

  67. ineedfree
    November 15, 2011

    she sounds like a wrong and strong “show off”…

    on the other hand because of your youth listen to all the good advice and realise that you are on the wrong path….a wicked

  68. shy
    November 15, 2011

    If what you say is true,you ought to be kidding me.Because of you the man is leaving his wife and you know that.Would you like it if the shoe was on the on the other feet?Don’t you read your bible?I am not condeming you because you a young, please get hold of a bible and read,i can’t tell you exactly where it is in the bible but i have read about adultery ,i have just started studing my bible.Just start from the begining you will come across adultery ,leave this guy he is leading you into a life of sin .Stay with guy B instead .Adultery brings death to your soul honey, run from guy A as fast as you can.Life is short and think of how his wife might be feeling you wouldn’t like that for yourself, do not do it to someone else.Money is not all.

    • WRENK
      November 15, 2011

      really?????????????? MONEY is not ALL in DOMINICA….PLEASE look around and DONT MAKE ME LAUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

      • Diva Status
        November 15, 2011

        i agree with you. lol. u rock girl

  69. TRUTH
    November 15, 2011

    It would be different if you started dating /seeing someone in a relationship who is not married as opposed to a married family man. I’m not sure if you’re breaking up a family, sleeping with two men or bringing happiness to both men. In my humble opinion, at age 19 you’re already accustomed to seeing more than one man at a time, even married men, you’re morally off to a rough start in life! For all the reasons you mentioned and didn’t mention, whichever of these men you choose the other man will always be there. Judging by what you’ve acquired at your age, you’ve learned to use your beauty for financial gain (it never lasts); the path that you’ve chosen may be financially rewarding but morally lacking (as you age the weight of those choices will show). The best choice is to follow your heart pursue guy B and leave guy A but you already in it with A, the bed is already made.

  70. Blessed
    November 15, 2011

    Polygamous Teen,
    Do you really think you are Polygamous, this is a case for Plants, flowers not Humans… But if you are that then you need to really think of what you are going to do next with these men… would you really like one of them to do the same to you..be careful be very careful in playing with people hearts… what goes around comes around…I pray that the good Lord give you wisdom in making the decision and make one very quick..

  71. SS
    November 15, 2011

    Admin are u certain it wasnt 29 and not 19??

    • Asterix
      November 15, 2011

      True that

    • show me
      November 15, 2011

      If the story is true, she is much older than 19 just don’t want to say her age. have 2 men, a married one at that,she may think she’s climbing now but wait till she start going down hill she must say people do her bad. GOD works in ways that no one can,the out cry of the wife will be her down fall GOD don’t sleep nor slumber. lady today is yours enjoy,your sorrow is to come, people don’t destroy others married life, remember what goes around come’s around.

  72. lisad
    November 15, 2011

    Kind of unusual in our Caribbean setting to have “career”, “own house” “own car” at 19.Sounds to me like guy A is behind these things too. I have a 19 year old daughter and if she shows up with a married man by her side, I would literally disown her.There are too many young men out there to pimp yourself to a married man. And ur family likes Guy A? why not? he meets material needs.My advice, get out before its too late.I knew of a similar situation in which the yough woman had to flee the country just to get away from the married man. Please, get out now, if you can.They never plan to get divorced. Don’t believe him. Its his way to keep you tied to an illicit relationship

    • Hmmm
      November 15, 2011

      Shame on the family. No wonder Dominicans will not ask the government where they get money from. If you can prostitute your own daughter and sister for worldly gain you will do so with your country as well!

      • WRENK
        November 15, 2011

        this is the best comment i have EVER read on DNO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!EVER!!!!!

      • Reader
        November 15, 2011

        This is actually a good conversation/discusion point1 Why is it that a number of mothers allow their young daughter (many in high school) to be in unhealthy relationships with older men. I say allow because these girls go out with these men at night, hang out at their homes, drive around town, etc. Why are we so accepting of these relationships?

  73. Pnuts
    November 15, 2011

    19yrs old; that says u r 1-2yrs out of high school. Not even a college education yet and already have house and car?
    “My family doesn’t like guy B but they love guy A.” That shows nobody died and live that 4 u.
    “one is married with a divorce pending from his wife because of me.” U R already set in your ways and your path is made. UR cat is cursed, so live the person innocent boy for an innocent little girl that is deserving of his sacrifices and kindness.

  74. Me Too
    November 15, 2011

    Me Too

  75. Family Guy!
    November 15, 2011

    So you caused de man to get a divorce because he buy car and house for you, allu woman not easy you know, and you still not gonna stay with him anyways…dats why i can’t trust woman!!

  76. Chris
    November 15, 2011

    Stupes!
    WHO want noticing today? Polygamous Teen or Bella?

  77. hmmm
    November 15, 2011

    You cant be intelligent because u allowing a man to divorce his wife for you. You just young and dumb

  78. the_1
    November 15, 2011

    go drink poison wit this ficticious story!

  79. MangoSweet
    November 15, 2011

    Only 19, and already have OWN CAR and OWN HOUSE? Hmmmmmm

  80. real possie
    November 15, 2011

    Ah thats fake that sounds like mots that write this one well look blows on the pm today.lol

    • mouth of the south
      November 15, 2011

      wham to u nuhhhh…. where i coming in dat… u know i’d boldly tell bella… it’s MOTS LOL

  81. MangoSweet
    November 15, 2011

    Only 19, and already have

  82. D Princess
    November 15, 2011

    hmmm…… bella honestly i dont think u read ur bible…. u should be advising that teen that being with the married man is wrong…. another thing those married men main point to young girls is that they getting a divorce but its never finalised, i guess thats the line to get the young women to stay …. another thing polygamous teen
    wake up and smell the coffee your family loves guy A cause he bought u the car and got u the house and he gives u everything he wants. ( as the saying goes money buys happiness) the rest of your family are just the same as u Gold Diggers no wonder they like guy A. they wont see to tell u that it is wrong to be with a married man…. well i guess guy B is a young single hard working man trying to make a dollar….lets hope all this doesnt spill over in ur face

    • Chris
      November 15, 2011

      and it must be a typing error.. “money doesn’t buy happiness”

      • Food For Thought...
        November 15, 2011

        Nah Money can not buy happiness….but it can rent it for a long time!!!!!!

      • Diva Status
        November 15, 2011

        atleast it can try!!!!!

  83. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    This aint Dominica… Maybe BVI .. 19? car? own house?

    not in dca! that gov too want to hold young ppl down.

    my girl nuthin wrong in havin 2man? Who’s to say if u right or wrong?

    Chile Live, Love, Laugh = LIFE

    • show me
      November 15, 2011

      Things in the B.V.I. getting rough this days

    • sad
      November 16, 2011

      it could be in Dca …..remember how good finances are with Guy A, THIS GRL HAVE A HEAD ON A NECK STANDING GOOD……..instead of having him buy her top up she gots a house and car :) thumbs up up up

      • alu2 hipocrt
        November 27, 2011

        i agree… some of dem her age only getting top up…my gurl smart…mabe she left high school then join the police force and train for 6mths

    • Justice and Truth
      November 19, 2011

      @ Anonymous

      I have considered you a two-timer and two-faced person who always gives positive and negative responses. She is wrong. This is by no means an intelligent response. Do you not know that?
      Who are you to say that the government wants to hold young people down? ARE YOU STUPID OR WHAT? IT IS NOT THE GOVERNENT! IT IS PEOPLE WHO KEEP THEMSELVES DOWN. THE GOVERNMENT IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR LIFESTYLE; THE ONE THEY CHOSE AND HOW THEY WISH TO LIVE THEIR LIFE. STUPID! :twisted: :twisted:

  84. Anonymous
    November 15, 2011

    Your families will always loved guy A the most why its becuase of his wealth but thats not the way

  85. Homeboy
    November 15, 2011

    Wow I am inclined not to be judgmental but with a name such as “polygamous Teen” I can’t.
    First of there is no way at 19 yrs old you can afford to have a house and car unless you came into an inheritance or your rich married man bought it for you or you whored around!

    You stated that this man is divorcing his wife because of you??? Let’s see how long the relationship lasts.. When you lose your appeal you will see how many trips you accompany him on…
    This man himself is an idiot, he honks money will buy him happiness, never! His life will never be fulfilled..

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