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There’s this girl that I met online couple of months ago, and she has a boyfriend.<\/p>\nThere’s this girl that I met online couple of months ago, and she has a boyfriend.<\/p>\n
As girls we exchanged numbers so we could always communicate with each other.<\/p>\n
One day we started making jokes about lesbians and then she told me, “honestly I love you. You sound like a cool girl and I want you to be my girlfriend even if I have a boyfriend.”<\/p>\n
She went on to say that whatever belongs to her, also belongs to me.<\/p>\n
I was kind of surprised but I agreed to be her girlfriend because I love her and she began treating me better than all the guys that I have been with.<\/p>\n
Her boyfriend also agreed to the arrangement and began joining us in everything, including in bed.<\/p>\n
The relationship is going just fine but what bothers me is that her boyfriend pays more attention to me than to her.<\/p>\n
It ends up that her boyfriend and I do a lot of things, including intimate things, together.<\/p>\n
I love them both but whenever she see me with him, she gets mad. She keeps on telling me that she loves me so much and why I am not paying attention to her.<\/p>\n
To tell the truth, I really love them both and I don’t want this relationship to end.<\/p>\n
So I am stuck her my girlfriend and her boyfriend.<\/p>\n
What should I do?<\/p>\n
Confused with Love<\/strong><\/p>\n …………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….<\/p>\n Dear Confused with Love,<\/p>\n First of all, let us not confuse sex with love. This engagement that you have entered into is just a fulfillment of uncontrolled desires.<\/p>\n The three of you are now living a life that many people fantasize about but will not dare to utter.<\/p>\n The root of your problem is the lack of self-control. The boyfriend is happy to have two girls in a relationship and neither is throwing stones at each other.<\/p>\n They can even love each other. You and your female friend are different hence he will always appreciate what one does to the what the other does.<\/p>\n Why don’t you pair yourself with someone where there is no conflict of love interest? With someone where you will not have to be torn because you are in love with two persons?<\/p>\n Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com or news@dominicanewsonline.com. Dear Bella is published on Tuesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"There’s this girl that I met online couple of months ago, and she has a boyfriend. As girls we exchanged numbers so we could always communicate with each other. One day we started making jokes about lesbians and then she…","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-108572","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n