{"id":11449,"date":"2010-06-28T08:11:40","date_gmt":"2010-06-28T14:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/?p=11449"},"modified":"2010-06-28T08:11:40","modified_gmt":"2010-06-28T14:11:40","slug":"does-size-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/does-size-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Does size matter?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Dear Bella: This is a very awkward thing to talk about! I would say that I am a reasonably sexually experienced man, having had several girlfriends in the past. I would like to think that I took care of them in that department as well. But now I have found myself in a shaky position.<\/p>\n

I am thinking of getting engaged to my current girlfriend. She is very loving and loyal to me and I am getting to an age where I feel like I need to settle down. The problem is that I don\u2019t think I am big enough to satisfy her. When I met her she already had two children, one when she was only 16. She told me that she used to live a wild life when she was younger.<\/p>\n

I asked her how many men she had slept with she said about 10 but I think she probably lied about the true number. Bella none of this really matters to me because she has changed and no one can change their past. But when we have sex I can see that I am not able to truly satisfy her. I am afraid that if we get married she will eventually cheat with a man who is more endowed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m just confused right now.<\/p>\n

Dear confused man,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Have you asked your girlfriend how concerned she is about the issue? Sometimes it may just be your insecure consciousness making you believe that you are not big enough for her. Nowadays, there are many steps offered for men who feel that they are too small. For one there are surgical procedures done to enlarge your size. However, if you find this is too risky and do not want to attempt this you can also consider the non-surgical methods. Where pharmaceuticals are concerned, I understand that there are no pills, creams, powders, or drops that will make a penis grow larger or longer. The emails offering these are scams and the advertisements are lies.<\/p>\n

If you think these options are too much, it is encouraging to know too that there are also procedures women in your girlfriend\u2019s situation can try like certain creams specifically\u00a0 Harmony Cream, V Cream and others which can be found over the internet. She can also do various exercises which can help tighten her walls. Discuss it with her and I\u2019m sure both of you can come to a solution. Good luck!<\/p>\n

Bella.<\/p>\n

Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published everyday. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella: This is a very awkward thing to talk about! I would say that I am a reasonably sexually experienced man, having had several girlfriends in the past. 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