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My boyfriend is very concerned that he’ll lose me, although that is not the case.<\/p>\nMy boyfriend is very concerned that he’ll lose me, although that is not the case.<\/p>\n
I tried explaining he won’t ever because I love him so much but that didn’t work last Friday.<\/p>\n
I was hanging out with him when he left and said he would be back.<\/p>\n
After he left I went over to two of his guy friends to hung out and completely forgot about him.<\/p>\n
When I finally remembered him, I went looking for him but could not find him.<\/p>\n
With the help of my best friend, I went out looking for him and we finally found him sitting on a cold, hard, metal bench.<\/p>\n
I ran up to him and hugged him and told him the story about how I completely forgot him.<\/p>\n
He only said ” it’s ok” but it was with a sad voice.<\/p>\n
I asked what was wrong and he said, “I just don’t like you hanging with ____ and ____.” (I didn’t put the names just in case) and I only said “oh.”<\/p>\n
I was upset for the rest of the day because he was angry I hang out with them more than him.<\/p>\n
He said it is apparent they are both trying to steal me.<\/p>\n
I already told him this is something he shouldn’t worry about but it appears he doesn’t believe me.<\/p>\n
I am very worried.<\/p>\n
How can make it final that I love him so much and wouldn’t leave him for those guys.?<\/p>\n
It would be REALLY helpful if you answered and helped me.<\/p>\n
I really need it.<\/p>\n
Need Help
\nDear Need Help,<\/p>\n
In any relationship, you should see love as a verb. For example, your boyfriend says that he is coming back to meet you and you left because you forgot. The message conveyed here is that the meeting was not so important that you forgot to wait on him. However if this is not a usual thing, then we can make room here for a slip of the mind. Evaluate for yourself if it was a loving act to forget the dude…he got hurt so much so that he went to the object that reflect best his rejection: cold, hard and metal.<\/p>\n
Your friendship with any other persons though should not be an issue. In such a case, if he decides to dwell on that, then there is nothing that you can do to make him understand that you love him. You have a right to friendships with persons of both sexes. This is just an insecurity that he has to deal with. Do not ever isolate yourself from good, wholesome relationships just to please another person.<\/p>\n
If there is anything that I want you to go with, is to show love, show care, show compassion. When you create that arena where you know you are loving your man to the utmost, it is really then up to him to embrace that love. If he makes it by-pass him because he is so caught up in the “naughties”, then he will just be wasting his time.<\/p>\n
At least you would have known that you did your best.<\/p>\n
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