{"id":14087,"date":"2010-07-28T12:48:43","date_gmt":"2010-07-28T16:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/?p=14087"},"modified":"2010-07-28T12:55:18","modified_gmt":"2010-07-28T16:55:18","slug":"ex-lover-wants-to-reignite-an-old-flame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/ex-lover-wants-to-reignite-an-old-flame\/","title":{"rendered":"Ex lover wants to reignite an old flame"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><a href=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/bellaLogo4214.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-14089\" title=\"bellaLogo42\" src=\"\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/bellaLogo4214.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"89\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/bellaLogo4214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/07\/bellaLogo4214-150x44.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Dear Bella:<\/strong> My boyfriend of 3 years who broke up with me wants to get back together.<\/p>\n<p>We were really going down a bad road in our relationship and he had major issues trusting me because of infidelities in previous relationships. He also was leaning on the controlling, possessive side. It was getting so frustrating that we decided to part. However after six months he\u2019s telling me that he wants things to work out, but he was intimate with someone. I never did anything with anyone since we\u2019ve broken up and neither have I gone out on any dates.<\/p>\n<p>He already cheated on me countless times while we were together. Should I give him another chance?<\/p>\n<p><strong>In Two Minds.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear In Two Minds,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time to move on. You should also let your ex lover know that as well. It doesn\u2019t make sense being with someone who you can\u2019t trust and who can\u2019t trust you either. You will have a hard time achieving happiness, and maybe you should focus your attention on someone who you don\u2019t have so much of a messed up past with. Just don\u2019t rush into anything with anyone who you\u2019re not sure about and will end up hurting you again.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bella.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at    dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published everyday. All    letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not    publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial    standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and    is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result    from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice  of a   professional counselor<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella: My boyfriend of 3 years who broke up with me wants to get back together. 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