{"id":170573,"date":"2016-10-19T09:07:20","date_gmt":"2016-10-19T13:07:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/?p=170573"},"modified":"2016-10-19T09:48:26","modified_gmt":"2016-10-19T13:48:26","slug":"dear-bella-my-minister-lover-has-fallen-out-of-love-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/dear-bella-my-minister-lover-has-fallen-out-of-love-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR BELLA: My minister lover has fallen out of love with me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-55633\" src=\"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella.png\" alt=\"Dear Bella\" width=\"225\" height=\"80\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella.png 225w, https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella-150x53.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>EDITOR\u2019S NOTE: After a hiatus of about two years, DNO\u2019s popular column \u201cDear Bella\u201d is back. The column will be published every Wednesday.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Dear Bella<\/p>\n<p>I am in a situation where It feels like I\u2019m caught between the devil and the deep blue sea. The thing is I\u2019m in love with a minister. We met about a year ago in a casual setting and we hit it off. I have been having secret rendezvous with him and stealing love on the side makes everything very exciting.<br \/>\nHowever, over the past couple of weeks, he seems to be acting strange. He seldom wants to hang out and he only comes over at wee hours of the morning. He stopped taking care of me financially the way he uses to and he hardly messages. I think he\u2019s fallen out of love with me. What should I do? Please give me your advice.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hurt<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br \/>\nDear Hurt,<\/p>\n<p>Hmmmm\u2026 Let\u2019s see. Sometimes we bring things upon ourselves. I am pretty sure you are not the only one this minister is seeing. I am in no way indicating that this man is incapable of loving you, but most often than not, their \u201clove\u201d comes with all kinds of attachments.<\/p>\n<p>Stealing love on the side is nothing to be boastful about. Love should be given freely. It shouldn\u2019t be a secret or stolen.<\/p>\n<p>Anytime a woman finds herself in a situation where her love has to be \u201chush hush\u201d then she needs to rethink her position. It is clear that this man is no longer interested in what he once had with you. Face the music and move on. The next time you fall in love please; for your sake ensure that it\u2019s the real thing and not just some love affair that ends up with you being hurt.<\/p>\n<p>Chances are he\u2019s probably doing the same thing with someone else. You\u2019re better off without him. Girlfriend kick him to the curb.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at news@dominicanewsonline.com. Dear Bella is published on Wednesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"EDITOR\u2019S NOTE: After a hiatus of about two years, DNO\u2019s popular column \u201cDear Bella\u201d is back. The column will be published every Wednesday. 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