{"id":172337,"date":"2016-11-09T10:09:47","date_gmt":"2016-11-09T14:09:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/?p=172337"},"modified":"2016-11-09T12:14:48","modified_gmt":"2016-11-09T16:14:48","slug":"dear-bella-my-mother-doesnt-trust-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/dear-bella-my-mother-doesnt-trust-me\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR BELLA: My mother doesn&#8217;t trust me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-55633\" src=\"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella.png\" alt=\"Dear Bella\" width=\"225\" height=\"80\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella.png 225w, https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella-150x53.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>Dear Bella,<\/p>\n<p>My mother doesn&#8217;t trust me anymore because she goes through my phone and finds things. Also because I talk to boys and flirt with them. I am 15 years old though.<\/p>\n<p>She says that I&#8217;m looking for sex but I&#8217;m really not.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to regain her trust but she just keeps finding things on my phone, in my text messages. It&#8217;s annoying because if she refrains from looking through my phone, then we wouldn&#8217;t have these issues.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Please Help<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>Dear Please Help<\/p>\n<p>Having a close relationship with your mother as a young adult is one of the best pleasures in life but the opposite can be a nightmare. You need to regain your mothers trust because it appears that she lost it somehow.<\/p>\n<p>You can do that by letting her in on little secrets and having girl talks with her about stuff you wouldn\u2019t tell anyone else.<\/p>\n<p>You need to prove to your mother that her \u201cwanting sex\u201d opinion of you is far from the truth and she can trust you. Let mommy in and see what happens. Best of luck.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at news@dominicanewsonline.com. Dear Bella is published on Wednesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. 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