{"id":174174,"date":"2016-12-07T09:10:20","date_gmt":"2016-12-07T13:10:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/?p=174174"},"modified":"2016-12-07T11:00:10","modified_gmt":"2016-12-07T15:00:10","slug":"dear-bella-prominent-married-woman-in-love-with-my-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/dear-bella-prominent-married-woman-in-love-with-my-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR BELLA: Prominent married woman in love with my husband"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"DearDear Bella,<\/p>\n

I have a problem with a prominent married Dominican woman, who is involved with my husband. I want her to leave my husband and stop sending him love notes and intimate photos on WhatsApp.<\/p>\n

I know her husband thinks she is innocent and an angel, but that woman has caused my marriage to deteriorate and my husband and me are close to getting a divorce.<\/p>\n

The worst part is that her husband is related to my husband.<\/p>\n

Miss<\/strong>
\n………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….<\/p>\n

Dear Miss,<\/p>\n

You seem to have left the bigger part of the problem out of your situation. YOUR HUSBAND. You want this woman to leave your husband but does your husband want to be left alone?<\/p>\n

While I don\u2019t and will never condone adultery, your husband is just as responsible for your problems as this married woman. Cheating is a two-way street. If your husband was not entertaining her \u201clove notes\u201d and \u201cintimate photos\u201d on WhatsApp, I am pretty sure she would have already gotten the picture.<\/p>\n

Have you spoken to your husband? What is he saying? Have you approached this woman to seek an explanation?<\/p>\n

After all you are not just his girlfriend. You are HIS WIFE and you will be well within your rights to seek redress in the problem.<\/p>\n

Have you thought about taking up the matter with your spiritual leader? Or even seek counselling?<\/p>\n

Because the information is limited, I was left hanging as to exactly how to move forward. However, from all aspects, there is a problem and the woman should not be your focus. Your husband should be.<\/p>\n

Best of luck<\/p>\n

Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n

Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at news@dominicanewsonline.com. Dear Bella is published on Wednesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella, I have a problem with a prominent married Dominican woman, who is involved with my husband. 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