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Dear Bella,<\/p>\nDear Bella,<\/p>\n
I have always made the right decisions in my life. I went to school, college, university and then got married. I have a daughter and a great husband.<\/p>\n
Recently I went to an event with my best female friend and we had a few drinks. When I dropped her home, she kissed me on my lips and it lasted a few minutes.<\/p>\n
Things got so intense that we went into her room we got passionately intimate. Then I went home to my husband. Since then we never spoke about it but I feel terrible especially after being intimate with my husband.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s playing a lot on my mind because I loved how she made me feel. The thing is Bella, my husband isn\u2019t into foreplay and many don\u2019t even understand that women enjoy the foreplay more than they do penetration.<\/p>\n
Oral in my house is ancient. He never wants to give it and so I accepted it as something I have to live without.<\/p>\n
But after this night with my best friend, I am beginning to think that perhaps the lack of it drove me to my behavior.<\/p>\n
Bella, do you think I should tell my husband? Because I am worried it might happen again.<\/p>\n
Good Girl Gone Bad<\/strong><\/p>\n ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. \u201cYou are worried it might happen again\u201d \u2026therefore it appears that you have lesbian tendencies and your concern about your husband might be related to your own security. Notice that you did not express remorse. You need to examine yourself to see who you really are before you load up your husband with this. Once you establish who you are, you will be better able to determine the kind of lifestyle you wish to live.<\/p>\n You alluded to doing something wrong by your concern that you might do it again.<\/p>\n Could it be that your conscience was awakened because of what\u2019s written in Romans 1:26? \u201cGod abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other\u201d.<\/p>\n We should all be able to judge ourselves and thus have a reason for doing whatever we do.<\/p>\n Best, Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at news@dominicanewsonline.com. Dear Bella is published every Wednesday. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella, I have always made the right decisions in my life. I went to school, college, university and then got married. I have a daughter and a great husband. Recently I went to an event with my best female…","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-182558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nDear Good Girl Gone Bad,<\/p>\n
\nBella<\/strong><\/p>\n