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Dear Bella,<\/p>\nDear Bella,<\/p>\n
A young man has been texting my wife\u2019s phone. I know I have been neglecting her and now I am worried\u00a0that the young man is keeping her company.<\/p>\n
I see her always smiling at her phone and she is no longer questioning my whereabouts when I come home late.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s almost as if she has something going on. Anyway, I tried looking at her phone but there\u2019s a password. Why have a password if you have nothing to hide?<\/p>\n
She is such a wonderful person. Hardworking and loving and I agree I have been spending too little time at home.<\/p>\n
If she\u2019s flirting then it\u2019s my fault. I hope it\u2019s not too late to restore what we had.<\/p>\n
Should I confront her?<\/p>\n
Worried Husband<\/p>\n
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Dear Worried Husband,<\/p>\n
How about staying indoors when it\u2019s not necessary to be outdoors? And spend more time with your wife.<\/p>\n
Confronting her about something you have no solid proof about could cause contention at home.<\/p>\n
And knowing women, she will use every opportunity to tell you what you already know; that you don\u2019t spend time with her.<\/p>\n
I think you should just show more appreciation and attention to your wife.<\/p>\n
If you do, there may not be a need for her to smile at her phone. She may begin to start smiling at you.<\/p>\n
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