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Dear Bella,<\/p>\nDear Bella,<\/p>\n
I am three months pregnant with my Boss\u2019s baby. I’m 21 years and he is 58 but age is just a number. He is a prominent businessman in the north.<\/p>\n
It started as a fling which I did enjoy because he gives me everything and he makes me happy. Now that I\u2019m pregnant I think I want a relationship.<\/p>\n
I see him daily at work and it\u2019s normal. I don\u2019t think anyone at work suspects anything. I love my job and I love him too.<\/p>\n
I want him to leave his wife because she can\u2019t make him happy as I can. I think my baby and I will make him happier. She can\u2019t conceive and she doesn\u2019t want to adopt either.<\/p>\n
His wife (well ex-wife to be I hope) is ruining everything for me by just being alive<\/p>\n
She has the ring but I want that man.<\/p>\n
It could be a secret baby but he doesn\u2019t want people to know about us or the baby.<\/p>\n
He actually gave me money to get rid of the baby because he doesn\u2019t want to lose his wife.<\/p>\n
And he doesn\u2019t want to break her heart. I want that baby. I already love that baby. There\u2019s no way I\u2019m getting rid of our baby.<\/p>\n
What do you think I should do?<\/p>\n
Lil Boss Mummy<\/p>\n
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Dear Lil Boss Mummy,<\/p>\n
You need to first come down from the cloud that\u2019s keeping you from facing the reality of your situation. I honestly don\u2019t think you understand all that you\u2019ve just said.<\/p>\n
First red flag, \u201che doesn\u2019t want people to know about us or the baby\u201d<\/p>\n
The second, \u201che actually gave me money to get rid of the baby because he doesn\u2019t want to lose his wife\u201d.<\/p>\n
Now, clearly, this man has absolutely no interest in you. Well, I shouldn\u2019t say that. His interest in you was obviously sexual because now that you are pregnant with his child, he wants no attachment to you.<\/p>\n
I reckon he wanted a secret rendezvous with you without any attachments.<\/p>\n
Deciding to keep your child is your choice and he shouldn\u2019t run away from his responsibility because you didn\u2019t get pregnant alone.<\/p>\n
You should, however, tell him that you have decided to keep the baby. Don\u2019t expect him to be happy with that.<\/p>\n
You might also have to come to terms with the fact that you might have to raise this baby on your own. Meaning he might be there financially and that\u2019s about it.<\/p>\n
The reason I am saying this is because I have seen situations like that play out. He might also deny the baby is his, especially if he doesn\u2019t want to lose his wife.<\/p>\n
\u201cHis wife (well ex-wife to be I hope) is ruining everything for me by just being alive\u201d\u2026That statement is so brazen and sinister that I am worried about your mental state.<\/p>\n
Perhaps you can also use the time to get some psychiatric evaluation.<\/p>\n
Best<\/p>\n
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