{"id":217264,"date":"2019-04-05T15:48:44","date_gmt":"2019-04-05T19:48:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/?p=217264"},"modified":"2019-04-05T15:48:44","modified_gmt":"2019-04-05T19:48:44","slug":"dear-bella-im-suspicious-of-my-pregnant-wife-and-her-doctor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/dear-bella-im-suspicious-of-my-pregnant-wife-and-her-doctor\/","title":{"rendered":"DEAR BELLA: I’m suspicious of my pregnant wife and her doctor"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"Dear Bella,<\/strong><\/p>\n

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I might sound a bit as we would say \u201cmacco\u201d but I have a problem. My wife and I are having a baby. She is five months pregnant but all of a sudden, she doesn\u2019t want me to come to the doctor with her.<\/p>\n

We started to go there when she was about three months and soon after, she said she don\u2019t need me there again.<\/p>\n

But Bella guess what? She and that doctor have been having light conversations on WhatsApp.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know if he checks up on his patients the way he checks up on my wife.<\/p>\n

It seems strange to me and I feel weird about it. I went in her phone and saw messages from him.<\/p>\n

I can recall one which struck my attention \u201cKeep that bundle intact. Maybe baby will move for me at your next visit\u201d. Bella what kind of message is that?<\/p>\n

Maybe I am tripping but it seems strange to me. That\u2019s all. Do you think my concern is a silly one?<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Gyno Issues<\/strong><\/p>\n

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”””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””””<\/p>\n

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Hello Gyno Issues,<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Your concerns are legitimate. I don\u2019t see why a doctor should be so personal with his client, unless of course they were close before.<\/p>\n

Also, most expecting moms would love the support of their husband especially at doctor’s visits and it\u2019s a bit off that she no longer wants you to be there.<\/p>\n

Speaking to your wife about the matter is the first thing you should do before casting aspersions and insinuating.<\/p>\n

You need to seek answers especially for such an intimate issue.<\/p>\n

\n

Best,<\/p>\n

Bella<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella,   I might sound a bit as we would say \u201cmacco\u201d but I have a problem. My wife and I are having a baby. 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