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Bella<\/p>\nBella<\/p>\n
I can’t get over this girl. And maybe you can help me. We have been apart for 6 months now but it’s almost like I can’t live without her.<\/p>\n
She thinks I am obsessive and maybe I am a little because I wouldn\u2019t allow her to be on the phone with other people past 9 pm.<\/p>\n
I also had her stop eating bread and sugar because she was getting a little chubby.<\/p>\n
I honestly do those things to help her. She was 150 pounds and put on 2 pounds in a week so I had to take measures.<\/p>\n
She was also offended when I asked her to wear normal cloths and not anything designer because these people are in cults.<\/p>\n
Bella it is because I love her. She is my all. And when you love somebody you mold them into who you want them to become.<\/p>\n
So, six months ago I asked her to get off Facebook and Instagram. She thought it was because I didn\u2019t want her to have friends.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s really not. It is because she doesn\u2019t understand how social media can affect her life.<\/p>\n
Because of that she left me. Bella, she left me but I haven\u2019t left her. I still call her everyday even if she doesn\u2019t reply. I text her, WhatsApp her. I am just giving her a change.<\/p>\n
When she finally takes me back my question to you is whether I should ease up on the measures? Perhaps she might be a little less stressed.<\/p>\n
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Real Man<\/p>\n
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Dear Real Man,<\/p>\n
Be a real man and leave this girl alone. I am beginning to think that she was well within her rights to leave you.<\/p>\n
If you think it is normal to give your girlfriend a bed time, dictate to her, what to eat and what to wear then you have some serious issues.<\/p>\n
Instead of working on getting her back, work on yourself.<\/p>\n
Unless you are a changed man, you probably will be in and out of relationships for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n
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Bella<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Bella I can’t get over this girl. And maybe you can help me. We have been apart for 6 months now but it’s almost like I can’t live without her. She thinks I am obsessive and maybe I am a…","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26,11,235,9],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-236091","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella","category-general","category-homepage-carousel","category-news"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n