{"id":249613,"date":"2020-05-15T13:54:55","date_gmt":"2020-05-15T17:54:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/?p=249613"},"modified":"2020-05-15T16:18:06","modified_gmt":"2020-05-15T20:18:06","slug":"commentary-coping-with-grief-and-loss-in-time-of-covid-19","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/features\/commentary\/commentary-coping-with-grief-and-loss-in-time-of-covid-19\/","title":{"rendered":"COMMENTARY: Coping with grief and loss in time of covid-19"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Dr. Seepersad<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Life goes on during this pandemic and one overlooked fact is that people are dying in families due to illness and accidents unrelated to covid19, and family members are grieving.<\/p>\n

For those who have experienced loss, this is a period where the bereaved has to adjust to a new way of living and say goodbye to loved ones via Zoom or social media. No last looks, whispered words or being able to place flowers on the grave. The rituals of the wake and church services have been banned and crying and wailing are behind closed doors.<\/p>\n

In this time of uncertainty, the grieving process has led to heightened stress and\/or anxiety levels. People are no longer able to receive face-to-face support from family and friends and this disconnect at a time when comfort is needed can lead to a sense of loneliness and isolation, especially for older people who refuse to embrace modern technology and look at a funeral service on the computer or phone at such a sad time. This pandemic has forced those who have lost loved ones to adapt to a new normal way of life.<\/p>\n

To effectively manage grief and loss and to cope with the death of a friend or loved one during this pandemic, the following coping skills are suggested:<\/p>\n

* Acknowledge that grieving at this time is more challenging than coping with loss outside of a health crisis. You did the best that you could with the funeral arrangements and informing as many people as possible.<\/p>\n

* Practise self-compassion \u2013 be gentle with yourself. Take care of your personal needs and allow yourself to grieve for as long as you want to. Cry. Let the tears come. You grieve because you have loved.<\/p>\n

* Maintain contact with your support system. Although you are not allowed to socialise with friends and family, you can meet virtually via Zoom, Microsoft Teams, Google Meet, FaceTime, or WhatsApp.<\/p>\n

* Alternate between \u201closs\u201d and \u201crestorative\u201d activities. This notion comes from the dual-process approach to grieving which states that individuals transition between loss-related activities such as crying or talking about their deceased loved ones and restorative activities such as planning ahead and adjusting to life without the person who has died.<\/p>\n

* Have a grief journal where you can express your thoughts and feelings daily. Write memories about your loved one. What jokes do you remember that they told?<\/p>\n

* Make time for your spiritual growth \u2013 reconnect if you need to and develop a personal relationship with your higher supreme being.<\/p>\n

Most importantly, be safe and keep those around you as safe as you can. Death, grief and loss and bereavement are a part of life. Support others in these times of crisis. Let us be our brother\u2019s and sister\u2019s keeper. Take care.<\/p>\n

DR MERISHA SEEPERSAD<\/b><\/p>\n

educational psychologist<\/b><\/p>\n

member of TTAP\u00a0<\/a>(Trinidad & Tobago Association of Psychologists)<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Life goes on during this pandemic and one overlooked fact is that people are dying in families due to illness and accidents unrelated to covid19, and family members are grieving. 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