{"id":31630,"date":"2011-03-31T10:30:05","date_gmt":"2011-03-31T14:30:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/dno\/?p=31630"},"modified":"2011-03-31T10:43:05","modified_gmt":"2011-03-31T14:43:05","slug":"am-i-a-sex-addict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/homepage\/columns\/dear-bella\/am-i-a-sex-addict\/","title":{"rendered":"Am I a sex addict?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-31631\" title=\"Dear Bella pic\" src=\"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/dno\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/Dear-Bella-pic10.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"89\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/Dear-Bella-pic10.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/Dear-Bella-pic10-150x44.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>I think I have a problem. It started when I was roughly 12-years old. It was then I notice that I love sex. At first I thought it was just hormones or a teenage thing since we were told in school we normally go through that stage.<\/p>\n<p>But as time goes by I realize that love for sex has turned into a burning urge. I want it more and more. No matter what I do, I feel I want more. I have been with a lot of guys hoping that one of them would put out that fire but it won\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n<p>In a sense I know something might be wrong, maybe an illness but on the other hand I am really enjoying it.<\/p>\n<p>So I am getting more and more confused. I am 17 now. Am I a sex addict? Will this thing pass?<\/p>\n<p>What should I do?<\/p>\n<p>Anonymous<\/p>\n<p>Dear Anonymous,<\/p>\n<p>Based on your description you have a sex addiction. It leads to unhealthy sexual practices and habits. It is a disorder which can have damaging implications to you emotionally and psychologically.<\/p>\n<p>It can be treated but it requires you to first admit and accept that you have this disorder. Having done this you educate yourself about the disorder to learn ways by which you can treat it. The treatment comprises controlling the impulses or addictive behavior and this requires discipline and commitment.<\/p>\n<p>You may be enjoying the feeling but you need to be mindful of the need to develop healthy sexual behaviours and practices which does not include a variety of sex partners. You should also consider counseling.<\/p>\n<p>Ironically Dominica News Online&#8217;s health column published an article on Wednesday, March 30 called &#8220;Compulsive Sexual Behavior.&#8221; It is very informative and you should read it.<\/p>\n<p>Bella<\/p>\n<p><strong>Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at                       dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays and                    Thursdays. All    letters are subject to editing and the     editor     has     the        right to not    publish an article if it     does not     meet  the      company\u2019s      editorial    standards.   Also,   the  advice    given  is not      necessarily    expert     advice, and      is  basically    an  opinion,      therefore we accept   no        liability  that result       from  giving any      opinion.  As  such we     encourage     you to seek  the    advice  of a          professional   counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I think I have a problem. It started when I was roughly 12-years old. It was then I notice that I love sex. 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