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Dear Bella: I am currently married to an amazing, hardworking an dependable man. He is everything I can ask for but I feel like I never had a chance to experience the single life.<\/p>\nDear Bella: I am currently married to an amazing, hardworking an dependable man. He is everything I can ask for but I feel like I never had a chance to experience the single life.<\/p>\n
I have always been in a relationship as soon as I started dating. I have currently cheated on my husband with four men over the past six years (but married for five months and never cheated since).<\/p>\n
But here is my problem: My husband and I have been going to Exotic dancer clubs (strip club) many times and I am now attracted to females. I want to have a threesome or be part of an orgy. I want it so bad that I nag my husband every day but he doesn’t want to do it.<\/p>\n
I feel that he doesn’t want to do it because he is embarrassed about his penis size but I think that it’s fine. I am afraid that I will go out and have sex with these females and would get addicted again.<\/p>\n
Do you think I have a problem or maybe going through a phase?<\/p>\n
PLEASE HELP.<\/p>\n
Confused<\/strong><\/p>\n Dear Confused,<\/p>\n You are exploring the world as you should have done before you made the lifetime commitment of marriage. Sometimes we feel like we need to fill this void that was left empty because of the lack of experience and there is this desire to fill it up. However, trying to fill that void may lead to more complications than anticipated. Your husband\u2019s unwillingness to satisfy your sexual fantasy should be taken into careful consideration and the reason may be more than the size of his penis.<\/p>\n Redirect your energies and desires to your husband. Explore, be wild with him and be creative. This may help in getting rid of these desires which could cause irreparable harm to your marriage. Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays and Thursdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Bella: I am currently married to an amazing, hardworking an dependable man. He is everything I can ask for but I feel like I never had a chance to experience the single life. I have always been in a…","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":31984,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-32174","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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\nBella<\/strong><\/p>\n