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I think my\u00a0 girlfriend is a freak. I mean she watches porn movies all the time both on DVD and on the internet, she has a collection of porn photos on her computer, she has copies of the Kama Sutra and other ancient literature on sex and so on. And the thing is she wants to try all of those different things she seeing in the movies and in the books.<\/p>\n
We have been seeing each other for about two years now and lots of our friends are saying that it is time for us to tie the knot. I am not anti sex but as an Adventist Christian I know sex is supposed to be a clean act between husband and wife and I consider some of these positions she telling me about as dirty and a reflection of lust of the flesh.<\/p>\n
Am I wrong? What is your opinion?<\/p>\n
Wondering<\/p>\n
Dear Wondering,<\/p>\n
I do not consider your girlfriend a ‘freak’ but someone with a healthy sexual appetite. Yes, sex is supposed to be between husband and wife but there are many avenues to explore; if not it becomes boring after a while.<\/p>\n
I encourage you to work with your girlfriend if you really love her. Tell her what you think but explore the different possibilities. Go ahead and get married to this young lady. I can assure you, you will not regret it.<\/p>\n
Bella<\/p>\n
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