![\"\"](\"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/dno\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/Dear-Bella-pic7.jpg\" "\\"Dear")
I am intimately involved with a young man whom I met through my friend. From the time we met I did not think anything much of it, just that he is quite handsome. The first time we went out we had sex. I don’t usually do this but I suppose I fell for his good looks.<\/p>\n
However, this continued. I did not tell anyone about this. My friend happened to inform me that he is married, I was shocked. He never told me that he had a girl much less a wife. I decided to ask him and he said he has a girlfriend.<\/p>\n
So, I just thought that my friend was not sure, because I would expect him to tell me if he has a wife or not. I do not mess with married men. I forgot about that and we continued our intimate relationship. However, a male friend of mine who saw us together told me that he is a married man.<\/p>\n
This I cannot take anymore. Why would two different people say the same thing? I do not care if he has a girlfriend but it means a lot if he has a wife. I know I should ask him but I do not know how. If he tells me he is married, I know we need to stop what we are doing and I do not want to stop.<\/p>\n
But it is really bothering me. I am not in love with him, I just love having sex with him. I know I should inquire, but how?<\/p>\n
Uhhhhhh!<\/p>\n
Dear Uhhhhh<\/p>\n
Goodness gracious. What kind of friend would try to hook you up with a married man? Or is it a case where you hooked yourself up?<\/p>\n
I am not going to be hypocritical because many people \u201cget down\u201d on the first night-but that is a practice that ends in some kind of turmoil. Two million French men cannot be wrong so chances are your \u201cintimate\u201d guy is in fact married and he lied about it because he didn\u2019t want to lose his \u201cfriendly in between the sheets” sessions.<\/p>\n
Run. And run fast. Any man who would lie about being married isn\u2019t a man. I am almost certain that you will be able to find another unwed man who is just as good. I have researched and found that he isn\u2019t the only “good” man around.<\/p>\n
Good luck.<\/p>\n
Bella<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I am intimately involved with a young man whom I met through my friend. From the time we met I did not think anything much of it, just that he is quite handsome. The first time we went out we…","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":36403,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n