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I need your assistance. My boy friend and I have been together for six years. Our relationship has been based on love and trust. I loved him dearly, until I caught him cheating on me on my own bed with some girl. I was hurt terribly.<\/p>\nI need your assistance. My boy friend and I have been together for six years. Our relationship has been based on love and trust. I loved him dearly, until I caught him cheating on me on my own bed with some girl. I was hurt terribly.<\/p>\n
But since this happened, I have opened up myself for other men. I have slept with twelve other men many, many times since I caught my boyfriend having sex with another girl. My trust was broken but I went the wrong way.<\/p>\n
I need to tell my boyfriend the truth about me. But I see it as his fault. What should I do? If I tell me I know he might wanna leave me, but I love him too much to let him go. But I need to tell him the truth. How can I tell him the truth and ask him to stay? I now acknowledge my wrong.<\/p>\n
I am such a whore.<\/p>\n
Anonymous<\/p>\n
Dear Anonymous,<\/p>\n
You are not a whore but you brought your standards to the gutter-quite the same as your guy did. Any man who is worth some salt wouldn\u2019t cheat on his girlfriend \u201con her own bed\u201d. He is not only disgraceful but I am even surprised he\u2019s still part of your life.<\/p>\n
Telling him what you did will give him more leeway to continue his cheating ways and have something over your head. This man is not God and you don\u2019t need to confess anything to him.<\/p>\n
Chances are he may leave you and use that information against you. You cheated with \u201c12\u201d men in an attempt to forget what you partner did and I am sure you realized that it didn\u2019t work. If you had unprotected sex with any of these guys you should take an HIV test.<\/p>\n
Experience is the greatest teacher so I hope you have learnt from your mistake and realize that spreading your legs apart just because you\u2019re hurt isn\u2019t the way to go. If for some strange reason you decide to continue your relationship you may have to confess your \u201cdozen\u201d sin but you need to be sure you can face the music.<\/p>\n
Bella<\/p>\n
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