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I was madly in love with a guy I thought was going to be my husband and father of my children. We were engaged but like all relationships we were having problems.<\/p>\nI was madly in love with a guy I thought was going to be my husband and father of my children. We were engaged but like all relationships we were having problems.<\/p>\n
I am a university student and he is in the army so therefore our life are total busy. A few months ago I noticed that he stated to act egocentric in our relationship. I just got that feeling that he had someone else. On many occasions this one female kept coming up so I asked him if he was cheating he kept saying ‘no,’ but in my heart I knew he was.<\/p>\n
After a few months I found out by talking to that \u2018one female\u2019 that they were indeed together.<\/p>\n
Bella I was heartbroken. I went to him and told him that I spoke to the female, he denied being with her and he told me to\u00a0 move on with my life and then deleted me literally out of his life. They are still together and he is talking bad about me and telling lies to people about what happened between us.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m hurt because we have been through a lot together, not only is he talking bad about me but he didn\u2019t even explain to me what happen why he cheated and left me for someone else.<\/p>\n
What should I do? I feel lost and I deserve an explanation or even an apology.<\/p>\n
Lost<\/strong><\/p>\n Dear Lost,<\/p>\n This is indeed a very painful experience for you and many people have been through the same thing but on the same token forget about this guy. He doesn’t deserve someone like you. He cheated on you and he now has the audacity to bad talk you? I mean, do you really think this was the kind of person for you?<\/p>\n I think not.<\/p>\n Move on. Forget about him. See him as a bad mistake you made (we all make mistakes). Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing that he hurt you. I think you have more to talk about him than he have to talk about you, so don’t feel too bad.<\/p>\n Also find somone you can talk to, a friend, a sister or relative. Additionally go out there and have some good clean fun. You are young and your whole life is ahead of you.<\/p>\n Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays and Thursdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I was madly in love with a guy I thought was going to be my husband and father of my children. We were engaged but like all relationships we were having problems. I am a university student and he is…","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n