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I am in love with the most amazing guy one can think of. We have been together couple years now and everything has been great.<\/p>\nI am in love with the most amazing guy one can think of. We have been together couple years now and everything has been great.<\/p>\n
We are even planning to tie the knot and grow have our own family.<\/p>\n
However, there is one problem. Before I met this present boyfriend I had a long running affair with a married man.<\/p>\n
The affair was based more on necessity than anything else: he gave me money, he paid my bills.<\/p>\n
Even after I met my boyfriend, the married man would occasionally pop up and I would just fall for him and sleep with him.<\/p>\n
Now I want to get over this and move on with my boyfriend but whenever the married man pops up, I grow weak and cannot help myself.<\/p>\n
I really want to forget that affair because if my boyfriend knows about it, he will be deeply hurt because he knows nothing about my secret escapades.<\/p>\n
How do I forget that affair and move on?<\/p>\n
Need Help<\/strong><\/p>\n ——————————————————————————————————————————————- Here are some suggestions if you want to forget the affair you are having<\/p>\n -Put away things with strong memories of the married guy. Destroy or throw away things he gave you in the past: jewelry, clothing and so on<\/p>\n -Don\u2019t wallow. Change radio channels when \u2018your song\u2019 comes on<\/p>\n -Don\u2019t check his Facebook account or indulge in checking out what he is doing on the internet<\/p>\n -Don’t meet with friend you have in common with the married man because it might give you clues that he\u2019s missing you and will just make matters worse<\/p>\n -Use distraction techniques. Instead of daydreaming about how things might have been, think about something practical and pressing \u2014 such as what to cook for supper<\/p>\n -Spend time, lots of time, with your boyfriend. Grow the relationship and make it invincible.<\/p>\n Good luck<\/p>\n Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I am in love with the most amazing guy one can think of. We have been together couple years now and everything has been great. We are even planning to tie the knot and grow have our own family. However,…","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74412","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nDear Need Help,<\/p>\n