![\"Dear](\"http:\/\/dominicanewsonline.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/new-dear-bella.png\" "\\"\\"")
My fianc\u00e9 and I have been together a year next month on the 1st. My problem is we had a huge fight over something I posted on Facebook about our relationship, which led his friends laughing at him and making him feel embarrassed.<\/p>\nMy fianc\u00e9 and I have been together a year next month on the 1st. My problem is we had a huge fight over something I posted on Facebook about our relationship, which led his friends laughing at him and making him feel embarrassed.<\/p>\n
So he blocked me on Facebook and changed his password and his phone password. At first he didn\u2019t want to give me his phone password but he finally did. A day or so passed and I asked him again for his Facebook password, he said no because he has no privacy and he blocked me because he didn\u2019t want to see any of my post.<\/p>\n
So when he was asleep I went through his phone and check his text messages, Facebook, call list etc. It hurt me so badly that out of everything he done to me, he had to go and block me. I\u2019m like almost his wife and mother of his soon to be born son, why would he need to do that for? Is he cheating? Is he hiding something?<\/p>\n
Even though it kills me so much and I want to keep asking him for the password, I let it go. I learned that if he does cheat and what so ever, it\u2019s on his conscience.<\/p>\n
I feel like I can\u2019t be with someone that does that to me, it\u2019s like I can\u2019t trust him. I don\u2019t know what to do or what to think.<\/p>\n
Please help me, I\u00a0 am tired of crying and being hurt so badly. I told him to leave so many times because he said he is tired of us arguing and so on, but he never does leave. I don\u2019t know why he says that and when I tell him to go he doesn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
Sincerely,<\/p>\n
No trust<\/p>\n
——————————————————————————————-
\nDear No Trust,<\/p>\n
Recently I got an email from a reader with the same basic issue: Facebook passwords. I am going to tell you basically the same thing.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t see the reason why you should be giving yourself such a headache over being blocked on Facebook. As a matter of fact, I don’t see why people are giving themselves such heartaches over Facebook.<\/p>\n
Everyone should have some personal space and that is what your fianc\u00e9 wants. No matter how much two people love one another, the two are entitled to their personal life.<\/p>\n
Now, I do sense a huge issue of trust and insecurity here and for the sake of the relationship you need to take a look at that. Why did you go through his phone and check his messages? What is the source of this? Has he done anything to you in the past? Has he cheated?<\/p>\n
I think you should look a the positive things in your relationship and stop losing sleep over being blocked on Facebook.<\/p>\n
Bella<\/p>\n
Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"My fianc\u00e9 and I have been together a year next month on the 1st. My problem is we had a huge fight over something I posted on Facebook about our relationship, which led his friends laughing at him and making…","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-75734","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n