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I have this boyfriend who I been going out with for two years. At the beginning, it actually felt like we were in love with each other, like we couldn’t live without each other.<\/p>\nI have this boyfriend who I been going out with for two years. At the beginning, it actually felt like we were in love with each other, like we couldn’t live without each other.<\/p>\n
But now we been having a lot of problems, like our relationship is not what it use to be.<\/p>\n
For instance, I’m still having a hard time of trusting girls around him and that’s only because what he once told me. There was this time when he told me that he had another girl in the house with him, and she tried to have oral sex with him.<\/p>\n
Now that got me mad to the point where I didn’t want him being friends with her or talking to her anymore, because before he met me, they used to be ‘best friends.’<\/p>\n
But because of what she did, I told him that I no longer want him talking to her or seeing her anymore.<\/p>\n
So the months went by and the very next year after that situation, he told me that he had been still seeing the girl behind my back and he said his reason for that was because she didn’t like the idea of them not being friends anymore.<\/p>\n
But I didn’t care what she don’t like because I still don’t like her up until this day.\u00a0 So when he told me that I got mad and not only could I not trust her but I felt as though I couldn’t trust him either.<\/p>\n
The girl and I are worst enemies but he got me mad because of the fact that he still talk to someone who I don’t even like, and he knew I don’t like her.<\/p>\n
Now getting to Facebook … we had each others’ Facebook passwords for two years but now neither of us have Facebook, because we both deactivated our accounts.<\/p>\n
Well that is what I thought until I found out that my account was still active and so was his.<\/p>\n
So I tried to go on his Facebook but it said that he had changed his password after he was supposed to delete the account.<\/p>\n
So I called him up and asked him for his password but he refused to give it to me.<\/p>\n
So I asked him why would you need to change his password if you were going to deactivate the account.<\/p>\n
The answer he gave me didn’t make sense, at least to me.<\/p>\n
I don’t know what is going on but maybe you can help me.<\/p>\n
Tell me what do you think.<\/p>\n
Want Answers<\/strong><\/p>\n ……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..<\/p>\n Dear Want Answers<\/p>\n It appears to me that you don’t like the idea of your boyfriend having female friends. Yes, he did mention his ‘best friend’ tried to have oral sex with him, but did that actually happen? Probably it didn’t happen and your letter never said it did. So you might just be overreacting to that situation.<\/p>\n I think this whole situation has to do with trust both by you and your boyfriend. He doesn’t trust you, neither do you. So you two have to start working on this.<\/p>\n You also need to befriend your your boyfriend’s ‘best friend’ and see what is really going on. Get a close up look at their relationship and see whether it is genuine friendship or not. They might just be good friends and sometimes losing a good friend is difficult.<\/p>\n Bella<\/strong><\/p>\n Have a problem? Write to Dear Bella at dominicanewsonline@gmail.com. Dear Bella is published Tuesdays. All letters are subject to editing and the editor has the right to not publish an article if it does not meet the company\u2019s editorial standards. Also, the advice given is not necessarily expert advice, and is basically an opinion, therefore we accept no liability that result from giving any opinion. As such we encourage you to seek the advice of a professional counselor.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I have this boyfriend who I been going out with for two years. At the beginning, it actually felt like we were in love with each other, like we couldn’t live without each other. But now we been having a…","protected":false},"author":16,"featured_media":55632,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_cbd_carousel_blocks":"[]","footnotes":""},"categories":[26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-88323","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dear-bella"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n