Dear Bella: I cheated on my boyfriend during the Parade. I am very guilty and I do not know what to do. I know my boyfriend said he has never cheated. But I feel so guilty and I can hardly look him in the eye. I told him I have a headache and he believes. He would not believe I would cheat. But I cannot continue to live the lie. But I do not want to break his heart and risk a break-up. What should I do?


Dear Confused:

Be honest. Let him know you cheated. Otherwise your guilt will eat away at you. If you continue to live a lie, your guilt will grow. I know it is not easy but be honest and ask that he forgives you.

Also be prepared for a break-up, but it will be a lesson learned.


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