Dear BellaI’m a young lady who needs a bit of advice. I’m 27 and a bit confused about the way things are going on in my life. I’ve been in this relationship for three years now with this other young lady, who is 29. I love her and admire her unconditionally.

There is this guy who has been my friend for years and I appreciate his friendship dearly but he’s coming unto me. The problem is I may be giving in. I’m not sure if its because my lady is away. He doesn’t know there’s someone in my life.

He too is away but he treats me well and provides for me. My lady has been away for years.

What should I do?

Young Lady

Dear young lady,

When God created the world, he created Adam and Eve. Not Eve and Evette.


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