My wife and I have been married for 17 years and we have three children. I consider her to be the most beautiful and sexy woman in the world.
However for about a year now I began to realize that I cannot have a full erection or ‘stand up’ when we are intimate. At first it started like a ripe fig but has gotten from bad to worst. Presently it cannot even ‘stand up’ at all when I am with her.
So I dreaded that I was getting impotent and my wife and I agreed to get some viagra.
However, about six months ago I met this young lady and to make a long story short, we ended up getting intimate. The thing is as soon as this young lady even touches me it stands up straight like a sergeant in a parade. This was a big relief for me because I realized I was not impotent.
But the problem persists with my wife and I have to use viagra when I am with her and go natural with the young lady.
Now I am feeling guilty and I want to stick to my wife and go natural without the viagra when I am with her.
What should I do?
Need to stand up
Dear Need to stand up,
I think years of marriage, the rigors of life and the stress of raising children have taken its impact on your love life. Below are some tips to bring the ripe fig back to life. And also stop seeing the young lady. This will eventually bring pain to somebody.
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