DEAR BELLA: Dominican men should be wary of certain women


I honestly don’t know if this is the right forum to vent but men in Dominica have to be careful with Spanish women.
Bella, they doesn’t love and I don’t know how much more of our men have to fall victim to their evils.
My brother had a Spanish woman. She looks like a goddess but I know she is only after the little money he gwahyay (work hard) for.
From the time I saw her I knew she was up to no good. Now she has been eating him. She ain’t working and he is providing.
Many times he had to give her money to send home. The woman is always at Western Union sending my brother money overseas.
He ask her to marry; she refused. But she wants to remain milking the cash cow without commitment.
I tried to talk to my brother; he doesn’t listen. Now he found out the woman is married in Santo Domingo and have been using his money to take care of her husband and children.
I feel so sad because my brother is now like he’s going mad. He told me now he has nothing. Like his bank account on zero and he have to start all over again.
I see her with another man. I feel sorry for this guy. So I’m coming here to warn my hard working Dominican men to stay away from Spanish women.
Hurt Sister
Hello Hurt Sister,
Your pain comes from the love that you have for your brother and its really sad the way this story ended.
Deceit is not isolated to only Spanish women. People on a whole can be very deceitful.
That is why we have to be careful who we open ourselves to and who we let in too soon.
I hope your brother has learnt from his mistake and persons reading this can examine their situation based on what you’ve said.
Don’t be worried about your brother starting over.  Sometimes experience like these are just doorways to a better life.
Best Bella
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  1. biker
    February 6, 2019

    Dem Dominican woman not no different from dem Spanish na

    • z
      June 7, 2019

      but is dominican women allu does want to bash and do like other woman any better… Go where allu think the grass is greener eh… and watch them milk allu even worse than the Dominican woman would.

  2. Black man
    February 6, 2019

    One of them married a Dominican, and suddenly, he dead and she has his house! Exhume the for a forensic examI nation

  3. ferbrese
    February 6, 2019

    First of all no one should feel sorry for any man who let a woman take all his money. These men do not check their mother daughter or family, these men are lost band stupid, i am a man also and i know that spanish women do not love. they like and prefer. if they love is your bank account they love not you.. stupid men..

    • Silver fox
      February 6, 2019

      @ Ferbrese, IT sounds like you have been scorned yourself ha ha ha……

  4. jhey
    February 6, 2019

    not only in DR, all over the world have women n men like that, in dominica have plenty too

  5. Real gully Side
    February 6, 2019

    This is not restricted to DR Women but women in general. Our local girls have the same mentality here

    • Karl Orndem
      February 6, 2019

      they vex cus their “jobs” being outsourced.

  6. lula
    February 5, 2019

    Not surprised . All DR women I know are the same way, whether they have money or not. And they even train their daughters to be just like them. Married or not they don’t care. Once they notice a man has money/good paying job they will do whatever it takes to get part of that money if not all. That’s sad but true.

  7. February 5, 2019

    Come on now, you cannot judge a whole nation by a single person.

  8. zandoli
    February 5, 2019

    A lot of he women from DR are like sharks. They are very flexible sexually. Their vaginas are their tool of the trade. They don’t see anything special about it and will do what they have to do to earn a penny. The poverty rate is high in the DR and they just want to survive.

    • Gummy
      February 5, 2019

      Correction, women in all parts of the world are like sharks not just Spanish. U must be racist.

      • Karl Orndem
        February 6, 2019

        race, language and nationality are 3 different things. I dont see how that comment was racist.

  9. jamie
    February 5, 2019

    Hurt sister this has been going on for years,its not only in Dominicaa,these women just come for the money to send home to their loved ones,tell your brother to wash his body down with a hot stout to get over her,does she call him pappy?

    • Ti Garcon
      February 5, 2019

      Wash his body down with a hot stout? But Where allu people getting that advice from. You even asking if she does calling him pappi- you have a medication for that too?

    • Frank N Stein
      February 5, 2019

      :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: Jamie you kill me we today there. Best comment pappy.

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