DEAR BELLA: I don’t like my brother’s new girlfriend; want to break them up

Dear BellaDear Bella,

I don’t particularly like my brother’s new girlfriend. I like the one he had before but for some reason, he dumped her for this new girl.

The reason I can’t stand a bone in her is that I think she is fake. She has this laugh and this smile that fades away as soon as someone turns their back.

I think she is with him because our family can afford. She has a good job but he buys her stuff. For her birthday he bought her an expensive watch. I had birthdays and he just gave me $100.

Whenever she comes to our home I leave because I just can’t stand her. I need to find a way to break them up. She is bad for his health.

I have been working with his EX to find ways to cause trouble like calling him at midnight while she is there but it never works. We also try to send him love texts from blocked numbers.

Why I know this girl is fake it’s because she never gets upset with him when she sees the text or when the phone rings at midnight. Any woman would be upset.

She doesn’t get upset because she doesn’t want to be dumped and lose out. Bella, what do you think I should do? I don’t want my brother to marry this girl so if I can split them apart I will save him a lot.

Sister Sister

Dear Sister Sister,

I think you should get a life. Seriously. You sound like an immature spoilt brat who is upset because her mother didn’t buy her ice-cream on Sunday.

If you love your brother you wouldn’t try to sabotage what he seemingly wants.

It appears from all you’ve said he is into his new girlfriend. Why can’t you just accept that?

If his EX is helping you with your failed attempts to ruin his relationship then no wonder he dumped her. No man would want a woman like that.

You need to find constructive things to do. Read a good book. Go for a long walk…do something because it seems that you have way too much time on your hand.

And please, leave your brother alone. You might end up losing him through your scheming.



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  1. Food
    July 25, 2018

    Is the sister like 15 or something? Geez

  2. Envar
    July 25, 2018

    Sister Sister, you are a sick demented soul. i think you are perverted and extremely jealous of your brother. I also think you does rest your ears on his bedroom door when that woman is alone with him in there. People need to sort out their own business and stop that nonsense about i don’t like him for her etc. That is if you yourself ever kept a man for more that a mon go get a life of your own.

  3. marie-claire R Skerrit
    July 24, 2018

    WHOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS BELLA good come back although the sister sounds like she didn’t even make it out pre-school because her writing lord help her maybe she should read a book as you suggested.

    *”I think you should get a life. Seriously. You sound like an immature spoilt brat who is upset because her mother didn’t buy her ice-cream on Sunday.”

    Good response Bella you coming back around..

  4. Yana
    July 24, 2018

    Did you ever think that by saying she is only with him for a gift that she got, you’re saying he has no qualities no one would want? Foolish and pathetic much? Maybe if you were more focused and driven you would barely even notice your brothers love life and be more intertwined with your own things going on… Well… I guess you have literally nothing going for you which is why you’re so bothered with other people’s lives.

  5. mine
    July 24, 2018

    I know that you love your brother but stay away form his business. You try to help and you might be his enemy. Girl I am telling from want happened to my brother ans myself.

  6. k
    July 24, 2018

    Bella vex…hahahahha

  7. kate
    July 24, 2018

    LOL what is this? girl get a life and let your brother live his!

  8. Sam
    July 24, 2018

    U should send text to his phone and try to take it to respond back she is just there to use him but he is blind give him words

    • Da Girl
      July 24, 2018

      You sounding like the ex eh :lol:

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