DEAR BELLA: I’m helping my best friend to deceive her boyfriend


My best friend is living  a lie and I am part of the whole scheme.
She has been seeing  a young guy in Dominica whose parent’s “can afford” as we would say in local terms.
Anyway he started dating someone else and she got very jealous.
She became bitter and she said she would tell him she’s pregnant and take money from him.
Anyway I supported her because I’m upset that he is seeing that girl too.
But Bella, next thing, the boy is demanding that he goes with her to Planned Parenthood to do the test.
Anyway, she has a cousin who is pregnant so we asked her to give us some urine.
She agreed and carried it in her bag and when she and the guy went to do the test. instead of her urine, she came out with her cousin’s urine.
It was positive of course. He was frantic saying his parents would kill him as we thought. So, he requested an abortion.
She pretended she didn’t want to, but that was part of the plan.
Then the cash started rolling in. $1000 for procedure. Then, we asked for money for antibiotics. Another $600 came in.
Then she told him she needed to go back to the doctor because perhaps everything wasn’t out. Another $800.
After a while, my conscience started to bother me. I feel sorry for the guy. We are all friends.
I want to tell him because she won’t stop. Now, she is asking for money for therapy because she is so disturbed by the abortion.
Bella that’s too extreme. Do you think I should say something to him?
Hello Dee,
Those are some extreme measures that you both have gone to. Quite frankly, you are just as guilty as she is.
However, this doesn’t in any way, mean you should  continue on this destructive path.
By the time this letter goes out then I am pretty sure the information would have reached the relevant authorities.
Besides, what are the chances of this happening to more than one person in such a small country?
Wanting to do what is right is always better than basking in your wrong.
You and she should probably try telling him together.
If she does not agree, then do not continue to play any part in this madness.
I believe that whether you tell him or not, he’s going to find out.
Remember, what’s done in darkness will come to light.

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  1. masar
    April 16, 2019

    i agree with her would do the same to his cheating******…..and besides she need money to take care of her self

  2. bwk
    April 16, 2019

    ROOSEVELT SKERRIT that causing that.

  3. Karl Orndem
    April 15, 2019

    so they does operate. Women these days are really something else. But there are one or 2 good ones left. Its a shame they usually have to pay for the likes of these described in this fable.

  4. Ginger
    April 14, 2019

    True Confession

  5. Tobby
    April 14, 2019

    Lol, Bella just educating you guys out there, to be wise and alert. Simply saying do not let women fool all you.

  6. Constructively Disatisfied
    April 13, 2019

    Simply put, your game is deception and your name is serpent or if you prefer, snake in the grass.

  7. Channel 1
    April 13, 2019

    Boy, that is something else – criminal, real diabolic.

    Late last year, segments of the anti-Trump cabal, during their failed quest to block Brett Kavanaugh’s nomination to the US Supreme Court with some nonsensical sexual assault story, came up with an absurd saying that “Women don’t lie and all women must be believed.”

    Fellas, all you better wise up quick. The only woman whom you should involve yourself with when it comes to sex is the woman you marry. That will reduce your chances of being scammed like this ‘poor’ fella in the story.

    In this mirage era of independent, empowered women, SOME of them intend to empower themselves by scamming men.

  8. April 13, 2019

    Partner should press charge on the woman . And honestly I would leave her.

  9. Bwa-Banday
    April 12, 2019

    Hmmmmm don’t worry because he knows by now. I read this and said hmmmm that’s my partner going through this with this woman. The nerve of her! Just wait until I tell him his business on DNO and his mom who is paying for all that finds out. Yes I know its illegal but there will be hell to pay. The last time a woman tried that on me she was unaware that I had a vasectomy and the joke was totally on her :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen: . She finally apologized but I dumped her a**e.

  10. Blank
    April 12, 2019

    Okay but an abortion is $1000? What even? It’s no wonder all where I turn teens got child on their shoulder.

    • allu not serious
      April 14, 2019

      So an illegal service is supposed to be affordable for the average person?

  11. %
    April 12, 2019

    Isn’t that deception?
    Now you all butts are in trouble!!!
    Police hold them up now, and read the charges!!
    Stocky Time!!
    S m g
    S m g
    L S m g n

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