DEAR BELLA: I’m suspicious about my husband hanging out in a rum shop

My husband has never been a womyel nor has he liked to be at people’s homes.
But lately, I find him spending all his time in a shop that was recently opened in the neighbourhood.
I don’t believe in “mal” but I hear that the lady has “dirty hands”.
Nowadays, the man cannot do without going in the shop and drink. Before he go to work he have to pass there.
On his way home, sometimes he not leaving until the shop close. He buys things in the shop that we don’t even need.
Bella what is That? . Someone told me the shop owner is putting things in the drinks for men to always come and bring their money there.
It looking like it catch my husband because before he comes home on a Friday with his pay packet, is her shop that’s seeing it.
I am fed up of talking to him about it and he just won’t listen to me. So I’ve come here for advice.
Frustrated Wife
Dear Frustrated Wife,
Your husband needs to make up his mind about his association in that shop.
This has nothing to do with the lady and her shop. I think he likes going there for whatever reason and that keeps him going.
People say all sorts of things about shopkeepers especially those who are popular.
The focus here should be on your husband.
Clearly, if he doesn’t think your concerns are legitimate then he will continue to do what he wants.
You can try to let someone else speak to him. Someone whom he respects.
You can also decide to chose a day to hangout with him at the shop too.
Perhaps you may find that the rum is not what really keeps him going there; it may be something else.

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  1. lula
    December 10, 2018

    @Frustrated wife ,stop for a while…maybe you are the one who caused him to go to the rumshop with you boring self. My advise (Be a lady in the street and a FREAK in the bed).You are married to him

  2. Anon's buddy
    December 10, 2018

    Visit an Alcohol wholesaler buy an assortment of drinks ask his Aunt in the VIs to g by Victoria sigway ask her to buy U a few sexy undergarments .Anon’s aunt I mean . If he continues going to that shop well something is wrong with ur sugar.

  3. Laughter the best
    December 10, 2018

    Frustrated Wife, haven’t you looked at the size & shape of her bumper? That’s the lust/attraction/magnet.
    No not, rum ,bouef nor friends. Take a good look at the bumper sugar boom sugar boomboom.
    The shopkeeper sweet where she get she sugar it bothers him it makes him mad sugarboom sugar boomboom. Is ur husband always posting here? DNO. Is his alias Anon ? Afterall, if you were his first crush,girlfriend first try blame it on him being a novice @40. Anon stands for nothing so what do you expect? You are married just 2 yrs? the man/thing anon is a 40 yr old canine.

  4. jamie
    December 10, 2018

    Every article now is about obeah,smdh.Country is gone away to pure evil believers.

  5. Zandoli
    December 10, 2018

    The shopkeeper is putting something in his glass: It called ALCOHOL

    • Laughter the best
      December 10, 2018

      And Anon needs his top up daily x2/day.

      • Anon's buddy
        December 10, 2018

        Hahahahahahah oh it’s him? Only chat Anon have man! A skirt have him drinking hard? Lol

      • Anon observer
        December 10, 2018

        Anon started late man! 2 yrs ago at age 40? He doh must be wild and foolish?

  6. Frank N Stein
    December 10, 2018

    I am not sure if I should laugh or cry at Bella this time

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